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To be depressed that lockdown would happen again tomorrow if there was another new disease

819 replies

Pavementworrier · 05/01/2026 07:35

We talk about all the things that are worse "since the pandemic"but government prep is based on all the same mad nonsense that caused the worsening

Grim

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Binus · 05/01/2026 09:05

ElectoralControversy · 05/01/2026 09:01

Thing is, there's a lot of steps before we get to that stage.

So if Ebola got loose in the UK, we'd be trying to manage it by tracking and isolating contacts initially.

If it got beyond that, there could well be a stage where the govt said, "ok, we need non essential workers to stay home so we only have to isolate a few contacts per infected person"

There'd be a miniscule chance that any person you met was infected, but the govt would be asking us to lockdown just for pandemic management.
Would people do it then?

There could be, depending on the virus, but what was being discussed there wasn't Ebola. It was just a virus that involved 'bleeding from every orifice and dying in the street'.

Personally I don't think there's much point in that kind of example, because it would so obviously be something like a zombie apocalypse. I agree with you that the area of interest and relevance is with something less serious. But for whatever reason, the people keenest on the idea of another lockdown often try and make their point using examples where order would completely break down anyway.

Glowingup · 05/01/2026 09:05

Overthebow · 05/01/2026 07:45

Yes I think lots wouldn’t comply. We would only comply if it were children who were at the highest risk and it was more severe.

Even then I don’t think people would comply unless they personally had children in the at risk category.

Happyjoe · 05/01/2026 09:05

EasternStandard · 05/01/2026 08:56

I’m good, I don’t care that much. Repeating lines from it is probably driven by politics so wondered if there was more to your views based on the virus. If not, fine.

I didn't think you would.

ohlalalalaha · 05/01/2026 09:05

If it was something like bubonic plague, people would happily and voluntarily lock down, I’m sure. For another flu type illness with a high rate of recovery for the average healthy person, no, I don’t think people would comply.

TheKeatingFive · 05/01/2026 09:05

Coaltithe · 05/01/2026 09:00

If that's the case, the alternative to lockdown still won't be the normal life that most of the people here who are saying they won't comply want instead. Normal life will still be ruined either way.

No it would be extremely far from normal life, it would be societal collapse ultimately.

My point is that the set of circumstances that enabled a lockdown as we had with Covid are actually pretty unusual. I cannot see this particular response ever happening again.

Jade3450 · 05/01/2026 09:04

Dolphinnoises · 05/01/2026 07:45

Oh for God’s sake, grow up. Lockdown was awful and had awful down sides, and we had the politicians we elected who were exactly the clowns we all knew they were, and utterly unsuited to the task.

But we didn’t know we would find a vaccine, or that it would be as effective - we were realistically hoping for 50% effectiveness, and on the first strain it was 94% effective, but as it was a coronavirus it did what they all do and evolved.

Everything we are suffering from - the hit to the economy, the trauma of loss and illness-based bodily damage / after-effects - it was all caused by the disaster which is a pandemic. It’s like arguing that we won’t put up with our house falling down next time there is an earthquake.

Ask anyone who worked in a hospital during Covid if we could skip masks and lockdown next time. We can’t. The other thing we can’t avoid - making mistakes. Hindsight is 20:20 but these are insanely difficult choices.

For years we knew we were overdue a global pandemic - the expectation was that they were a one-in-a-hundred-year event but so many factors change - global travel and deforestation on one hand, the facts of novel illnesses on the other - incubation periods, how it spreads. We aren’t in control of everything.

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Absolutely this.

If there was a new disease that spread and 1000+ children were dying every day people while absolutely comply.

RedToothBrush · 05/01/2026 09:04

MrsRobinsonsHandprints · 05/01/2026 07:43

Of course people would comply if lots of children/young people were dying.

The reality is we locked down for the wrong illness

This.

Trust me, if it was the 'right disease' and it looked scary people WOULD lock down by choice.

The issue is people assume now that the next would look like COVID.

If the next one was affecting kids or had a really high death rate people would follow the rules.

One of the reasons people eventually started to ignore the rules was frankly because the rules became ridiculous - Christmas bubbles FFS!

Sesma · 05/01/2026 09:03

ClawsandEffect · 05/01/2026 08:38

I would comply. I take one look at what covid has done to my younger siblings health and I'd be in the house, door locked.

So who would you expect to serve you with all your needs

MuddyDogWalk · 05/01/2026 09:03

HeddaGarbled · 05/01/2026 08:57

But the saying goodbye to dying loved ones on a phone held in front of them by a medical practitioner, not giving your bereaved mum a hug at your dad’s funeral, trapping old people alone in their homes for weeks, taping up park benches, all that, that’s what people won’t comply with. It was inhumane.

It was inhumane on so many levels.

My poor MIL died in 2020, not from Covid but as a direct result of the pandemic (her medical treatment was postponed and her disease progressed rapidly). During the funeral the vicar had to lock us all in the church, her granddaughter who was late due for no fault of her own was not allowed to come in. She was devastated.

TheMorgenmuffel · 05/01/2026 09:03

Saying never ever going to do lock down again is ridiculous.

Surely it depends on the disease?

Those who say they wouldn't comply would change their minds in the event it was a virus that killed you in days and led to mass burials in plague pits.

Toucanfusingforme · 05/01/2026 09:03

JLou08 · 05/01/2026 08:50

I think a lock down would be very, very unlikely. The negative impact on children and young people was too great. Increases in mental health, SEND, unemployment and disability benefits would put off any government.

As someone said earlier, hindsight is wonderful. If in the next pandemic there was no lockdown, and huge numbers of young people died, everyone would be up in arms and saying they would rather have their child alive whatever their mental health.
It’s the same with the (understandable) distress about sending old people back to care homes and them dying. If your (younger) relative had not been able to get an ICU bed because ICU was full of care home patients in their 80s, there would be a huge kick off from the families of the younger ones who died. Unfortunately there is never an answer that is perfect for everyone.

Cocomelon67 · 05/01/2026 09:02

Closing schools, big entertainment venues and working from home where possible is a sensible precaution. The total isolation was probably not and I think did contribute to poor mental health.

Binus · 05/01/2026 09:02

EasternStandard · 05/01/2026 08:39

What happens in a pandemic depends on the virus. As in pp if it was more severe than Covid you’d be looking at a different issue. People not turning up.

Yes, the 'you'd have to lock down' crew don't seem to realise that with a disease sufficiently serious, there won't be essential services! Keeping out of each other's way actually involves a loooooot of labour from people who aren't keeping out of the way. That is not something that is guaranteed to anyone who wants to lock down, however strongly they might wish to comply.

EyeLevelStick · 05/01/2026 09:01

EasternStandard · 05/01/2026 08:45

What do you mean. Who is determining this?

Reality.

If the hospitals become overrun with patients with the disease, and the critical care medicines run any shorter than they did during COVID, there will be no capacity to care for patients with other diseases.

The alternative is to leave the pandemic patients who need respiratory support to die at home while still treating the trauma patients, those with strokes and appendicitis etc.

That’s not even taking into account the higher rate of staff illness through additional exposure, which also has an effect on capacity.

I don’t like the idea of lockdowns one bit, but some method of reduction of transmission of the disease is necessary.

Possibly improved respiratory protective equipment and ventilation should be a greater focus of pandemic planning.

ElectoralControversy · 05/01/2026 09:01

Binus · 05/01/2026 08:12

Yes, as if minimum wage food retail and factory workers are all going to dutifully troop into Asda when they'd have to step over people bleeding from every orifice on the way in. People who think that aren't on this planet.

Thing is, there's a lot of steps before we get to that stage.

So if Ebola got loose in the UK, we'd be trying to manage it by tracking and isolating contacts initially.

If it got beyond that, there could well be a stage where the govt said, "ok, we need non essential workers to stay home so we only have to isolate a few contacts per infected person"

There'd be a miniscule chance that any person you met was infected, but the govt would be asking us to lockdown just for pandemic management.
Would people do it then?

Coaltithe · 05/01/2026 09:00

TheKeatingFive · 05/01/2026 08:51

Which equally applies to a lockdown strategy. It was feasible for Covid because (generally speaking) healthy people of working age were at little risk, so essential services could be maintained.

But try convincing essential workers to put themselves at risk everyday if the mortality rate was high for them.

If that's the case, the alternative to lockdown still won't be the normal life that most of the people here who are saying they won't comply want instead. Normal life will still be ruined either way.

ThoseWeirdStones · 05/01/2026 09:00

I sometimes wonder how our pampered, entitled population would have coped in WW2.
Imagine the chaos and conspiracies? lol.

Smoosha · 05/01/2026 09:00

Fulmine · 05/01/2026 08:35

The thing is, though, that workers are more likely to refuse to go in if the risks are higher because people aren't complying with lockdown and related rules. If there were no lockdown but a high risk of serious illness and death, the situation would be chaotic with people refusing to leave their houses anyway out of sheer fear. It's much, much better that it should be properly regulated.

I’m not a minimum wage worker so I can’t with certainty say what people would do. But I can guarantee that no matter what levels of PPE they gave me or how much they tried to convince me it would be organised, I would not be going to work (in my higher than average paid job) if the risk is death from the illness was higher than about 10%. So while I can’t guarantee it, I can’t imagine many minimum wage workers wanting to go to work either. Especially if they have families they will be going home to and potentially infecting.

LlynTegid · 05/01/2026 09:00

I think that whilst wfh and things such as things being closed would happen, other restrictions would be ignored much more. A legacy of the response from the then Prime Minister who should be facing life imprisonment for the deaths his neglect caused, along with the then Health Secretary for sending older people to their deaths.

I hope there is never another pandemic.

Jugendstiel · 05/01/2026 08:59

Bobiverse · 05/01/2026 07:51

All this “no one would comply” stuff is nonsense. If a new hemorrhagic fever with no cure started spreading around the world, you’d all be inside and isolating.

I think we'd comply in more intelligent ways. No way would I let any family member suffer what my dad suffered: six months in a hospital two hours from anyone he knew, no visitors allowed except my mum who has dementia so someone had to collect her wait for her drive her back but not visit him, unable to use his phone as his hands were so swollen but nurses far too busy to help him so he couldn;t even get our phone calls 90% of the time. Then moved to a truly horrible nursing home as it was the only one that would accept him at the time. he died there.

My son developed anorexia in his 'bubble' of none in his first term at uni as no one else in his flat turned up and he wasn;t allowed to mix with other flats because computer said his flat was 'full'.

I would happily break such cruel, pointless laws which swap one potential danger for a genuine one of chronic isolation and depression which creates severe health issues. too.

EligibleTern · 05/01/2026 08:59

TheKeatingFive · 05/01/2026 08:56

I'm not talking about lockdown or no lockdown - it wouldn't come into it.

If mortality rates for young people were high, there is no way people would risk themselves going to work everyday to keep your fridge stocked and your lights on. The country just wouldn't be able to function. A paltry salary wouldn't be convincing them.

Exactly. Covid was unusual in that it was serious enough to prompt lockdown, but not serious enough for societal collapse, which enabled a version of society to function even under lockdown. A more virulent illness, like the haemorrhagic fevers which some people sound a bit too gleeful about the prospect of on here, wouldn't allow us to have the same kind of "normal life lite" lockdowns again.

Binus · 05/01/2026 08:59

MrMucker · 05/01/2026 08:48

During the lockdown I saw, a selfish streak to the human race which I hadn't known could exist., and this thread proves it's not only still there, but greater.

A lockdown is for everybody, for the greater good, and those who resist it are all about themselves. My children, my welfare my fun, my freedom. Me me me.

So sad about this aspect of the human race.

This shows total lack of understanding.

Lockdown is a pandemic management tool that involves prioritising the welfare of some groups over others. The same with not locking down. The government is choosing who are the collateral is.

Hopefully the last one was for the greater good. It would be very unpleasant indeed to think we did all that harm and the pros didn't even outweigh the cons. At this point it's guesswork either way, but I know what I would prefer to be true. However, even if we do one day get into a position where we can prove that lockdown was the least worst option, it will still be true that it massively fucked over some people. The same would also have been true if we'd chosen not to lock down (I don't think we could actually have avoided it, but theoretically).

HeddaGarbled · 05/01/2026 08:57

But the saying goodbye to dying loved ones on a phone held in front of them by a medical practitioner, not giving your bereaved mum a hug at your dad’s funeral, trapping old people alone in their homes for weeks, taping up park benches, all that, that’s what people won’t comply with. It was inhumane.

TheKeatingFive · 05/01/2026 08:56

Fulmine · 05/01/2026 08:53

But more young people would be dying without lockdown, and I think most people are sensible enough to realise that. There are also basic imperatives like needing to keep your job that incentivise people to go to work.

I'm not talking about lockdown or no lockdown - it wouldn't come into it.

If mortality rates for young people were high, there is no way people would risk themselves going to work everyday to keep your fridge stocked and your lights on. The country just wouldn't be able to function. A paltry salary wouldn't be convincing them.

5128gap · 05/01/2026 08:56

Samdelila · 05/01/2026 08:42

We would be - by our own choice. The risks should be spelt out clearly and honestly so that people could make an informed decision about the risks they were prepared to take. It shouldn’t be mandatory.

When something is considered a serious enough risk its never left for people to choose. We can't even choose not to wear a seat belt, take certain drugs or ride a motorbike without a helmet. We're certainly not going to be allowed to choose whether we go about risking catching and transmitting a potentially deadly new virus.