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AIBU to question whether my Year 7 still needs phonics?

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Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 06:20

Hi so there is a long back history but I won’t go to far in to it unless I have to expand later on.
for multiple reasons DD ( year 7 ) was a late reader.
she has never grasped phonics and it was a huge struggle for many years. Year 4 she was reading at reception level and then something changed.
She started reading and progressed very fast to being a “ free reader “ in year 6.
the issue is she still would not pass a year 2 phonics screening !
her year 6 teacher was adamant in keeping phonics going. That although she could read well that without phonics the gap would appear again when readinf more complex texts.
so we continued with phonics but to be honest not getting anywhere apart from stress.
Sats she scored 107 scaled score for reading.
She now attends a small Sen school that she doesn’t quite match the cohort for but was the best choice we had. It follows full mainstream curriculum and is for those academically able.
they assessed them at the start of year 7 and again now towards the end of year 7.
they have reading interventions but said they didn’t feel the need to stress DD with phonics intervention when her scores showed that although there is issues with her phonics. Her reading, speed, accuracy and comprehension was not affected.
she has read in year 7 and got “ secured “ in end of topic assements for - private peaceful and Romeo and Juliet.
she doesn’t use a reader in any lessons and reads independently.
reading plus ( not sure that relevant ) but is on the level of year 8.
I am conflicted if I should still push for phonics intervention when her teacher last year was adamant you could not be actual free reader without phonics.
should I still request her to be put in to phonics intervention ?

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AprilMizzel · 08/06/2026 12:36

It was look and say in my 80s primary - and here in wales the lack of direction from welsh government to use phonics leaving methods more up to schools is blamed for the PISA low reading scores compared to England.

My Dsis 5 years younger got a student teacher who used phonics and she had much fewer reading and writing issue than us older kids. DC primary in early 2010 in England was still using mixed methods - while paying lip service to phonics.

I thought it was around 80% of kids not explicitly taught phonics tend to work out the underlying patterns - but quick google suggest it around 40% of kids who can be taught reading with any method - and rest need some explict phonics teaching.

I think research suggest that phonics teaching help 99% of kids understand the code. Once you get past reading - spelling is opposite encoding not decoding and phonics helps there as well.

I think I partially had phonic code - two or three letter sounds being an issue till I taught my DC. Does that mean I struggle to pronounce unknown words - well yes and have been mocked for it. I often encounter new words reading and understood what they meant but pronouncing them correctly wasn't guaranteed. Despite extensive phonics support at home see this with DD1 as well and both of us have been tested and diagnosed as dsylexic.

Nonsense words test in Y2 was to find the kids who haven't grasped phonics - though DC first primary school in England had last minute home work fest to get kids past it. Some kids who could read did fail it at their school.

Look and say arrived in UK in 20s apparently but became most common reading method in 40s and dominated - with 70/80 doing a version with word context heavily thrown in- till 2006 in England when phonics was mandated.

How much if any phonics teaching any adult in UK got I think is very hard to actually say - as even if they had none in school they may of at home or in reading support groups - or they may have had none at all but be in that 40% that learns to read with any method. But I don't think you can assume all adults had some phonics teaching - I don't think I did and had to muddle and struggle through with my own coping mechanims teaching my own DC phonics certainly gave me more tools to use.

TeenToTwenties · 08/06/2026 11:07

eurochick · 08/06/2026 10:37

This is such nonsense. Most adults today won’t have been taught to read via phonics. This includes teachers, scientists, doctors and so on.

Phonics works for many children, but not all. It is simply a tool to achieve a result - being able to read. The OP’s daughter can seemingly read pretty well so she no longer needs phonics.

I would have thought that most adults were taught using phonics one way or another. It has been used for most of the last century on way or another. I was born in the 60s and was taught with phonics.
In fact I don't see how it is possible to read a word you haven't seen before without some level of phonics. How would you pronounce 'dromplewabble' or 'twotchilump' without it?

eurochick · 08/06/2026 10:37

CandyEnclosingInvisible · 02/04/2026 06:46

Go with the recommendations of her current school. It is true that without being secure in phonics the she will struggle with more complex texts - however if it's not getting anywhere there is a limit to how much it's worth keeping on, and it's more important to keep her feeling positive about learning new things.

Example of where she may struggle - in ALevel chemistry there will be a bunch of chemical nanes that are only one letter different from each other, with a particular vowel being a or e or i signifying the presence or absence of a particular atom in the molecule. If she's not learned phonics then she reads by recognising the shape of the whole word and that's really going to be difficult at ALevel and could prove fatal to someone if she wants to go into Nursing for example - but perhaps that will be something to worry about when the time comes because she may choose a path in life that doesn't have these potential pitfalls.

This is such nonsense. Most adults today won’t have been taught to read via phonics. This includes teachers, scientists, doctors and so on.

Phonics works for many children, but not all. It is simply a tool to achieve a result - being able to read. The OP’s daughter can seemingly read pretty well so she no longer needs phonics.

Mapletreelane · 06/06/2026 22:00

I never practiced phonics with my kids, I seem to recall our primary school saying leave it to them as parents can get phonics wrong. What I did do is read read read, mostly me reading to them, to foster a love of stories and reading. And not the school phonics books but fabulous childrens' books. Possibly an unpopular opinion but I think practicing school books and phonics at home can turn it into a pressure for the kids and turn the joy of reading and books into a chore. Some kids will love practicing at home and some kids will hate it. I really wouldn't force it if they don't want to. Reading should be a pleasure.

Both children very confident writers and reader and now in late teens

ScaryM0nster · 04/04/2026 13:22

My phonics skills are dire, got picked up at university. Hadn’t really had any impact til then, showed up as a few specific issues in specialist terminology.

From that angle I’d say it’s not the be all and end all, but it’s worth gently keeping ticking over. Weirdly, learning other languages (classic and modern) probably helped me more than working on phonics in English did.

eg. I managed that eclectic, electric, eccentric thing earlier up the post but it took me a good few moments.

Also worth keeping the associated skills in mind. Eg. Most peoples proof reading own writing skills are pretty poor, mine are bad for errors that phonic skills would pick up regardless of whether I wrote it or someone else. I had to massively beef up my exam question reading and answer checking skills to succeed in uni exams.

I skim read very effectively for most things. Where details matter, I rely on the study skills tuition I had for techniques to compensate. If she never gets it, that’s an angle to consider.

HortiGal · 04/04/2026 12:36

I’d say she’s well ahead since the average adult reading age in the UK is 9-11. Like millions of she’s doesn’t know a word Im sure she sounds it out or asks you.

nocoolnamesleft · 04/04/2026 12:29

Many of us learned to read before phonics became popular. It is just one method of many.

Passmethecheese · 04/04/2026 12:06

edwinbear · 04/04/2026 11:50

@shuffleofftobuffalo that’s really interesting what you say about reading rate. One of the things picked up when DS was assessed, was that his reading rate was 2 years ahead of his chronological age.

Her current reading rate is in the 200s I can’t see it at this specific moment but It’s defo in the 200s.

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edwinbear · 04/04/2026 11:50

@shuffleofftobuffalo that’s really interesting what you say about reading rate. One of the things picked up when DS was assessed, was that his reading rate was 2 years ahead of his chronological age.

edwinbear · 04/04/2026 11:31

DS really struggled with phonics. He could hardly read at all by Y3, his (private) school suspected dyslexia so we had him assessed by an educational psychologist. He’s not dyslexic, he just had a very specific issue with phonics. He’s was one of the children phonics simply didn’t work for. School immediately took him out of phonics and taught him to read by sight. He quickly caught up and we’ve had no issues since.

He got 8’s and 9’s in his GCSE’s (8’s in English Lang & Lit) and is on track for A*’s/A’s at A Level in History, Classics & Politics. If you’d told me when he was in Y3 his ‘passion’ subjects would be humanities/essay based subjects, I’d have thought you’d got the wrong child.

shuffleofftobuffalo · 04/04/2026 10:46

As a fluent reader phonics will slow her down and mean she can’t absorb the information as it’s being fed into her brain as fast. An average reading word is about 230 words per minute, even if she’s half of this speed if you think about how slow phonics makes you read it’s not going to work is it.

if they are doing it because she is mispronouncing words or not able to work them out, that’s an indicator of something like dyslexia and phonics won’t help her (season dyslexic and helper of dyslexic school children here!)

Phonics is “the thing” recognised as being the way kids learn to read. I’ve found that many teachers are simply not equipped with wider reading tools because they are trained to do phonics. It’s not their fault, but it sounds like your DD’s teacher may fall into that category. Stage an intervention!

AprilMizzel · 04/04/2026 10:27

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 19:08

Although spelling is slightly behind her reading it’s more exposure that caused that. Her spelling is rapidly catching up.
times tables is an issue

If she lucky and spelling not an issue - focus on the maths - or very least the problem areas.

I could never do mental arithmetic - but am actually very good at maths - short term memeory issues can't spell or do sums in my head - paper or fingers to hold data I'm great.

She's lucky - however she is reading she doing well and if spelling not far behind she's doing really well. I never caught up with the spelling - and while my kids are much better than I was they are still classed as poor spellers compare to what you'd expect with rest of their levels. We are not people who see a word and can read it and know how to spell it from then on - I know they exist. In fact despite reading extensively it never despite teachers insistence it would did it much improve my spelling.

AprilMizzel · 04/04/2026 10:23

I'm dyslexic wasn't taught phonics and when teaching my own DC it became clear two three letter combinations sounds no idea about.

From about mid key stage 2 could read well - in fact did really well on reading tests but rely heavily on sentence context and having a wide vocbulary from reading and family - TV radio exposure.

There was/is an issue with pronouncing unusal words even if knew what they meant. Also similar shpaed words can and do still throw me - usually now place names rather than proper words. I often read what I think is there as well - so have to be very careful in exams. Main issue was spelling - and why I sought dsylexia diagonsis and was found to have it. I wasn't diagonsed till Uni so while it presented issues I was doing well.

Also had issue with instant recall for timetables - but have maths A-level - though lost time working a few timetables out every time.

For my kids - made sure they were rock soild in maths basics - one like me had a really episodic and good long term memroy and others have extremely poor working memories - it was explinations and a lot of practise in end. We used on-line site that taught maths like DH and I learnt in school that sadly no-longer working for new people. Basically over years of frequent pratcise it finally stuck and then they had very fast recall.

Could she read eccentric, eclectic, electric all correctly?
Eclectic would have tripped me up at younger ages and would have relied on sentence context to pick it out - the L and c would mean I could mix it up with other two words. There were two roads near one place we lived both with post offices down - no-one else mixed them up but they looked similar same length and same style of letters - I mixed them up a lot.

If she reading well I'd not focus on reading and phonics.

If she does has spelling issues may be worth looking at phonics based programs for spelling like https://www.soundfoundations.co.uk/learning-to-spell/ - though there a lot of practise built in with that as well.

Where to start with spelling? - Sound Foundations Books

Apples & Pears is a favourite with parents—you do not need to be good at spelling yourself to use it successfully. The Apples & Pears spelling programme can be used with any child who has a spelling age of less … Read More

https://www.soundfoundations.co.uk/learning-to-spell/

MeetMeOnTheCorner · 04/04/2026 09:56

@Passmethecheese So how did she get into the school then? Around here places in SpLD units are like hens teeth. We don’t have a state SpLD school. Parents wanting these schools get the LA to pay for private, and that’s not given easily without all sorts of evidence.

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 19:08

Monvelo · 02/04/2026 18:52

My dyslexic 11 year old has a reading age of 13.5 and enjoys classics like Mansfield Park. She can't spell or remember times tables. Or phonics!!

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Although spelling is slightly behind her reading it’s more exposure that caused that. Her spelling is rapidly catching up.
times tables is an issue

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Monvelo · 02/04/2026 18:52

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 18:37

No she was never screened but weirdly enough does attend a school for Spld so most students there have dyslexia.
they don’t believe she has dyslexia.

for example I was just looking at her reading plus ( not saying it means anything ) but as a ball park

her reading level on there
year 8 with a spread of 208 words a minute and a overall comprehension percentage 90 percent.

she has been assessed in many areas

her visual perception is average but her m
motor co ordination is extremely low as well as a low abc movement score.

My dyslexic 11 year old has a reading age of 13.5 and enjoys classics like Mansfield Park. She can't spell or remember times tables. Or phonics!!

Pearlstillsinging · 02/04/2026 18:49

Another (retired) teacher here saying she obviously doesn't need phonics, she's reading fluently now. Fluent readers don't sound words out, they simply read.
I have a qualification from the British Dyslexia Institute which advocates using phonics when teaching children and adults to read but that doesn't mean that I think it is the only effective strategy for anyone learning to read.
I wish that phonics wasn't being pushed at the expense of all the other strategies that successful fluent readers use. Harder texts that she will meet in secondary school will need strong comprehension skills not phonics.

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 18:37

No she was never screened but weirdly enough does attend a school for Spld so most students there have dyslexia.
they don’t believe she has dyslexia.

for example I was just looking at her reading plus ( not saying it means anything ) but as a ball park

her reading level on there
year 8 with a spread of 208 words a minute and a overall comprehension percentage 90 percent.

she has been assessed in many areas

her visual perception is average but her m
motor co ordination is extremely low as well as a low abc movement score.

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facethemusical · 02/04/2026 16:05

Formerdarkhorse · 02/04/2026 09:43

100% - my DS is never going to read much for pleasure, but he is confident with reading now and shot ahead at spelling and can decode fine. The programme achieved more than 3 years of in-school interventions. I’m so glad we got it sorted and he is happy about moving to high school academically, as I don’t know where he’d be now otherwise. We need to work on times table recall next- I think there are similar methods to Toe to Toe for that too.

Toe to Toe is multi sensory but still phonics based though isn't it?

IMO phonics is the best way to teach kids to read and write, it's been around a long time and was how i was taught in the late 70's early 80's. I'm not so keen on all the 'pure' sounds 'mmmm' and 'llllll' particularly are hard for children to consistently pronounce correctly IME from listening to readers. I prefer 'muh' and 'luh' even if they're not perfect as they're so much easier to pronounce. Try sounding out mum when you use 'mmm' - not perfect either!

That's not to say phonics works perfectly for everyone but I think anyone still struggling with phonics by age 7/8 should be screened for dyslexia. Has your DD been screened OP? Sorry if i missed that. I definitely think if phonics isn't working the way it's being taught by yr 3 then other alternative approaches are definitely required. To still be pushing it at Yr 7 would be pointless and ridiculous IMO.

The alternatives to teaching phonics to young children are pretty limited though - basically Look and Say which requires you to remember how to read and spell each word as a whole. It failed as a method when it was tried and most kids didn't learn to read. What other alternatives are there really? There are a number of different ways to tackle phonics that might help kids with them - and a lot of schools use more multi sensory approaches with sand trays etc - but phonics is still the best way of teaching kids to read and write.

Google says 'Phonics does not work for many children with dyslexia because it primarily relies on the exact brain functions that are impaired by the condition, specifically, the ability to process, remember, and connect sounds (phonemes) to letters (graphemes).' So IMO once it becomes clear that phonics aren't working then kids should be getting screened for dyslexia - I just don't understand why that doesn't happen in schools?

Quit the phonics OP and leave her to progress in her own way, encouraging her to read as much as possible and check any words she's unsure of with you.

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 14:58

FancyCatSlave · 02/04/2026 14:04

I’ll make my own judgements on what is suitable or not thank you.

I am happy with her reading the first 4. I have said she can’t have the rest yet. But it has absolutely fuck all to do with you if I did.

This is just our or curiosity not judgement does she still not need to read age appropriate levels for comprehension skills
as in the difference between been able to read a work and comprehend what your reading ?

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FancyCatSlave · 02/04/2026 14:04

SuzyFandango · 02/04/2026 13:17

Ps Harry Potter goblet of fire isn't really suitable for a year 1 child. My 9 year could easily read Bridgerton but I'm not giving it to them.

A good guide for a book is whether the characters are roughly similar ages to the reader. Generally speaking books with teenage characters aren't really suitable for a 6 year old for whom the themes and content are too mature.

I’ll make my own judgements on what is suitable or not thank you.

I am happy with her reading the first 4. I have said she can’t have the rest yet. But it has absolutely fuck all to do with you if I did.

Passmethecheese · 02/04/2026 13:44

In terms of further study she wants to be an occupational therapist and although only 12 I don’t see this changing.

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SuzyFandango · 02/04/2026 13:17

Ps Harry Potter goblet of fire isn't really suitable for a year 1 child. My 9 year could easily read Bridgerton but I'm not giving it to them.

A good guide for a book is whether the characters are roughly similar ages to the reader. Generally speaking books with teenage characters aren't really suitable for a 6 year old for whom the themes and content are too mature.

SuzyFandango · 02/04/2026 13:15

FancyCatSlave · 02/04/2026 11:53

My DD (6h learnt to read without phonics. I’m not sure how, she is doing phonics at school still (Y1) and does understand it, but she became a free reader before she had covered 50% of the phonics content.

She makes me smile as she will say things like “we haven’t learnt that sound yet” while at the same time being able to read practically anything without help. She’s currently reading Harry Potter, Goblet of Fire without assistance.

The only thing I find is that sometimes there’s a word she has never come across that she can read but not pronounce correctly because it’s unfamiliar. But most of the time phonics is no help anyway. She virtually never uses the phonics to read - she could just read on sight from about age 3. As did I (and her Dad) who were reading before school long before phonics were a thing.

I’ve nothing against phonics but not all kids need it.

Most bright children who learn like this simply recognise & apply the phonic code unconsciously. I was like this, I had no trouble explaining phonics to my own DC despite never being "taught" it. It's quite intuitive if your brain works that way.

WheretheFishesareFrightening · 02/04/2026 13:06

SuzyFandango · 02/04/2026 09:58

This isn't true. There were phonics based methods that pre date look & say.

Most people who were not "taught phonics" unconsciously grasped the code, the repetition of sounds within words embeds it. As fluent readers we develop automaticity, we blend the sounds so fast we are not even aware we are doing it but brain scans can show it happening.

How this impacts later on is our ability to read a completely new word (which is common in higher education, and in science/tech especially). You can't work out "ketone" or "spectrometer" or "quark" from look & say.

It also underpins foreign language learning. Many European languages are underpinned by phonics (often more regularly & predictably than in English), its just a different set of grapheme phoneme correspondences.

So op it depends what you want for her. If you expect her to move on to higher education (a-levels, uni) or work in a profession where you regularly encounter technical or specialist vocabulary, its worth continuing, if not, you may seem it not a valuable use of her time.

You also won’t work out “colonel”, “buoy” “Hermione” or “choir” from phonics.

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