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Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 11:50

Hi all, wondering if anyone can give me some perspective…

We sold our house a few months ago and the buyers were fine up until last week. Out of the blue, they suddenly asked for £11k off a £300k purchase. They also apparently told our estate agent that, because we’re moving to a much bigger house, we can afford to give them a discount. We have no idea how they even got our new address, the estate agent says they definitely didn’t give it out.

The mortgage valuation guy said there were no down valuations at the end of the visit, and all the surveys came back fine, so nothing has come up to justify this. Our buyers said it was due to local area but the surveyor and bank surveyor both said it’s been extremely strong.

We obviously said no. We also offered to talk to the rest of the chain to see if the £11k could somehow be sorted that way, but they didn’t respond. Then they said they were disappointed we didn’t renegotiate, even though we had already negotiated properly at the time.

Honestly, we’re just a bit confused by the whole thing. Has anyone else had buyers suddenly try this months after the sale?

is this a classic attempt to try and give us a headache?

its strange as know they’ve paid all the legal fees, surveyor fees. Surely very risky as we could tell them to do one, and they could lose all the fees if we didn’t want to sell to them now.

allot younger then us as we both in our early 40s and our buyers early 30s don’t know if it’s a social media trend etc.

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CharlotteUnaNatalieThompson · 15/02/2026 12:24

I'd not only say absolutely no but give them a hard deadline to exchange or you'll put the house back on the market and not sell to them for any price. Especially as from one of your subsequent comments your you don't sound as though you'd be devastated if the chain did collapse and you had to find somewhere else.

If everything is ready to go apart from them pissing about I'd give them until 5pm Monday. If there are other things outstanding I'd give the tightest deadline possible.

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 12:24

Frenchfrychic · 15/02/2026 12:22

Ok so you have not sold the house? It is sold once completed. And you can also claim it after exchange, are you pre exchange ?

Not sold. We’ve accepted an offer

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Frenchfrychic · 15/02/2026 12:23

BoxingHare · 15/02/2026 12:22

So you haven't sold your house months ago, you're still in the process of selling it.

I think so. I think it’s confusing a lot of the answers, I think the op is offer accepted but she’s not sold it yet. And they are trying ti negotiate the price prior to exchange,

Viviennemary · 15/02/2026 12:23

They've probably realised they might have overpaid for the house and are trying to get it reduced. Up to you what you do.

CostOfLoving · 15/02/2026 12:23

Getamoveon2024 · 15/02/2026 11:59

We had a CF do this, the day before exchange. No reason, he just thought he could chance his arm. Not only did we refuse, but we told him the house was no longer for sale to him, at any price. He then tried to complain to our solicitor! Twat.
Someone else bought it at full asking a couple of weeks later.

This is incredibly satisfying!

Thank you for your services to Reducing Cheeky Fuckery!

Frenchfrychic · 15/02/2026 12:22

Ok so you have not sold the house? It is sold once completed. And you can also claim it after exchange, are you pre exchange ?

BoxingHare · 15/02/2026 12:22

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 11:58

Bottom of the chain. FTB

So you haven't sold your house months ago, you're still in the process of selling it.

DecisionTime123 · 15/02/2026 12:22

I'm not sure I understand the "talking to the chain" thing, so rather than say this is outrageous you actually offered to "talk to the chain"? And you wanted them to actually reply "yes please do that and get us our discount".

They probably haven't replied because they assume you are talking to the chain and will come back to them with what they want.

Rhaidimiddim · 15/02/2026 12:20

LlynTegid · 15/02/2026 11:54

You did the right thing in saying no. Hope it can all go through eventually.

I have long argued that the law for the sale and purchase of houses in England and Wales should be changed. Same process as in Scotland would be an improvement and relatively easy to implement.

The sealed-bid buying process in Scotland could do with improving, but I like the fact that you're in a binding contract from early on in the process, so this sort of gazundering can't happen.

I also like the fact that ( last time I looked into it, anyway) the sellers arrange a survey that is acceptable to all buyers and their lenders, unlike English law, where each potential buyer has to arrange a new one. That nice Mr Blair was going to fix this when he came to power, but he ended up banning beef on the bone instead.

SlenderRations · 15/02/2026 12:18

very confusing OP, suggesting that you don’t know what “selling” actually means

Mapletreelane · 15/02/2026 12:14

Say no - that you cannot afford to buy your next house in that case as you are at the top of your budget.

If they do pull out then the rest of the chain may wait a few weeks as well if youve got a sensible.estate agent who can speak with them...you've already sold your house so they know it is sellable, you've gone through much of the conveyancing process and will be in a position to move very quickly once your house is resold.

Nanny0gg · 15/02/2026 12:14

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 11:50

Hi all, wondering if anyone can give me some perspective…

We sold our house a few months ago and the buyers were fine up until last week. Out of the blue, they suddenly asked for £11k off a £300k purchase. They also apparently told our estate agent that, because we’re moving to a much bigger house, we can afford to give them a discount. We have no idea how they even got our new address, the estate agent says they definitely didn’t give it out.

The mortgage valuation guy said there were no down valuations at the end of the visit, and all the surveys came back fine, so nothing has come up to justify this. Our buyers said it was due to local area but the surveyor and bank surveyor both said it’s been extremely strong.

We obviously said no. We also offered to talk to the rest of the chain to see if the £11k could somehow be sorted that way, but they didn’t respond. Then they said they were disappointed we didn’t renegotiate, even though we had already negotiated properly at the time.

Honestly, we’re just a bit confused by the whole thing. Has anyone else had buyers suddenly try this months after the sale?

is this a classic attempt to try and give us a headache?

its strange as know they’ve paid all the legal fees, surveyor fees. Surely very risky as we could tell them to do one, and they could lose all the fees if we didn’t want to sell to them now.

allot younger then us as we both in our early 40s and our buyers early 30s don’t know if it’s a social media trend etc.

It's called 'gazundering' and it's as old as time in a buyers' market

Tell them to get lost or they'll do it again just before exchange

Rhaidimiddim · 15/02/2026 12:13

It is a negotiating tactic I've heard of in the past. Not common, but a few friends, and friends of friends.

The idea is that everyone in chain has done their bit, paid solicitors' fees and for surveys, have their mortgages agreed. All the paperwork, ready to go.

So you ask for a discount at the last minute, after everything is done and it should all be plain sailing. In the hope that the people you're buying from will agree, in order that the chain doesn't collapse and they have to start again.

CF-ery of the worst sort. In your position, I would either swallow the hit, but with cast-iron deadline commitments from the buyers. Or issue a polite "no thanks" and instruct the estate agent to put the house back on the market forthwith.

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 12:13

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 12:09

That’s exactly what we said.

I think they’ll probably go ahead with the purchase and have just been given some poor advice from family or friends.

It’s odd that they don’t want us to talk to the rest of the chain when we offered to. Our estate agent even said that it could easily cause the chain to collapse if we did, which makes it all feel a bit tactical.

Edited

So we think they still want the house. Just trying last attempt to get some money off

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Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 12:09

MidnightPatrol · 15/02/2026 12:06

Ok so the house isn’t actually sold yet. That makes more sense.

Just say no, you are unable to move on the agreed price.

That’s exactly what we said.

I think they’ll probably go ahead with the purchase and have just been given some poor advice from family or friends.

It’s odd that they don’t want us to talk to the rest of the chain when we offered to. Our estate agent even said that it could easily cause the chain to collapse if we did, which makes it all feel a bit tactical.

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BananaPeels · 15/02/2026 12:08

We had this happen to us as well. We managed to negotiate the same amount off the one we were buying so worked ok for us but was immensely stressful and immoral but selling houses splits people who are fair and reasonable and those who, well, aren’t.

MidnightPatrol · 15/02/2026 12:06

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 12:02

offered to speak to the rest of the chain, but the buyers never replied. It feels like a simple tactic — they’ve been quiet for over a week and a half, probably hoping we’ll cave. We’ve told our estate agent that the price is the price. We know they’ve already paid legal fees and surveyor costs, and we’ve paused any activity with our solicitor.

Because they don’t want us to go to the rest of the chain, it really seems like an attempt to push the price down.

Ok so the house isn’t actually sold yet. That makes more sense.

Just say no, you are unable to move on the agreed price.

PashaMinaMio · 15/02/2026 12:06

Yes, it’s just happened in my family.

I was selling a house for an elderly person who needed funds for care home. The need was urgent.

Surveys all good, house just needed a lick of paint, new carpets etc. Otherwise clean & empty.

Almost on the day of exchange given a drop in
price of ÂŁ20k had already been agreed (in a very slow rural market) they wanted another ÂŁ10K off.

I negotiated it up by £5K but overall they got £25k knocked off the asking price. We had to sell because relative’s funds were depleting.

The Estate Agent remarked he’d never in all his years in business had to desk with such awful morally dishonest buyers.

Years ago something similar happened to someone else in my family on the day before exchange. The stress was horrendous because he too was elderly and was downsizing to a rental. He had to agree but it was an awful thing to happen and was very stressful to a mild mannered old widower.

stichguru · 15/02/2026 12:05

Honestly they have decided they don't want the house because they've found something they like more/are interested in a different area/don't want to move and they are being cheeky sods about it.

Buyer did it to me with my parents' house. Got almost to exchange and they pulled out because of their being no planning permission for the extension. It took me a 5 minute phone call to the planning office to find the planning permission! They could have done it if they'd wanted... I'm now back to square one with selling the place...

BeingATwatItsABingThing · 15/02/2026 12:04

My friends had similar. They were told “there had been a mistake” and their buyer could only afford £25k less than the agreed price. They were also the beginning of the chain… They did persuade the whole chain to accept £25k less somehow. I’d have said no.

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 12:03

Motnight · 15/02/2026 11:58

We had similar and did similar. You have to mean it though. Our sale went through.

Told our estate agents “not a penny off” that’s our instruction, if we lose onward purchase so what we will find another and set an example from the attempted guzunders

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Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 12:02

MidnightPatrol · 15/02/2026 11:58

Why on earth did you communicate this to the rest of the chain, how, and what exactly did you say to them?!

Obviously post-sale they can’t renegotiate the price.

offered to speak to the rest of the chain, but the buyers never replied. It feels like a simple tactic — they’ve been quiet for over a week and a half, probably hoping we’ll cave. We’ve told our estate agent that the price is the price. We know they’ve already paid legal fees and surveyor costs, and we’ve paused any activity with our solicitor.

Because they don’t want us to go to the rest of the chain, it really seems like an attempt to push the price down.

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Getamoveon2024 · 15/02/2026 11:59

We had a CF do this, the day before exchange. No reason, he just thought he could chance his arm. Not only did we refuse, but we told him the house was no longer for sale to him, at any price. He then tried to complain to our solicitor! Twat.
Someone else bought it at full asking a couple of weeks later.

Didimum · 15/02/2026 11:59

First of all, it’s not months after the sale. The sale hasn’t happened yet. It’s months after the accepted offer. Not that I think you’re being unreasonable, but just to point out it’s prudent to remember that nothing is final til it’s final with property buying/selling.

Without reason to devalue your property, they are clearly just trying it on and also clearly need the money because they have overspent. It’s not your issue. Decline and keep firm.

Motnight · 15/02/2026 11:58

TimeForTeaAndG · 15/02/2026 11:53

What's the rest of the chain got to do with it? Are you near completion? Tell them absolutely not, complete on X date or you're putting it back on the market. Cheeky fuckers.

We had similar and did similar. You have to mean it though. Our sale went through.

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