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To think free birthing should be entirely banned

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StandFirm · 22/11/2025 11:13

I have come across this article earlier which made me feel so very angry at the cynical extremists who brainwashed a mum into an entirely avoidable tragedy: https://www.theguardian.com/world/ng-interactive/2025/nov/22/free-birth-society-linked-to-babies-deaths-investigation
If I'd listened to similar cretins, I would have died in childbirth aged 19 and none of my three DCs would have been born alive or at the very least without severe disabilities. 'Pearls of wisdom' which gave me the rage include:
-ultrasounds are not safe
-women’s “bodies do not grow babies that we cannot birth”
Such ignorant perfidious lies. I hope the cult leader gets sent down for a very long time. That poor little child was robbed of a healthy body and many more actually died. I really hate the internet's ability to spawn dangerous cults entirely unchecked.

Influencers made millions pushing ‘wild’ births – now the Free Birth Society is linked to baby deaths around the world

A year-long investigation reveals how mothers lost children after being radicalised by uplifting podcast tales of births without midwives or doctors

https://www.theguardian.com/world/ng-interactive/2025/nov/22/free-birth-society-linked-to-babies-deaths-investigation

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Thingsaretight · 22/11/2025 11:39

I think homebirths should be banned too. But that’s just me

CherryVanillaPie · 22/11/2025 11:39

Amanda the Yorkshire Farm/Shepherdess had one of her babies at home on her own as she lives far from a hospital and had already had other babies and birthed sheep. I don't think you could ban it

CountFucula · 22/11/2025 11:39

Deliberate freebirthing should be a criminal act of child endangerment in my view

JinglingtoChristmas · 22/11/2025 11:37

I believe free birthing is madness but I also believe a women has the right to consent or not to consent to medical treatmemt.

5dollah · 22/11/2025 11:34

I agree OP. Freebirthing seems like madness.

Bitzee · 22/11/2025 11:30

Free birthing shouldn’t be banned. Most free births are accidental aren’t they? Faster than expected labour, couldn’t make it to the hospital, ambulance didn’t get there in time sort of scenarios and then what the police would need to investigate to make sure it wasn’t your plan all along… That would be awful. Consequences for spreading medical misinformation would be a good idea though.

TenderChicken · 22/11/2025 11:28

No, women shouldn't be forced to have medical intervention if they don't want it.

You're conflating issues here.

AudHvamm · 22/11/2025 11:23

No I don't think freebirthing should be banned.

I read this article earlier and like you was appalled by the misinformation and dangerous resistance to any medical intervention the two founders of this organisation peddled, along with hiding 'negative outcomes'. But to me it seemed the issue is more with one of the founders wanting to monetise the practice without being able to regulate it.

I wouldn't free birth, but I also know people who have successfully, likewise know people whose babies died during midwife-assisted home births. I think it's important that women are questioning and resisting unnecessary medicalisation but I also believe the conversation around risks should be much more pragmatic and less emotive.

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