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To think I might have ovarian cancer

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Scared1996 · 07/10/2025 12:53

I’m only 28 but I am really worried.

I am usually flat stomached but I have been persistently bloated for 6 weeks now. It doesn’t matter what time of day it is, or what I eat - it’s alway there. I have put on nearly a stone.
My tummy is absolutely huge.

I have also felt really “off” for a few weeks - I am usually quite an active person, I run etc. I haven’t been on a run in 3 weeks for a reason I can’t put my finger on, I just feel tired and I feel quite sick a lot of the time.
I am quite constipated and getting full quickly.

Over the last few days I’m getting a dull pain on my lower right side and lower right back.

I went to the doctors 2 weeks ago and told her my symptoms. She didn’t even look at my stomach and said it must be because of my contraceptive pill (I had only been taking it for 4 days and the symptoms stated way before that!!).

I then put another request through on Monday to see a doctor. They put me in for a telephone appointment on Thursday (so again; no one will see my stomach).

So last night I called 111 and they got me an OOH appointment. The lady looked at my stomach and gasped. She said it feels very tender on my right side and there’s definitely swelling. But honestly the pain is quite minimal - but in my gut I just know something is wrong.
she sent me straight to a&e but said there wouldn’t be anyone to do any relevant testing until the morning; so I am going to go after work.

I am really really worried…..

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Maray1967 · 07/10/2025 13:26

Yes, an ultrasound will show problems, so you probably need one. In itself it probably isn’t enough to diagnose cancer as opposed to a large cyst. I’m not a doctor but have had many ultrasounds for familial ovarian cancer risk (mother and grandmother), so I know that ultrasounds are used.

I hope it isn’t what you fear.

Scared1996 · 07/10/2025 13:22

And @Flutterbees sorry to hear that and I hope you’re ok now? How did you manage to get them to take you seriously? x

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Scared1996 · 07/10/2025 13:21

Thanks so much! I’m not even sure what to ask for - maybe an ultrasound but even they don’t show ovarian cancer do they?
I just feel fobbed off everytime I tell someone my symptoms so far

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Flutterbees · 07/10/2025 13:18

I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer at the age of 28 and I had to push hard to get doctors to take me seriously. I don’t know the statistics, but it is unlikely that you have ovarian cancer. However, you do have symptoms that need a diagnosis, so keep advocating for your own health until you get answers. I hope all goes well for you and that the cause of your problems is something minor and easy to resolve.

FuzzyWolf · 07/10/2025 13:18

I hope you get reassuring news very quickly.

Scared1996 · 07/10/2025 13:08

Oh and i have also been getting headaches!

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