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Would we like a cruise???

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Givenup2026 · 17/01/2026 15:57

I’m currently in bed with a never ending flu/cold while my husband is skiing in Switzerland… Anyway! We’ve been thinking of going on a cruise but we’re unsure for different reasons (my husband thinks it might make him feel a bit claustrophobic) whereas I don’t like tributes bands nor musicals…. So we think we might end up getting bored or with cabin fever.

We also have a 6yo, so it has to be kid friendly.

So given that’s the case, do you think we’d enjoy it? And any you would recommend?
Ty!

I guess the AIBU is pondering going when we’re both hesitating.

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CraftyGin · 21/01/2026 17:01

ItWasnaMeGuv · 21/01/2026 16:31

Why not TUI? We've been on several, including their river cruises. No complaints.

Some passengers have tattoos?

ItWasnaMeGuv · 21/01/2026 16:32

Dabralor · 20/01/2026 22:36

@ItWasnaMeGuv dont worry you’ll never encounter me on a cruise ship. Just out of interest though, do the ships ever make any accommodations for sustainability? Do they tell you what happens to all your sewage or how much energy they consume or whether they keep their engines running in port?

Yes. Sustainability is important nowadays and improvements are being put into practice all the time. Google a cruise line and its latest eco practices.

ItWasnaMeGuv · 21/01/2026 16:31

Leighonseawoman · 21/01/2026 15:31

Oh, please go. You will have the time of your life, and meet so many lovely people. We have been on dozens. One bit of advise don't go on an American line, or TUI

Why not TUI? We've been on several, including their river cruises. No complaints.

Leighonseawoman · 21/01/2026 15:31

Oh, please go. You will have the time of your life, and meet so many lovely people. We have been on dozens. One bit of advise don't go on an American line, or TUI

Dabralor · 20/01/2026 22:36

ItWasnaMeGuv · 19/01/2026 17:03

Grin It would be preferable that you just continue to ban yourself from cruises. We don't want moaning minnies there.

We started cruising when our two were 1 and 2 and they are 31 and 32 now, having done many over the years. P&O had fantastic kids clubs and our two spent many hours enjoying the facilities. It was safe, 24 hour food and lots of different entertainment options. Nowadays the two of us choose smaller adult only ships which tend to visit interesting ports. We've done river cruises too, and they're brilliant, often stopping right in small towns that can be easily walked to.

@ItWasnaMeGuv dont worry you’ll never encounter me on a cruise ship. Just out of interest though, do the ships ever make any accommodations for sustainability? Do they tell you what happens to all your sewage or how much energy they consume or whether they keep their engines running in port?

Sirzy · 19/01/2026 18:02

Yes I love sea day. We also normally have one port day when we either stay on ship or just get off for an hour and it’s lovely on ship those days as everywhere is so quiet so you can sit with your coffee and enjoy your book while doing a bit of people watching.

NewAgeNewMe · 19/01/2026 17:55

Best days.

70isaLimitNotaTarget · 19/01/2026 17:53

NewAgeNewMe · 19/01/2026 17:34

My favourite days are sea days. Leisurely breakfast or lunch. Cocktails. A lecture or two. Quiet corner to read a book & just chill. Or a massage. Bliss.

Ohhh love a Sea Day Grin
And the Formal Nights are on Sea Days .
Having a lazy day , read a book (or MN)

DH saying "I'm going to do a few laps of the ship , I'll get you some coffee before I go "

NewAgeNewMe · 19/01/2026 17:34

My favourite days are sea days. Leisurely breakfast or lunch. Cocktails. A lecture or two. Quiet corner to read a book & just chill. Or a massage. Bliss.

Jellybean23 · 19/01/2026 17:32

Be prepared for whole days at sea. Typically on a one week cruise, 2 days will be sea days. Marella (Tui) cruises generally have only one sea day per week. We enjoyed Marella cruises and I think they are all inclusive now and no tipping. Inevitably, much but not all of the evening entertainment centres around music. We skipped a lot of the shows. Children are well catered for but be prepared if your 6 year old is anything like ours - they wouldn’t stay in any children’s clubs on any of our holidays

ItWasnaMeGuv · 19/01/2026 17:03

Dabralor · 17/01/2026 16:22

not in a million years!!!

norovirus
everyone in the places you visit will hate you
non-stop eating
100000s of the general public everywhere
oh and the fact they are catastrophic for the environment

It honestly beggars belief how people can countenance going on a cruise, I actually wish the whole industry could just be banned.

Grin It would be preferable that you just continue to ban yourself from cruises. We don't want moaning minnies there.

We started cruising when our two were 1 and 2 and they are 31 and 32 now, having done many over the years. P&O had fantastic kids clubs and our two spent many hours enjoying the facilities. It was safe, 24 hour food and lots of different entertainment options. Nowadays the two of us choose smaller adult only ships which tend to visit interesting ports. We've done river cruises too, and they're brilliant, often stopping right in small towns that can be easily walked to.

KimberleyClark · 19/01/2026 16:25

We did a cruise from Venice to Istanbul, via Slovenia, Croatia and Greek Islands, last summer, departed from Fusina cruise terminal . In previous years have departed from Ravenna, which is about 2.5 hours away from Venice.

Muffinme · 19/01/2026 16:07

CraftyGin · 19/01/2026 15:34

We sailed straight up the Giudecca - amazing. That was on a smaller ship in 2014.

There's a massive cruise terminal in Venice.

We go every year not via a cruise, I meant the large ships.

Muffinme · 19/01/2026 16:06

Puzzledandpissedoff · 19/01/2026 14:37

I’m so pleased Venice doesn’t allow them any longer

Actually cruise ships do still depart from Venice, @Muffinme, though it's true they're now hiving off more to alternatives like Triste and Marghera

In particular MSC and Costa still use it - favourites with Italians, surprise, surprise!! - but the key point is that larger ones are no longer allowed to sail through the Giudecca

Yes I meant the large ones, when I think cruise ship I always think of the huge ugly floating high rise hotel kind. As you can tell, I’m not a fan

CraftyGin · 19/01/2026 15:34

Puzzledandpissedoff · 19/01/2026 14:37

I’m so pleased Venice doesn’t allow them any longer

Actually cruise ships do still depart from Venice, @Muffinme, though it's true they're now hiving off more to alternatives like Triste and Marghera

In particular MSC and Costa still use it - favourites with Italians, surprise, surprise!! - but the key point is that larger ones are no longer allowed to sail through the Giudecca

We sailed straight up the Giudecca - amazing. That was on a smaller ship in 2014.

There's a massive cruise terminal in Venice.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 19/01/2026 14:37

I’m so pleased Venice doesn’t allow them any longer

Actually cruise ships do still depart from Venice, @Muffinme, though it's true they're now hiving off more to alternatives like Triste and Marghera

In particular MSC and Costa still use it - favourites with Italians, surprise, surprise!! - but the key point is that larger ones are no longer allowed to sail through the Giudecca

flippertyflipster · 19/01/2026 12:32

We went on a P and O cruise with DC 4, not something I ever thought I’d do but after a few holidays spent cooking loads and driving around we fancied the idea of not having to do much. There were elements I didn’t like, like the buffet (although DH loved that), and the free dining was too much waiting, but a couple of the pay extra restaurants aren’t that expensive, so we ate in those for dinner. We had a great time though, we got a balcony cabin, I wouldn’t have enjoyed it otherwise to be honest as we hung out there quite a bit. The feeling of space was great as well as just sitting watching the ocean, was so tranquil. Kid’s club was great, we used it two afternoons when we were at sea and one evening. We loved just arriving at a different place everyday and would spend the whole day out at a beach or park and walking around and nice lunch with wine. Personally I wouldn’t want to do one where you’re at sea more than a couple of days. But we’d definitely do it again!

KimberleyClark · 19/01/2026 12:21

I love cruises, but not the mega office block ships with several thousand passengers. Smaller ships (6-700 passengers) that can visit smaller more out of the way places. We are no longer interested in formal evenings either, it’s smart casual all the way on the line we go on. Though nothing stopping you dressing up if you feel like it.

dh280125 · 19/01/2026 12:19

ExtraOnions · 17/01/2026 16:03

We took our first cruise when DD was 6, it was amazing.

The kids club facilities were fantastic .. great staff, and sessions.. they even had evening ones (movies and munchies), so we went out for dinner. One day they called round at the cabins and they all went for breakfast. DD is an only child, but soon made friends.

No Cabin Fever, loads of outdoor spaces, and a different country every day.

Children can go to all the bars and restaurants, so you don’t have to worry about where you can and can’t go.

Feels nice and safe (no worries about walking down dark streets at night)

We’ve done about 8 cruises since the first one.

(hark the people arriving taking about Norovirus, and “Butlin’s on sea”)

Which line?

TheMauveBeaker · 19/01/2026 11:47

I love a cruise, both holidays this year are cruise holidays. So much to do on the ship (if you want to) and so much to explore both on and off. We’ve only been to one show (in four cruises) but will go to more on the longer cruise this year. I love the formal nights when you get dressed up. I love the food in the restaurants and the buffet. We’re going to Norway in June for a week, which is a great place to start if you’ve never cruised before.
Haven’t taken children but have been on ships that are child friendly. Seems to be plenty of entertainment for them.

Millymolly99 · 19/01/2026 10:30

Millymolly99 · 19/01/2026 10:26

Where did you sail to?

Apologies @Zanatdy I've just read that you sailed from Liverpool. I wouldn't be brave enough for that type of cruise, I have always flown out to the starting point (Venice, Barcelona, Barbados etc) and I would always choose to avoid the North Sea, the Bay of Biscay and crossing the Atlantic.

SnowFrogJelly · 19/01/2026 10:28

We love cruising and it’s great for kids.. food is lovely and there’s lots of entertainment to choose from.. go for it

Millymolly99 · 19/01/2026 10:26

Zanatdy · 18/01/2026 19:08

Cruises can be fun. My last one was very rough and it did ruin it a bit for me. Couldn’t walk around without risk of falling over and felt like I was on a rollercoaster in bed at night! Probably 50% of the days were like that. The cruise we went on 7yrs ago wasn’t rough at all, guess it just depends.

Where did you sail to?

ConnieHeart · 19/01/2026 09:09

SkinnyLatteExtraHotPlease · 19/01/2026 08:46

I don't like heights (can barely walk across a pier with those slats!) I was absolutely fine 👌

That's good to know. Thanks

Givenup2026 · 19/01/2026 08:50

Christmaseree · 19/01/2026 08:45

What are the names of the hotel you usually stay in so we can match it a similar experience service, food and beverage wise?

There’s a big difference between your original 3k budget and £1500 per night budget.

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and we were potentially going here this summer as we’re curious about Hawaii

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