My mum and dad both have big birthdays coming up so I want to suggest that we go on a big family holiday with the whole family. (This will likely be in 2027, to give everyone time to save)
I haven’t suggested it yet because I’m a bit split on how we would share the costs.
Our family is as follows
parents, me, a younger sibling (both me and my younger sibling are single, no children), and my older siblings who are each married with two children a piece.
We would likely end up needing 7 or 8 bedrooms (depending on which children would be happy to share), so how is it split? Is it an even split per family, which would mean my brother and I end up paying huge chunk more because of the extra bedrooms, or is it per bedroom? So i would pay for one bedroom of the accommodation and the families using two pay for two?
I want to have it laid out before i suggest it because otherwise i can see it being absolute chaos.
YABU - everyone pays an equal split. It’s a family holiday and it shouldn’t be unequal.
YANBU - you should pay per bedroom