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Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 11:50

Hi all, wondering if anyone can give me some perspective…

We sold our house a few months ago and the buyers were fine up until last week. Out of the blue, they suddenly asked for £11k off a £300k purchase. They also apparently told our estate agent that, because we’re moving to a much bigger house, we can afford to give them a discount. We have no idea how they even got our new address, the estate agent says they definitely didn’t give it out.

The mortgage valuation guy said there were no down valuations at the end of the visit, and all the surveys came back fine, so nothing has come up to justify this. Our buyers said it was due to local area but the surveyor and bank surveyor both said it’s been extremely strong.

We obviously said no. We also offered to talk to the rest of the chain to see if the £11k could somehow be sorted that way, but they didn’t respond. Then they said they were disappointed we didn’t renegotiate, even though we had already negotiated properly at the time.

Honestly, we’re just a bit confused by the whole thing. Has anyone else had buyers suddenly try this months after the sale?

is this a classic attempt to try and give us a headache?

its strange as know they’ve paid all the legal fees, surveyor fees. Surely very risky as we could tell them to do one, and they could lose all the fees if we didn’t want to sell to them now.

allot younger then us as we both in our early 40s and our buyers early 30s don’t know if it’s a social media trend etc.

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Tuesdayschild50 · 16/02/2026 21:05

Chancers.... tell them a straight no.

ThisYearIsMyYear · 16/02/2026 20:58

Allisnotlost1 · 16/02/2026 20:45

So what if they had near zero mortgage? Whether it’s their equity or the banks it’s still not the buyers. I’ve never noticed that section on a form but even if I had it wouldn’t persuade me to behave like that. The price is agreed, haggling at the 11th hour is a joke. And it looks like it was in this case because the buyers are proceeding anyway.

I don't think the seller's mortgage statement being disclosed to the seller can possibly be correct. I suspect it happened by mistake if it did happen to a pp. Only the solicitor responsible for settling the outstanding balance needs to know. Anything else smacks of data protection fuck up to me. And yes, completely irrelevant to the morality of gazundering.

Allisnotlost1 · 16/02/2026 20:45

JoshLymanSwagger · 15/02/2026 16:57

@Roseyliv78 They will know as part of the conveyancing.

I remember when we bought our house how much the nearly zero balance mortage on it was and the sellers were haggling over some shitty light fittings and dusty curtains we told them to stuff it, so they took everything with them.
Not sure what it was called, but it was around exchange that the buyer finds out how much is outstanding on the sellers mortgage.

So what if they had near zero mortgage? Whether it’s their equity or the banks it’s still not the buyers. I’ve never noticed that section on a form but even if I had it wouldn’t persuade me to behave like that. The price is agreed, haggling at the 11th hour is a joke. And it looks like it was in this case because the buyers are proceeding anyway.

changeme4this · 16/02/2026 20:45

^ told the agent

changeme4this · 16/02/2026 20:44

I wonder if they have introduced themselves to neighbours and it’s them who have disclosed your moving plans?

not UK, but we had purchasers complain at the last minute we had taken down a very large cherry tree which dominated the garden. There had been storm damage so we thought we would just deal to it.

The purchasers (who actually only lived down the road) would have seen this but it was a ploy to try and get a reduction in price. We the agent it didn’t matter to us if they wanted to back out of the sale. It went through.

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Roseyliv78 · 16/02/2026 15:29

Update our solicitors said they are going ahead. we asked them if they wanted to withdraw and they ignored that part and asked for an update and said they intend to stay.

They have been well advised....arseholes.
Because when my friends arsehole buyer instructed his solicitor to formally withdraw he made a big mistake.
He was liable for all his costs.

My friend duly instructed her EA to contact the underbidder, who was just thrilled.
They were free to move fast and did.
The arsehole was caught for his costs, begged my friend to pay full price, had a tantrum, made a show of himself, majorly upset his wife, all to be the big man.
He lost such a great house too.

Wishing you the best.
Continue to proceed with extreme caution though.

Poodledoodley · 16/02/2026 20:30

I’ve had this twice. Just pull out and they’ll soon come running back.

Patricia69 · 16/02/2026 20:30

Tell them to fuck off and sell it to someone else. They are chances.
when we were selling my daughters house a guy said to me about discount for cash and kept pushing it . We said no , don’t care if it’s cash or mortgage we get the sale price either way. Turns out it was a mortgage, he thought getting a mortgage gave him cash money in his pocket.
we met serious amount of idiots while trying to sell houses

ErinBell01 · 16/02/2026 20:30

LlynTegid · 15/02/2026 11:54

You did the right thing in saying no. Hope it can all go through eventually.

I have long argued that the law for the sale and purchase of houses in England and Wales should be changed. Same process as in Scotland would be an improvement and relatively easy to implement.

It's not fool proof here though, my buyers delayed and delayed completion and then it was due just before Christmas and they said they couldn't get contractors in over the holiday period so they'd complete after Christmas - and then Scottish Govt increased Additional Dwelling Supplement by 2% to 8% and I expected a new negotiation. But they just pulled out, and I put it up for rent again. Worked out ok as price has gone up considerably since then and I've got good tenants.

DaringlyDizzy · 16/02/2026 20:27

NoWordForFluffy · 16/02/2026 19:01

Every single agent does that? Interesting.

Nope - I am NW Kent and both my purchase and my sale went straight to sold signposts!

pouletvous · 16/02/2026 20:18

£11k is huge!

tell them no. Say you’re stretching yourself hugely and can no longer afford the mortgage and stamp duty so will have to re-list

ThisYearIsMyYear · 16/02/2026 20:14

Good for you for keeping your cool, OP, and I hope you get every penny. My ex and I had a buyer gazunder by £23K on a £500K house. The buyer even had the fucking nerve to post a thread on here asking whether they wbu to do it, on the basis that at our age we were "probably mortgage-free and could afford it". We weren't - not by a long chalk - and we were selling because we were splitting up. By the time we'd paid off the mortgage and apportioned the remainder between us, that £23K was over 20% of what I had to put down on my onward purchase, so I'm still not mortgage-free and probably never will be. I know the English system makes such shenanigans quite legal, but when people pull this kind of stunt at the last minute just because they can, it's hard not to hope there's a special place in hell for them.

CautiousLurker2 · 16/02/2026 20:09

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Yes - and obviously we shopped around but since Grenfeld and the issues over cladding/fire safety and the leaseholder/landlords increased obligations, it is a more complicated process.

LeftieRightsHoarder · 16/02/2026 20:07

What a dirty trick they're trying, OP. Sounds as if you're doing the right thing, giving the buyers a deadline, staying calm and being prepared to put the house back on the market if the buyers don't meet your deadline. People like that are disgusting.

Best of luck, and stay cool if you can xx

Hhhwgroadk · 16/02/2026 20:00

If Exchange has happened then that is the price and the date of Completion has to be fixed or you will be looking for compensation, about £10,000 would be fair as they have messed you about. If not you could say unless they Exchange and Complete on certain dates you are going to pull the house off the market and the next price will be £20,000 more! Might concentrate their minds.

CalmTheFuckDownMargaret · 16/02/2026 19:51

I’d have asked them what they were smoking. A refund after exchange of contracts or a sale completes? Er, no.

exaltedwombat · 16/02/2026 19:48

It’s called a ‘reverse gazump’. The commitment occurs when you exchange contracts. Up to then, either side can pull out or attempt to renegotiate price. Maybe it shouldn’t be legal, but it is.

Ultimately, your choice is to suck it up, or walk away. Sorry.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 16/02/2026 19:47

Roseyliv78 · 16/02/2026 19:15

This is why ladies and gentleman guzunders exist.

Someone tried to get £10k knocked off ours. I told the estate agent to use whichever swear words they thought appropriate to tell them that the sale was off. I wasn’t prepared to deal with them anymore regardless of whether they decided to backtrack - they had no integrity.

We then resold within 2 weeks to a couple offer £10k more than the original offer.
I can’t believe how disgusting people are.

Biker47 · 16/02/2026 19:43

Arseholes, frozen prawns under the floorboards on moving out day for me, plus take everything related to the house i.e. instruction manuals for appliances/heating etc. fuck it, take all the lightbulbs too.

everypageisempty · 16/02/2026 19:38

Roseyliv78 · 16/02/2026 19:15

This is why ladies and gentleman guzunders exist.

100%

Dobbyismyabsolutefav · 16/02/2026 19:38

Very cheeky of your buyers.

We are selling my ILS house and buyer has had a very good discount already. All is moving forward and now they want another £30k discount. They've been told to bugger off. If they come back again we will put the house back on the market as we're not in any rush to sell. People are chancers.

NoWordForFluffy · 16/02/2026 19:20

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Not 'every single' agent.

Your agents have a very convoluted method, hence it being interesting. I imagine it keeps somebody in a job though! (When is the swap from under offer to SSTC?)

Roseyliv78 · 16/02/2026 19:15

KeepPumping · 16/02/2026 19:08

Good point, not sure if it is worth losing a buyer on a 300k house though over 11k, what happens if future offers are even lower?

This is why ladies and gentleman guzunders exist.

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Thameslock · 16/02/2026 19:09

We had this last October, just prior to exchange of contracts and payment of a 10% deposit. Told the agent to reply exchange within 14 days or we relist. They exchanged and apologised for the delay, cheeky feckers!

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