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Neighbour has put up huge Unite the Kingdom flag

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UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:05

I am gutted. I haven't seen a single flag in my town, and suddenly this union jack goes up two doors over with the words 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it in capital letters. The flag is huge and flying from a pole on top of their shed, but it's in their own garden so nothing can be done.

I am the daughter of an immigrant mother and therefore mixed race. Now I have to see this fucking flag waving at me every time I look out of my kitchen or living room windows.

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2dogsandabudgie · 05/10/2025 18:55

BluntPlumHam · 05/10/2025 18:50

Wishful thinking. If there’s flags hanging in your area drop the price significantly or be prepared to wait a long time before you sell. No one decent wants to be living around that.

For years some properties have taken ages to sell so I disagree with you.

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:54

ToWhitToWhoo · 05/10/2025 18:52

He didn't; he resigned because Labour lost the election. And that wasn't mainly because of Gillian Duffy. It was mainly because of the economic crisis. In fact, Rochdale was one of the only two seats that Labour GAINED in 2010, admittedly from the LibDems rather than the Tories, and Simon Danczuk wasn't the most shining example ever of a Labour MP, but still one can't blame the Rochdale incident for Cameron.

Fair enough, and Simon Danczuk was no shining star.

ToWhitToWhoo · 05/10/2025 18:52

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:09

Gillian Duffy was a bigoted woman. She was from my home town. I never understood why he resigned over that.

He didn't; he resigned because Labour lost the election. And that wasn't mainly because of Gillian Duffy. It was mainly because of the economic crisis. In fact, Rochdale was one of the only two seats that Labour GAINED in 2010, admittedly from the LibDems rather than the Tories, and Simon Danczuk wasn't the most shining example ever of a Labour MP, but still one can't blame the Rochdale incident for Cameron.

godlikeAI · 05/10/2025 18:51

Amandasummers · 05/10/2025 15:16

Is it just me or does “now I have to see this fucking flag” some sort of insinuation that you find the flag insulting? You literally live here? Why the offence?

This is just a load of rubbish. If it didn’t mean anything and was so jolly, why is everyone up in arms when anyone suggests taking these flags down? They invariably look bad, flapping about at half mast, and they are intended to make people feel unwelcome. Just admit it and be done. I’d hate to have one visible from my house - there is still half of the country who don’t want this. What about our views?

CountFucula · 05/10/2025 18:51

Chenecinquantecinq · 05/10/2025 18:47

Well I don’t know him personally. I should have said his followers have changed. You can shout and scream they’re all racists as much as you like, however the facts are his followers now are mainstream on the whole. Families just ordinary people who understandably have concerns over mass immigration (which btw is a GCSE geography topic looking at the negatives). Before someone bands about RACISM again 🙄

I haven't shouted or screamed.

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:51

Chenecinquantecinq · 05/10/2025 18:47

Well I don’t know him personally. I should have said his followers have changed. You can shout and scream they’re all racists as much as you like, however the facts are his followers now are mainstream on the whole. Families just ordinary people who understandably have concerns over mass immigration (which btw is a GCSE geography topic looking at the negatives). Before someone bands about RACISM again 🙄

I don’t know anyone who would give him the time of day. He’s a laughing stock.

BluntPlumHam · 05/10/2025 18:50

2dogsandabudgie · 05/10/2025 18:36

That's a bit of a stretch. If you look at houses for sale on line in many areas, plenty have been up for sale long before people started putting up flags. House prices quite often start higher than they are worth. Estate Agents often do this.

Wishful thinking. If there’s flags hanging in your area drop the price significantly or be prepared to wait a long time before you sell. No one decent wants to be living around that.

Fleetheart · 05/10/2025 18:50

MidnightPatrol · 05/10/2025 15:31

I’ve never heard of this expression in relation to Tommy Robinson until this thread TBF.

well it is well known as the slogan of the march organised by TR

CountFucula · 05/10/2025 18:50

Sasha07 · 05/10/2025 18:43

@CountFucula everyone will have their own reasons. It's ridiculous to think that every person has the same perspective. I'm speaking from my experience, it's surely not hard to comprehend that we all have our own opinions. You're coming across as someone with an us vs them attitude, which is the issue you seem to be against? Good, law abiding people, SHOULD be against anyone, of any background, who harms others.
My perspective is, the OP shouldn't feel threatened, but I don't know their area or experiences. They'd maybe agree too, that we should be proud of living here and against anyone who comes and is a potential harm because of a clash of cultures.

I don’t need to co-opt a nations flag to make my point about immigration. If I did though, it would be a union flag with REFUGEES ARE WELCOME HERE in big capital letters.

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:50

ItWasnaMeGuv · 05/10/2025 18:46

@ToWhitToWhoo disagree. Watch a recent interview he did with Triggernometry on youtube. It changed my views.

I’d rather stick pins in my eyes than listen to him speak.

Chenecinquantecinq · 05/10/2025 18:47

CountFucula · 05/10/2025 18:26

😂 in what way has he changed?

Well I don’t know him personally. I should have said his followers have changed. You can shout and scream they’re all racists as much as you like, however the facts are his followers now are mainstream on the whole. Families just ordinary people who understandably have concerns over mass immigration (which btw is a GCSE geography topic looking at the negatives). Before someone bands about RACISM again 🙄

LavenderBlue19 · 05/10/2025 18:46

Jeschara · 05/10/2025 15:24

I think you should mind your own business. I am in a mixed relationship and it would not bother me, it is in his garden, and you can do nothing about it.
I dont like the way the flag is being used by thugs but I would not let it get to me.

It gets to me and I'm white British. The owner of the flag is displaying their allegiance to an anti-immigration campaign by a known racist (and proper dodgy as fuck criminal).

ItWasnaMeGuv · 05/10/2025 18:46

ToWhitToWhoo · 05/10/2025 18:43

It's Tommy Robinson and his lot who don't respect our flag. Using it to incite racism and disunity.

@ToWhitToWhoo disagree. Watch a recent interview he did with Triggernometry on youtube. It changed my views.

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 05/10/2025 18:46

GabrielsOboe · 05/10/2025 17:47

You make a good point.

Where would the liberals place a non-white ‘Unite the Kingdom’ supporter within the Venn diagram?

Would they still be racists, according to those on this thread?

Oh they do have names for these people but I won't repeat them. This is where the liberals expose their own racism.

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:44

BoredZelda · 05/10/2025 18:41

Not really much of a stretch. If I were house hunting and the area was awash with England flags at the moment, I would even bother going. I can’t be the only one who thinks that.

I wouldn’t move to such a place. I wouldn’t even view the house if the area was covered in flags.

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 05/10/2025 18:44

TooBigForMyBoots · 05/10/2025 18:08

So you know of racist violence by flag shaggers.

I didn't say Any brown face will do, that was another poster. I did say all because that's what happened. It wasn't just brown people. I don't see how that makes it less racist.Confused

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'I didn't say Any brown face will do, that was another poster.' Yes just clocked that.

However, PP wrote 'Because usually those that fly those flags don't stop at discriminating against just illegal refugees. Any brown face will do.'

I responded: 'You have zero evidence for that.'

You then came flying in to say: 'I take it you didnt follow the racist riots in NI earlier this year. All immigrants in the areas effected were targeted. As well as a leisure centre sheltering those driven from their homes.'

So what was the relevance of your response? I was pointing out PP had no evidence to suggest people who fly flags were targeting others for the colour of their skin. Your reply actually proved my point!

'So you know of racist violence by flag shaggers.' Eh?

'It wasn't just brown people. I don't see how that makes it less racist.' Because it was about immigration status not race. Call it 'illegal immigrant Xenophobia' and 'anger at violence towards citizens' if we are going to be accurate about the causes of these riots.

AAAAND it's still a fact that nobody can prove anyone who flies a Union Flag is an automatic racist or 'flag shagger.' These are just ignorant assumptions.

I also find it quite hilarious that the majority of people I see using the term 'flag shagger' are often shagging every flag going except those of the UK!

ToWhitToWhoo · 05/10/2025 18:43

ItWasnaMeGuv · 05/10/2025 18:25

@UrticaDioca if you are that offended by the flag of the country you live in, perhaps its time to move somewhere where you do respect the country's flag.

It's Tommy Robinson and his lot who don't respect our flag. Using it to incite racism and disunity.

Sasha07 · 05/10/2025 18:43

@CountFucula everyone will have their own reasons. It's ridiculous to think that every person has the same perspective. I'm speaking from my experience, it's surely not hard to comprehend that we all have our own opinions. You're coming across as someone with an us vs them attitude, which is the issue you seem to be against? Good, law abiding people, SHOULD be against anyone, of any background, who harms others.
My perspective is, the OP shouldn't feel threatened, but I don't know their area or experiences. They'd maybe agree too, that we should be proud of living here and against anyone who comes and is a potential harm because of a clash of cultures.

PeaceReacher · 05/10/2025 18:43

Chenecinquantecinq · 05/10/2025 18:18

No not really. People change TR is mainstream now I agree 20 plus years ago he could be considered racist.

He’s a massive racist.

Andouillette · 05/10/2025 18:42

UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:34

I will certainly try and tell myself that. I do think that if they were just patriotic then it'd be a union jack without the wording.

Sadly that little tosspot has co-opted the Union flag. Try looking at it this way; Unite the Kingdom is a bloody stupid slogan for them to use, after all it implies that we should all be supporting each other! I am trying to think of a way we could spread that interpretation and make TR and his merry band of wankers look even more idiotic than they usually do.

Unite Our Kingdom in Friendship and Kindness to All.

2dogsandabudgie · 05/10/2025 18:41

Kemi Badenoch was standing next to a Union Jack flag at the Tory Conference, does that mean she is now classed as a racist. Anyone who votes Tory are they now classed as racist by association.

BoredZelda · 05/10/2025 18:41

2dogsandabudgie · 05/10/2025 18:36

That's a bit of a stretch. If you look at houses for sale on line in many areas, plenty have been up for sale long before people started putting up flags. House prices quite often start higher than they are worth. Estate Agents often do this.

Not really much of a stretch. If I were house hunting and the area was awash with England flags at the moment, I would even bother going. I can’t be the only one who thinks that.

ToWhitToWhoo · 05/10/2025 18:39

I'd be tempted to put up a Union flag of my own, together with a poster saying 'Unite the kingdom against the far right. Reclaim our flag!'

BoredZelda · 05/10/2025 18:39

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 05/10/2025 15:18

It's just you.

Most people know that "unite the kingdom" reflects support for a racist campaign led by Tommy Robinson and his cronies.

Not just them, I didn’t know that either. I haven’t been living under a rock, and I’m well aware of Yaxley-Lennon and his behaviour, I’ve seen all the flag nonsense etc. I hadn’t heard of Unite the Kingdom. It’s a bizarre tag line and meaningless, but there we are then.