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Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 11:50

Hi all, wondering if anyone can give me some perspective…

We sold our house a few months ago and the buyers were fine up until last week. Out of the blue, they suddenly asked for £11k off a £300k purchase. They also apparently told our estate agent that, because we’re moving to a much bigger house, we can afford to give them a discount. We have no idea how they even got our new address, the estate agent says they definitely didn’t give it out.

The mortgage valuation guy said there were no down valuations at the end of the visit, and all the surveys came back fine, so nothing has come up to justify this. Our buyers said it was due to local area but the surveyor and bank surveyor both said it’s been extremely strong.

We obviously said no. We also offered to talk to the rest of the chain to see if the £11k could somehow be sorted that way, but they didn’t respond. Then they said they were disappointed we didn’t renegotiate, even though we had already negotiated properly at the time.

Honestly, we’re just a bit confused by the whole thing. Has anyone else had buyers suddenly try this months after the sale?

is this a classic attempt to try and give us a headache?

its strange as know they’ve paid all the legal fees, surveyor fees. Surely very risky as we could tell them to do one, and they could lose all the fees if we didn’t want to sell to them now.

allot younger then us as we both in our early 40s and our buyers early 30s don’t know if it’s a social media trend etc.

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Hhhwgroadk · 17/03/2026 20:35

Second word ?off. Next purchaser please!

BoogieTownTop · 17/03/2026 20:16

daleylama · 17/03/2026 18:24

Babies playing 'dare'. I wouldn't sell to them on principle now.

You and me both!!!

PurpleH · 17/03/2026 20:06

once you have mortgage offers in place etc it’s incredibly hard to just “knock 11k off” the price. It doesn’t work like that. Banks are basing mortgages on exact figures. Just tell them that.
you could be getting a much bigger mortgage for your new house, which you could tell them but I’d be inclined not to. It’s none of their business

Allseeingallknowing · 17/03/2026 19:13

arggggg · 17/03/2026 18:58

This happened to my parents. At the very last minute they wanted a discounted price. They knew they had a hold over my parents as we were moving house and any delay could result in losing the new property so they gambled that we would take the money off. Essentially it is a horrible tactic to reduce the price when you are vulnerable. Totally unacceptable behaviour really.

Should be illegal to do this!

arggggg · 17/03/2026 18:58

This happened to my parents. At the very last minute they wanted a discounted price. They knew they had a hold over my parents as we were moving house and any delay could result in losing the new property so they gambled that we would take the money off. Essentially it is a horrible tactic to reduce the price when you are vulnerable. Totally unacceptable behaviour really.

Womaninhouse17 · 17/03/2026 18:55

It's a common ploy. They think you won't want to jeopardize the sale at this point. Just call their bluff and say no. They won't want to start all over again and they're just being cheeky.

LilWoosmum82 · 17/03/2026 18:46

Ive heard this is a tactic some of the younger generation of buyers use (i'm in my 40s). They see it as a reasonable part of the negotiation. I absolutely would not agree to this and if contracts are signed, just say you can sue them for breach of contract

Wyki · 17/03/2026 18:26

I had that…..they tried offering £10k less a week before moving date (a day before exchange)

we told them if they wanted to pull out that was fine as someone else had offered an additional £20k and we didn’t accept because we were doing the right thing

they decided to go ahead with the purchase at the price we accepted

daleylama · 17/03/2026 18:24

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 12:26

We given them a week and half and they’ve played the quiet game, they did the same when they initially negotiated on the house.

Babies playing 'dare'. I wouldn't sell to them on principle now.

NSA2103 · 17/03/2026 18:12

InOverMyHead84 · 15/02/2026 11:52

Tell them to sod off.

To do this now, once everyone has worked on the basis of the agreed sale prices. Disgusting behaviour.

This.

Cluelessfirstimer · 17/03/2026 17:41

We had this. Just before exchange they suddenly asked for a £10k reduction on the price. No real reason. Just that they felt the property was worth less than the offer they made only a few months ago.

I told them to fuck off. Well i told the EA to tell them those exact words.

Went ahead and exchanged 2 weeks later.

Bristolandlazy · 17/03/2026 17:28

Why did you ask the rest of the chain, that's crazy, it's not their problem.

Kizmet1 · 17/03/2026 16:19

I think the principle behind this horrid practice is that you're both locked in because you don't want to lose the sale and your onward purchase, so it is worth a try because you might just say yes to keep things moving.

I think you've done exactly the right thing and the more people who flat out refuse, the quicker this will die down.

A friend of mine has just tried it and been told no as well. The thing is, she was very happy with her purchase, has been crowing about it for weeks and good for her, but now because she tried to get more of a bargain and couldn't, she says she feels like she's being ripped off?! It's a daft practice that seems to cause everyone involved a degree of pain!

JustMerelyHere · 17/03/2026 16:01

Roseyliv78 · 16/02/2026 19:15

This is why ladies and gentleman guzunders exist.

What was the outcome OP? I'd have done what you did.

JustMerelyHere · 17/03/2026 16:00

Roseyliv78 · 16/02/2026 19:15

This is why ladies and gentleman guzunders exist.

What was the outcome OP? I'd have done what you did.

JustMerelyHere · 17/03/2026 16:00

Roseyliv78 · 16/02/2026 19:15

This is why ladies and gentleman guzunders exist.

What was the outcome O)? I'd have done what you did.

Mistybluebay · 17/03/2026 15:14

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 17/03/2026 14:40

England needs to move to a system more like the Scottish system though

I've done a little research & apparently in Scotland only very few transactions don't complete within a decent timescale with legals taking on average 8- 10 weeks unless there are serious issues. I don't know exactly why, something to do with transparency of information.Every buyer must receive a home report & the fall through rate is 2%. I believe its 35% in England 😳

To be fair although I have now read a little about the different processes I still dont know enough about the actual differences. Comparatively though they must be doing something right in Scotland.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 17/03/2026 14:40

England needs to move to a system more like the Scottish system though

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 17/03/2026 14:39

Bunfighter · 17/02/2026 19:18

I'd expect the estate agent to push back hard on them and make it clear that their names will be mud with them in the future should they want to buy again. You have to be able to trust people not be dickheads in property transactions, this is where agents earn their commission.

This! The EAs are meant to work for you!

KeepPumping · 17/03/2026 14:20

The term "sold" applies to a completed deal really? This house is "under offer".

Mistybluebay · 17/03/2026 09:58

I popped back to this thread to see if the sale completed.

Whether it did or not this is simply an example of why the property buying & selling process in the UK, especially in England, is an absolute farce. The amount of house sales falling through for all sorts of avoidable reasons including gazumping is diabolical. Surely in this day & age they could find a better & fairer system.

Sortis · 26/02/2026 21:58

How did things work out OP?

KeepPumping · 17/02/2026 22:29

Bunfighter · 17/02/2026 19:18

I'd expect the estate agent to push back hard on them and make it clear that their names will be mud with them in the future should they want to buy again. You have to be able to trust people not be dickheads in property transactions, this is where agents earn their commission.

I doubt many EA"s are that bothered TBH, loads of them are going bust I heard, they just want the money.

KeepPumping · 17/02/2026 22:27

IncessantNameChanger · 16/02/2026 21:10

Yes but if you went in at the lowest end of three valuations and took the first offer which was below that asking price, another say 10k off a 280k house is a piss take. It's already priced to sell and did so on the first day of viewings. Selling below any other completed sale values at the last minute would really p me off. Like people putting in offers saying they are cash buyers but then get mortgages refused. Some real chancers out there

Fair points.

Sortis · 17/02/2026 21:15

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