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Would you buy something from the person who bullied you at school?

39 replies

bagpuss90 · 28/02/2026 15:38

Just this-my school bully has something listed for sale on marketplace . I really want it but I just feel a bit weird about it. I almost don’t want to do it in principle. She made my life an absolute misery at times, verbal , physical bullying, trashed my work- she was vile. Not sure if I’m being petty and cutting off my nose to spite my face though. The item is a bit random and not easy to find .

OP posts:
ohyesido · 28/02/2026 15:51

No. Someone else must be selling it somewhere in the world

Amiacoolorwarmcolour · 28/02/2026 15:50

Hell no.

bagpuss90 · 28/02/2026 15:50

That’s how i feel

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Moveoverdarlin · 28/02/2026 15:49

Nope! No fucking way.

user6386297154 · 28/02/2026 15:47

No

NinePoppadomsAndASaagAloo · 28/02/2026 15:47

It really depends what it is, how much I wanted it, how much it costs and how hard it is to find elsewhere. And if I still wanted it I would have to get someone else to go and buy it and pretend it was for them!

Impossiblyme · 28/02/2026 15:47

No

I’d be blocking her too.

FadedRed · 28/02/2026 15:46

I wouldn’t either, like pp said, it would remind me every time I looked at it.

CrispySquid · 28/02/2026 15:46

Nope. She wouldn’t be getting a penny of my hard-earned money, no matter how cheap or trivial the item was.

Isekaied · 28/02/2026 15:45

Don't buy it

bagpuss90 · 28/02/2026 15:45

ThisCantBeRightCanIt · 28/02/2026 15:39

Honestly no i wouldn't buy it. Just because everytime I used it it would remind me of them.

That’s a good point

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ForPinkDuck · 28/02/2026 15:44

Bad juju no way.

ShetlandishMum · 28/02/2026 15:43

No.

ThisCantBeRightCanIt · 28/02/2026 15:39

Honestly no i wouldn't buy it. Just because everytime I used it it would remind me of them.

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