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My neighbour has complained about the noise from my front door

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fruittellas · 15/10/2025 01:01

I moved into my new house in June. It was previously a rental and not very well looked after. Many things had not been replaced since it was built 40 years ago. Over the last 3 months, I’ve had a few repairs and updates done, but as we all know, money doesn’t stretch very far. I’ve had to prioritise certain things such as a new boiler, a couple of windows, repairs to the driveway and a surprise leak in the bathroom. It all adds up. I’m still working through everything but it takes time. One thing that needs replacing is the front door. It’s worn out and constantly sticks. I have to slam it shut otherwise it doesn’t close properly. It’s a pain, but it’s functional (just about). I had the hinges tightened and the locks changed, which seemed to help for a while but it’s started again. I’ve had a couple of quotes for a replacement, but I don’t currently have the money for just a door. I plan to get it done in the future, just not right now.

Now, onto the issue. My next door neighbour knocked on my door a few weeks ago to complain about the noise from the door. She said it’s very loud and keeps disturbing her. I apologised and explained that I was aware of the problem and would eventually replace it. I told her I would do my best to close it quietly. I thought that would be the end of it, but she knocked earlier and complained again. I said I’d look into getting it replaced ASAP and left it at that. While I understand it’s annoying, I think she’s slightly overreacting. I don’t go out every day as I work from home. Today was the first day I’d left the house since Saturday. Last week I only went out Tuesday, Wednesday and Saturday. There are noises that irritate me sometimes (my other neighbour goes into his garage everyday and I hear that door slam shut constantly and my other neighbour messes around and revs his motorbike outside on weekends). It’s just part of living near other people in my opinion. I know the noise can be irritating, but surely hearing a door slam once or twice every few days isn’t that big of a deal or a huge disturbance? If I had a money tree in the back garden then I’d get it fixed straight away.

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21ZIGGY · 16/10/2025 20:17

Doesn't matter how noisy it is, yanbu.

Leave it until you can afford it

AgentPidge · 16/10/2025 20:20

Could you shave a bit off the door to stop it sticking? Maybe you don't need to actually replace it. It would be good if you could sort this so you weren't annoying your NDN.

AnnalynB · 17/10/2025 13:53

My NDN slams his front door shut with such force the doors in my house rattle (60’s build so a solid house!). Do I go round and complain? Nope! It’s all part of living in a semi-detached house. If you want silence you have to buy a detached home on a several acre plot 🤷🏻‍♀️.

Sparky8 · 19/08/2026 01:18

I live in a well maintained renovated private semi- detached bungalow, yet there is always something needing sorting or replacing due to the age of the property. I got new joined neighbours who hadn't budgeted for this. Their front door is very old and became faulty- it sounds and vibrates/shakes throughout my entire bungalow, we can't escape it. It's like the bricks literally move and it's got progressively worse over 2 years. Between 4 of them they are in and out all day, everyday ( particularly early). There is also a broken faulty internal door which sounds through my house badly and frequently (at random times all night as someone doesn't sleep). These problems didn't exist before and can be fixed. Tried the ignoring it, tried the verbal, tried the letter. It was impacting our sleep and leisure time so much I offered to pay for the front door (I'm not rolling in it either). They refused and denied all problems. Then they reported me to the council for noise nuisance (untrue). My home is no longer my home, I feel unwell from sleep deprivation and I have a physically ill son to care for. I would go without essentials to repair something in my home that was impacting my neighbours quality of life that much.

Bluetray · 19/08/2026 02:16

If they come near you again tell them they are now harassing you and you won't tolerate this.
I wouldn't rush this job in these circumstances.

girlypop8 · 19/08/2026 03:04

Sparky8 · 19/08/2026 01:18

I live in a well maintained renovated private semi- detached bungalow, yet there is always something needing sorting or replacing due to the age of the property. I got new joined neighbours who hadn't budgeted for this. Their front door is very old and became faulty- it sounds and vibrates/shakes throughout my entire bungalow, we can't escape it. It's like the bricks literally move and it's got progressively worse over 2 years. Between 4 of them they are in and out all day, everyday ( particularly early). There is also a broken faulty internal door which sounds through my house badly and frequently (at random times all night as someone doesn't sleep). These problems didn't exist before and can be fixed. Tried the ignoring it, tried the verbal, tried the letter. It was impacting our sleep and leisure time so much I offered to pay for the front door (I'm not rolling in it either). They refused and denied all problems. Then they reported me to the council for noise nuisance (untrue). My home is no longer my home, I feel unwell from sleep deprivation and I have a physically ill son to care for. I would go without essentials to repair something in my home that was impacting my neighbours quality of life that much.

why are you replying to a 10 month old thread?

Sparky8 · 19/08/2026 10:13

It doesn't matter when this was posted, especially as it's relatively recent. It's obviously an ongoing issue for many people, including me. I hope the OP will replace/ has replaced as soon as possible as they clearly understand the impact and are working towards solving it. My neighbours have holidays, cars and the expense of a dog, but sheer refuse to replace anything in the property, to the detriment of mine. Just to reiterate, I offered to pay for the front door outright and they wouldn't accept.

Imightbeinthewronghere · 19/08/2026 10:37

MrsTerryPratchett · 15/10/2025 02:20

Impact noise is terrible for people with trauma. It may be that there’s a reason she’s so upset.

However, sympathy and all that, you simply don’t have the money.

Not up to the world to manage someone's triggers is it?

Katemax82 · 19/08/2026 10:45

Can it not be planed a bit as a temporary solution?

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