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Neighbour has put up huge Unite the Kingdom flag

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UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:05

I am gutted. I haven't seen a single flag in my town, and suddenly this union jack goes up two doors over with the words 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it in capital letters. The flag is huge and flying from a pole on top of their shed, but it's in their own garden so nothing can be done.

I am the daughter of an immigrant mother and therefore mixed race. Now I have to see this fucking flag waving at me every time I look out of my kitchen or living room windows.

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Simplestars · 05/10/2025 18:00

Lollipop81 · 05/10/2025 17:53

How on earth have we got to a point in this country where flying our own countries flag makes us racist. Honestly speechless.

The flag is not racist. The person flying it usually is.

Bikergran · 05/10/2025 17:59

Ask your local Council office to intervene. You probably need planning permission for that.

YorkshireGoldDrinker · 05/10/2025 17:58

Respectfully, why do you feel so uncomfortable about a flag? This country had the good graces to accept your mother into the country so she could make a life for herself and you. So why such hostility? Would you prefer to see the nation flag of your mother's native country instead? If so, go and live there, not here.

To put it another way; if you want to live in this country, you should be proud of the country and therefore the flag of the country should mean something to you.

I feel offended that you find my nation's flag offensive.

"Oh but it has 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it, that's the slogan of a far-right campaign." The country is extremely divided, as you've demonstrated based on your reaction to seeing a Union flag.

ImogenBrocklehurst · 05/10/2025 17:57

MidnightPatrol · 05/10/2025 15:13

What’s the offence with ‘unite the kingdom’ written on a Union Jack?

Really?

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 05/10/2025 17:57

GabrielsOboe · 05/10/2025 17:28

I disagree with much of what you say.

There is cause and effect of course - Reform is merely a symptom of Labour, and previous successive government failure to control immigration. Once Labour are out - immigration is under control, and people are no longer told how to feel, and that they are ‘racists’, the ‘far right’ as you call them, the issue will probably fade away.

I happen to believe that the vast majority are not racist - insist on telling them that they are however, and is it any wonder people feel aggrieved?

I think you are misunderstanding me. I agree with you. That is my whole point. Most people are not far right and racist. It's not me calling them that, it's all the left leaning progressive types who simply cannot fathom that anyone could be a decent person with a conscience and a heart and yet still vote Reform, or want to be proudly patriotic without being told their country's flag is 'only ever' flown by the far right, and the obvious subtext that goes with that statement.

That's the danger and folly of making outrageous assumptions and accusations about the characters of huge numbers of ordinary, largely decent and blameless people instead of trying to engage with their concerns, listen to them and consider that they might actually have a valid point on a few issues.

At best, the middle class left will admit that not all Brexit or Reform voters are far right racists, just most of them, and the others are well meaning but rather dim and easily tricked. It's the typical knee jerk reaction of so called 'progressives'. It's patronising, lofty and high handed and it will shoot them in the foot yet again, just like Brexit did. Just like Gordon Brown shot himself in the foot with his 'bigoted woman' comment about Gillian Duffy.

Lollipop81 · 05/10/2025 17:53

How on earth have we got to a point in this country where flying our own countries flag makes us racist. Honestly speechless.

ladsladzladse · 05/10/2025 17:53

TheCaribbeanIsCallingMe · 05/10/2025 17:19

OH THE IRONY!

Poland has the toughest laws on immigration and does not have the problem that the UK has, because they eject anyone who tries to enter illegally. Poland is about as "far right" as you can get. How ironic.

PS. A cattery that's almost always full won't give two figs that you use another cattery. They won't even know. 🙄

Poland currently has a centrist Liberal government under PM Donald Tusk, former President of the European Council. And the immediate ejection of those who enter illegally is only sanctioned on the border with Belarus, and only because Poland passed a law earlier this year to allow a temporary suspension of the internationally recognised right to claim asylum. This suspension can last up to 60 days (renewable) but even that includes exceptions for minors, pregnant women, those with urgent medical needs, and those at risk of harm. Poland acknowledges that it is waiving its international obligations, and has also convinced the EU to allow this apparent violation of the Dublin Treaty as falling under extraordinary circumstances. It's not intended to be a permanent solution but a stopgap until action can be taken against Belarus from actively mass-importing immigrants from conflict zones to dump at their EU borders. Lithuania has a similar problem and currently has a case pending against Belarus at the ICJ.

And Poland currently has a MUCH larger issue with illegal immigration than the UK has, which is logical if you look at a map, hence the "emergency"

zanahoria · 05/10/2025 17:52

MidnightPatrol · 05/10/2025 15:13

What’s the offence with ‘unite the kingdom’ written on a Union Jack?

It is a political slogan used by Tommy Robinson

Anyone who really wants to unite the kingdom would not desecrate a flag by scrawling slogans over it. It is a flag for everyone not one political group.

HollyBerriesComing · 05/10/2025 17:50

RafaistheKingofClay · 05/10/2025 17:40

The problem isn’t going away even if reform get in. We have an aging population and short of encouraging everyone to have 3+ children the only solution is increased immigration.

I wish people would differentiate between immigration and illegal immigration/ small boats.

We may need skilled migrants in the future but like Australia, we may need a 'points system'.

The anger at the moment is because of illegal immigration and unskilled migrants who don't or can't contribute to the economy.

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 17:49

MidnightPatrol · 05/10/2025 15:31

I’ve never heard of this expression in relation to Tommy Robinson until this thread TBF.

I had. OP, the flag will blow down in the next storm.

Americano75 · 05/10/2025 17:48

Jesus, at least you know to avoid them like the plague.

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 17:48

SheSmellsSeaShells · 05/10/2025 15:14

I would interpret Unite the Kingdom as anti racist and in opposition to the St George flag epidemic.

Stephen Yaxley-Lennon used Unite the Kingdom as the name of his latest rally when he very much wants to divide the kingdom.

Simplestars · 05/10/2025 17:48

@UrticaDioca fly a bigger more colorful 🌈 flag.
Love and peace✌

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 05/10/2025 17:47

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/10/2025 17:42

I take it you didnt follow the racist riots in NI earlier this year. All immigrants in the areas effected were targeted. As well as a leisure centre sheltering those driven from their homes.

I did follow them. I'm an avid X user because its the only place you can see the full footage as it unfolds.

You said: 'Any brown face will do.'

You've now said: 'All immigrants in the areas effected were targeted.'

So thank you for contradicting yourself and proving my point that you have no evidence to suggest people who fly flags are targeting people of colour based entirely on their race.

Wedonotcare · 05/10/2025 17:47

Would you eat chicken breast filets 2 days out of date?

GabrielsOboe · 05/10/2025 17:47

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 05/10/2025 17:38

I'm the grandchild of an immigrant. My nan wouldn't be bothered in the slightest because she decided to move here and put roots down. My best friend is a second gen immigrant and a Reform voter.

I feel like people are reading far too much into the intentions of other people and making all manner of assumptions simply because the flag of their host nation is flying. It's not a bloody swastika.

You make a good point.

Where would the liberals place a non-white ‘Unite the Kingdom’ supporter within the Venn diagram?

Would they still be racists, according to those on this thread?

ArchieStar · 05/10/2025 17:46

2dogsandabudgie · 05/10/2025 17:44

Are you saying that only white men can be English? That's more offensive and racist than anyone flying a Union Jack flag in their garden.

This.

White skin means European heritage, not specifically English.

IamtheDevilsAvocado · 05/10/2025 17:44

saveforthat · 05/10/2025 15:39

I've never seen a flag with Unite the kingdom on it but it could be taken as let's everyone in the UK unite, including immigrants. Why assume it means the opposite?

The Tommy Robinson idiot has clearly adopted the 'unite the kingdom' slogan.

2dogsandabudgie · 05/10/2025 17:44

UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 16:09

The dad looks like a standard English 'bloke' that you might see down the pub, a little overweight, balding. I don't think that's an indicator of anything though, despite what ppl say about 'gammon' (absolutely hate that term).

Are you saying that only white men can be English? That's more offensive and racist than anyone flying a Union Jack flag in their garden.

Simplestars · 05/10/2025 17:44

TheCaribbeanIsCallingMe · 05/10/2025 17:25

World's gone mad.

"Oh, I won't use that cattery because they have a flag of their own country flying"

Don't move to America mate, you'll have nowhere to put your cats, and you'll be mortally offended about every 3 minutes. Sheesh.

Who would want to move to America?

GabrielsOboe · 05/10/2025 17:44

MiniPantherOwner · 05/10/2025 17:41

No I've never posted anything about a cattery. Also, how would I object to them putting a flag up recently in a post six months ago. Time travel?

No worries.

Your story was almost a photocopy of another poster’s story (on a previous thread).

All good.

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/10/2025 17:42

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 05/10/2025 17:40

You have zero evidence to support that.

I take it you didnt follow the racist riots in NI earlier this year. All immigrants in the areas effected were targeted. As well as a leisure centre sheltering those driven from their homes.

MiniPantherOwner · 05/10/2025 17:41

GabrielsOboe · 05/10/2025 17:21

Ah, I believe this poster has posted before - along the same lines about her cattery (six months ago).

As you say - the cattery WONT GIVE A SHIT.

No I've never posted anything about a cattery. Also, how would I object to them putting a flag up recently in a post six months ago. Time travel?

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 05/10/2025 17:40

Slightyamusedandsilly · 05/10/2025 17:38

Because usually those that fly those flags don't stop at discriminating against just illegal refugees. Any brown face will do.

You have zero evidence to support that.

RafaistheKingofClay · 05/10/2025 17:40

GabrielsOboe · 05/10/2025 17:28

I disagree with much of what you say.

There is cause and effect of course - Reform is merely a symptom of Labour, and previous successive government failure to control immigration. Once Labour are out - immigration is under control, and people are no longer told how to feel, and that they are ‘racists’, the ‘far right’ as you call them, the issue will probably fade away.

I happen to believe that the vast majority are not racist - insist on telling them that they are however, and is it any wonder people feel aggrieved?

The problem isn’t going away even if reform get in. We have an aging population and short of encouraging everyone to have 3+ children the only solution is increased immigration.

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