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Will antisemitism ever be looked at and dealt with in the same way as Islamophobia is?

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LucyWestenra · 01/04/2026 15:32

AIBU for thinking it won’t? Because it doesn’t seem to be the case in this country or my home country (Germany).

(I just googled because it didn’t seem right to have antisemitism in lower capitals, but apparently that is correct, as I thought)

Much love to the Jewish community, wherever they are.

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balabusta · 13/04/2026 14:56

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 21:28

There hasn’t been a unified Palestinian political system since the Hamas/Fatah split. Theres been several planned elections, all of which have failed either because of that split or the ongoing conflicts over the past two decades.

In 1948 Palestinian Arabs couldn't declare a state because they couldn't organize themselves and unite to do so.

Fast forward to 2026 and Palestinians apparently cant hold elections because they can't organise themselves along democratic principles with the necessary institutions of state with one party winning and the other going into opposition.

They've had 78 years to build their state in waiting. Maybe if they'd focused on that rather than destroying another state and the 'glorious resistance', there would be a democratic Palestinian state along an Israeli one.

The free palestine lot are just as guilty. Easy enough to shout it but if they can't even hold elections to decide who governs them, how on earth will they be able to operate a state that won't immediately fail? Not qutie as sexy to shout 'build an independent and non corrupt Palestinian civil service' but that's actually the hard work that needs to happen.

balabusta · 13/04/2026 14:44

MyLuckyHelper · 13/04/2026 10:31

Well meeting Iranian women outside of Iran isn't really a point of reference for how women in Iran are living is it?

It's illegal to be gay in Pakistan, but telling me you've met someone outside of Pakistan, who was born there but is gay doesn't disprove the reality in Pakistan. So if you don't like disingenuity, that's probably not a good start.

Do you have any evidence for your claim that journalists are only not wearing hijab on camera and then putting it back on afterwards? Why would they post globally with no hijab, only to put it on in private if they're so worried about the consequences? I have also read the stories of people being punished for not wearing hijab - but then I've read stories about the IDF/the US army/the UK army doing things that don't fall in line with their official policies.

I've already answered the point about surveys. We can't put much stock in surveys carried out in places that punish dissent. I imagine Kim Jong Un is pretty popular in North Korean surveys too... However the latest survey I can find states that: Favorability of the October 7 attack, the belief that Hamas will win the war, and support for Hamas continue to decline, but the overwhelming majority is opposed to Hamas disarmament and does not believe that release of the hostages will bring an end to the war. Nonetheless, about half of Gazans support the anti-Hamas demonstrations and almost half want to leave the Gaza Strip if they could. Support for the two-state solution remains unchanged but support for armed struggle drops.

I presume this is the study you're referring to. It interviewed 440 people in Gaza, out of around two million, I'm not sure it's a particularly representative sample, even if we put full faith in the honesty of their views.

Do you know how random probability sampling works? It doesn't matter the size of the study population (only if it's too small), whether its 2 million or 20 million or 200 million as long as the sample is selected at random. This is statistics 101.

There isn't one study, many surveys are carried out. Whether they are biased due to hamas being a cruel and repressive organisation is fair enough- yet it seems Gazans feel confident enough to express disapproval of Hamas in a way that West Bankers don't despite Hamas not ruling tbe West Bank so it's hardly north korean style surveillance

And my iranian friends often go back to visit, have friends and family in iran so I think I've got a pretty good idea of how tbey feel about being forced to wear hijab.

Emilesgran · 13/04/2026 11:29

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 23:27

Just to be clear, I’m well aware of Hamas’ stance on Israel.

Whats interesting about me not referring to them as an extremist religious organisation? I presume everyone on this thread would know that already? Do I also need to explain who Israel are for people? A poster expressed an interest in the elections and the relationship between the general Palestinian population & Hamas - on which I had a touch of knowledge due to having researched it myself during the last few months, so I responded.

oh sorry, I missed the hijab comment, there’s certainly no law in Gaza enforcing the hijab at present. There are plenty of women existing there that don’t wear it. It’s not policed like it is in Iran.

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“Not officially like in Iran” is setting a very low bar though. Christians in Gaza have been oppressed by Islamists for years.
https://ucs.nd.edu/learn/palestine/

Gaza // Under Caesar's Sword // University of Notre Dame

https://ucs.nd.edu/learn/palestine/

MyLuckyHelper · 13/04/2026 10:31

Well meeting Iranian women outside of Iran isn't really a point of reference for how women in Iran are living is it?

It's illegal to be gay in Pakistan, but telling me you've met someone outside of Pakistan, who was born there but is gay doesn't disprove the reality in Pakistan. So if you don't like disingenuity, that's probably not a good start.

Do you have any evidence for your claim that journalists are only not wearing hijab on camera and then putting it back on afterwards? Why would they post globally with no hijab, only to put it on in private if they're so worried about the consequences? I have also read the stories of people being punished for not wearing hijab - but then I've read stories about the IDF/the US army/the UK army doing things that don't fall in line with their official policies.

I've already answered the point about surveys. We can't put much stock in surveys carried out in places that punish dissent. I imagine Kim Jong Un is pretty popular in North Korean surveys too... However the latest survey I can find states that: Favorability of the October 7 attack, the belief that Hamas will win the war, and support for Hamas continue to decline, but the overwhelming majority is opposed to Hamas disarmament and does not believe that release of the hostages will bring an end to the war. Nonetheless, about half of Gazans support the anti-Hamas demonstrations and almost half want to leave the Gaza Strip if they could. Support for the two-state solution remains unchanged but support for armed struggle drops.

I presume this is the study you're referring to. It interviewed 440 people in Gaza, out of around two million, I'm not sure it's a particularly representative sample, even if we put full faith in the honesty of their views.

balabusta · 13/04/2026 09:35

MyLuckyHelper · 13/04/2026 07:42

Perhaps prior to October 2023, Gazans felt differently about Hamas. Who knows, we’ve got no evidence to tell us how they feel now have we.

What are the consequences for these journalists who are publically not wearing hijab? Given that they continue to do so on a daily basis - I can’t imagine it’s particularly effective.

It is literally law in Iran to wear hijab, with enforceable punishment. Of course you will have some that have rebelled - seems odd that every single Iranian woman you’ve met has been a rebel though. And where are you meeting them? That’s obviously relevant.

im not really sure what you’re trying to tell me with that argument anyway? Iran is a wonderful place for women to live and Gaza isn’t? I’m personally very grateful not to have been born in either.

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Obviously all the Iranian women I've met are outside of Iran and, no, not one wears hijab. They certainly aren't rebels but ordinary middle class Iranians. Iran isn't a lovely place for women due to the regime in place which is not supported by the people - hence why they need laws to wear hijab.

Hamas, in contrast, is very much representative of the conservative Islamic norms of Gazan society and all it implies for women's rights.

And those journalists (maybe one or two) probably jsut take off their hijab to report and put it on to go out - because consequences.

Yes, we do know how Gazans feel. Surveys have been carried out. Support for hamas among gazans has dropped post 7/10 but remained high in west bank. However that's more becuase of tbe disaster that it brought upon Gaza rather than anything moral outrage at Hamas' actions.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 13/04/2026 09:26

balabusta · 13/04/2026 00:33

It's disingenuous to leave out that people were voting for an Islamic extremist party. This is their key defining characteristic.

Its true that three is now law enforcing hijab because they don't need it (unlike iran). In gaza, itd be a brave Muslim woman who wouldn't wear a hijab these days given the intimidation she'd face . Social policies don't necessarily mean enforcement by law.

And I can tell you that, no, they didn't achieve their aims. All the money that could have gone to supporting poor widows went to building tunnels and buying arms to attack israel. Plus the billionaire lifestyles of the leadership in Qatar.

I can’t agree that it was disingenuous of MyLuckyHelper not to point out that the government voted in by the people of Palestine was a government of Islamist terrorists as that wasn’t quite the conversation we were having.

However, I do think it is a useful point to make to start to answer the question of the dynamic between the Hamas government and its citizens. Another piece of the jigsaw so the teaching in schools if children that Jews to are be hated and killed. Is that a Hamas mandate? Is that something many Palestinians freely participate in or is there resistance?

I looked it up and approx 22% of the population are old enough to have voted in the last election. As pp points out, they may have been between a rock and a hard place with their choices for government - they clearly didn’t like the previous administration but we can’t tell from elections if the current one has public support or not.

The bit that concerns me most is all the ‘pro Palestine’ protestors that appear to have vastly differing levels of understanding of the situation. We have the Islamists who explicitly support Hamas and their ains, and they are bolstered and sanitised by the ‘bekind, Israel are the evil aggressors and deliberately murdering Palestinian children for fun’ - which worryingly also seems to influence our government. The Islamist MPs are also pushing their agenda from inside government.

It is also a serious concern that some British MPs are being elected on a single issue that is nothing to do with British citizens.

MyLuckyHelper · 13/04/2026 07:42

balabusta · 13/04/2026 01:44

There have been polls in Gaza and the west bank where there are international journalists. Prior to October 2023 there were also foreign journalists in gaza.

And no, women without hijab in gaza most certainly do have consequences. Iran is totally different to Gaza. I've met many iranian women and not one wears a hijab. That's why they need to enforce it by law and it is hated by iranian women. Not the case in Gaza where social pressure means women conform.

Perhaps prior to October 2023, Gazans felt differently about Hamas. Who knows, we’ve got no evidence to tell us how they feel now have we.

What are the consequences for these journalists who are publically not wearing hijab? Given that they continue to do so on a daily basis - I can’t imagine it’s particularly effective.

It is literally law in Iran to wear hijab, with enforceable punishment. Of course you will have some that have rebelled - seems odd that every single Iranian woman you’ve met has been a rebel though. And where are you meeting them? That’s obviously relevant.

im not really sure what you’re trying to tell me with that argument anyway? Iran is a wonderful place for women to live and Gaza isn’t? I’m personally very grateful not to have been born in either.

balabusta · 13/04/2026 01:44

MyLuckyHelper · 13/04/2026 01:18

I didn’t say it’s representative. But they are doing it without consequence and they certainly wouldn’t be doing the same in Iran.

You might well be right that most believe in it (although ‘still’ would be misleading given that most wouldn’t have voted back in 2006) but where do you get your evidence for that, given that no independent journalists have been allowed and as far as I can tell they haven’t all been asked 🤷🏻‍♀️

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There have been polls in Gaza and the west bank where there are international journalists. Prior to October 2023 there were also foreign journalists in gaza.

And no, women without hijab in gaza most certainly do have consequences. Iran is totally different to Gaza. I've met many iranian women and not one wears a hijab. That's why they need to enforce it by law and it is hated by iranian women. Not the case in Gaza where social pressure means women conform.

MyLuckyHelper · 13/04/2026 01:18

balabusta · 13/04/2026 01:05

Muslim women do not go out witjou4 hijab in Gaza other than a brave few. One or two journalists recording videos for social media without a hijab is in no way representative.

I appreciate some Gazans just wanted change from Fatah. Some were seduced by Hamas' promises. Most still believe in Hamas' aim to destroy israel - you know, this promise that has caused immeasurable damage to Palestinians for the last 80 odd years.

I didn’t say it’s representative. But they are doing it without consequence and they certainly wouldn’t be doing the same in Iran.

You might well be right that most believe in it (although ‘still’ would be misleading given that most wouldn’t have voted back in 2006) but where do you get your evidence for that, given that no independent journalists have been allowed and as far as I can tell they haven’t all been asked 🤷🏻‍♀️

balabusta · 13/04/2026 01:05

Muslim women do not go out witjou4 hijab in Gaza other than a brave few. One or two journalists recording videos for social media without a hijab is in no way representative.

I appreciate some Gazans just wanted change from Fatah. Some were seduced by Hamas' promises. Most still believe in Hamas' aim to destroy israel - you know, this promise that has caused immeasurable damage to Palestinians for the last 80 odd years.

MyLuckyHelper · 13/04/2026 00:37

balabusta · 13/04/2026 00:33

It's disingenuous to leave out that people were voting for an Islamic extremist party. This is their key defining characteristic.

Its true that three is now law enforcing hijab because they don't need it (unlike iran). In gaza, itd be a brave Muslim woman who wouldn't wear a hijab these days given the intimidation she'd face . Social policies don't necessarily mean enforcement by law.

And I can tell you that, no, they didn't achieve their aims. All the money that could have gone to supporting poor widows went to building tunnels and buying arms to attack israel. Plus the billionaire lifestyles of the leadership in Qatar.

Whether they achieved their aims or not doesn’t really have any affect on why people voted did it? They were desperate for change and were under a useless government at the time.

Just like the people in Germany voting in the Nazis becuase they were fed up of life under life under the Weimar Republic. People weren’t voting based on what we now know would happen, they were reacting to their situation at the time.

It’s not disingenuous becuase I’m assuming anyone engaging in this discussion is aware of Hamas and who they are. The conversation was about the election and why people voted. Of course some will have voted because they agreed with their stance on religion & Israel, but not everyone will have and some will have voted for them in
spite of it.

I’m really not convinced you’re engaged enough with life in Gaza to know whether you’d need to be brave to be a non hijab wearer. There are plenty of female Gazan journalists who don’t wear hijab and have very public profiles.

balabusta · 13/04/2026 00:33

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 23:36

Oh and @balabusta when I said they campaigned on social policies - I meant those like financial support for poor families, windows and orphans, improving healthcare & investing in schools and universities.

am I saying they achieved it/were honest? No. I have no knowledge in that area to be honest, but that’s what they set out and people were desperate for change from Fatah, which is inevitably how elections are won anywhere isnt it when a country isn’t having a good time…see also the Nazi party

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It's disingenuous to leave out that people were voting for an Islamic extremist party. This is their key defining characteristic.

Its true that three is now law enforcing hijab because they don't need it (unlike iran). In gaza, itd be a brave Muslim woman who wouldn't wear a hijab these days given the intimidation she'd face . Social policies don't necessarily mean enforcement by law.

And I can tell you that, no, they didn't achieve their aims. All the money that could have gone to supporting poor widows went to building tunnels and buying arms to attack israel. Plus the billionaire lifestyles of the leadership in Qatar.

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 23:36

Oh and @balabusta when I said they campaigned on social policies - I meant those like financial support for poor families, windows and orphans, improving healthcare & investing in schools and universities.

am I saying they achieved it/were honest? No. I have no knowledge in that area to be honest, but that’s what they set out and people were desperate for change from Fatah, which is inevitably how elections are won anywhere isnt it when a country isn’t having a good time…see also the Nazi party

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 23:27

balabusta · 12/04/2026 22:42

Just to be clear, Hamas' stance against israel is no peace deal and no Israel. Thats why they blew up buses in israel in the 90s - to prevent any peace deals.

Its true that hamas won one election and then there were no more so most Gazans alive wouldn't have been the ones voting for them but they do have (or at least have had) a lot of popular support.

Interesting that you don't mention anywhere that hamas is an extremist religious organization whose social policies are Islamist policies such as forcing women to wear hijab.

Just to be clear, I’m well aware of Hamas’ stance on Israel.

Whats interesting about me not referring to them as an extremist religious organisation? I presume everyone on this thread would know that already? Do I also need to explain who Israel are for people? A poster expressed an interest in the elections and the relationship between the general Palestinian population & Hamas - on which I had a touch of knowledge due to having researched it myself during the last few months, so I responded.

oh sorry, I missed the hijab comment, there’s certainly no law in Gaza enforcing the hijab at present. There are plenty of women existing there that don’t wear it. It’s not policed like it is in Iran.

balabusta · 12/04/2026 22:46

Papyrophile · 12/04/2026 21:13

Of course elections were due, but Hamas knew they would lose so the election was not held. Hamas continued in office. I feel very sorry for the Palestinians, but IMO they have not helped themselves. I also don't like Israel's politics, but it is safe to be gay or opposed to the mainstream in Israel and it's not in neighbouring countries.

Its not just safe rto be gay or in opposition, its much safer to be a minority. Look at what's happening to the druze in Syria versus the druze in israel.

balabusta · 12/04/2026 22:43

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 21:28

There hasn’t been a unified Palestinian political system since the Hamas/Fatah split. Theres been several planned elections, all of which have failed either because of that split or the ongoing conflicts over the past two decades.

Yes, tbf, no elections in fatah controlled west bank either. Because hamas would win....

balabusta · 12/04/2026 22:42

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 18:30

Hamas did win the last election in 2006 with a vote share of around 45%. As far as I understand, lots of Palestinians weren’t necessarily voting for Hamas’s ideology, but against Fatah, who were seen as corrupt & ineffective. Hamas campaigned on anti-corruption, social welfare & resistance which obviously resonated with Palestinians at the time.

Obviously there haven’t been national elections since 2006 so the majority of the population haven’t had the chance to vote for or against Hamas at all.

There are definitely Palestinians who still support them, with lots agreeing with their stance against Israel and their social policies. But then others are critical of their authoritarianism and the consequences of ongoing conflict. Given the restriction on dissent in Gaza, it’s likely we’ll never really know how the people in Gaza truly feel about Hamas.

Just to be clear, Hamas' stance against israel is no peace deal and no Israel. Thats why they blew up buses in israel in the 90s - to prevent any peace deals.

Its true that hamas won one election and then there were no more so most Gazans alive wouldn't have been the ones voting for them but they do have (or at least have had) a lot of popular support.

Interesting that you don't mention anywhere that hamas is an extremist religious organization whose social policies are Islamist policies such as forcing women to wear hijab.

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 21:28

Ihatetomatoes · 12/04/2026 20:41

Maybe their governance Hamas should have had an election in the years following 2006.. why didn't they?

There hasn’t been a unified Palestinian political system since the Hamas/Fatah split. Theres been several planned elections, all of which have failed either because of that split or the ongoing conflicts over the past two decades.

MyLuckyHelper · 12/04/2026 21:19

Ihatetomatoes · 12/04/2026 20:39

That's medieval.

There is so much of Israel bad and Palestine poor oppressed innocents. No one is Hamas in Gaza.

Hamas have done the people of Gaza no favours and if the terrorist attack of October 7th hadn't occurred this latest conflict wouldn't have been, but hey ho, they have no agency, so no blame, and obviously whatever their 'freedom fighters' do is excusable.

What a bizarre take. That kind of talk doesn’t really help anyone. It’s an argument no one but you is having. Certainly no one here has said that whatever hamas does is excusable?

Papyrophile · 12/04/2026 21:13

Of course elections were due, but Hamas knew they would lose so the election was not held. Hamas continued in office. I feel very sorry for the Palestinians, but IMO they have not helped themselves. I also don't like Israel's politics, but it is safe to be gay or opposed to the mainstream in Israel and it's not in neighbouring countries.

Ihatetomatoes · 12/04/2026 20:41

Papyrophile · 12/04/2026 18:40

An election in 2006 is now 20 years ago!

Maybe their governance Hamas should have had an election in the years following 2006.. why didn't they?

Ihatetomatoes · 12/04/2026 20:39

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 12/04/2026 18:16

Yes. I happened across the footage of the lynching of two IDF soldiers in Ramallah by a 1000 strong mob of Palestinians. The two young men were literally ripped to pieces and their entrails held up by men with blood dripping from their hands.

Some protestors today display red hand signs said to be a reference to that horrific event.

Hamas were voted in by Palestinians in 2006. I would like to know more about the dynamic between the Hamas government and the Palestinian people, why they were voted in and how it has gone since then.

That's medieval.

There is so much of Israel bad and Palestine poor oppressed innocents. No one is Hamas in Gaza.

Hamas have done the people of Gaza no favours and if the terrorist attack of October 7th hadn't occurred this latest conflict wouldn't have been, but hey ho, they have no agency, so no blame, and obviously whatever their 'freedom fighters' do is excusable.

Papyrophile · 12/04/2026 18:45

Surely, it's time for another vote! Israel is a better place to live than most of the Third World. A person can be gay or divorced without much fear. Fat chance of that in Iran.

Papyrophile · 12/04/2026 18:40

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 12/04/2026 18:37

Thank you for your thoughts on this - it is nice to be able to have a calm conversation and hear your views on this extremely complex and emotive topic.

An election in 2006 is now 20 years ago!

Papyrophile · 12/04/2026 18:38

LucyWestenra · 01/04/2026 15:32

AIBU for thinking it won’t? Because it doesn’t seem to be the case in this country or my home country (Germany).

(I just googled because it didn’t seem right to have antisemitism in lower capitals, but apparently that is correct, as I thought)

Much love to the Jewish community, wherever they are.

❤️

I do not like or approve anything Israel is currently doing. But at the same time, I think there must be a balance. I prefer Israel as a democracy, and don't have any sympathy for an Islamist POV. I have quite strong views on this point, but I don't think it makes me racist