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PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 19:34

I live in the SE of England in a home county. I had a cleaner who used to come once per month and would clean kitchen/living room, hallway downstairs & upstairs plus downstairs loo and upstairs bathroom. She would charge £120 a month (only come once a month) she claimed to do a deep clean (as in would move all appliances out of the way in kitchen and clean underneath). Besides this, I’m unclear as to what differentiated this from your standard clean. I also found that skirting boards still had dust on so I would clean these myself.

I’ve made the decision to cancel her service, and I’m now wondering what the going rate is. She would be here for 3 hours.

OP posts:
Fiftyandme · 07/10/2025 08:52

Billybean1 · 07/10/2025 08:37

Wtf are you on about? Our cleaner advertised her services and told us this is my hourly rate. We didn't barter her down!

Also the UK minimum wage atm is £12.21 per hour. So unless you're paying less than that or demanding they supply their own products, then no, you're doing absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.

Tell me you know nothing about self-employment without telling me you know nothing about self-employment. You pay your cleaner less than £18 and it’s fucking shameful because they are earning less than minimum wage and you probably know that. They have to cover their running costs their business insurancetheir sickness, their holiday and the pension or with that as well that comes out to Wallander £12 an hour or you’re incredibly naive. In any case, it’s shameful.

Foolsgold74 · 07/10/2025 08:52

PeonyPatch · 07/10/2025 08:24

I don’t think that’s what the poster was saying.

There is almost certainly an air of, I put myself through an education to better myself and now have debts to pay off, whereas cleaners left school straight after GCSEs to start earning straight away and therefore haven't acquired any such debts.

Onefortheroad25 · 07/10/2025 08:42

In Ireland and my cleaner is €20 an hour. She’s honestly not that great but she still does a better job on the bathrooms than I’ll ever do. I don’t have a set routine with her, I just get her whenever it all starts getting on top of me. I had a different one who was €15 an hour but used all my stuff and was really unreliable.

Billybean1 · 07/10/2025 08:37

Fiftyandme · 07/10/2025 03:05

Thise of you paying under £18/hour should be ashamed of yourselves - your cleaners are earning less than minimum wage

Wtf are you on about? Our cleaner advertised her services and told us this is my hourly rate. We didn't barter her down!

Also the UK minimum wage atm is £12.21 per hour. So unless you're paying less than that or demanding they supply their own products, then no, you're doing absolutely nothing to be ashamed of.

PeonyPatch · 07/10/2025 08:24

Foolsgold74 · 07/10/2025 06:17

Wow! You think all cleaners are less educated than their clients?

I don’t think that’s what the poster was saying.

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Foolsgold74 · 07/10/2025 06:17

Timeforabitofpeace · 06/10/2025 22:33

It isn’t snobbish if you’re paying off a student loan and the cleaner left school to earn at 16.

Wow! You think all cleaners are less educated than their clients?

TheRocksStoppedRolling · 07/10/2025 04:45

We pay £25 an hour for our cleaner. She does a few other jobs for us as well as cleaning though, so she is usually here for 6-8 hours per week.

Greycatclub · 07/10/2025 04:23

I pay £14/hr.

I’m not “ashamed of myself” as I don’t set her fee, she does. Same with any service.

Zanatdy · 07/10/2025 03:48

my cleaner charged £18 an hour with supplying products, £15 an hour without. In the south east. She was my friend, but I paid her the usual rate as didn’t want mates rates as she was setting up a new business and I wanted her to earn enough to live off. Sadly she died 6 months ago. I don’t want another cleaner as would just feel odd so I’m back to doing it myself.

PeonyPatch · 07/10/2025 03:14

Fiftyandme · 07/10/2025 03:12

To come out with miniimum wage as a self employed cleaner the charge needs to be approx 1.5 times minimum wage.

If employed as a coeaner yhd employer covers insurance, equipment, petrol and vehicle costs, sick pay, holiday paypension, employer No contributions.

Self employed - that all had the Hd covered.

Anything less to an £18/hour and cleaners are earning less than minimum wage, which is shameful.

Like I said…. I think 18-25 is fair

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Fiftyandme · 07/10/2025 03:12

PeonyPatch · 07/10/2025 03:07

Minimum wage is £12 p/h to be fair. However, I agree that that’s too low to be paying a cleaner. I think £18-£25 is fair

To come out with miniimum wage as a self employed cleaner the charge needs to be approx 1.5 times minimum wage.

If employed as a coeaner yhd employer covers insurance, equipment, petrol and vehicle costs, sick pay, holiday paypension, employer No contributions.

Self employed - that all had the Hd covered.

Anything less to an £18/hour and cleaners are earning less than minimum wage, which is shameful.

PeonyPatch · 07/10/2025 03:07

Fiftyandme · 07/10/2025 03:05

Thise of you paying under £18/hour should be ashamed of yourselves - your cleaners are earning less than minimum wage

Minimum wage is £12 p/h to be fair. However, I agree that that’s too low to be paying a cleaner. I think £18-£25 is fair

OP posts:
Fiftyandme · 07/10/2025 03:05

Thise of you paying under £18/hour should be ashamed of yourselves - your cleaners are earning less than minimum wage

PeonyPatch · 07/10/2025 02:56

SixtySomething · 06/10/2025 22:39

I haven't read all the posts, but is the problem perhaps that you are using an agency, OP?
The people who are paying around $17 an hour will be paying the cleaner direct. I think agencies keep half the money at least for themselves.
You need to find a cleaner directly eg through small ads.
if you insist on using an agency, you will have to pay a much higher price.

No - it’s not agency. She has her own business. She leafleted our area a few months ago and that is how I hired her.

Also I don’t think I’m being snobbish at all. I’ve been to uni 3 times and I work in the healthcare industry. I have a student loan. It’s not the same as being a cleaner and required hard graft in a different way. Cleaning doesn’t require such extra education - anyone can do it, and like pp have said, you can leave school at 16 to do it. I also believe in paying people fairly, but £40 an hour and not even emptying bins?

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Starseeking · 07/10/2025 02:27

My cleaner is £20 an hour, and does 4 hours fortnightly. Even though I can afford for her to come each week, I think £160 per month is quite enough for me to spend on cleaning the house. I have a 1930’s semi-detached home with 3 bedrooms, and seeing as we’re out for the majority of each day, we’re able to keep the house looking reasonable in between.

Fillybuster · 07/10/2025 00:14

London area, £17-18 per hour, for 5-6 hours a week, paid direct to cleaner. It’s gone up a lot over the past few years, but that seems right considering cost of living etc.

OP, you should be able to afford a couple of hours every week, which might work better than twice a month. My cleaner doesn’t like bi weekly jobs as it makes it harder to “fill” her hours - she would rather have a smaller job the same hours every week so she can book other regular work around them. You might find the same goes for you?

PickledElectricity · 06/10/2025 23:55

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 19:50

I hear ya, and I would expect to pay a bit more than a weekly or fortnightly clean. But I was keeping on top of it in between and when she came to quote me she did comment on how neat and tidy I was and said she knocked the price down 😳 I live in a new house and I’m quite a clean freak, hence the cleaner… but I work many hours so just wanted a bit of a hand with it really.

I am now shopping around for a cleaner who is able to come once a fortnight, and trying to get a feel for what is an appropriate fee x

I use an app and pay £40 for 2 hours.

I think you're getting ripped off and also over thinking it.

Dresdan · 06/10/2025 23:51

PeonyPatch · 06/10/2025 20:17

I’ve just had a quote for £85 a clean for the same things but on a fortnightly basis so I’d end up paying more 😖 the owner said he wouldn’t go lower as he wants to pay his cleaners a decent wage.

I also had a quote from another company for £18 per hour but it would be a team of 2 so I’m paying £36 per hour.

I feel like giving up. Honestly, I don’t want to pay cleaners a pittance, and I agree they should be paid a bit more than minimum wage as it’s not an easy job, they have to travel etc… but I’m in a professional industry and their hourly rate is almost half of mine 😳 AIBU to think this?!

£18ph for 2 cleaners is not £36ph. It's getting 2 hours worth of cleaning done for £36. Yes the elapsed time is only 1 hour but you are getting 2 hours worth of graft with less inconvenience.

Why not just take this option? Book them for 2 or 3 hours (combined) per fortnight, paying them £36 - £54 per clean.

BluntPlumHam · 06/10/2025 23:45

XenoBitch · 06/10/2025 23:36

Why should cleaners not charge a decent amount? Are they not allowed to have a decent standard of living in a "low skilled job"? It is nothing to do with skill when it comes to private house cleans. It is about you not being arsed to clean your own house yourself...
If you don't like it, clean your own house.

They are but they shouldn’t be expected to be paid the same rate as a junior dr for example which is where it’s getting to with some of the demands. You keep saying ‘clean your own house’ some of us choose to outsource for a better quality of life and are happy to pay for it as long as it’s reasonable. If it’s not reasonable you move on to the next person willing to do the job.

Darner · 06/10/2025 23:40

XenoBitch · 06/10/2025 23:36

Why should cleaners not charge a decent amount? Are they not allowed to have a decent standard of living in a "low skilled job"? It is nothing to do with skill when it comes to private house cleans. It is about you not being arsed to clean your own house yourself...
If you don't like it, clean your own house.

I agree. It must be the dreariest of jobs. They should be paid a half decent wage.

BluntPlumHam · 06/10/2025 23:37

NewDayNewColour · 06/10/2025 23:27

You get what you pay for!!!! You moan they aren't cleaning everything but in the same breath saying you give them £13 per hour!! Purleeeease!
A professional cleaner will do everything, including moving furniture and cleaning behind. They also pay tax and travelling costs and laundry costs, and bring their own equipment.

14/15 is normal rate and I get a thorough job done. There are loads that will come and do the bare minimum but they will just not get asked to come back.

XenoBitch · 06/10/2025 23:36

ifyoulikealotofchocolateonyour · 06/10/2025 23:32

@NewDayNewColouri didn't moan...i literally just described the stuff she does. It's fine...which is why we use her 🙄. The more deep clean stuff I just do myself. She helps me stay on top of the basics.

As I said I think it's ridiculous how much a lot of cleaners charge these days. It's not easy work and it's physically tiring I'm sure but it's very low skilled...which is why I compared it to a nanny (or carer perhaps) who does a much more skilled job for less pay per hour. Its not like for like perhaps but it's like for like for the person buying the service.

Why should cleaners not charge a decent amount? Are they not allowed to have a decent standard of living in a "low skilled job"? It is nothing to do with skill when it comes to private house cleans. It is about you not being arsed to clean your own house yourself...
If you don't like it, clean your own house.

BluntPlumHam · 06/10/2025 23:35

Foolsgold74 · 06/10/2025 21:23

If someone is knowingly underpaying their cleaner, then they shouldn't be surprised if she moves to a different job.

There’s usually a discussion that takes place between those two events and the market dictates the rate.

Darner · 06/10/2025 23:34

We pay £60 pw and that’s for about 3 hours.

ifyoulikealotofchocolateonyour · 06/10/2025 23:32

@NewDayNewColouri didn't moan...i literally just described the stuff she does. It's fine...which is why we use her 🙄. The more deep clean stuff I just do myself. She helps me stay on top of the basics.

As I said I think it's ridiculous how much a lot of cleaners charge these days. It's not easy work and it's physically tiring I'm sure but it's very low skilled...which is why I compared it to a nanny (or carer perhaps) who does a much more skilled job for less pay per hour. Its not like for like perhaps but it's like for like for the person buying the service.