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How old are year 1 mums

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gottalovemushrooms · 10/12/2025 20:22

If u are a mum to a child in year 1 how old are u? Just cos I feel so old. I’m almost 42

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Kittkats · 12/12/2025 09:30

I was 33, 35, 39 and 41

Dancingintherain09 · 12/12/2025 09:27

I was 27 with DS1 and 34 with DS2

SleepingStandingUp · 12/12/2025 09:26

the only thing I regret about having babies so old is the grandkids 😂 if they have their father's prowess with the females I'll be decrepit before I get any!! and yes they might choose to not have any anyway or be unable to etc. but 5 yos current ambition is to be a Daddy like Daddy. and then a headteacher as an afterthought 😂

randomusernam · 12/12/2025 09:25

37 with my first and 43 with my second

SleepingStandingUp · 12/12/2025 09:20

Tacox · 10/12/2025 22:04

Depends on the school. I had mine at 16 in year 3 now and I’m 24. The others are all way older than me with even a few grandparents raising their grandkids, none of them want to know me.
I wouldn’t worry about being too old at 42 though think most of these are in their 30s or 40s

I'm sorry, that's really shit. my school Mom friendship group ranges from first child at 19 to first child at 40 (all same year). Age has nothing to do with friendship especially situational ones like school where you clearly have stuff in common.

Mogwais · 12/12/2025 09:15

With dcs 1 & 2 I was mid 30's when they were in year 1, dd 3 is in reception so I'll be a couple of months off 50 when she's in year 1, I would say that the majority of the mums and dad's at my dds school range from mid 30s to 50's, I think more & more women are waiting until later to have children now.

SleepingStandingUp · 12/12/2025 09:14

43, nearly 44.

there's one Mom a year younger, another few in maybe mid 30s / late 30s and a load of 20 something's who are all slim and beautiful. I get the feeling old thing.

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 12/12/2025 09:14

I was 21 with my eldest and 34 with my youngest child.

My daughter and step daughter were both 25 when their eldest were in year 1.

FromTheFirstOldFashionedWeWereCursed · 12/12/2025 09:12

I'm 45 - I was 39 when she was born. I'm one of the oldest mums in her class, but I don't think I'm the oldest.

Pandolly · 12/12/2025 09:11

I'm 37. The playground parents for the other Yr 1 children vary widely tbh, some are older than me, there's someone in their 50's, some are in their 20's.

ThisCalmCrow · 12/12/2025 09:09

I’m 33 with my eldest in year 1, and I’ll be 37 by the time my youngest starts

GeorgeEdwardsMum · 12/12/2025 09:08

When DD was in reception she was asked by a DC if I was her GM when I picked her up from school. I was a bit upset thinking I must look ancient. I was 39.
It turned out the girl who said it had a DM aged nineteen. I was four years older than her GM.
I was pretty average in age, but there were outliers both ways.

pollymere · 12/12/2025 08:04

I was in my early thirties standing by Mums in early twenties and those in their mid forties.

TheFluffiestCat · 12/12/2025 07:09

I was 39. Most of the school run mums were about the same age but ranged from about 25-50.

ThisQuirkyAmberMember · 12/12/2025 06:48

gottalovemushrooms · 10/12/2025 20:22

If u are a mum to a child in year 1 how old are u? Just cos I feel so old. I’m almost 42

I was 42 with my eldest, 44 with my 2nd & 46 with my youngest when they were in year 1. We’ve moved around a lot & I was pretty much always the oldest mum in the class! My daughter (now in year 10) however, has just moved schools & I’m a pretty average age there! 😆

Edited to add that amongst my friendship group, I was a very average age!

Chickadee001 · 12/12/2025 06:21

I'm 54 - great isn't it?!! WE have more sense and more experience to pass on - I think/hope!😍

POTC · 12/12/2025 00:50

I was 27 then 31, other parents were all at least 10 years older than me. It very much depends on the area though, small village schools tend to be mostly older parents, estate schools in deprived areas less so

Gothamcity · 12/12/2025 00:49

Vast majority at our school with ks1 kids are mid 30s to early 40s.

POTC · 12/12/2025 00:48

I was 27 then 31, other parents were all at least 10 years older than me. It very much depends on the area though, small village schools tend to be mostly older parents, estate schools in deprived areas less so

eastegg · 12/12/2025 00:44

Mrsnothingthanks · 12/12/2025 00:22

@eastegg A child bride?! What?!!! I've just turned 45 with a son at uni (and also a 5 yo!) Someone once asked me if my daughter was an "accident." Absolutely not.

I know! I think it was meant as a very light hearted compliment, it’s just funny because medically speaking I’m a pretty old mum, as you illustrate! I thought it was interesting that I’ve had that comment, but also someone cautioning that I might not see my youngest grow up, in the same day!

Mrsnothingthanks · 12/12/2025 00:22

@eastegg A child bride?! What?!!! I've just turned 45 with a son at uni (and also a 5 yo!) Someone once asked me if my daughter was an "accident." Absolutely not.

eastegg · 12/12/2025 00:18

LemaxObsessive · 11/12/2025 19:52

Do you not feel guilty? I mean that there’s a much lower chance of seeing him/her grow up? Just as mine didnt with me. I don’t get the logic behind the decision at all. Becoming an adult with no living parents remaining is not something I recommend it’s the hardest and loneliest thing a young person can go through, trust me.

I’m sorry about what’s happened to you but as someone who also turned 49 while my youngest was in year 1, your comment is out of order. A much lower chance of seeing them grow up? The pp said 49, not 69 ffs. No I don’t feel guilty, I feel full of love and pride. I think you need to find a better way to deal with your issues than making these sort of comments to people for having children in their forties.

Someone commented to me today that I must have been a child bride as I’ve got a child in sixth form, even though I’m now 51! And yet here you are cautioning me that I might be about to drop dead. Well I suppose I might, but then might we all.

I wish you all the best, and I’m sorry about your parents, but my youngest is the absolute embodiment of joy and hope and the idea I might feel guilty is anathema. I’m confident no-one in my actual life would think that I should.

It’s odd the things people feel emboldened to say on the internet.

Mamabearandcubs · 11/12/2025 23:58

i’ll be 31 and 33 when mine are in year 1 :)

eastegg · 11/12/2025 23:39

Only read the first page but I can beat you all. 48. In fact I turned 48 while my youngest was in reception.

Will carry on reading now, I’m sure there’ll be someone older 😂

HughGrantsfurrysquirrel · 11/12/2025 23:39

I was 42 when my youngest was in yr1.
Several of us were around the same age. X

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