Hello
This could be outing so trying to keep it brief. Been together 20 years. I can't see the wood for the trees. Have suspected my OH has been cheating- no hard evidence. Things have not been right regardless of this and he has broken up with me. I have been heartbroken after weeks in limbo. I own nothing of the property. Our kids are still fairly young.
He is insistent we all stay at home as long as possible until he helps me rent somewhere else and says I am completely selfish to not think is the best for the children. I am not sure I want his help as he has been nothing but vitriolic for the last couple months.
I get it- consistency for the kids is important but I am unravelling mentally living in his home, knowing he has probably got someone else lined up and knowing we are no longer getting married or have a future and I will have to move out with the kids in the near future anyway.
He has stayed away from the family home for the last few weeks but it feels like he is dipping in and out and when I see him it is heartbreaking.
Would I be unreasonable to rent an Airbnb for me and the kids temporarily until we are rehoused or is that very selfish?
Thank you