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To think the UK unfairly taxes families?

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OwnGravityField · 09/11/2025 12:52

I have just found out that the UK is an outlier, in that it completely stops collecting a form of social tax (NI in the UK) once someone gets to pension age.

In every other country, pensioners’ contributtion as a proportion of income is much more similar to working households.

Example of disparity in the UK:

A working person earning 25k pays:

  • Income tax: £2,486
  • NI: £1,002
  • total = £3488

A pensioner with an income of 25k pays only:

  • Income tax: £2,486
  • no NI
  • total = £2486

So, a UK worker on 25k pays 40% MORE total tax than the pensioner (the difference between 2486 and 3488).

Let’s compare with a beloved utopia of fairness, such as Sweden: worker on similar salary pays 9% more tax than a pensioner.

Yes, other countries have slightly larger differences, but none except France come anywhere close to the UK difference in tax treatment between workers and pensioners.

In the interests of balanced sharing of info: France is tax and spend basket case. France taxes workers roughly twice as hard as pensioners. It’s obscene and the country is practically bankrupt.

Most other European countries narrow the gap by keeping small health or social contributions on pension income.

You might be thinking most UK pensioners don’t have 25k coming in? Nope. 3 million have individual incomes of 25k or more.

Anyway, I think it’s shocking that people at the most expensive time of their lives (kids, mortgage, food) are taxed so much more heavily. AIBU?

OP posts:
BritHoward · 10/11/2025 08:39

Kitte321 · 10/11/2025 08:19

Exactly this. The current working population have 0% chance of benefitting in this way. And as a parent to two kids, I accept that for benefit of the next generation it has to be that way.
But I am resentful of paying for those that don’t need the pension and are sat on inherited and independent wealth (let’s be honest - mainly linked to house price inflation). I would add I don’t resent a penny to someone that does need it.

We'll retire in 10 years, we've always assumed we won't get a state pension, we've always assumed it will be means tested - the country just cannot afford to continue supporting wealthy pensioners - (of course we need to continue to support the less well off pensioners). The younger generation are being crippled with taxes - it just can't continue.

BritHoward · 10/11/2025 08:36

JHound · 09/11/2025 22:12

It goes towards Pensions and the NHS? Do you wish to defund both?

You do know tax revenue doesn't work in the neat little accounts - all of it goes into to a big pot and the Gov decide how to spend it. No one is suggesting we defund anything - you misunderstand (willfully maybe) - when the NI is abolished the tax take will be moved to income tax and then everyone with an income will pay the same tax (well it'll be a start to making things fairer - there's much more work that needs to be done)

Kitte321 · 10/11/2025 08:19

rainingsnoring · 10/11/2025 07:43

What are you talking about? Do you seriously think that conditions, including favourable tax treatment and tripled locked pensions will still be around in 10 years, never mind 50 years when today's 20 year olds, if not already dead, might hope to finally retire?!

Exactly this. The current working population have 0% chance of benefitting in this way. And as a parent to two kids, I accept that for benefit of the next generation it has to be that way.
But I am resentful of paying for those that don’t need the pension and are sat on inherited and independent wealth (let’s be honest - mainly linked to house price inflation). I would add I don’t resent a penny to someone that does need it.

rainingsnoring · 10/11/2025 07:48

JHound · 09/11/2025 22:12

It goes towards Pensions and the NHS? Do you wish to defund both?

Who has suggested that? Are you able to quote anyone who has suggested that on here?

rainingsnoring · 10/11/2025 07:46

dottiehens · 09/11/2025 21:21

Honestly stop it with the pensioners. Do you get they are retired and can’t earn any money? Yes, families are paying too much. Everyone is but many are not even net contributors.

Why? Older people aren't a specially protected species. There is always plenty on here and in the rest of the media criticising the young, those on benefits, the disabled, public sector workers. It's constant.
In this instance, the discussion is about pensioners paying a lot less tax than those younger than them, That's unfair. The tax system needs reform. That much is clear.

rainingsnoring · 10/11/2025 07:43

Theyreeatingthedogs · 10/11/2025 06:28

You do realise that young people will not always be young don't you? Their time will come. You have to be patient as other generations have been. It seems you want it all and you want in NOW.

What are you talking about? Do you seriously think that conditions, including favourable tax treatment and tripled locked pensions will still be around in 10 years, never mind 50 years when today's 20 year olds, if not already dead, might hope to finally retire?!

OwnGravityField · 10/11/2025 06:46

Theyreeatingthedogs · 10/11/2025 06:28

You do realise that young people will not always be young don't you? Their time will come. You have to be patient as other generations have been. It seems you want it all and you want in NOW.

No I would like tax fairness between the generations

OP posts:
Theyreeatingthedogs · 10/11/2025 06:28

OwnGravityField · 09/11/2025 18:10

Dividends and rental income are still taxed, but in different ways.

Lots of discussion about people having paid tax in all their lives and how hard they’ve worked before becoming pensioners means they feel they deserve to pay less tax than younger people, presumably.

This doesn’t get round the point that on the continent, except for France, this kind of thinking doesn’t exist. The situation on the continent is that tax is based on ability to pay, not an assumption that younger people should pay vastly more taxes than older people (as is the case today in the UK).

Actually, I’d forgotten something else: the extra graduate ‘tax’ of student loans.

Instead of turning this round to ‘why I deserve my special tax treatment in retirement’ can someone with some skin in the game please explain to me why younger people should be paying vastly more tax than pensioners? What is the rationale? Presumably if you feel you deserve special treatment in retirement, then you also feel that young people deserve to be punished simply for being young? To me, that doesn’t make sense.

You do realise that young people will not always be young don't you? Their time will come. You have to be patient as other generations have been. It seems you want it all and you want in NOW.

MrsSkylerWhite · 10/11/2025 03:30

Schubert11 · 09/11/2025 17:44

Your family doesn’t speak for everybody. Generations have families don’t all have the same jobs and I’d love to know how you know the amounts in Victorian bank accounts. I have no idea what wealth my grandparents had .

My mum spent over a year looking into our family tree so her research is sound.

BritHoward · 10/11/2025 03:07

Bushmillsbabe · 09/11/2025 22:27

She must have had quite a decent job then? My mum worked as admin for nhs for about 15-20 years part time. Her nhs pension is about 4-5k per year due to relatively low pay, part time and limited years. Quite a few of my friends mums never worked, they weren't well off, it just wasn't expected I don't think. So all reliant on their husbands private pension. There will of course be some women in their 70's with a decent pension, but many more men with one.

It doesn’t matter if they don’t have a high income they won’t pay a lot of tax that’s how it works for everyone - I don’t think pensioners should be an exception. Everyone should pay the same tax.

No5ChalksRoad · 10/11/2025 01:51

What a complete crock of shit, OP.

JHound · 10/11/2025 01:49

WestwardHo1 · 09/11/2025 22:57

I'm not sure i said anywhere that I wish to defund pensions and the NHS?🤔

However they certainly both cannot continue in their current form. Not sure I'm alone in thinking that. Saying you think scrapping national insurance and describing it as a tax on working people doesn't mean you think pensions and the NHS should be defunded.

Well if you cut the tax that collects money for them, either you replace it or you think that they should be defunded. There are no magic money trees.

WestwardHo1 · 09/11/2025 22:57

JHound · 09/11/2025 22:12

It goes towards Pensions and the NHS? Do you wish to defund both?

I'm not sure i said anywhere that I wish to defund pensions and the NHS?🤔

However they certainly both cannot continue in their current form. Not sure I'm alone in thinking that. Saying you think scrapping national insurance and describing it as a tax on working people doesn't mean you think pensions and the NHS should be defunded.

Bushmillsbabe · 09/11/2025 22:27

BritHoward · 09/11/2025 21:57

Mil gets £12.6k from her private pension and £4k from her dh’s pension, she didn’t work for many years either. She’ll be fine paying the NI. Portion on her income tax. We’ll be fine paying NI because there is no option - we’ve always assumed we won’t get a state pension either / there just isn’t enough money around - too many people are not working compared to people who are working and as the population age this is only going to get worse.

She must have had quite a decent job then? My mum worked as admin for nhs for about 15-20 years part time. Her nhs pension is about 4-5k per year due to relatively low pay, part time and limited years. Quite a few of my friends mums never worked, they weren't well off, it just wasn't expected I don't think. So all reliant on their husbands private pension. There will of course be some women in their 70's with a decent pension, but many more men with one.

JHound · 09/11/2025 22:14

@OwnGravityField why have you only made this about working families?

JHound · 09/11/2025 22:12

WestwardHo1 · 09/11/2025 13:14

But yes I do agree in principle. National insurance is misnamed as it doesn't insure you against anything, and loads of people think they are paying into a ringfenced pot to fund their own retirement. Nothing could be further from the truth. It's a tax on working and should be scrapped.

It goes towards Pensions and the NHS? Do you wish to defund both?

BritHoward · 09/11/2025 21:57

Bushmillsbabe · 09/11/2025 19:00

The 3 million who get over 25k is probably quite misleading. I would hazard a guess that the majority of those are men, and that income is split between a couple, so 12.5k each. Those who are retired now were born in 40's and 50's, where women having a higher paid role to enable them to put enough into a pension to get 25k income per year from it is unusual. Whereas many of those earning 25k now are likely to have 2 adults earning that, so double a pensioners income.

Mil gets £12.6k from her private pension and £4k from her dh’s pension, she didn’t work for many years either. She’ll be fine paying the NI. Portion on her income tax. We’ll be fine paying NI because there is no option - we’ve always assumed we won’t get a state pension either / there just isn’t enough money around - too many people are not working compared to people who are working and as the population age this is only going to get worse.

Plantatreetoday · 09/11/2025 21:33

Katypp · 09/11/2025 20:36

Or alternatively, let's go for anyone who isn't you

I’m not a pensioner
but yes I don’t receive any cash benefits either ie UC PIP etc

This isn’t about me though

This is looking at all benefits as income
So all money from whatever source over the £12570 allowance should be taxed

Irrespective of who they are or where the money comes from.
The pp I tagged said it wasn’t a matter of jealousy but fairness so let’s look at that radical thought then

dottiehens · 09/11/2025 21:21

Honestly stop it with the pensioners. Do you get they are retired and can’t earn any money? Yes, families are paying too much. Everyone is but many are not even net contributors.

kiwiane · 09/11/2025 20:50

We don’t really benefit from house prices going up - we still need to live in any house we own until we die.
Economic changes have favoured the rich, there’s also been deflation due to the government printing more money. Setting workers against pensioners is a political tactic that ignores the real problem - we are being screwed by the wealthy.

Waitfortheguinness · 09/11/2025 20:40

Katypp · 09/11/2025 15:54

What a nasty post, but sadly typical of some posters on MN, who seem to think their generation is unique in finding bringing up children expensive and paying for the current lot of pensions.

What they fail to understand is that, until the process changes, the poor ones following them into the works markets will be funding their pensions too….
and it all goes around again, and again……..

Gingernessy · 09/11/2025 20:38

Plantatreetoday · 09/11/2025 18:13

Clearly that’s not fair on everyone though is it
Fair would be taxing every penny earned from whatever source
starting at £0.0

I'd still allow a tax free portion but I agree people should be taxed on every pound of income - no matter where its from including those on long term benefits

Katypp · 09/11/2025 20:36

Plantatreetoday · 09/11/2025 20:27

In which case if pensioners should pay ni on their income ( that they have btw paid towards )
then so should
UC payments and PIP payments

In fact let’s go for all income over the threshold for everyone.

Or alternatively, let's go for anyone who isn't you

Plantatreetoday · 09/11/2025 20:27

rainingsnoring · 09/11/2025 17:30

It's not a question of jealousy. It's a question of fairness and adapting to circumstances that have very clearly changed. It also isn't about you and how hard you have worked. Many have worked hard and continue to do so.
What really amazes me is the jealousy exhibited by a few posters on here, complaining that they didn't receive UC or have foreign holidays!

In which case if pensioners should pay ni on their income ( that they have btw paid towards )
then so should
UC payments and PIP payments

In fact let’s go for all income over the threshold for everyone.

Bushmillsbabe · 09/11/2025 19:00

The 3 million who get over 25k is probably quite misleading. I would hazard a guess that the majority of those are men, and that income is split between a couple, so 12.5k each. Those who are retired now were born in 40's and 50's, where women having a higher paid role to enable them to put enough into a pension to get 25k income per year from it is unusual. Whereas many of those earning 25k now are likely to have 2 adults earning that, so double a pensioners income.