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Location- on the coast, but where?

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WoolTweedArtandBooks · 22/01/2026 21:33

I wasn’t sure where to put this so I thought I’d go for the high traffic area.

DH and I would like to move to the coast, probably in about 10 years. We want to buy outright a small 2-bed (or land to build a tiny home on). We won’t have huge amounts of cash so it will have to be somewhere lower cost. We’ll probably need a medium-large town nearby for work, but in an ideal world we would be a little way out in a peaceful location- or possibly a small house in a town, if the town were right (somewhere like Tobermory for example, not too big, independent and has interest but easy to escape from and get some solitude).

He’d like there to be sea fishing (cod, bass, etc) and I’d like things like art galleries/classes, yoga, nice cafes and pubs. I love the beach and sea swimming. I’d like to become part of the local community, offering classes or working in schools- I hope we would bring something to offer the community rather than moving in and expecting to just slot in with no effort, or to isolate ourselves. We are self sufficient and independent but I also value my friends and would like to meet some like minded people in the new place.

We have become very fond of some of the Scottish islands, but we’re wary of too many people in summer. We suspect that the Welsh coast and south-west corners of England would be out of our price range.

Can Mumsnet suggest any areas we might explore, please?

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Junegirl15 · 23/01/2026 19:36

Another vote for Saltburn on NE coast. There are many lovely places on that coastline.

VictoriaFeckham · 23/01/2026 19:36

@Silverbirchleaf , you can't go to Mumbles and not have an ice cream!

VictoriaFeckham · 23/01/2026 19:35

@IdrisElbow , the 1st one is a holiday chalet. It says 12-month occupancy but it won't be for the same occupant(s).

OswaldCobblepot · 23/01/2026 19:34

We have become very fond of some of the Scottish islands, but we’re wary of too many people in summer.

If you like the islands don't rule them out. You just need to pick your spot carefully. I live on one of the islands and although parts of the island get v busy in summer, where we are is very quiet.

Silverbirchleaf · 23/01/2026 19:34

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As a student in the eighties, we’ve used to go to Mumbles specifically to go to an ice cream parlour. Does it still exist?

IdrisElbow · 23/01/2026 19:32

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VictoriaFeckham · 23/01/2026 19:29

Rhyl. You'd get a house in Rhyl for £170K

RubyMentor · 23/01/2026 19:28

Penclawdd is on the Gower you’d get a house for £300,000 there

IdrisElbow · 23/01/2026 19:27

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VictoriaFeckham · 23/01/2026 19:23

@WoolTweedArtandBooks , Depends on where and what you mean by crazy.

WoolTweedArtandBooks · 23/01/2026 19:16

So many people mentioning Kent and Sussex, is it not crazy expensive down there?

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Imenti · 23/01/2026 19:00

I live in Folkestone and I'd say this meets your needs almost perfectly, lots of smaller villages nearby and fishing, activities and a a lot of arty things going on in and around the town. Come for a weekend, stay at The View 😃

Rituelec · 23/01/2026 18:39

Id definitely pick Scotland over Suffolk now because of erosion :( but I would have said Aldeburgh

Nevergotdivorced · 23/01/2026 18:28

Saltburn, lovely town with low crime rate.
Mainline trains to Newcastle.
Within budget.

Notmytelescope · 23/01/2026 18:21

Second vote for Tarbert on loch Fyne

WoolTweedArtandBooks · 23/01/2026 15:56

These suggestions are very exciting!!

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grannycake · 23/01/2026 08:23

I live on the edge of Gower peninsula in a small but thriving village. My 3 bed fully renovated end of terrace is only worth about 170000 so dont discount Gower 20 mins from my house gets me to both south and north gower beaches and Swansea about a 15 min drive for work

Greenwitchart · 23/01/2026 07:52

I moved to Deal and really love it.

Also you could have a look at Broadstairs and Folkestone

Catza · 23/01/2026 07:43

How close to the coast are we taking? I am currently looking in North Devon and there are plenty of properties under 300k. Some with sea views but not right on the beach (10-15 min drive) and with easy commute to Barnstaple (20-30min). Everywhere coastal is likely to be crowded in Summer but you get your sleepy village feel October to May.

Turnthelightoff · 23/01/2026 07:39

RhubarbCrumbs · 22/01/2026 21:48

The Northumberland coastline is stunning. I’d start there!

I was thinking the same. Also provides the ‘not too far away from towns/cities’ thinking about Alnwick & it’s good train connections and Newcastle. See if you can find the teatime series by Robson Green, he goes around some of the lovely places in Northumberland.