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AIBU to want a sofa with proper head support?

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lurchersforever · 28/03/2026 17:36

I have an ex-display sofa I bought on impulse years ago from a place that no longer exists. I didn't love it but needed one and it was affordable. It's quite traditional and boring to look at but actually very comfortable. However, after 12 years of heavy use the back has started to come away and it needs a professional clean - don't know how successful that would be.

I've started looking for a replacement and am realising how difficult it is to get one that actually supports your head! So many only come halfway up your back, which is pretty uncomfortable. Even the higher ones don't seem to allow you to lean your head right back like mine does. I'm only 5"3 for goodness sake. The only ones that are tall enough for what I want are the big blocky recliner ones and I really don't like those. I want traditional and preferably tan leather but not seen anything I really like.

Does everyone with those low sofas actually enjoy sitting on them?!

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neverbeenskiing · 28/03/2026 18:11

DH are trying to replace our sofa and having this exact same issue atm. I just don't get the current trend for sofas with a really low back, I don't even think it looks good so it's not even a case of sacrificing comfort for style. It reminds me of the type of sofa you get in a waiting room.

ObligateAerobe · 28/03/2026 18:10

I have a chesterfield, pretty much the classic low backed sofa. I've had it for years and find it really comfortable. I dread having to replace it. Sofas are so ugly and expensive now.

lurchersforever · 28/03/2026 18:04

Oh no - 4 years! Solidarity @Gymnopedie

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Gymnopedie · 28/03/2026 17:49

No help but posting in solidarity. I'm on the same quest and have been for at least four years.

I would also like high wings to prop me up sitting in the corner. Hens' teeth come to mind.