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What's the longest you have stayed inside for ?

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Sitonyourdressmavis · 18/02/2026 16:48

I've just come out of a very stressful work situation and now have 2 weeks annual leave. I've spent a week of it already and I haven't been out of the house! I feel like I'm in hibernation mode. I live alone and am perfectly happy ,but wondering when I'm going to get cabin fever...
What's the longest you've stayed in for?

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PGmicstand · 18/02/2026 23:26

11 days when I had covid. Walking to the bathroom was exhausting, and I spent a lot of time asleep.

NoYourNameChanged · 18/02/2026 23:05

Sitonyourdressmavis · 18/02/2026 22:05

How did you get outside with sepsis and broken limbs?

Well, obviously with sepsis, I was in hospital, not the house, and I flopped outside even there as soon as I could manage, I’m a terrible patient. Broken limbs, very easily, just perhaps rather more slowly or gingerly than usual!

eta I may have misunderstood the question. I was talking about specifically staying within the house, so kind of overlooked hospital stays. Perhaps that gave the wrong impression.

Sitonyourdressmavis · 18/02/2026 22:43

I got covid quarantined in the last bit before the law changed (when you still had to do 11 days)
I didn't have many symptoms other than totally drained. I could just about manage a bath every 3 days without being too exhausted. No taste or smell either. I didn't even really go.downstairs maybe every 2 days (as I had no taste I just ate fruit and drank water and some dry cereal that was all by my bed)
By day 10 I think I had made it downstairs but when I went back to work on day 12 I was so weak!

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Denim4ever · 18/02/2026 22:39

2 weeks when I had flu pre COVID. Probably almost 3 weeks in hospital around DSs premmie birth.

The weather hasn't been great this year and I've not enjoyed walks etc as much as a result. There have certainly been 2 day stretches on my midweek wfh when I've not gone out.

TrentCrimmsflowinglocks · 18/02/2026 22:36

2 weeks in quarantine due to COVID in 2020. Would have lost my mind except for the fact that I felt like absolute shit.

Emori · 18/02/2026 22:35

It's fine thanks apart from triple sepsis in my left eyebrow.

You are so right about snowflakes making a fuss. Never heard of anxiety during the good old blitz.

FrostyFlo · 18/02/2026 22:35

I think around 10 days or so . Had flu,so spent around 3/4 days in bed not showering or even washing . Then nearly a week of draging myself out of bed and spending the day on the sofa just watching t.v. . Had company as dh had it as well .

PartoftheBand · 18/02/2026 22:34

Around 8 months. I have ME and at one point it was so severe I was around 90% bed bound and going downstairs was usually impossible, let alone leaving the house. It's still common for me to be too ill to go out for several days at a time.

YourGreenCat · 18/02/2026 22:29

Emori · 18/02/2026 22:25

I would imagine that pp is more resilient than most

I am similar, my friends do think it's funny and charming how resilient I am.

One day my head fell clean off and I just picked it up, tucked it in my arm, swilled out the pigs and cooked a massive salad on my big rustic range cooker.

😂

People are so precious aren't they? Just because they are under general anaesthesia and getting tens of stiches and they don't go digging a trench in the garden. Snowflakes they are

Hope your head feels better now. 😂

Sitonyourdressmavis · 18/02/2026 22:29

I was genuinely interested as a family member had sepsis and was incredibly ill and in no way could move really. And when my brother broke his ankle, he was a good 3 or 4 days home from hospital before he could really navigate round home let alone the garden

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Emori · 18/02/2026 22:25

Sitonyourdressmavis · 18/02/2026 22:05

How did you get outside with sepsis and broken limbs?

I would imagine that pp is more resilient than most

I am similar, my friends do think it's funny and charming how resilient I am.

One day my head fell clean off and I just picked it up, tucked it in my arm, swilled out the pigs and cooked a massive salad on my big rustic range cooker.

Travelfairy · 18/02/2026 22:13

3 days at most unless very ill. On an average week I woukdnt have a day at home..even if sick would still have to do school run, go to shops etc a week at home all alone sounds a bit worrying like you are very isolated, probably not the healthiest not even getting out for a bit of fresh air...

Auroraloves · 18/02/2026 22:08

Probably about 4-5 days, could easily do longer though

anothercortisolqueen · 18/02/2026 22:06

I recently had a hysterectomy and for the first two weeks I stayed at home I live alone so could get what I needed from a Tesco whoosh delivery if urgent. I had grand plans of spending the six weeks learning a new language, or skill, geetting into new hobbies etc, but I just did nothing basically aside from scroll on my phone and binge watch Netflix. I started walking the dog again for 20 mins around the block twice a day and my ex took him for a long walk each day. I did nothing…. It was such a shock coming back to work. Thinking of having another surgery just for some more time off 😂

Sitonyourdressmavis · 18/02/2026 22:05

NoYourNameChanged · 18/02/2026 21:58

I don’t think I’ve ever spent even a full day in the house. If I have, I certainly can’t remember it. That’s even with having had sepsis, a couple of c sections, broken limbs etc. I cannot bear to feel cooped up indoors and anyway, I’ve horses and dogs and the farm livestock, so I haven’t much choice even if I wanted it!

How did you get outside with sepsis and broken limbs?

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NoYourNameChanged · 18/02/2026 21:58

I don’t think I’ve ever spent even a full day in the house. If I have, I certainly can’t remember it. That’s even with having had sepsis, a couple of c sections, broken limbs etc. I cannot bear to feel cooped up indoors and anyway, I’ve horses and dogs and the farm livestock, so I haven’t much choice even if I wanted it!

BoarBrush · 18/02/2026 21:53

I used to make sure I took my kids out every single day, even if it was just a trip to sainsburys.

Back in 2021 when I first became disabled, barring endless trips to the gp, literally carried door to door, I didn't leave the house until mid 2022. THAT was awful as I had no choice but to stay home

I'm still disabled (physically, lifelong and progressive) but somewhat know my boundaries now.

At Christmas I went 23 days, it was glorious because it was MY choice to be cosy and comfy at home.

YourGreenCat · 18/02/2026 21:18

When I had the flu, around 4 or 5 days but then I had a friend take me in his car for a drive so I could at least get out.

On a non-illness non-post-surgery week, 48 hours is the most I could ever manage before going crazy. I hate feeling sluggish too.

I genuinely feel so sorry for al the people who were really on house-arrest during the lockdown in countries that were so ridiculously strict, or people in China having to stay indoors at the worst of pollution. Pure hell.

WilfredsPies · 18/02/2026 21:11

greglet · 18/02/2026 19:56

@WilfredsPies two years?!

Yes, two years.

Peonies12 · 18/02/2026 20:51

The most is 1 day. Cannot fathom more than that.

Greengagesnfennel · 18/02/2026 20:47

if I go 24h I find it really noticeable.
48h would require a concerted effort and I don’t
think I have ever randomly done it (eg Covid etc quarantining myself
excepting)

Sitonyourdressmavis · 18/02/2026 20:41

IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 18/02/2026 20:35

I was my DM's carer for 10 years and when she went into hospital I had something of a breakdown. We were in the middle of a heatwave so I spent time in the garden but I didn't go out of the front door at all. I slept for hours through the day and slept all night. The removal of the stress was almost as hard to live with as the stress itself!

I can really relate to this. I've been close to burnout and now nothing!

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IthinkIsawahairbrushbackthere · 18/02/2026 20:35

I was my DM's carer for 10 years and when she went into hospital I had something of a breakdown. We were in the middle of a heatwave so I spent time in the garden but I didn't go out of the front door at all. I slept for hours through the day and slept all night. The removal of the stress was almost as hard to live with as the stress itself!

Sitonyourdressmavis · 18/02/2026 20:24

So sorry to hear about all the Ill health that everyone has suffered. With regards to exercise, on normal work days it's not unusual for me to get between 15 -18k steps a day so I'm OK with having a rest

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DuchessofStaffordshire · 18/02/2026 20:04

Around 3 days during my last bout of COVID. I was climbing the walls and driving everyone around me potty too. If I don't get out running I get really twitchy and irritable.