Why was Adam Peatys mum disinvited from the wedding?

This is is the problem, it's clearly not a stretch that his mum/family crossed his boundaries to the extent they weren't invited to the wedding. It doesn't have to be the exact same scenario to justify his choices.

My DH is no contact with his mum DH made the decision after his mum repeatedly cut him and our child out of her life for months when she took offense to anything DH disagreed with her on, like DC should be potty trained at 9 months, adding salt to her food at 6 months, blaming the fact my child wasn't walking by 12 months on me and much more.

There is not one incident as bad as the poster you responded to but it was enough for DH to realise he didn't want his child to be added to a toxic and bullying dynamic. So he put his boundaries in place and the family basically said 'no you have to accept this is the way mum and we are and put up with it or you're out' so DH opted out. But of course the rest of the family and neighbors have an edited, one sided version of events and she is 'the poor grandma who has been cut off by his sons manipulative partner.'

In my experience it takes a lot for a person to actually walk away from their family, I only know one person in that position. So I don't think it's a reach to assume his mother did something her son found incredibly hurtful.

I had not heard about this delightful family until I noticed the wedding pics online as im
local & partial to a bit of Beckham. I’ve been enjoying all the gossipy details ever since due to Christmas news vacuum!

Yes thats what I thought. There were issues with the partner when he was on Strictly iirc. His mum made some kind of fuss then too and went to the papers.

gordon bennett!

Brother threatened not to let Adam go on his stag do or something like that. Think only the brother was arrested and questioned.

She doesn’t help herself by running to talk to the media

why are police involved though?

I read online that she was rude to Gordon at the engagement party and made a bit of a scene. This is what led to her not being invited to the hen party and all the drama since then.

whether she felt she had a good reason to be upset at the engagement party confronting the host in the middle of the party in front of everyone is never the right thing to do and she should have addressed her issues privately with Holly and Adam.

It’s so embarrassing she kept doubling down on her behaviour and she really can’t be shocked she was uninvited from the wedding in the end.

Totally not the point of the thread, but BBC showed a video of them exiting the Abbey and into a car: there was someone behind the bride (helping her in the car) wearing what looked like a parka with a fluffy trim around the hood. Did anyone else see it? Yet the poor bridesmaids looked freezing in their dresses.

Totally not the point, I realise but for a bored hour yesterday I went down a rabbit hole of how to keep bridesmaids and guests warm during winter weddings.

Wasn’t that because of his brother? Something about he wasn’t invited to the stag do?

And something about clothes no? Mum wanted to wear beige, Holly asked her not to, they offered to pay for a different outfit but mum didn’t show up to a shopping trip. Something like that.

Please god, he called her an idiot sandwich and used the buns again

adam who is adam ramsay peaty on instagram now, put a post out in november and said police were involved

You can’t stop people speculating, talking, thinking…

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There were rumours that he cheated while on Strictly so I don't believe he is squeaky clean. Be interesting to see if this relationship lasts. I do think he is enjoying his new "celebrity" status.

I have been vaguely following the story and it has been rumbling on a while. Rumours that the parents aren't "celebrity" enough although of course much must have happened behind the scenes to cause such a big fall out. His sister was bridesmaid though. Sad though after all his parents did for him for his swimming career.

'Baby trapped him'? You sound quite the misogynist. He could/should have used contraception if he didn't want a baby.

I'm not sure why you are slagging off his ex-partner when she isn't involved in the wedding shit-show at all.

I would imagine that his mum isn't invited because she posted very publicly about not being invited to the hen do, I assume with the aim of embarrassing the bride-to-be.

It might also be because his mum doesn't look very A-list or Instagrammable.

With the caveat that I had not heard of AP before his mum kicked off, and I couldn’t name any of GR’s kids:

By his mum’s own interview with the DM she said the issues were that she wasn’t invited to the hen; that she wanted to wear cream/white to the wedding with navy accessories and was asked to wear another colour, paid for by the couple; the Ramsays threw an engagement party for the couple to which some of the more distant family members were not invited; and that she felt her son was close to the Ramsay family and she was losing him.

She’s definitely lost him now.

All a big set up IMO, so that they can create a bit of interest in their nuptials and justify selling their story.
Her wrapped in a cloak to protect the big "hello reveal"was just hilarious! No one's looking at your dress love.

Omg! I remember this now. Jeez....she's an emotional car crash. I remember thinking (after the Strictly fiasco) fuck ......imagine having a Mum like that.

🙄😬

He cheated on the ex multiple times, even kissing his strictly pro on live tv

Did GR really make a comment about his wife’s looks and then say leeringly to his son in law-‘That’s what you’ve got to look forward to?’ What a creep.

Made me wonder why there was the huge amount of security guys. What were they expecting ?