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To be annoyed I had to watch GB News to see coverage of anti women protestors at Southwark

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 15/02/2026 12:35

A mother, Miranda Newsom, had her gym membership suspended for a year after reporting an "unmistakably male" trans woman in the female changing room.

Why isn't this on the BBC? The reporter in the video is doing genuinely impressive investigative journalism, didn't we used to have the national broadcaster to do this sort of thing?

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BitOutOfPractice · 16/02/2026 12:24

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 10:37

Not a very strong argument is it?

"I'm so convinced I am right that I won't look at the evidence you have given, also those people smell of poo"

I am sure you wandered around post Brexit saying "I don't know anyone who voted for the other side I can't believe it"

I have literally no idea why that’s a response to what I said. But yeah, OK!

LVhandbagsatdawn · 16/02/2026 12:20

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 16/02/2026 11:56

Why are you obsessed with mentioning genitals?!

It's interesting you don't ask @callmeLoretta1 that, when she's posted repeatedly and often about genitals and penises.

Arran2024 · 16/02/2026 12:10

Verytall · 16/02/2026 11:32

I mean, I could create an AI infographic in two minutes which 'proves' that Terfs care about women's rights. It would prove exactly the sum of FA, as your 'evidence' does.

And in terms of not responding to everything you post: it's not worth my time, and I'm on a break from work. Not all of us have all day to argue on the internet.

The data comes from cross referencing the number of people who declared themselves to be trans in the most recent British Government's census with data from the Ministry of Justice about the trans population in prison, all turned into an infogrsphic for ease of viewing.

I know it must be hard for you to see this portrayed like this. The usual trans objection is that the prison data is too small a sample, not that it's an infigrsphic, but anyway, the prison data is not too small. And it is similar to other countries.

The fact is that trans women are not some unicorn type of being. They are not like women when it comes to sex offending. They retain male offending patterns.

And so there is no evidence that suggests they can safely be let in to women's spaces. And so, on what grounds is it even being suggested? It can only be because women's needs aren't considered important.

I use a David Lloyd gym with a mostly open plan locker room. There are 4 little cubicles too which allow women more dignity if they need it.

We did have a trans woman at one point a few years ago and I can tell you that this individual did not use the cubicles. He would also hover around when fully dressed, on his phone.

I believe trans women would be perfectly safe in a David Lloyd men's changing room. The idea they would be beaten up by fellow members is absurd.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 16/02/2026 11:56

Verytall · 16/02/2026 09:57

By nature, people who are trans are wanting to be seen as the gender they identify with. Therefore will do whatever they can to be as discreet as possible. They won't be the people walking around the changing rooms with their bits out, and if they were, I'd say something to management. Do you go to public gyms? I do, I've never knowingly changed alongside someone who was trans, but thinking about all the women I've changed next to I don't usually get a eyeful of someone's vulva. Most people dress quickly, don't necessarily remove their underwear when changing, or wrap a towel round themselves. If you are regularly getting an eyeful of genitals in public changing rooms, I'd suggest that maybe you are getting a bit too close, or you're staring at strangers.

Why are you obsessed with mentioning genitals?!

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 11:36

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Catiette · 16/02/2026 11:35

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Presumably then you don't go to a gym, because you wouldn't be able to walk down the street, through the reception or use the facility once you're there, because there will be penis owners in all of these places?

In case it helps, Tall, the misunderstanding may have come from your words above. It does suggest a certain emotional immaturity, given the absurdity of the argument and sheer disrespect it shows to women reading who have experienced sexual assault.

I could actually see that the post's style may have led some posters to think cartoons are the right level of response.

As it happens, though, what you seem to think are cartoons are actually infographics, an increasingly well-recognised way of communicating important information to the public favoured by multiple organisations eg. the NHS, charities and businesses.

Honestly, this site brings out an acerbity and cynicism I didn't know I had. I'm finding I've less patience by the day for cartoonish strawmen like the italics above, and am finding it harder and harder to understand how anyone posting such things could feel it shows them and their arguments in a good light.

ETA Just checked to see if the infographics have sources, and they do, which I'd imagine (I know in several cases of those posted, being familiar with the numbers) will themselves lead an invested right right back to the original sources. I don't like those which don't have any sources - totally agree with Tall to be wary of such - but those which do can serve a very useful purpose.

callmeLoretta1 · 16/02/2026 11:34

Verytall · 16/02/2026 11:32

I mean, I could create an AI infographic in two minutes which 'proves' that Terfs care about women's rights. It would prove exactly the sum of FA, as your 'evidence' does.

And in terms of not responding to everything you post: it's not worth my time, and I'm on a break from work. Not all of us have all day to argue on the internet.

I mean, except it has DEPARTMENTAL DATA. And in them most have actual URLS to the actual source.

You can't answer that one.

Just admit you were not genuine in your quest for the evidence. It's that transparent.

Edited to add that I don't know what your last quite truculent paragraph refers to, I didn't ask you to reply to every post I made.

Verytall · 16/02/2026 11:32

I mean, I could create an AI infographic in two minutes which 'proves' that Terfs care about women's rights. It would prove exactly the sum of FA, as your 'evidence' does.

And in terms of not responding to everything you post: it's not worth my time, and I'm on a break from work. Not all of us have all day to argue on the internet.

callmeLoretta1 · 16/02/2026 11:31

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Possibly. That poster's excuse is so pitiful, you'd think they'd be embarrassed at calling a graph a cartoon. I would have more respect for them if they just admitted that they weren't genuine when they asked for evidence. It's obvious they hoped I wouldn't give it and had no interest in seeing any evidence. The ready made excuse of a cartoon (without even looking and seeing it is graphs and data) says this. Their mind was already shut and made up. No evidence was wanted.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 11:30

LlynTegid · 16/02/2026 11:29

No one forces you to watch the opinion channel called GB News. Calling it a news channel is misusing the language.

Well the event was definitely news, and it's not covered elsewhere, my actual point, so.... what exactly is your point other than sneering?

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LlynTegid · 16/02/2026 11:29

No one forces you to watch the opinion channel called GB News. Calling it a news channel is misusing the language.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 11:29

Verytall · 16/02/2026 11:21

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools that you pretend that infographics like that are evidence you're just showing how ridiculous your argument is. If you genuinely believe it, it shows how misinformed you are.

I don't have the time or inclination to answer you points one by one, but to show how weak your points are, one example you give is religious modesty. If you truly care for religious modesty you'll know that Muslim women (if following this tradition) can't show their body from the stomach to the knee to another unrelated woman (unless out of necessity eg medical reasons) So I presume as someone so concerned about other women's religious needs, you have avoided going into any changing rooms that muslim women may use, or campaigned for them to always have access to cubicles. Because in that instance, you're the problem and you shouldn't be there.

Picking one of a dozen examples I give, ignoring the others and not doing a competent job of attacking that one point - again - makes you look foolish

You do the work for us. Operation let them speak is a gift that keeps on giving.

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ArabellaScott · 16/02/2026 11:26

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callmeLoretta1 · 16/02/2026 11:22

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They are GRAPHS. Not 'cartoons'. Do you even know what cartoons are? And the sources for these graphs are at the top of them. They are actual government departmental data.

So now what's your excuse?

Verytall · 16/02/2026 11:21

@SingleSexSpacesInSchools that you pretend that infographics like that are evidence you're just showing how ridiculous your argument is. If you genuinely believe it, it shows how misinformed you are.

I don't have the time or inclination to answer you points one by one, but to show how weak your points are, one example you give is religious modesty. If you truly care for religious modesty you'll know that Muslim women (if following this tradition) can't show their body from the stomach to the knee to another unrelated woman (unless out of necessity eg medical reasons) So I presume as someone so concerned about other women's religious needs, you have avoided going into any changing rooms that muslim women may use, or campaigned for them to always have access to cubicles. Because in that instance, you're the problem and you shouldn't be there.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 11:11

JHound · 16/02/2026 11:08

But lots of mainstream outlets have deemed this unnewsworthy.

It seems that this is just your personal issue with the BBC. I could understand your angst if they were the only news outlet NOT covering this. But it seems all the news outlets, except GB news considers this unnewsworthy.

Am I upset the BBC has hung 51% of the population out to dry? Yes. Because they are the national broadcaster, thats what they are there for.

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 11:09

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I think you just got evidence that trans identifying males are actually more likely to sexually assault someone than a "cis" man.

Tell us again why these males should be allowed in female changing rooms?

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JHound · 16/02/2026 11:08

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 11:05

Because they are the national broadcaster that used to investigate things, but don't any more.

But lots of mainstream outlets have deemed this unnewsworthy.

It seems that this is just your personal issue with the BBC. I could understand your angst if they were the only news outlet NOT covering this. But it seems all the news outlets, except GB news considers this unnewsworthy.

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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 11:06

Verytall · 16/02/2026 10:46

Anyone with a penis is a threat to you. Presumably then you don't go to a gym, because you wouldn't be able to walk down the street, through the reception or use the facility once you're there, because there will be penis owners in all of these places?

Reasons why females are at more risk in a changing room than in the street.

Every time you type anything you make your arguments look worse. Thats why these discussions are so enlightening. Keep it up. You're doing the work for us.

  • State of undress: In a changing room you are partially or fully naked, which massively increases vulnerability and the potential harm from staring, comments, exposure, or physical contact. On the street you are clothed.
  • Privacy expectation: A changing room is explicitly a private, intimate space. Breaching that boundary is itself a harm and changes behaviour. A street is public by default.
  • Constrained environment: Changing rooms have cubicles, corners, narrow aisles, lockers and blind spots. It is easier to trap, corner, or block someone. Streets usually have multiple exits and open sightlines.
  • Lower visibility and oversight: Fewer witnesses, less CCTV (often none inside), and less staff presence. In public areas, there are more bystanders, more cameras, and more natural surveillance.
  • People are distracted: You are changing, handling bags, towels, keys, kids, shaving, showering, period products. That reduces situational awareness compared with walking down a street.
  • Reduced ability to respond quickly: You may be barefoot, wet, carrying things, or mid-change. You cannot move fast, run, or defend yourself as easily as when you are dressed and mobile.
  • Higher leverage for coercion: In an intimate space, embarrassment and shame are powerful tools. Someone can exploit “don’t make a scene” pressure more effectively than in a public reception area.
  • Greater opportunity for voyeurism and recording: Phones, mirrors, gaps, and the simple fact of nudity make spying and image capture far more damaging and more tempting. The street does not present the same exposure.
  • Higher impact of a single incident: Being stared at on the street is unpleasant; being stared at while undressed is violating. The magnitude of harm is different.
  • Particular risk for girls: Teenagers are especially vulnerable in changing contexts (body insecurity, fear of reporting, power imbalances). The same male presence in a corridor is not equivalent.
  • Modesty and religious needs: For some women and girls, being seen unclothed has severe personal or cultural consequences. Those harms are specific to changing spaces.
  • Not “all men are a threat”, it is about setting and risk management: Society routinely restricts who can enter intimate spaces (women’s refuges, toilets, changing rooms) because the combination of privacy + nudity + low oversight increases risk. That logic does not apply to mixed public areas like streets or gym reception.
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SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 11:05

JHound · 16/02/2026 10:41

If only GB News felt it newsworthy - why are you singling out the BBC when it seems most news outlets felt it not worth reporting on.

Because they are the national broadcaster that used to investigate things, but don't any more.

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callmeLoretta1 · 16/02/2026 11:04

Verytall · 16/02/2026 10:57

Do you have any evidence for these statistics (that aren't cartoons?)

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callmeLoretta1 · 16/02/2026 11:03

Verytall · 16/02/2026 10:57

Do you have any evidence for these statistics (that aren't cartoons?)

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Verytall · 16/02/2026 10:57

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Do you have any evidence for these statistics (that aren't cartoons?)

Verytall · 16/02/2026 10:46

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 16/02/2026 10:38

Men dressed as women are not discrete.

Not ever.

Because they are plainly men in dresses. They don't have to get their penis out to become a perceived or actual threat. They just have to be there.

Anyone with a penis is a threat to you. Presumably then you don't go to a gym, because you wouldn't be able to walk down the street, through the reception or use the facility once you're there, because there will be penis owners in all of these places?