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AIBU to be fed up with colleagues repeatedly off sick?

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IngridsLittleToe · 16/03/2026 19:48

I'm going to get my arse handed to me and I don't care. Sick staff....I'm so over feeling sympathetic. I'm not talking really sick staff...I'm talking repeated back ache/gynae problems/migraine/back ache/sore throat/cold/depression/back ache/sinusitis/cold/sore big toe....

They have been on repeated sickness absence management and pull it back from the brink each time. Only to start all over again. Years and years of this. The rest of the team have to pick up the pieces, cancel their jobs to cover someone else's and the sickie doesn't have any loyalty at all.

The whole time they are sick they manage to socialise and do a voluntary role. Any attempt to manage the sickness is met with claims of bullying and then they go sick with anxiety.

All on full pay.

AIBU to think they are shamelessly playing the system and should be sacked

OP posts:
Hatty65 · 16/03/2026 19:51

Just do your job. Don't cancel work to pick up someone else's. Tell management you are at capacity and then mind your own business about other people's level of illness.

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