AIBU to ask you to help me plot some fantasy revenge?
I am divorcing my abusive STBXH thanks to you lovely lot helping me to recognise it as abuse after I posted a couple of AIBUs.
True to form he is being horrible. Utterly vile. I’ve lost friends. I’ve lost money. He’s making choices that negatively impact the DC.
I am rising above it. I’m not taking the bait. I’m focusing on my wellbeing and being the best parent I can be.
But I’m angry. I feel powerless. The law sucks. I have no recourse. I need an outlet.
So I’m going to start plotting fantasy revenge scenarios.
First one: I know something about him that would destroy his reputation and lose him friends all over our small community. I fantasise about telling one person in ‘confidence’ knowing they would likely break it because they are a gossip. I’d have done nothing wrong but it would have the whole town talking about him negatively.
Anyone want to join me in a little evil fantasy revenge? What could I do? Small or big? Silly or serious! Or share your revenge stories. No judgement from me.
To be clear I won’t action anything and I’m not condoning revenge (mostly) but I really need to let out my feeling of powerlessness somehow!!