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To think mainstream education is failing SEN students

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Blablablablablahhhh · 06/01/2026 21:16

I am a teacher - ex mainstream, current SEN - and a parent of an autistic child who attended SEN school and now SEN college. They were quite high level need but now not so much and I credit their fantastic education with dedicated teachers for a big part of that.

I worked in many mainstream schools. I can count on one hand the amount of times I saw a SEN child being provided with a good standard of education . I did a period of supply teaching and went into about 30 different schools and even in the schools where a student was diagnosed , had an EHCP and a 1;1 , they were mainly given ‘filler’ activities or given an iPad to play educational’ games on.

I now work in post 16 with learners with high level needs , some have been in mainstream and I can see the ability they have - they are academically at a primary level but over the few years I have worked there they have made progression ( for example starting on year 2 level work , now on year 5 ) so they are able to learn but in this setting they have high staff levels and teaching styles specific to them individually.

My final straw in mainstream was this and if this isn’t an example of what is wrong , I do not know what is:

I had a child in my class , aged 9, who was autistic. Non verbal. Academically able, but clearly needed 1:1 and support to be able to focus . I had no TA , no support - just me and a class of 30 . I put many strategies in place to support this child . If they could focus on just some key points during input and had a bit of 1;1 support they were completing the work and making progress . An educational psychologist - who came in to school specifically for this child - gave me strategies to use to support them to be able to focus for short periods and I used these and they were successful, I was so proud of this student . One day , a member of SLT came to observe my lesson. During my feedback he said this EXACT thing to me;

“ It’s lovely what you are doing for XX but let’s face it , they’re never going to get it. If they want to wander around the classroom, let them and focus on the ones that are going to”

Sidenote - to make it worse this member of SLT was present for my interview where I spoke about how my own child’s diagnosis and then their progression due to amazing teachers had been my reason for wanting to go into teaching .

It makes me so sad .

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Uptightmumma · 06/01/2026 21:26

I would say there is not enough SEN schools. And the whole way it’s set up at the minute is detrimental to all children. My son has dyspraxia and has some ADHD tendencies but not enough for a diagnoses and we are able to manage it ourselves with techniques etc! My other son has no SEN needs both in a mainstream school which is failing them both because the teachers are under too much pressure and there not enough support for either side. When my son with dysprixia is having a bad day he can be a distraction in class but there is not support, when the SEN kids in my other sons class are having a bad day, they are causing a distraction and effecting his education again due to lack of support! It’s not fair on any one at the moment, kids or teachers.

BobblyBobbleHat · 06/01/2026 21:22

I think the current approach to inclusion let's all pupils down. Teachers and parents know it, but no one in government ever listens.

Anyahyacinth · 06/01/2026 21:19

I work for charity providing work opportunities for people with learning disabilities the talent we see is awe inspiring...thanks for the reminder how much I love my work and AWARD winning SEN team 🫶