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Cost of cleaner…

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PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 19:34

I live in the SE of England in a home county. I had a cleaner who used to come once per month and would clean kitchen/living room, hallway downstairs & upstairs plus downstairs loo and upstairs bathroom. She would charge £120 a month (only come once a month) she claimed to do a deep clean (as in would move all appliances out of the way in kitchen and clean underneath). Besides this, I’m unclear as to what differentiated this from your standard clean. I also found that skirting boards still had dust on so I would clean these myself.

I’ve made the decision to cancel her service, and I’m now wondering what the going rate is. She would be here for 3 hours.

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oneplustwoplustwoplusone · 06/10/2025 20:51

SE London/Kent boarders £17 per hour and have two hours a week. She’s brilliant - basically keeps on top of everything for us and I’ll change the beds or the odd extra job at the weekend.

Word of mouth definitely the best way to find a good cleaner.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 06/10/2025 20:49

I pay £50 for 3 hours. She was actually meant to be £15 per hour but I pay her a bit more to allow for things not always being perfectly tidy!

Girlof6 · 06/10/2025 20:48

Following this as I’m looking for a cleaner right now. I’m in the south west.

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:47

Mydahliasareshit · 06/10/2025 20:43

I've never in my life had a cleaner that doesn't empty the bins!
No one can do a deep clean in 3 hours, that's end of tenancy stuff when the furniture is out already.
Hope you find someone great soon!

Thank you! 🙏

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RobinTheCavewoman · 06/10/2025 20:46

£20ph (fortnightly clean for 2 hours and worth every penny)

TeenLifeMum · 06/10/2025 20:45

I searched local fb groups for recommendations. I didn’t post myself because a friend runs a cleaning company but I don’t want to blur friendship lines and have her clean my home.

Mydahliasareshit · 06/10/2025 20:43

I've never in my life had a cleaner that doesn't empty the bins!
No one can do a deep clean in 3 hours, that's end of tenancy stuff when the furniture is out already.
Hope you find someone great soon!

shampop · 06/10/2025 20:43

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:28

that is a very good price, almost too cheap… I’d feel bad paying so low to be fair!

Yes £14 per hour seems super low, it’s only about £1.50 over minimum wage then you’ve got petrol cost, time lost travelling between jobs, products used etc. 14 seems too cheap!

Foolsgold74 · 06/10/2025 20:41

BlueMum16 · 06/10/2025 20:32

But the replies you like are the north West - where it's cheaper. And weekly - whereas you had one visit a month so a premium.

It's always going to be more expensive in the SE.

It's absolutely not cheaper in the North West. Look at all the cleaning jobs advertised. £20 per hour is the norm now

Foolsgold74 · 06/10/2025 20:39

Blamanche · 06/10/2025 20:31

To be fair, I’d happy pay a bit more if she asked, she never does! I might broach the subject as she hasn’t put it up for a couple of years.

She shouldn't have to ask. If you value her, pay her in line with the market rate, otherwise she'll just go to a job that pays her what she's worth.

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:39

Lighteningstrikes · 06/10/2025 20:36

That’s extortionate, she was royally taking the piss.

You would be far better off getting a good thorough cleaner (they do exist, I’ve got the best ever) once a week at £20 max per hour.

I’ve known some really bad seriously lazy ones in the past like your old cleaner.

Yes, this! I am shopping around but struggling…

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PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:38

BlueMum16 · 06/10/2025 20:32

But the replies you like are the north West - where it's cheaper. And weekly - whereas you had one visit a month so a premium.

It's always going to be more expensive in the SE.

Err, no… even people in the SE are paying less

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Lighteningstrikes · 06/10/2025 20:36

That’s extortionate, she was royally taking the piss.

You would be far better off getting a good thorough cleaner (they do exist, I’ve got the best ever) once a week at £20 max per hour.

I’ve known some really bad seriously lazy ones in the past like your old cleaner.

ThroughThickAndThin01 · 06/10/2025 20:32

I’m in south east, pay our cleaner £20 ph. 4.5 hours per week. 5 bed house, 3 bath, and she changes bedlinen and irons everything. Kitchen and bathrooms will be spotless.

i feel you have definitely been ripped off.

BlueMum16 · 06/10/2025 20:32

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:26

Based off of what other people have said, it looks like I can afford a cleaner I just can’t find a reasonably priced one. You’ve said it yourself you are paying £15 per hour whereas I was paying £40 an hour!!

But the replies you like are the north West - where it's cheaper. And weekly - whereas you had one visit a month so a premium.

It's always going to be more expensive in the SE.

BrunchBarBandit · 06/10/2025 20:32

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:26

Based off of what other people have said, it looks like I can afford a cleaner I just can’t find a reasonably priced one. You’ve said it yourself you are paying £15 per hour whereas I was paying £40 an hour!!

Yeah you defo can afford more than once a month! £40/hr was incredibly expensive! You are right though it’s hard to find someone. Up here I found my first cleaner by putting a message on local Facebook groups and I interviewed about 4 people. She left after 18mths and this time I asked the class Whatspp mums for ideas and suggestion and found my current cleaners that way, They are sisters and the 4 hours are fine in 2 as a double act which is great as DH and I are often WFH when they are here

Good luck finding someone 😄

Blamanche · 06/10/2025 20:31

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:28

that is a very good price, almost too cheap… I’d feel bad paying so low to be fair!

To be fair, I’d happy pay a bit more if she asked, she never does! I might broach the subject as she hasn’t put it up for a couple of years.

TeenLifeMum · 06/10/2025 20:31

South west - £20 per hour is standard. Just changing cleaner after a disastrous one (one before was amazing - I miss her). We’re doing 3 hours a week for first 2 weeks then plan is to move to 2 hours every week with one 3 hour clean a month. I use a cleaner to keep on top of things then do occasional deeper cleans under sofas etc and because the cleaning has been regular, the deep clean is less horrific.

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:30

Amba1998 · 06/10/2025 20:27

Personally wouldn’t see the point in paying for a cleaning once a month. What do you do for the rest of the month?

Like I said, I lightly cleaned in between her coming once a month but she’d do a more thorough job than what I was doing and I would need to clean less… but yeh I’m now reassessing and wanting someone more regular. Just feel I was being ripped off.

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PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:28

Blamanche · 06/10/2025 20:28

3 bedroom semi. She concentrates mainly on the bathroom and kitchen and gives the rest of the downstairs a hoover / mop. She’s very efficient. Doesn’t do the bedrooms.

that is a very good price, almost too cheap… I’d feel bad paying so low to be fair!

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PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:28

timeandagainagain · 06/10/2025 20:27

I'm in the South East. I pay £17/hour for three hours a week. She irons and changes the bed linen too, and is super reliable!

Can you share the details with me? 🤣 £17 per hour is what I’m looking for… I’d even go up to £20-£25 per hour but not £40 an hour…

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Blamanche · 06/10/2025 20:28

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:23

How big is your home? How many rooms?

3 bedroom semi. She concentrates mainly on the bathroom and kitchen and gives the rest of the downstairs a hoover / mop. She’s very efficient. Doesn’t do the bedrooms.

Amba1998 · 06/10/2025 20:27

Personally wouldn’t see the point in paying for a cleaning once a month. What do you do for the rest of the month?

timeandagainagain · 06/10/2025 20:27

I'm in the South East. I pay £17/hour for three hours a week. She irons and changes the bed linen too, and is super reliable!

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:26

BrunchBarBandit · 06/10/2025 20:25

“I feel like giving up. Honestly, I don’t want to pay cleaners a pittance, and I agree they should be paid a bit more than minimum wage as it’s not an easy job, they have to travel etc… but I’m in a professional industry and their hourly rate is almost half of mine 😳 AIBU to think this?!”

YABU. It might just be that you can’t afford a cleaner? Although it come down to priorities and choices. How much value does a once a month cleaner add?

FWIW we have 4 hours/week @ £15 per hour in North West. It’s worth every penny for the time back it gives us at the weekend to spend time as a family/couple/just chill out.

Based off of what other people have said, it looks like I can afford a cleaner I just can’t find a reasonably priced one. You’ve said it yourself you are paying £15 per hour whereas I was paying £40 an hour!!

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