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To be a bit stunned by Lily Allen’s new album

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AngeloMysterioso · 24/10/2025 11:33

Oooofff. I mean it might as well be called Fuck You David Harbour, You Cheating Bastard. Safe to say she’s set a new bar for diaristic songwriting. I feel so sad for her, I know she’s not everyone’s favourite person but it’s always been clear that all she wanted was to love and be loved and she seemed so happy with him- he popped up on her podcast with Miquita Oliver a few times and seemed so genuine in the way he spoke about her… for it to all collapse in such spectacularly public and hideous fashion must have been awful to endure, so I don’t blame her for working through it by going back to what she does best but still… blimey. I feel like I’ve been spying in their bedroom or something after listening to it!

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StoneColdAlibi · 01/04/2026 16:18

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 01/04/2026 15:17

I disagree
She was very light hearted when she was selling her own cheating story for money.

Given you clearly don't like her I'm finding it hard to believe you sat down and read her book. I disagree that it was at all lighthearted.

Bambamhoohoo · 01/04/2026 16:09

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 01/04/2026 15:17

I disagree
She was very light hearted when she was selling her own cheating story for money.

I think people are missing the interesting thing about Lily, that she’s openly flawed and her mistakes have been documented her whole life. She’s had a difficult upbringing and makes not secret of her struggles to emotionally regulate, her co dependency and other trauma related issues (including addiction, eating disorders)

she doesn’t hide when she’s awkward, when she says something in the moment or when a joke or dark humour lands badly. She’s not always polished and PR ready.

i think she’s clear that sometimes she is an arsehole. One thing she’s never claimed to be is perfect and without flaw. She’s not apologising for her mistakes and mistruths, shes owning them and demonstrating you dont have to be defined by them.

I don’t know what people would rather, that’s she’s so shamed and embarrassed by her past she either lives a life of constant apology or just… disappears so people never have to think of it again? Too many woman are shamed into obscurity and I think it’s great lily manages to bounce back. It’s not easy, for sure.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 01/04/2026 15:17

StoneColdAlibi · 01/04/2026 14:55

What are you talkin about, there was no laughing about it in her autobiography?

I disagree
She was very light hearted when she was selling her own cheating story for money.

StoneColdAlibi · 01/04/2026 14:55

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 01/04/2026 09:11

It does rub me up the wrong way that she cheats on the father of her children and laughed about it in her autobiography.
Then her husband cheats on her and she employs a load writers to create an album about how hurt she was by it and she’s suddenly relevant again.

What are you talkin about, there was no laughing about it in her autobiography?

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 01/04/2026 09:13

PeonyPatch · 08/11/2025 13:23

What are you talking about?

Lily Allen paid female prostitutes to perform sex acts on her while she was married to the father of her children.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 01/04/2026 09:11

It does rub me up the wrong way that she cheats on the father of her children and laughed about it in her autobiography.
Then her husband cheats on her and she employs a load writers to create an album about how hurt she was by it and she’s suddenly relevant again.

KimberleyClark · 01/04/2026 08:14

AngeloMysterioso · 24/10/2025 12:55

Why shouldn’t abortion be used as contraception? She can have as many as she bloody likes.

Have you heard the saying “prevention is better than cure”? Of course abortion should be available but that doesn’t make it ok to not bother with contraception.

graceallen · 01/04/2026 07:54

Completely agree, this album genuinely floored me. She's just so raw and honest about everything and you really do feel like you're hearing things you shouldn't be but in the best way. I've been a massive fan of hers for years and follow everything she does. Even her style has been on point lately, I actually just bought a Lily Allen polka dot jacket after seeing her in one recently and it's so good. But yes, the album is something else entirely, she really has set a new bar!

StrongLikeMamma · 20/01/2026 20:20

YourBrickTiger · 20/01/2026 13:13

I just can't see her as a singer. I hate her voice and she doesn't sound like she's singing.

She doesn’t have a good voice.

YourBrickTiger · 20/01/2026 13:13

I just can't see her as a singer. I hate her voice and she doesn't sound like she's singing.

SapphireSeptember · 30/12/2025 15:32

Happyjoe · 24/10/2025 15:15

That pharmacist should've been reported imo.

The rest of your post, am not sure why relevant to the abortion as a regular method of birth control costs? If your pregnant, giving birth or poorly and needing NHS help that's what it's there for isn't it?

It was a comment on the pharmacist saying the morning after pill was costing the NHS money. An abortion would cost more, everything me and DS have been through has cost way more than an abortion, because we've both needed intervention. He's still under the hospital pediatrician and will need another MRI in around a year. He's had a dietician, special milk formula on prescription, and needed a physiotherapist as well. So, so far he's cost the NHS a fortune. And yes, that's what the NHS is for, but it's also there for when you just need a tablet to prevent a pregnancy.

PeonyPatch · 08/11/2025 13:23

Serpentstooth · 08/11/2025 12:18

Disposable dog, disposable husbands, disposable sex workers, distorted values LA, therapy is calling. You can't buy what you need. A therapist may help you to see that. Pay for that instead of further exploiting sex workers.

What are you talking about?

Serpentstooth · 08/11/2025 12:18

Disposable dog, disposable husbands, disposable sex workers, distorted values LA, therapy is calling. You can't buy what you need. A therapist may help you to see that. Pay for that instead of further exploiting sex workers.

Bigneonsign · 06/11/2025 14:00

Piglet89 · 06/11/2025 13:55

Does anyone know whether LA has someone who does what Guy Chambers did for Robbie Williams? The string orchestration on “Just Enough” is absolutely gorgeous. What a sad, sad ballad.

Blue May is credited as producer and others too. Some videos on Instagram showing the writing process, recording of strings etc.

Piglet89 · 06/11/2025 13:55

Does anyone know whether LA has someone who does what Guy Chambers did for Robbie Williams? The string orchestration on “Just Enough” is absolutely gorgeous. What a sad, sad ballad.

PeonyPatch · 05/11/2025 13:28

WeeGeeBored · 05/11/2025 11:34

Oh no! I didn't even know they were on sale. I would definitely have gone.

This was for pre-sale today. General release tickets go on sale this Friday at 10am I believe!!! @WeeGeeBored

WeeGeeBored · 05/11/2025 11:34

PeonyPatch · 05/11/2025 10:46

Just got tickets in the pre-sale to see Lily at the London Palladium - completely sold out now!!

#WSTENDGRL

Oh no! I didn't even know they were on sale. I would definitely have gone.

PeonyPatch · 05/11/2025 10:46

Just got tickets in the pre-sale to see Lily at the London Palladium - completely sold out now!!

#WSTENDGRL

StrongLikeMamma · 04/11/2025 09:23

Cherrytree86 · 04/11/2025 08:11

@piscofrisco

what did Miquita say to you in the pub??

Yes exactly!!! 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️

Cherrytree86 · 04/11/2025 08:11

piscofrisco · 01/11/2025 07:38

I think she was quite badly affected by her childhood and it’s led her to poor mental
health and to make some poor choices because of that. Her now ex husband is one of those choices. She is talented I think. And I’ve always liked her style (I loved her wedding dress-the short one-was it Chanel or Dior-can’t remember but it was fabulous). I suspect she might not be an especially nice person. She comes across as arrogant but fragile beneath the surface which is hard work. My view is clouded by the fact that I don’t like her pal Miquita at all-she was incredibly rude to me in a pub in west London once and I’ve took agin her ever since. (I’m not sure either Lily or Miquita are lying awake at night worrying about my opinion of them, mind)

@piscofrisco

what did Miquita say to you in the pub??

Pairymoppins · 03/11/2025 10:59

Never had any opinions about LA before this ( still don’t never listened to the podcast and haven’t read her biography) but I think the album is brilliant actually.

Screenager · 02/11/2025 19:45

Thatsnotmynamee · 01/11/2025 19:18

Ohhh, juicy about Miquita!? And unsurprising 🙈
The wedding dress was Dior I think and totally gorgeous - those photos are weirdly burned into my brain!

Both miquita and Lily openly chat about how much of a bitch miquita can be… to lily too

Subtleknife · 02/11/2025 19:31

RaspberryCloud · 25/10/2025 10:17

I certainly will be looking at Hopper differently! 🤨 will need to mentally separate them to still enjoy it 😅

Have been rewatching it with my daughter and every time he's on screen she sings 'am I looking at a sex addict, sex addict' and it's kinda ruined hopper for me 😂

Thatsnotmynamee · 01/11/2025 19:18

piscofrisco · 01/11/2025 07:38

I think she was quite badly affected by her childhood and it’s led her to poor mental
health and to make some poor choices because of that. Her now ex husband is one of those choices. She is talented I think. And I’ve always liked her style (I loved her wedding dress-the short one-was it Chanel or Dior-can’t remember but it was fabulous). I suspect she might not be an especially nice person. She comes across as arrogant but fragile beneath the surface which is hard work. My view is clouded by the fact that I don’t like her pal Miquita at all-she was incredibly rude to me in a pub in west London once and I’ve took agin her ever since. (I’m not sure either Lily or Miquita are lying awake at night worrying about my opinion of them, mind)

Ohhh, juicy about Miquita!? And unsurprising 🙈
The wedding dress was Dior I think and totally gorgeous - those photos are weirdly burned into my brain!

Goldenbear · 01/11/2025 15:07

WeeGeeBored · 31/10/2025 00:17

I take your point but I find it a bit annoying as I would love to hear from people who listened to the album and hear what they think about it. Sadly the thread has become a castigation of Allen and I personally find it awful that a woman who was abused and damaged when young and who overcame the consequences of that through her talent is treated like that on a forum dominated by women.

And for those who hate her for the abortions I think the poor woman has been punished enough by giving birth to a stillborn.

But hang on, she has all her personal issues dragged out in public via this album? Equally, she revealed the 'encounter' with Liam Gallagher in her Memoir, why be so public with your personal life if you don't like the attention or judgement it's going to naturally encourage?