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AIBU to think if you're a net negative in tax you shouldn't be able to vote?

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 13:21

Trigger warning: strong political views / rant incoming. A shrinking group is expected to fund an expanding system. The system increasingly penalises work while rewarding dependency.

AIBU to think the modern state is a parasite, and that only those who are a net positive in taxes should be able to vote, rather than forcing working people to support an ever-growing dependent class?

Currently ~21% of working-age adults are economically inactive, meaning not working and not actively seeking work (according to a research brief from the House of Commons). Democracy is broken if voters can vote themselves benefits paid for by others. Representation should be weighted toward those with demonstrable responsibility and contribution.

Currently, the state is extractive and hollowing out the middle class. As anyone that has the eyes to see and ears to hear will know, dependency is rising and and demographics are changing at a rate not seen outside of wartime.

To address this simply, I think if you’re on benefits you should lose the right to vote until you’re a net positive. That would restore equilibrium.

This is essentially Chesterton’s test of a society.

"An honest man falls in love with an honest woman. He wishes, therefore, to marry her, to be the father of her children, to secure her and himself. All systems of government should be tested by whether he can do this.

If any system, feudal, servile, or barbaric, does in fact give him enough land, work, or security that he can do it, there is the essence of liberty and justice.

If any system, Labour, Conservative, Liberal Democrat, Green, Reform, or technocratic, does in fact give him wages so low and conditions so insecure that he cannot do it, there is the essence of tyranny and shame."

If the state could stop turning people into dependents that working people have to pay for, that would be great. The state is bloated, fixated on wealth redistribution rather than wealth creation, and actively working against the people it is meant to represent. It is incapable of creating the conditions for wealth, stability, and independence. This is managed decline, and we need some adults in the room who have read a book. AIBU?

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SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 12:18

It's not chance as explained. Thanks for playing though @TheCompactPussycat.

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5474577-aibu-to-think-if-youre-a-net-negative-in-tax-you-shouldnt-be-able-to-vote?reply=149875965&utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

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TheCompactPussycat · 15/01/2026 12:16

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 12:15

TLDR words have actual meanings. If everything is reduced to “luck”, it’s not surprising that nihilism extends to language as well. Redefining words has been a well known and deliberate tactic in communist movements, particularly in Marxist Leninist traditions. If you treat definitions as arbitrary, there’s nothing left to learn and no way to fail, which conveniently supports wealth redistribution and state intervention if that's what you want.

Edited

Too right they do. You are using luck when you mean chance. HTH

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 12:15

TheCompactPussycat · 15/01/2026 11:40

That's a rather verbose post simply to say "I'm using a different definition of the word 'luck' than the one you are."

TLDR words have actual meanings. If everything is reduced to “luck”, it’s not surprising that nihilism extends to language as well. Redefining words has been a well known and deliberate tactic in communist movements, particularly in Marxist Leninist traditions. If you treat definitions as arbitrary, there’s nothing left to learn and no way to fail, which conveniently supports wealth redistribution and state intervention if that's what you want.

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TealScroller · 15/01/2026 12:10

This is a pretty vile viewpoint. Any citizen of this country has and absolutely should have the right to vote, anything other than this is morally wrong.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 15/01/2026 11:59

Mithral · 15/01/2026 11:49

Where you are born is definitely considered luck! Of course someone with a profound disability (for example) is lucky if they are born somewhere with a good medical system and some state support for people unable to work. My cousin has a rare genetic disorder and is now in his early 50s and would never have survived his infancy in many countries. Why wouldn't this be luck - are you suggesting some sort of karma style thing where he deserved to be born here?

Agreed. Both can be true at the same time - you make your luck to some extent by hard work, good choices etc., but whether you are born with or develop disabilities is down to chance.

Mithral · 15/01/2026 11:49

NorthXNorthWest · 15/01/2026 11:46

I detest how ‘luck’ is used to devalue hard earned financial stability or success, yet somehow it’s never considered ‘luck’ to live in a country with a welfare state.

Where you are born is definitely considered luck! Of course someone with a profound disability (for example) is lucky if they are born somewhere with a good medical system and some state support for people unable to work. My cousin has a rare genetic disorder and is now in his early 50s and would never have survived his infancy in many countries. Why wouldn't this be luck - are you suggesting some sort of karma style thing where he deserved to be born here?

NorthXNorthWest · 15/01/2026 11:46

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 11:21

Such nihilism @TheCompactPussycat , this appeal to “luck”. Love, loyalty, and obligation come before abstract ideas of justice. Calling inheritance “luck” is pure cope, a way of avoiding the biological reality of financial, genetic, and emotional inheritance, and the obligations that flow from it, whether to pass it on or not to (in the case of negative patterns). It’s used to shift responsibility and duty away from families and towards the state. That’s the real argument being made. There's an element of luck in all lives but it isn't luck who your parents are, nor the family of origin. Those are the results of decisions of a group, by people bound together.

The idea that birth is “luck” only works if children are interchangeable units. In reality, they’re the biological and cultural continuation of countless generations. The biological reality is simple. Children receive what their parents can provide because that is how families work. The idea that the family we’re born into, our talents and our parents are merely a matter of luck collapses under even basic scrutiny. A child born into a stable, educated, disciplined family is not the beneficiary of chance, but of accumulated choices and pressures stretching back decades or centuries in a generational struggle for survival and meaning. The child deserves it in the same way the parent deserves it, because it’s a torch passed on, a duty and an obligation.

You could no more swap them at birth than an IKEA manual could produce an 18th century Chippendale cabinet. The word “luck” is being used to make a moral argument that children don’t deserve what their parents give them. Parents have every right to invest in their children and to decide that their children deserve it. That does not give anyone else the right to redistribute it or write it off. If, like me, you didn’t have parents who could do that, then yes, that’s hard luck in the sense you should get over it and get on with it. But it doesn’t create a moral claim over the investments other parents make in their children’s education and upbringing.

If you want to operate in reality rather than a beautiful lie, you need to accept that outcomes are unequal and often shaped by circumstance. Treating outcomes as unjust leads to central planning, which requires coercion and destroys freedom and responsibility.

As Roger Scruton put it, calling it “luck” turns gratitude into resentment, obligation into entitlement, and families into obstacles to fairness. That framing invites the state to step in, and that is cruel to children and cruel to people, because it teaches them that nothing is owed, nothing is earned, and nothing really means anything.

The argument reminds me of the ending of Withnail and I. It’s all luck, right? Nothing means anything, right?

“I have of late – but wherefore I know not – lost all my mirth, forgone all custom of exercises; and indeed it goes so heavily with my disposition that this goodly frame, the earth, seems to me a sterile promontory; this most excellent canopy, the air, look you, this brave o’erhanging firmament, this majestical roof fretted with golden fire, why, it appears no other thing to me than a foul and pestilential congregation of vapours. What a piece of work is a man! how noble in reason! how infinite in faculty! in form and moving how express and admirable! in action how like an angel! in apprehension how like a god! the beauty of the world! the paragon of animals! And yet to me, what is this quintessence of dust?”

So to wrap up this rant. Wealth and debt are generational. Individual choices and external events clearly matter, but starting points are heavily shaped by what is passed down, assets and liabilities included. Each generation has a duty to do better, give better, and leave something stronger behind.

The “luck” argument is a dead-end. It's nihilism and cope dressed up as fairness by intellectuals driven by a will to power over the state, who consistently appeal to those on the fringes, not to solve their problems, but to legitimise intervention on their behalf.

So far the poll on this post...
->180 votes from people who understand that.
-> 634 votes from people who think the state is coming to save them.

Edited

I detest how ‘luck’ is used to devalue hard earned financial stability or success, yet somehow it’s never considered ‘luck’ to live in a country with a welfare state.

TheCompactPussycat · 15/01/2026 11:40

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 11:21

Such nihilism @TheCompactPussycat , this appeal to “luck”. Love, loyalty, and obligation come before abstract ideas of justice. Calling inheritance “luck” is pure cope, a way of avoiding the biological reality of financial, genetic, and emotional inheritance, and the obligations that flow from it, whether to pass it on or not to (in the case of negative patterns). It’s used to shift responsibility and duty away from families and towards the state. That’s the real argument being made. There's an element of luck in all lives but it isn't luck who your parents are, nor the family of origin. Those are the results of decisions of a group, by people bound together.

The idea that birth is “luck” only works if children are interchangeable units. In reality, they’re the biological and cultural continuation of countless generations. The biological reality is simple. Children receive what their parents can provide because that is how families work. The idea that the family we’re born into, our talents and our parents are merely a matter of luck collapses under even basic scrutiny. A child born into a stable, educated, disciplined family is not the beneficiary of chance, but of accumulated choices and pressures stretching back decades or centuries in a generational struggle for survival and meaning. The child deserves it in the same way the parent deserves it, because it’s a torch passed on, a duty and an obligation.

You could no more swap them at birth than an IKEA manual could produce an 18th century Chippendale cabinet. The word “luck” is being used to make a moral argument that children don’t deserve what their parents give them. Parents have every right to invest in their children and to decide that their children deserve it. That does not give anyone else the right to redistribute it or write it off. If, like me, you didn’t have parents who could do that, then yes, that’s hard luck in the sense you should get over it and get on with it. But it doesn’t create a moral claim over the investments other parents make in their children’s education and upbringing.

If you want to operate in reality rather than a beautiful lie, you need to accept that outcomes are unequal and often shaped by circumstance. Treating outcomes as unjust leads to central planning, which requires coercion and destroys freedom and responsibility.

As Roger Scruton put it, calling it “luck” turns gratitude into resentment, obligation into entitlement, and families into obstacles to fairness. That framing invites the state to step in, and that is cruel to children and cruel to people, because it teaches them that nothing is owed, nothing is earned, and nothing really means anything.

The argument reminds me of the ending of Withnail and I. It’s all luck, right? Nothing means anything, right?

“I have of late – but wherefore I know not – lost all my mirth, forgone all custom of exercises; and indeed it goes so heavily with my disposition that this goodly frame, the earth, seems to me a sterile promontory; this most excellent canopy, the air, look you, this brave o’erhanging firmament, this majestical roof fretted with golden fire, why, it appears no other thing to me than a foul and pestilential congregation of vapours. What a piece of work is a man! how noble in reason! how infinite in faculty! in form and moving how express and admirable! in action how like an angel! in apprehension how like a god! the beauty of the world! the paragon of animals! And yet to me, what is this quintessence of dust?”

So to wrap up this rant. Wealth and debt are generational. Individual choices and external events clearly matter, but starting points are heavily shaped by what is passed down, assets and liabilities included. Each generation has a duty to do better, give better, and leave something stronger behind.

The “luck” argument is a dead-end. It's nihilism and cope dressed up as fairness by intellectuals driven by a will to power over the state, who consistently appeal to those on the fringes, not to solve their problems, but to legitimise intervention on their behalf.

So far the poll on this post...
->180 votes from people who understand that.
-> 634 votes from people who think the state is coming to save them.

Edited

That's a rather verbose post simply to say "I'm using a different definition of the word 'luck' than the one you are."

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SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 11:21

TheCompactPussycat · 12/01/2026 18:06

So please explain what effort the puppy put in to obtaining it's own DNA. You'll need to use the same established meaning of 'luck' that I am if you wish your argument to be valid and taken seriously. If you choose to continue to use the 'random chance' meaning in your argument (which is a valid meaning of the word but is not the one I am using) then your response will be invalid and will simply prove my point.

Go ahead...

Such nihilism @TheCompactPussycat , this appeal to “luck”. Love, loyalty, and obligation come before abstract ideas of justice. Calling inheritance “luck” is pure cope, a way of avoiding the biological reality of financial, genetic, and emotional inheritance, and the obligations that flow from it, whether to pass it on or not to (in the case of negative patterns). It’s used to shift responsibility and duty away from families and towards the state. That’s the real argument being made. There's an element of luck in all lives but it isn't luck who your parents are, nor the family of origin. Those are the results of decisions of a group, by people bound together.

The idea that birth is “luck” only works if children are interchangeable units. In reality, they’re the biological and cultural continuation of countless generations. The biological reality is simple. Children receive what their parents can provide because that is how families work. The idea that the family we’re born into, our talents and our parents are merely a matter of luck collapses under even basic scrutiny. A child born into a stable, educated, disciplined family is not the beneficiary of chance, but of accumulated choices and pressures stretching back decades or centuries in a generational struggle for survival and meaning. The child deserves it in the same way the parent deserves it, because it’s a torch passed on, a duty and an obligation.

You could no more swap them at birth than an IKEA manual could produce an 18th century Chippendale cabinet. The word “luck” is being used to make a moral argument that children don’t deserve what their parents give them. Parents have every right to invest in their children and to decide that their children deserve it. That does not give anyone else the right to redistribute it or write it off. If, like me, you didn’t have parents who could do that, then yes, that’s hard luck in the sense you should get over it and get on with it. But it doesn’t create a moral claim over the investments other parents make in their children’s education and upbringing.

If you want to operate in reality rather than a beautiful lie, you need to accept that outcomes are unequal and often shaped by circumstance. Treating outcomes as unjust leads to central planning, which requires coercion and destroys freedom and responsibility.

As Roger Scruton put it, calling it “luck” turns gratitude into resentment, obligation into entitlement, and families into obstacles to fairness. That framing invites the state to step in, and that is cruel to children and cruel to people, because it teaches them that nothing is owed, nothing is earned, and nothing really means anything.

The argument reminds me of the ending of Withnail and I. It’s all luck, right? Nothing means anything, right?

“I have of late – but wherefore I know not – lost all my mirth, forgone all custom of exercises; and indeed it goes so heavily with my disposition that this goodly frame, the earth, seems to me a sterile promontory; this most excellent canopy, the air, look you, this brave o’erhanging firmament, this majestical roof fretted with golden fire, why, it appears no other thing to me than a foul and pestilential congregation of vapours. What a piece of work is a man! how noble in reason! how infinite in faculty! in form and moving how express and admirable! in action how like an angel! in apprehension how like a god! the beauty of the world! the paragon of animals! And yet to me, what is this quintessence of dust?”

So to wrap up this rant. Wealth and debt are generational. Individual choices and external events clearly matter, but starting points are heavily shaped by what is passed down, assets and liabilities included. Each generation has a duty to do better, give better, and leave something stronger behind.

The “luck” argument is a dead-end. It's nihilism and cope dressed up as fairness by intellectuals driven by a will to power over the state, who consistently appeal to those on the fringes, not to solve their problems, but to legitimise intervention on their behalf.

So far the poll on this post...
->180 votes from people who understand that.
-> 634 votes from people who think the state is coming to save them.

OP posts:
NorthXNorthWest · 14/01/2026 16:40

Goldenbear · 14/01/2026 13:32

Just not true at all, maybe it's a geography thing. DH and I, all our friends are pretty much higher tax payers nobody would agree with your statement.

Which statement? My response to the poster who was effectively saying things are not that bad, other countries are worse. Or the bit about the unsustainable welfare state.

I defy any sane person to say that the size and direction of travel of the welfare state is sustainable if it continues to lean so heavily taxing the middle, rather than growing the economy and reform (not the political party). Once more for those in the back, you cannot tax your way to growth.

Most people are happy to contribute to a welfare state that is a safely net not a lifestyle choice.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 14/01/2026 15:44

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 14/01/2026 12:51

I agree completely, @ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere - the basis for the whole thread is that people’s value is solely based on how much tax they pay, and that only people who contribute financially to the State have any right to any say in government - and I find that abhorrent. Every human being has value.

People fought long and hard to extend voting rights to ordinary people, because decent people know that pretty much everyone deserves to have a say in the government that makes the policies which shape their lives. I say pretty much everyone because I know that people in prison do not get to vote whilst serving their sentence, and I have no real problem with this.

Thanks @SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius, I agree. I also hate the net contributor and net beneficiary (or the even more charming net taker) concept, although I get the wider issue, but when it's loaded with a veneer of moral superiority, it's so reductive!

TheCompactPussycat · 14/01/2026 15:19

1dayatatime · 14/01/2026 14:25

Oh FFS - how can anyone get upset over a theoretical intellectual debate that is never going to happen in reality. We are simply not going to go back to the 1700s where voting rights were restricted to men owning land, along with rotten boroughs etc and if you get upset or triggered by this then a) you need to get over yourself b) theoretical intellectual debates are clearly not for you and c) please don't cancel culture prevent the rest of us from being able to discuss whatever we wish provided it doesn't incite hate or violence on others (simply being offended doesn't count!).

Lastly if the disabled are genuinely worried about their rights and support being eroded then they should be more worried about the current democratic process creating a fiscal collapse whereby a democratically elected Government's powers and decisions are removed and overridden by institutions such as the IMF or European Central Bank.

Have a look at what happened to Greece:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greek_government-debt_crisis

Well since we're in the business of backing up our arguments by referencing the fortunes of other countries, I see your Greece example and raise you Iran and Afghanistan in the 1970s versus today.

Anyone who thinks voting rights can't be taken away is naive in the extreme.

InLawAgain · 14/01/2026 15:02

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GetAbsOrDieTrying · 14/01/2026 14:50

thepariscrimefiles · 14/01/2026 13:18

Pros: Very low or no taxes
Cons: Living in a religious autocracy that uses slave labour and where women have fewer rights than men

Have lived in Dubai before for 6 years and while it is not perfect, it was overall fine. Very safe, good quality of life, good money and closer to home! With the increase in racism here, UK is not much better!

1dayatatime · 14/01/2026 14:25

thepariscrimefiles · 14/01/2026 13:05

It may be a theoretical discussion (by an extremely ignorant, right-wing and goady OP), but it could still be upsetting to people in the groups that he has said should not be allowed to vote because they aren't net contributors, e.g. people with disabilities.

Oh FFS - how can anyone get upset over a theoretical intellectual debate that is never going to happen in reality. We are simply not going to go back to the 1700s where voting rights were restricted to men owning land, along with rotten boroughs etc and if you get upset or triggered by this then a) you need to get over yourself b) theoretical intellectual debates are clearly not for you and c) please don't cancel culture prevent the rest of us from being able to discuss whatever we wish provided it doesn't incite hate or violence on others (simply being offended doesn't count!).

Lastly if the disabled are genuinely worried about their rights and support being eroded then they should be more worried about the current democratic process creating a fiscal collapse whereby a democratically elected Government's powers and decisions are removed and overridden by institutions such as the IMF or European Central Bank.

Have a look at what happened to Greece:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Greek_government-debt_crisis

NewPapaGuinea · 14/01/2026 13:47

If your view is representative of those “allowed to vote” then absolutely not. They’ll only vote for their own interests rather than the greater good.

This is how we get those 2 tier societies depicted in sci-fi movies.

Goldenbear · 14/01/2026 13:32

NorthXNorthWest · 13/01/2026 16:20

The only people who don’t see the size and direction of travel of the welfare state as excessive or problematic tend to be those who don’t contribute to it (to the op's original point) or those who assume their lifestyle choices should be underwritten by other taxpayers. Higher earners are not the same as the rich.

If your standards are low enough, almost anything looks 'ok' when you compare it to the worst possible alternative.

Just not true at all, maybe it's a geography thing. DH and I, all our friends are pretty much higher tax payers nobody would agree with your statement.

Goldenbear · 14/01/2026 13:27

No OP I don't, it's a very Americanised way to view life, your value is dependent on your income and I think we should resist that culturally not want more of it!

thepariscrimefiles · 14/01/2026 13:18

GetAbsOrDieTrying · 13/01/2026 16:52

Some people don’t realise how much high tax rate payers pay in tax. I saw a payslip recently, 50K in tax over the last year! Seriously looking to move to the middle east!

Pros: Very low or no taxes
Cons: Living in a religious autocracy that uses slave labour and where women have fewer rights than men

thepariscrimefiles · 14/01/2026 13:05

1dayatatime · 13/01/2026 14:39

FFS - it's a theoretical discussion.

It's full on cancel culture that we can't have a theoretical discussion in case someone gets offended or triggered.

It may be a theoretical discussion (by an extremely ignorant, right-wing and goady OP), but it could still be upsetting to people in the groups that he has said should not be allowed to vote because they aren't net contributors, e.g. people with disabilities.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 14/01/2026 12:51

I agree completely, @ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere - the basis for the whole thread is that people’s value is solely based on how much tax they pay, and that only people who contribute financially to the State have any right to any say in government - and I find that abhorrent. Every human being has value.

People fought long and hard to extend voting rights to ordinary people, because decent people know that pretty much everyone deserves to have a say in the government that makes the policies which shape their lives. I say pretty much everyone because I know that people in prison do not get to vote whilst serving their sentence, and I have no real problem with this.

ThingsAreNotWhatTheyWere · 14/01/2026 08:44

Quite! I have lurked and read a lot of threads about how burdonsome and/or scrounging sick and disabled people are, but I think this takes the biscuit.

I was "in deficit" from the minute I was born due to the health conditions I was born with. I did, however, (thanks to the love and care and sheer determination of my parents) grow up to lead a fulfilling life and work my guts out for 25 years until my health took another dip 3 years ago following a stroke. I do still work, but nowhere near the amount I used to.

Saying that this is just an "academic discussion" or "a bit of fun" just doesn't cut it. This wouldn't have been acceptable just 10 years ago and it all helps nudge us along path where it becomes acceptable to ostracise and demonise certain groups of people as a subhuman underclass who don't deserve representation, quite apart from being completely unworkable!

throwawayimplantchat · 14/01/2026 08:40

Peridoteage · 13/01/2026 23:21

Dh & i earn 6 figures each and pay loads of tax.

DC got really sick as a baby. Loads of time in intensive care. Will have cost tens if not hundreds of thousands of pounds. now on regular medication that costs the nhs thousands a year.

Ive broken a foot & two fingers, had a c section and a complicated "natural" delivery.

Do we lose our vote because Dc and i got sick & used up all our "goodwill"

I gave OP the hypothetical earlier of a hard working, high tax paying person who gets an illness that costs the NHS more than they’ve paid in tax (despite having paid far more than post people) and he confirmed that yes, they would lose their vote. For the ‘betterment of all’, apparently.

When I asked what net benefits there were in them losing their vote, considering the money their illness cost has ‘gone’ either way and the same tax had been paid either way, he couldn’t name any.

As it wouldn’t change the money gained or lost by the system, but would remove your individual right to vote, it’s simply a punishment for illness as far as I can see. What a decent person OP is.

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