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Dog in children’s playground

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sally037 · 29/01/2026 15:48

We were at Polesden Lacey (National Trust property) in Surrey recently and saw a woman letting her dog use the children’s playground as if it was a dog park. The dog was going down the slides, clambering across the climbing frames, and generally running around on all the equipment. Being a weekday it wasn't particularly busy but it did seem a bit off that the few children that were there had to wait their turn for a dog to finish.

The owner was very much one of those dog mum types and the dog was all dressed up in little outfits. It looked like a labradoodle type thing.

I love dogs, but surely it’s not on to have them all over children’s play equipment? Especially when little ones are going to be touching everything/putting hands in mouths, etc.

I mentioned it when leaving to the staff on the door but they didn't seem particularly fussed. Is this actually allowed now?

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SharpLimeDreamer · 29/01/2026 20:44

If you and the children's parents said nothing, then yes, it's allowed now. We get the shit that we collectively tolerate. In some situations it's dangerous to confront people but in this situation you could have safely challenged her utterly moronic behaviour. I would have. The staff can't be everywhere. You could email the property now suggesting they need a sign saying "No dogs". It's no good venting on Mumsnet. People need to actively push back against dog morons.

vodkaredbullgirl · 29/01/2026 18:22

I have dogs and I wouldn't let them go in a children's play area.

user2848502016 · 29/01/2026 18:18

I have a dog and would not allow him in a children’s playground (even though he would probably enjoy it!)

Feelthebreezeofthehebrides · 29/01/2026 18:02

Definitely no . What about toxocariasis infection caused by roundworm parasites found in dogs faeces . Kids can get infected due to contaminated soil or sand in play areas . No doubt the owner will deny that their dog ever craps in the play area .

sprigatito · 29/01/2026 17:52

Another delusional dog owner. Honestly some of them are barking louder than the dogs these days 🙄

modgepodge · 29/01/2026 17:50

Absolutely unacceptable. My daughter would have made her feelings very clear by loudly screaming and asking me repeatedly why the naughty dogs were in there. All from outside the park refusing to come in as she’d be too scared.

what is wrong with people?!

a local park to me has repeatedly not got a zip line and the council have said every time they replace the seat, it’s damaged again within days. Apparently some people think it’s acceptable to let their dogs chase after it and jump up and bite it as some sort of aggressive training exercise. So the kids lose the zip line.

Endofyear · 29/01/2026 17:47

I thought most children's play areas don't allow dogs, except guide dogs? That was certainly the case when my children were small, but everywhere seems to be 'dog friendly' these days!

asrl78 · 29/01/2026 15:59

Welcome to SE England, there do seem to be quite a few thoughtless dog owners in this area IME, although I will accept that they are the minority.

No consequences -> don't care.

FryingPam · 29/01/2026 15:50

YANBU, I wouldn’t like that at all and would have said something as well.

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