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AIBU to think if you're a net negative in tax you shouldn't be able to vote?

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SBGM247 · 12/01/2026 13:21

Trigger warning: strong political views / rant incoming. A shrinking group is expected to fund an expanding system. The system increasingly penalises work while rewarding dependency.

AIBU to think the modern state is a parasite, and that only those who are a net positive in taxes should be able to vote, rather than forcing working people to support an ever-growing dependent class?

Currently ~21% of working-age adults are economically inactive, meaning not working and not actively seeking work (according to a research brief from the House of Commons). Democracy is broken if voters can vote themselves benefits paid for by others. Representation should be weighted toward those with demonstrable responsibility and contribution.

Currently, the state is extractive and hollowing out the middle class. As anyone that has the eyes to see and ears to hear will know, dependency is rising and and demographics are changing at a rate not seen outside of wartime.

To address this simply, I think if you’re on benefits you should lose the right to vote until you’re a net positive. That would restore equilibrium.

This is essentially Chesterton’s test of a society.

"An honest man falls in love with an honest woman. He wishes, therefore, to marry her, to be the father of her children, to secure her and himself. All systems of government should be tested by whether he can do this.

If any system, feudal, servile, or barbaric, does in fact give him enough land, work, or security that he can do it, there is the essence of liberty and justice.

If any system, Labour, Conservative, Liberal Democrat, Green, Reform, or technocratic, does in fact give him wages so low and conditions so insecure that he cannot do it, there is the essence of tyranny and shame."

If the state could stop turning people into dependents that working people have to pay for, that would be great. The state is bloated, fixated on wealth redistribution rather than wealth creation, and actively working against the people it is meant to represent. It is incapable of creating the conditions for wealth, stability, and independence. This is managed decline, and we need some adults in the room who have read a book. AIBU?

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CalishataFolkart · 15/01/2026 21:23

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 16:58

I haven't said luck doesn't exist. Only, that you can't write everything off as 'luck'.

No, you were arguing that a baby born into great wealth and privilege isn’t lucky.

Would you mind answering my questions please?

Papyrophile · 15/01/2026 20:36

Scruton is much hated by the left, but A BIT of his view is quite important. The bit that acknowledges that we are all free to make choices, but that we then have to live with the outcome of those choices. Which then requires me, and you, and everyone else to agree, I did get together with x, and then realised they were not good for me, or dodgy, or a hazard to the human race.

An author, Theodore Dalrymple, who is a medical doctor, now retired I think, from general practise in central Birmingham, wrote a series of essays about his practice in Winson Green and it's surroundings, and many of them are about his experience as a prison doctor. He writes very well and fluently, but it is shocking reading because he is unsparing about the depravity he saw. He generally goes gently on women but he is quite hard about women making poor partner choices.

Papyrophile · 15/01/2026 20:18

@ObelixtheGaul , surely that's why tax rates are banded, to acknowledge your ability to contribute while working? Foolish to tax all income at 45%, if you then need help. My issue arose with the invention of working tax credits, as they then were, to subsidise employers dodging SSP and pension contributions by restricting the number of hours' of work offered.

I believe universal suffrage is the fairest system, but in the words of Churchill, "Democracy is the worst form of governance, apart from all the others that have been attempted."

TheCompactPussycat · 15/01/2026 18:58

At the risk of starting yet another back and forth between us, Roger Scruton had some pretty vile opinions and your constant referencing of him does nothing to further your argument.

Locutus2000 · 15/01/2026 18:36

Still mansplaining I see.

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 18:33

ToWhitToWhoo · 15/01/2026 17:55

To be honest, this makes me think of 'benevolent dictatorship/ monarchy'.. As King James I said, 'I will govern according to the common weal but not according to the common will.' Extended to the aristocracy and later to property owners, but fore a long time excluding poorer people.

If the better-off were indeed also the most benevolent, or the wisest and most far-sighted, there might be a point in this. But there is no evidence that this is the case. People tend to vote for what helps them or at best what helps the people whom they know. Before the 20th century, though there were indeed some reforms that inmproved conditions for the poorer in society, poorer people had much worse conditions than later on when they had much more representation.

Nor is being a net contributor in taxes the only thing important to playing a useful role i n society, though I don't think a vote should be a reward for usefulness or indeed a reward at all- but I accept that people performing particularly useful activities may thus become more aware of what is most helpful to the country.. Many crucial, often life-saving jobs are not that well-paid. During the lockdowns, many of the people classed as 'essential key workers' were in rather low-paid occupations. Should such people not have the vote? (Of coursew, an obvious solution is to pay them better, but that definitely won't happen if they don't have the vote.) And this doesn't include people - ranging from family carers to voluntary charity workers- who doi important work for little or no pay.

It is already the case that poorer people are less likely to vote; this is something to be combatted; not enforced by law.

Scruton argued that rights only make sense when grounded in duties and obligations. Seen this way, I think something like a vote ought to be earned. The difference between being a civilian and a citizen. Starship Troopers tied to the military had some form of it I hear though I've not read or watched it. But Plato's Republic has a similar idea though diff only an elite 'best of the best' get it in return for giving up property etc and other obligations etc...

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brunettemic · 15/01/2026 18:12

Ironically the cost of this would mean paying more tax to fund it.

ToWhitToWhoo · 15/01/2026 17:55

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 17:01

I really don't think that should be the point. The point of good governance is sustainable development, protect rights, manage resources efficiently, and deliver fair, high-quality services for all stakeholders, preventing corruption and ensuring long-term success. If we get better outcomes by thinking about how we weight votes that's valid. And it would be in the pursuit of a vision and a purpose one would hope downstream of culture.

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To be honest, this makes me think of 'benevolent dictatorship/ monarchy'.. As King James I said, 'I will govern according to the common weal but not according to the common will.' Extended to the aristocracy and later to property owners, but fore a long time excluding poorer people.

If the better-off were indeed also the most benevolent, or the wisest and most far-sighted, there might be a point in this. But there is no evidence that this is the case. People tend to vote for what helps them or at best what helps the people whom they know. Before the 20th century, though there were indeed some reforms that inmproved conditions for the poorer in society, poorer people had much worse conditions than later on when they had much more representation.

Nor is being a net contributor in taxes the only thing important to playing a useful role i n society, though I don't think a vote should be a reward for usefulness or indeed a reward at all- but I accept that people performing particularly useful activities may thus become more aware of what is most helpful to the country.. Many crucial, often life-saving jobs are not that well-paid. During the lockdowns, many of the people classed as 'essential key workers' were in rather low-paid occupations. Should such people not have the vote? (Of coursew, an obvious solution is to pay them better, but that definitely won't happen if they don't have the vote.) And this doesn't include people - ranging from family carers to voluntary charity workers- who doi important work for little or no pay.

It is already the case that poorer people are less likely to vote; this is something to be combatted; not enforced by law.

SixtySomething · 15/01/2026 17:33

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 16:05

@SixtySomething forgive me for asking some obvious questions....

  1. Why are you here?
  2. If you're going to suggest someone go; wouldn't it make more sense that you become the change you want to see in the world?
  3. I started this thread so clearly I want to be here. If you don't then why don't you leave?

Your participation isn't critical.

Good suggestion, many thanks.

NoisyViewer · 15/01/2026 17:04

I get your sentiment but I don’t agree. I think anyone over the age of 18 should be able to vote. We’ll always have workshy people but they should be entitled to vote for that lifestyle.

QuestioningThisNow · 15/01/2026 17:03

missymousey · 12/01/2026 13:24

That's a lot of pensioners (aka voters) being disenfranchised then!

This.

Women on maternity leave.

Low paid workers.

Sounds like a regime.

ObelixtheGaul · 15/01/2026 17:02

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 16:08

Why couldn't someone on minimal wage be a net contributor? I'm not 100% clear why you think this is an impossibility? If you do think that @ObelixtheGaul?

It's a blank slate from the age of 18.

Because for me to contribute 45% of my earnings would leave me with not enough to live on. And I mean 'live', not 'have a lifestyle'.

It's impossible for me to do the job that I do and keep a roof over my head and feed myself and keep myself warm on a little over half of what I earn. Because what I earn is considerably lower than that of a net contributor.
Obviously.

And I don't even have a car, let alone HP on one.

If you mean, 'why couldn't I have become a net contributor by earning more later, well, yes. But if we all did that, we'd be leaving what I view as important work to the teenagers and twenty something's rushing through and seeing it as a penance to do before they get something 'better'. Which is something we are already seeing as more and more are being pushed into a world of expectation, and, increasingly, a world which is unaffordable without a high income.

What I do has value to society. We need people to be able to do it for it's own sake, not to mark time, or keep them alive whilst they work their way up. We need people to want to do it.

I was fortunate enough to be able to get on the property ladder in the sweet window in the 90s, when you could get a mortgage on a low wage. 25 years later, I paid that off. I'm not a burden or a drain. This house will pay for my later in life care. I've got my own little pension pot, I've claimed no benefits, I keep myself healthy.

I am proud of never being out of work, of building my little fund, of working hard for what I have. It wasn't given to me. I don't ask for more than I have. But I do think that years of working (I currently have two jobs, btw) ought to have value in and of itself. I haven't been lazy. I haven't been profligate. I've dedicated a good portion of my life to giving some of the most vulnerable in society, care and support.

I wanted to be a film star when I was a child. I could have pursued that path. I had opportunity when older to return to that and have a chance at becoming a 'net contributor' by working in television. Would I have had more value if I'd done that? I don't think so. What I do is harder work, certainly not as much 'fun' as acting, (and please don't think I don't think the arts aren't important, I absolutely do), but I am of more use where I am, doing work thousands aren't queuing up to do.

If I had no choice but to seek more money to get a vote, I would have done it, perhaps. And that would have been one less person who gave a damn doing the job I do. And one more person doing it to get to something else. And an end to what used to be seen as 'vocations'. Jobs we do because they transcend personal wealth.

We are already seeing the death of a society which worked for something other than personal gain. As we pursue the almighty dollar, counting the cost of everything and the value of nothing, viewing ambition only through the lens of personal monetary gain, we lose so much.

Off track a bit, there, but hey ho. It's been interesting.

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 17:01

ToWhitToWhoo · 15/01/2026 16:22

Oh great, let's go back to pre-democracy days when only property owners could vote.

The whole point of voting in a democracy is that EVERYONE has the right to vote and be represented on matters that affect them.

I really don't think that should be the point. The point of good governance is sustainable development, protect rights, manage resources efficiently, and deliver fair, high-quality services for all stakeholders, preventing corruption and ensuring long-term success. If we get better outcomes by thinking about how we weight votes that's valid. And it would be in the pursuit of a vision and a purpose one would hope downstream of culture.

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SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 16:59

CalishataFolkart · 15/01/2026 16:24

He didn’t quote Hamlet. He quoted Withnail & I. Whether he knows it’s from Hamlet or not isn’t clear.

Yes, I knew it was from Hamlet. I thought the ending in Withnail was beautiful and bleak and expressed Nihilism very well so it was a pastiche that worked better than the original.

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SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 16:58

CalishataFolkart · 15/01/2026 16:34

Ok.

So what part does “luck” play as you define it?

We know the babies belong to their parents, but they are not with their parents.

Baby A should have benefitted from all the hard work that their ancestors put in over the years, but they will not.

Baby B should have been with a family of feckless wasters but is now living with Family A.

Is Baby A unlucky that all the opportunities set up for them are going to someone else?

Is Baby B lucky to have those opportunities that none of their ancestors have worked for?

I haven't said luck doesn't exist. Only, that you can't write everything off as 'luck'.

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NorthXNorthWest · 15/01/2026 16:57

Mithral · 15/01/2026 16:22

I was responding to your yet somehow it’s never considered ‘luck’ to live in a country with a welfare state with an example of how I did consider it good luck to live in a country with a welfare state.

Keep. Digging.

KTheGrey · 15/01/2026 16:41

KTheGrey · 15/01/2026 16:28

I think hardly anybody comes out as a net contributor in terms of money - effectively the majority of us are subsidised by the super rich.

However, I agree that voting should be linked to participation. If you have pre-children you are working many many hours in an unpaid job, but obviously contributing. Also if you are bringing your children up to be well adjusted and polite and decent then you are partcipating to better effect for society. Maybe the answer is more votes for better contributions.

Working full time, however, also seems to me to qualify as participation. Extra voting power for distinguished work? Prizewinning nurses get double weighted votes?

Where your analysis is accurate is that when everybody in society is in a special interest group that expects the State to subsidise them, and they vote, governments are utterly corrupted by the necessity of getting elected by a majority which requires at least some of the special interest groups’ votes.

However, it’s a bit brutal because our system does not acknowledge unpaid labour except by making ‘carer’s allowances’ which are both unaffordable for the state and too little to live on for an individual.

I meant pre-school children cos they are 24/7.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 15/01/2026 16:36

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 12:15

TLDR words have actual meanings. If everything is reduced to “luck”, it’s not surprising that nihilism extends to language as well. Redefining words has been a well known and deliberate tactic in communist movements, particularly in Marxist Leninist traditions. If you treat definitions as arbitrary, there’s nothing left to learn and no way to fail, which conveniently supports wealth redistribution and state intervention if that's what you want.

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The rich man in his castle, the poor man at his gate, God made them high or lowly and ordered their estate, eh?

Didn't think this was going to progress into All Things Bright and Beautiful, but the Internet never fails to disappoint.

ToWhitToWhoo · 15/01/2026 16:35

Just to add:

When a country is down to 60% turnout in a General Election, democracy is at crisis point. We should be looking for reasons why people don't vote and try to combat them. The very LAST thing we need is increased restrictions on who can vote.

CalishataFolkart · 15/01/2026 16:34

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 15:29

The baby that shared genetics belongs to those parents. And, I'd welcome developing that line of thinking further. Very often we see it's nature not nurture which is what "the sins of the father" is about. I think freewill plays a part but less so in instant decisions and more in discipline in preparing for being the person the moment needs. Or to put it differently, I think you can change outcomes and nature but not simply by dropping a cuckoo into the nest. So you'd see both babies being 'different' to the families they ended up in. Prob similar to kids who unknowingly have diff Fathers.

Ok.

So what part does “luck” play as you define it?

We know the babies belong to their parents, but they are not with their parents.

Baby A should have benefitted from all the hard work that their ancestors put in over the years, but they will not.

Baby B should have been with a family of feckless wasters but is now living with Family A.

Is Baby A unlucky that all the opportunities set up for them are going to someone else?

Is Baby B lucky to have those opportunities that none of their ancestors have worked for?

KTheGrey · 15/01/2026 16:28

I think hardly anybody comes out as a net contributor in terms of money - effectively the majority of us are subsidised by the super rich.

However, I agree that voting should be linked to participation. If you have pre-children you are working many many hours in an unpaid job, but obviously contributing. Also if you are bringing your children up to be well adjusted and polite and decent then you are partcipating to better effect for society. Maybe the answer is more votes for better contributions.

Working full time, however, also seems to me to qualify as participation. Extra voting power for distinguished work? Prizewinning nurses get double weighted votes?

Where your analysis is accurate is that when everybody in society is in a special interest group that expects the State to subsidise them, and they vote, governments are utterly corrupted by the necessity of getting elected by a majority which requires at least some of the special interest groups’ votes.

However, it’s a bit brutal because our system does not acknowledge unpaid labour except by making ‘carer’s allowances’ which are both unaffordable for the state and too little to live on for an individual.

CalishataFolkart · 15/01/2026 16:24

Grammarnut · 15/01/2026 15:01

I agree with you , oddly enough about inheritance. What people call 'luck' is the result of many decisions that are not 'luck' in the sense of random chance. If you join the tennis club and go to Durham or St Andrew's universities the possibe partners you will meet will be different from those you have a choice from at the local FE college or at a pub which is a 'bit of a dive'. That is not luck, that is judgement, which mostly comes from parental input over generations and will continue to the next generation.
But you point children towards the mind-frame where they go to Durham and the tennis club by choice. It's called education and requires that we stop saying that all family arrangements and all cultures are equally good, when that is demonstrably not the case.
Give aspiration to the working classes, teach them Latin and the classics, real history including economic and social history, give them books not screens. Not all will respond - just as some of those who are born into families that naturally join the tennis club and go to Durham et al don't always follow the family path - but enough will to change family patterns for happier ones. That's not luck either, and it is to the dishonour of some of our education unions that they praise 'relevance' (Shakespeare and Latin are not relevant to working class children apparently) and not making children uncomfortable over giving them a chance to bloom.
You've quoted Hamlet. You say that your parents could not give you the investment that better off parents might have but you quoted Hamlet. Which means you have not only read or seen that play but studied it enough to remember the point of the lines. So someone, somewhere gave you the wherewithal of inspiration to move out of your milieu and into another where quoting Hamlet (and Roger Scruton) is natural to you. That was luck. And somewhere along the genetic line was the genetic make-up that led you to respond to that luck. Luck again.
I still don't agree with you about voting, though.

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He didn’t quote Hamlet. He quoted Withnail & I. Whether he knows it’s from Hamlet or not isn’t clear.

ToWhitToWhoo · 15/01/2026 16:22

Oh great, let's go back to pre-democracy days when only property owners could vote.

The whole point of voting in a democracy is that EVERYONE has the right to vote and be represented on matters that affect them.

Mithral · 15/01/2026 16:22

NorthXNorthWest · 15/01/2026 16:17

What has your disabled cousin got to do financial compensation for hard work being reduced to luck? Who mentioned anything about what your disabled cousin does or doesn't deserve?

Love that you respect your cousin enough to try weaponise him. Love that it wasn't the gotcha you thought it was. You you keep digging with with that straw spade.

I was responding to your yet somehow it’s never considered ‘luck’ to live in a country with a welfare state with an example of how I did consider it good luck to live in a country with a welfare state.

NorthXNorthWest · 15/01/2026 16:20

SBGM247 · 15/01/2026 16:10

Yes, I could meet you in the middle and agree on something more pragmatic like that @NorthXNorthWest if we could close the borders and focus on a renaissance in our values as a country. We certainly need it. We need rationale hope.

The middle must a votes for all starting point...

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