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Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 11:50

Hi all, wondering if anyone can give me some perspective…

We sold our house a few months ago and the buyers were fine up until last week. Out of the blue, they suddenly asked for £11k off a £300k purchase. They also apparently told our estate agent that, because we’re moving to a much bigger house, we can afford to give them a discount. We have no idea how they even got our new address, the estate agent says they definitely didn’t give it out.

The mortgage valuation guy said there were no down valuations at the end of the visit, and all the surveys came back fine, so nothing has come up to justify this. Our buyers said it was due to local area but the surveyor and bank surveyor both said it’s been extremely strong.

We obviously said no. We also offered to talk to the rest of the chain to see if the £11k could somehow be sorted that way, but they didn’t respond. Then they said they were disappointed we didn’t renegotiate, even though we had already negotiated properly at the time.

Honestly, we’re just a bit confused by the whole thing. Has anyone else had buyers suddenly try this months after the sale?

is this a classic attempt to try and give us a headache?

its strange as know they’ve paid all the legal fees, surveyor fees. Surely very risky as we could tell them to do one, and they could lose all the fees if we didn’t want to sell to them now.

allot younger then us as we both in our early 40s and our buyers early 30s don’t know if it’s a social media trend etc.

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Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 13:39

Jugglingeggs · 15/02/2026 13:37

FTB - sorry your going through this , from past experience I’ve found them to be the worst at trying it on , no means no !

I don’t think they can afford to back out.

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Jugglingeggs · 15/02/2026 13:37

FTB - sorry your going through this , from past experience I’ve found them to be the worst at trying it on , no means no !

samarrange · 15/02/2026 13:36

To anyone who has bought property outside of England & Wales, the whole system appears to have been specifically designed to enable abuse of this type.

In France, you generally put down 10% of the purchase price when you put in an offer. (Sometimes this is a cheque that isn't immediately cashed, but it's made very clear that if either party backs out or attempts to vary the deal unilaterally, that 10% is at risk.) In effect you sort-of "exchange" at that point. There is no gazumping or gazundering.

When DD bought her house she put in an offer when there was almost no chain. Then a chain developed (because someone changed their mind) and it took 8 months to sort out. This was just post-Covid when prices were rising weekly. Her sellers didn't change the asking price, but she was worried every week that they might do. In the end she probably saved £30,000.

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 13:34

Our equity is close on 273k, the buyers don’t know this or will never know this.

only here because we overpaid mortgage and had lots of extensions on house done etc.

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Eskarina1 · 15/02/2026 13:31

CombatBarbie · 15/02/2026 11:56

Seems to be becoming a thing these days, chancers wanting money off right at the end of completion amd people bowing down to stop a chain folding..... just stand firm and see if they pull out. I doubt they will.

This happened to my dad. They randomly requested £5k off a week before exchange. Unfortunately my dad was coming up to 65 and as he still needed a small mortgage he had to accept.

ParsleyTheHorse · 15/02/2026 13:30

Oh God yes, I've experienced and had friends experience all kinds of tomfoolery like this.

My friend had an offer on her flat which she accepted. The legal process started and then her buyers said that they had become aware of the profit she was making between buying it years earlier and selling it and thought she should share her good fortune with them, so were reducing their offer by £30,000.

Another friend was second in a chain and her buyer at the bottom of the chain, just didn't complete on completion day. So everyone was packed up in their respective removal vans, waiting for the money to go through, and it didn't. Nobody moved that day, because the buyer at the bottom of the chain allegedly realised on completion day that they were £10k short and rather than saying something, just disappeared. When this person was tracked down, the other people in the chain clubbed together to pay the £10k that was short, and a covenant was put on my friend's old house so that if the dickhead ever remortgaged or sold it, he had to repay the £10k, which he eventually did. Everyone moved about a week after they were meant to. No, I don't know how or why the dickhead's solicitor hadn't ensured adequate funds were available.

Don't underestimate cheeky fuckery when it comes to buying and selling houses and be prepared to stand your ground.

allthingsinmoderation · 15/02/2026 13:30

Are you saying your buyers after agreeing a price for your house house want a reduction in price of 11k before completing?
Because thats not "sold".
I would instruct your solicitor to advise your buyers that you will not be agreeing to a price reduction and to ask if they are still in a position to proceed at the price previously agreed or not. If not, you will re market the house.
This happened to me and my solicitor just asked their solicitor if they were in a position to proceed at the agreed price or not and we would remarket if not.
It saves time to be firm and concise.
I can appreciate this decision is determined by market conditions.

TheHouseElf · 15/02/2026 13:29

Lot of it about. Had this selling my late Aunt's house this time last year. Buyers asked for £20k off their offer price accepted months before (when we had other parties interested at the time). We swallowed it, because we wanted to just get the deal done.

If it had been my own house, then no way would I have tolerated it. I'd instruct the EA to give them 48 hours to confirm whether they want to move forward with the purchase, if not to remarket it. Sick of this kind of behaviour from people quiet frankly. Make a deal, and unless there is substantial reasons (ie survey issues come up) then be a person of your word.

EveryKneeShallBow · 15/02/2026 13:29

Getamoveon2024 · 15/02/2026 11:59

We had a CF do this, the day before exchange. No reason, he just thought he could chance his arm. Not only did we refuse, but we told him the house was no longer for sale to him, at any price. He then tried to complain to our solicitor! Twat.
Someone else bought it at full asking a couple of weeks later.

We also did this! It was very satisfying.

Roseyliv78 · 15/02/2026 13:28

My husband said he believes they will go ahead “this is just part of the game”

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Duvetdayneeded · 15/02/2026 13:28

Tell them to get lost!

HildaBWilderbeast · 15/02/2026 13:26

Good for you holding your ground! Come back and tell us what happens @Roseyliv78 !

Woodfiresareamazing · 15/02/2026 13:25

In 2010 I was selling a big house in a prime location, due to divorce. I had spent money preparing it so it looked good, no issues. A couple fell in love with it, offered a little under the price, agreed because they could proceed quickly and I told them 'no further reductions '.
They asked if various tradespeople could come round to measure up/quote for work they wanted done. I told the EA yes, no problem, but remind them no further reductions.
Then I get a letter from the buyers, ie bypassing the EA and solicitor I am paying to deal with the sale. "Due to xyz we want a reduction of £25,000".
I got straight on to the EA, told them to re list it ASAP...
Cue much consternation on EA's part (turns out they were also selling my buyers house, so they stood to lose two lots of commission).
End result they bought my house at the price we'd agreed...

The system is really shit, we need to adopt the US/NZ/Aus system - once an offer has been accepted it is legally binding on both parties.
Cynically, I think solicitors don't want to change it because they make money on sales that fall through...

Good luck, don't drop your price!

Mumstheword1983 · 15/02/2026 13:21

Uptightmumma · 15/02/2026 13:17

i am a mortgage broker have been for 10 years and my guess is either - they were promised a gift of a deposit and now can’t get it or they have done something stupid like get a loan/car on finance and now the don’t meet the affordability criteria of the mortgage company

This is what I was thinking.

Motheranddaughter · 15/02/2026 13:20

It’s not the sealed bid process in Scotland that binds the parties, it’s the conclusion of the missives

notapizzaeater · 15/02/2026 13:20

I’d be asking the estate agent to remarket it, that might help ‘focus’ them

rwalker · 15/02/2026 13:19

FTB house prices are dropping they’re probably panicking they’ve over paid

VioletandMauve · 15/02/2026 13:19

This is really very wrong of them!

However, if you suggested going to the chain (which I know you haven’t yet) to see if the £11K could be sorted that way then aren’t you doing the same to the rest of the chain? Whether it’s finding the £11k that way or simply getting £1k off from the rest of the chain, isn’t that the same?

Motheranddaughter · 15/02/2026 13:19

Milmington · 15/02/2026 13:11

The Scottish system wouldn't prevent a buyer doing this exact same thing though, would it?

You are correct,it would be exactly the same.either party can withdraw up until the conclusion of missives without any liability
Missives used to be concluded very quickly,that’s very unusual now
Having said that gazundering is still pretty much unheard of ,and solicitors have to withdraw from acting is asked to submit a lower bid

Needtosoundoffandbreathe · 15/02/2026 13:19

Uptightmumma · 15/02/2026 13:17

i am a mortgage broker have been for 10 years and my guess is either - they were promised a gift of a deposit and now can’t get it or they have done something stupid like get a loan/car on finance and now the don’t meet the affordability criteria of the mortgage company

I think you're being too kind to the buyers suggesting there's anything other than a desire to feel they've bagged a buyer.

Milmington · 15/02/2026 13:18

NeedMoreTinfoil · 15/02/2026 13:13

Just for information, the sealed bid process which legally binds the buyer is not always used in Scotland. Sales can be done in the same way as in England with contracts not binding until exchange, and with exchange/completion on same day. Family were selling house in Scotland, with the whole chain in Scotland. They did not have a sealed bid process, simply accepted an offer from someone they knew. The person at bottom of chain collapsed it on the day everyone was supposed to exchange/complete/move because it turned out they didn't actually have a mortgage in place. All the removal vans had to turn round and unload again. The other people in the chain managed to stick together until a new buyer was found and the sale went through several months later. Extremely stressful for all concerned.

The Home Report up front is helpful in that in reduces scope for re-negotiation subsequently - or it should do. Other than that I can't see any real difference between the two systems assuming it's the standard offer/acceptance/exchange.

Economicsday · 15/02/2026 13:18

OP, push back hard if you can.

This happened my friend last year.
The husband was a pompous oaf and know it all.
Came in at the last minute wanting a 10% discount.
When she refused he withdrew his offer, they too were about to close.
He had mistakenly thought he had my friend caught because of her move to a larger house.

She was buying her parents large house so was not stuck at all.
She accepted hiswithdrawal via the solicitor.

He was horrified and tried to back track, but my friend had had enough of them.
He called to the house to try and speak to them and she told him she would call the police.
He couldn't accept that he had FUFO.
His wife wasapparently devastated.

EA went back to the underbidder, they came to a very quick agreement and the house was sold.

It was hugely stressful for them.
Last minute stunt pullers are the absolute lowest of the low.

Shatteredallthetimelately · 15/02/2026 13:17

We had this when we were selling our house a few years ago, we'd put an offer on another house and had it accepted but I still told the estate agents we wouldn't be dropping the price and to remarket the property ASAP, you do have to be serious in doing so though.
Came as a shock to the buyers they ended up offering us an extra 5k if we continued with them.

It also happen to a friend, buyers wanted 20k off and unfortunately friend had to say yes as they would have lost their new house.

So its not a new thing, just a piss take.

Uptightmumma · 15/02/2026 13:17

i am a mortgage broker have been for 10 years and my guess is either - they were promised a gift of a deposit and now can’t get it or they have done something stupid like get a loan/car on finance and now the don’t meet the affordability criteria of the mortgage company

Aluna · 15/02/2026 13:16

Mrsblobby88 · 15/02/2026 13:14

Some people are fucking cheeky cheeky bastards!!!!

If you think that’s bad I sold a house that the buyer dropped the offer by 200k the day before exchange! I declined obviously.

All’s fair in love and conveyancing.

Until you’ve exchanged you don’t have your house or your price.

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