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AIBU to question whether my Year 7 still needs phonics?

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Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 06:20

Hi so there is a long back history but I won’t go to far in to it unless I have to expand later on.
for multiple reasons DD ( year 7 ) was a late reader.
she has never grasped phonics and it was a huge struggle for many years. Year 4 she was reading at reception level and then something changed.
She started reading and progressed very fast to being a “ free reader “ in year 6.
the issue is she still would not pass a year 2 phonics screening !
her year 6 teacher was adamant in keeping phonics going. That although she could read well that without phonics the gap would appear again when readinf more complex texts.
so we continued with phonics but to be honest not getting anywhere apart from stress.
Sats she scored 107 scaled score for reading.
She now attends a small Sen school that she doesn’t quite match the cohort for but was the best choice we had. It follows full mainstream curriculum and is for those academically able.
they assessed them at the start of year 7 and again now towards the end of year 7.
they have reading interventions but said they didn’t feel the need to stress DD with phonics intervention when her scores showed that although there is issues with her phonics. Her reading, speed, accuracy and comprehension was not affected.
she has read in year 7 and got “ secured “ in end of topic assements for - private peaceful and Romeo and Juliet.
she doesn’t use a reader in any lessons and reads independently.
reading plus ( not sure that relevant ) but is on the level of year 8.
I am conflicted if I should still push for phonics intervention when her teacher last year was adamant you could not be actual free reader without phonics.
should I still request her to be put in to phonics intervention ?

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MargeryBargery · 02/04/2026 12:04

Teacher of 34 years here.
Seen it all.

If she's sight reading and motivated she'll do just as well with inference and deciphering.

She definitely doesn't need any more stress with phonics if it hasn't suited her up to now.

FancyCatSlave · 02/04/2026 11:53

My DD (6h learnt to read without phonics. I’m not sure how, she is doing phonics at school still (Y1) and does understand it, but she became a free reader before she had covered 50% of the phonics content.

She makes me smile as she will say things like “we haven’t learnt that sound yet” while at the same time being able to read practically anything without help. She’s currently reading Harry Potter, Goblet of Fire without assistance.

The only thing I find is that sometimes there’s a word she has never come across that she can read but not pronounce correctly because it’s unfamiliar. But most of the time phonics is no help anyway. She virtually never uses the phonics to read - she could just read on sight from about age 3. As did I (and her Dad) who were reading before school long before phonics were a thing.

I’ve nothing against phonics but not all kids need it.

nutmeg7 · 02/04/2026 11:43

tamade · 02/04/2026 07:12

Do phonics taught readers read forever differently to those taught using other tools?
Is there any work published on this? If phonics readers are always sounding out even in their heads, wouldn't that slow them down considerably?

I thought that as readers mature they all move towards reading by sight/shape, context and anticipation.

They do, but phonics gives you tools to deal with new words that are complex. It is just “sounding the sounds out”.

Aiming4Optimistic · 02/04/2026 10:58

I do yr 7 literacy interventions. English is such a difficult language to understand - the rules seem completely arbitrary to children. We have pupils whose test scores are the same but whose abilities are completely different. Due to staffing levels, they are being taught as small groups, rather than individually. There are children who experience difficultly with seeing the letters within words, so we are breaking the words down and teaching them to identify sounds. Others can read quite fluently but cannot spell at all, so we revisit phonics to try to overcome the disconnect between reading and the ability to reproduce what they've seen and recognised, in their written work.

Learning for our children is a mixture of working out sounds in some cases and just recognising words as a whole in others. Or deciphering meaning based on the sentence as a whole.

I would think that if your child can read fluently, then what they need is a focus on the areas where they might be struggling (such as spelling), rather than a specific phonics programme because they seem to have worked out the 'rules' even if they couldn't tell you why pronunciation is one way instead of another.

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 10:53

Deliaskis · 02/04/2026 10:04

I agree they are subconsciously using them, but if the OP's DD is already doing this successfully (and is at secondary school), there seems little need to go back and teach the principles. Once you're doing it subconsciously you've cracked it.

Yes I suppose its how do we know if she is or not 🤣
when she tried deciding out loud it all comes out wrong but I do think this is a speech thing so is it sounding better / current in her head. Who knows

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Deliaskis · 02/04/2026 10:04

MyFAFOera · 02/04/2026 07:34

They may never have been taught phonics but they are almost certainly subconsciously using them, to break a word down into its component parts.
An inability to use phonics makes it extremely difficult to read words you haven't come across before, which needs decoding using phonics.

I agree they are subconsciously using them, but if the OP's DD is already doing this successfully (and is at secondary school), there seems little need to go back and teach the principles. Once you're doing it subconsciously you've cracked it.

SuzyFandango · 02/04/2026 09:58

Deliaskis · 02/04/2026 06:53

@CandyEnclosingInvisible I disagree that she will struggle later. Phonics is a relatively modern way of teaching people to read. It isn't a way most adults read new words. I work with scientists who are all very capable of reading scientific terms and compound names accurately having never learnt phonics. And millions of healthcare workers also never learnt phonics and again can accurately read medical terms.

It's a tool to learn to read, it isn't how most adult established readers read.

This isn't true. There were phonics based methods that pre date look & say.

Most people who were not "taught phonics" unconsciously grasped the code, the repetition of sounds within words embeds it. As fluent readers we develop automaticity, we blend the sounds so fast we are not even aware we are doing it but brain scans can show it happening.

How this impacts later on is our ability to read a completely new word (which is common in higher education, and in science/tech especially). You can't work out "ketone" or "spectrometer" or "quark" from look & say.

It also underpins foreign language learning. Many European languages are underpinned by phonics (often more regularly & predictably than in English), its just a different set of grapheme phoneme correspondences.

So op it depends what you want for her. If you expect her to move on to higher education (a-levels, uni) or work in a profession where you regularly encounter technical or specialist vocabulary, its worth continuing, if not, you may seem it not a valuable use of her time.

Formerdarkhorse · 02/04/2026 09:43

JumpingPumpkin · 02/04/2026 08:37

This book made a huge difference for my daughter aged about 13… It got her reading teenager books for pleasure. She's still not the best reader but succeeds well in a job that involves reading complex document daily. I sometimes think people forget that reading skills can continue improving as an adult at work.

100% - my DS is never going to read much for pleasure, but he is confident with reading now and shot ahead at spelling and can decode fine. The programme achieved more than 3 years of in-school interventions. I’m so glad we got it sorted and he is happy about moving to high school academically, as I don’t know where he’d be now otherwise. We need to work on times table recall next- I think there are similar methods to Toe to Toe for that too.

Onelifeonly · 02/04/2026 09:20

As a teacher of several decades, I can assure you she doesn't need to learn phonics now if she is reading well for her age! I'm working with a child at school in year 6 who is noticeably dyslexic- spelling all over the place - who has recently become a fluent enough reader to pass her SATs tests. She can't use phonics or read aloud fully fluently but she sure is determined to succeed.

Rocknrollstar · 02/04/2026 09:19

My DC learnt by the look and say method, so did I. Phonics is a tool for learning and not a way of reading. If she can read, then phonics are not needed. They might help with spelling but not really necessary .

Catza · 02/04/2026 08:59

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 08:15

Yes her instant recall in timestable is an issue.

maths is a weird one with her - naturally good at maths.’gets methods wuitr quickly when taught.

for example she will remember every method in terms of how to do algebra etc but her timetable and adding skills slow of all down. She will always get the right answer but it’s long process due to those issues.

for example she scored a scaled score of 98 in maths sats so not quite reaching 100 but she didnt actually finish either paper as she was slowed down by the issue with multiplying by recall etc
if she had finished both as in had much longer to complete she would of got a better scaled score.
so we keek working on this.

But again, this is teaching for the exam rather than for the real world so, on that basis, I am not sure that 100 is significantly better than 98.
I had similar issues with times table at school. I still remember the whole year where teachers, mum and even my grandmother made it their personal project to teach me times table. I never learned and I have my own ways of working out the sums using the closest position I can recall. For example, it doesn't take me significantly more time to work out 7x8 by subtracting 14 from 70. A second at best. And any double digit multiplied by 11 is worked out by adding first digit and the second and sticking the result in the middle (i.e. 27x11 is 297). And by the time we are deep into algebra (and I was exceptionally good at it) times table becomes irrelevant.
I was very lucky that after that year-long times table incident, my parents were a lot more concerned with actual acquired knowledge than test results. I used zero maths in my entire research project where calculations were done by statistical software and ability to analyse data was actually a far more useful skill to have than recalling times table.

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 02/04/2026 08:48

CandyEnclosingInvisible · 02/04/2026 06:46

Go with the recommendations of her current school. It is true that without being secure in phonics the she will struggle with more complex texts - however if it's not getting anywhere there is a limit to how much it's worth keeping on, and it's more important to keep her feeling positive about learning new things.

Example of where she may struggle - in ALevel chemistry there will be a bunch of chemical nanes that are only one letter different from each other, with a particular vowel being a or e or i signifying the presence or absence of a particular atom in the molecule. If she's not learned phonics then she reads by recognising the shape of the whole word and that's really going to be difficult at ALevel and could prove fatal to someone if she wants to go into Nursing for example - but perhaps that will be something to worry about when the time comes because she may choose a path in life that doesn't have these potential pitfalls.

I don’t believe this. I was never taught phonics, have a STEM degree and read 100+ books a year across a range of complexities. There are millions of competent, educated readers in this country who were never taught to read with phonics and are coping very well.

CharlotteSometimeslikesanafternoonnap · 02/04/2026 08:47

Death by phonics is real for many kids. I like a hybrid approach to teaching reading, but this emphasis on synthetic phonics or you are failing is ridiculous. It could be cynically argued that had Ruth Miskin not been in her position of associated power, we wouldn't be so 'all or nothing '.
How's dd's auditory memory OP? If she's good at remembering songs/jingles etc then practise singing /chanting times tables. Sometimes seeing it makes you question it more than just hearing it. I encourage my auditory times table learners to get into tests (where relevant!) and write down the tables they may stumble on (usually 6,7,8s) so they have a quick prompt and don't need to overthink it if needed.

JumpingPumpkin · 02/04/2026 08:37

Formerdarkhorse · 02/04/2026 07:21

One of my Dc really struggled with phonics and was still on Y2 books in Y5. I got him a tutor who uses a different method called Toe To Toe used for struggling readers/dyslexia/etc and he caught up to his age within 1 year. I guess phonics aren’t for everyone!

This book made a huge difference for my daughter aged about 13… It got her reading teenager books for pleasure. She's still not the best reader but succeeds well in a job that involves reading complex document daily. I sometimes think people forget that reading skills can continue improving as an adult at work.

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 08:34

OhWise1 · 02/04/2026 08:25

What is her spelling like though?phonics doesn't just help reading!!

Edited

Spelling is another interesting one !

she is behind on spelling but she didn’t start writing or learning spelling until at least year 4/5 and even then was a bit vague. She had never been able to write a word until year 5. By the end of year 6 she was writing small amounts and had gone from not having and first 100 Frequency words to having all of the first 200 in year 6.
this has continued to improve and although spelling is behind her reading it is making amazing progress - she has now been able to write short stories and new articles etc with very few spelling mistakes.

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PinkPonyAnonymous · 02/04/2026 08:33

@PuttingOutFirewithGasoline ”Interestingly it's becoming very well known that actually phonics is a barrier to reading for many kids and there is an almost cult like devotion to it by many teachers.”

Completely agree! As a teacher, so many schools and teachers would rather persist with phonics rather than accept <5 children per class might need a different approach. The phonics screening is part of the problem as it assesses reading by phonics rather than just reading. Why is that the goal? Surely we want all children to read, and sure, phonics is a great tool for that but lots of children like poor OP’s daughter has had her time wasted for years!

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 08:29

TeenToTwenties · 02/04/2026 08:21

She's y7, so you could ask whether she will qualify for extra time for GCSEs. They need to formally assess in y9 and given her school presumably they will do this no issue, but they may also check now and start giving her the extra time. (Otherwise she may start to rush so she finishes which wouldn't be good if she doesn't need to.)

Yes that was with extra time.
I think she will get extra time and a scribe for any exam including GCSE. It’s really hard I don’t often really understand where we are are and the one thing about the new school is they are quite vague haha even at parents evening etc
so I’m unsure of exactly how she is doing in maths etc since being at the new school.
we have never been able to pin point a learning disability or difficulty.
she had an OT assessment which the report seems to highlight issues but none that I know too much about and although the letter explains it there hasn’t been a conversation about how it may effect day to day life.
we get her parents report this week so will see what that says regards to the most recent assements. I just find if all so hard to understand.
like I know her SATS score indicate that she may not get the best GCSE results but then could that change if she is accessing education more often ( less than 25 percent of the whole of primary )
i just believe that the ability is there and I really hope we can give her the best chance without pressuring and being overly pushy.

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ImLeavingWalford · 02/04/2026 08:27

@Passmethecheese it won’t become an issue as long as she can read fluently and equally important be able to spell.

If you are still concerned subscribe to ‘Reading Eggs’, it’s a really fun way to learn phonics. There’s lots of fun repetition so it sinks in. Both my DC used this for at least a year each and they excelled with their reading/spelling.

OhWise1 · 02/04/2026 08:25

What is her spelling like though?phonics doesn't just help reading!!

Sowhat1976 · 02/04/2026 08:21

I didn't learn to read until year 7. I was 11 or 12. I just didn't get words. They didn't mean anything to me. Then in Year 7 things clicked ish. I struggled through school and life. I wasn't academic. I just found it all hard. Anyway as an adult I went back to college and uni. So.etimes words were still difficult. I would underline anything I didn't know look it up in the dictionary and find out the pronunciation and meaning. I got a 2:1. Anyhow, I now have kids. One was a fluent reader by 5 using phonics which were absolutely alien to me. The other is finding it much more difficult. Now I think that I have ADHD and dyslexia. My eldest is currently being investigated for ADHD and autism. The youngest we think has dyslexia but they won't investigate until next year.

TeenToTwenties · 02/04/2026 08:21

She's y7, so you could ask whether she will qualify for extra time for GCSEs. They need to formally assess in y9 and given her school presumably they will do this no issue, but they may also check now and start giving her the extra time. (Otherwise she may start to rush so she finishes which wouldn't be good if she doesn't need to.)

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 08:15

TeenToTwenties · 02/04/2026 08:07

We eventually gave up for DD wrt instant recall.
For her GCSE we got her to spend the first 5 minutes of the non calculator paper writing out a times table grid that she could refer to for the rest of the exam.

Yes her instant recall in timestable is an issue.

maths is a weird one with her - naturally good at maths.’gets methods wuitr quickly when taught.

for example she will remember every method in terms of how to do algebra etc but her timetable and adding skills slow of all down. She will always get the right answer but it’s long process due to those issues.

for example she scored a scaled score of 98 in maths sats so not quite reaching 100 but she didnt actually finish either paper as she was slowed down by the issue with multiplying by recall etc
if she had finished both as in had much longer to complete she would of got a better scaled score.
so we keek working on this.

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TeenToTwenties · 02/04/2026 08:11

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 02/04/2026 08:06

@TeenToTwenties Well yes, an established method but the obsession in schools that it’s The Only Way is recent. It’s part of a toolkit but some dc don’t need vast amounts of it because they quickly recognise the syllables. However pronunciation of a word isn’t always produced by phonics. Having an idea of context and hearing the word helps too.

Well of course if you are told the word ('hearing the word helps too') then you can read it, and having seen it once the DC with good memories will be able to read it again.
Context is all very well but:
He had an electric collection v He had an eccentric collection v He had an eclectic collection all have slightly different meanings.

TeenToTwenties · 02/04/2026 08:07

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 08:06

Times tables is a whole different issue 🤣 we are not quitting that just yet !

We eventually gave up for DD wrt instant recall.
For her GCSE we got her to spend the first 5 minutes of the non calculator paper writing out a times table grid that she could refer to for the rest of the exam.

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 02/04/2026 08:06

@TeenToTwenties Well yes, an established method but the obsession in schools that it’s The Only Way is recent. It’s part of a toolkit but some dc don’t need vast amounts of it because they quickly recognise the syllables. However pronunciation of a word isn’t always produced by phonics. Having an idea of context and hearing the word helps too.

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