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Neighbour has put up huge Unite the Kingdom flag

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UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:05

I am gutted. I haven't seen a single flag in my town, and suddenly this union jack goes up two doors over with the words 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it in capital letters. The flag is huge and flying from a pole on top of their shed, but it's in their own garden so nothing can be done.

I am the daughter of an immigrant mother and therefore mixed race. Now I have to see this fucking flag waving at me every time I look out of my kitchen or living room windows.

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Petitchat · 06/10/2025 15:48

Enoughberries · 06/10/2025 15:35

I embarrassed to say i hadn’t been aware of the march, so blissfully ignorant headed in to London to the theatre.

As we approached Waterloo, I had a look around the carriage and thought - cripes, what’s going on…. Lots of fat men drinking tinnies.

And then we arrived and when I exited the station OMFG…. Either fat or malnourished men swigging beer and many smoking… staggering along in their tens of thousands.

The smell!! The Rubbish.

i took a sneaky photo of one of the worst of them… and sent to friends and family with the following

“if he represents my country, then god help us all”

🤣
This sounds as silly as someone saying there were 150,000 racists!!

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 15:48

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/10/2025 15:19

I've asked numerous posters on numerous threads. None were flying the flag, but one did say I'd inspired them to do so.😊

A few randoms on MN have apparently told you they don't fly flags but support people who do, that therefore makes them racist? You haven't actually provided any evidence.

Well that settles it then... anyone who flies a Union Flag is a raging racist after all. 😂

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 15:41

PandoraSocks · 06/10/2025 15:11

The man who first exposed the gangs in 2011. Clue: not SYL/TR

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4ge33q71q7o.amp

BBC Panorama did a documentary on the EDL and TR in 2004 where he spoke about grooming gangs.

rockstarshoes · 06/10/2025 15:39

And Mumsnet reaches a whole new low!

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/10/2025 15:38

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 15:31

I'm embarrassed for you! It is you who has tried to make an equivalence of my example not I.

'If Tommy Robinson eats meat, that doesn't mean that all meat eaters are racist. Similarly, Hitler being vegetarian doesn't mean all vegetarians are Nazis.'
Nobody suggested this.

Do I really have to repeat myself again? You can agree with certain things a person does whilst disagreeing with other things they do. I've said it as simplistically as I possibly can. If you are still struggling with this concept I can't really spell it out any clearer.

'A much better comparison would have been to think about how we might have judged someone who had chosen to go on a march organised by Hitler in celebration of German culture, knowing what Hitler stood for.' Whilst I appreciate what you are trying to convey here you are entering the world of hypotheticals and creating a false equivalence of your own.

The question is: How are people who attend Tommy Robinson marches being judged? They are being judged as automatic racists, as is demonstrated by comments on here, all manner of social media platforms and the mainstream media. My point was and has been all along, people can make these assumptions but they do not know the reasons why each person is attending so cannot with absolute conviction know the accusations they are making are true.

I made the point about Hitler and vegetarianism to demonstrate how there may be people on these marches who do not agree with all of what TR has to say but do agree with his stance on illegal immigration. It's really that simple.

OK, you're just not getting it. Not sure if that's because you just don't want to get it or because you don't have the thinking skills.

Tommy Robinson's views on illegal immigration are inextricably linked to his racism. Hitler's antisemitism and far right views had fuck all to do with his vegetarianism. If you cannot see the difference, then I give up.

Enoughberries · 06/10/2025 15:35

I embarrassed to say i hadn’t been aware of the march, so blissfully ignorant headed in to London to the theatre.

As we approached Waterloo, I had a look around the carriage and thought - cripes, what’s going on…. Lots of fat men drinking tinnies.

And then we arrived and when I exited the station OMFG…. Either fat or malnourished men swigging beer and many smoking… staggering along in their tens of thousands.

The smell!! The Rubbish.

i took a sneaky photo of one of the worst of them… and sent to friends and family with the following

“if he represents my country, then god help us all”

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 15:31

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/10/2025 14:52

I'm embarrassed for you that you're still trying to argue this equivalence. A total failure of logic.

If Tommy Robinson eats meat, that doesn't mean that all meat eaters are racist. Similarly, Hitler being vegetarian doesn't mean all vegetarians are Nazis. Because in both cases, their dietary preferences are irrelevant to their political views.

A much better comparison would have been to think about how we might have judged someone who had chosen to go on a march organised by Hitler in celebration of German culture, knowing what Hitler stood for. I know what conclusions I would draw about someone making that choice. What would you think?

I'm embarrassed for you! It is you who has tried to make an equivalence of my example not I.

'If Tommy Robinson eats meat, that doesn't mean that all meat eaters are racist. Similarly, Hitler being vegetarian doesn't mean all vegetarians are Nazis.'
Nobody suggested this.

Do I really have to repeat myself again? You can agree with certain things a person does whilst disagreeing with other things they do. I've said it as simplistically as I possibly can. If you are still struggling with this concept I can't really spell it out any clearer.

'A much better comparison would have been to think about how we might have judged someone who had chosen to go on a march organised by Hitler in celebration of German culture, knowing what Hitler stood for.' Whilst I appreciate what you are trying to convey here you are entering the world of hypotheticals and creating a false equivalence of your own.

The question is: How are people who attend Tommy Robinson marches being judged? They are being judged as automatic racists, as is demonstrated by comments on here, all manner of social media platforms and the mainstream media. My point was and has been all along, people can make these assumptions but they do not know the reasons why each person is attending so cannot with absolute conviction know the accusations they are making are true.

I made the point about Hitler and vegetarianism to demonstrate how there may be people on these marches who do not agree with all of what TR has to say but do agree with his stance on illegal immigration. It's really that simple.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/10/2025 15:29

Petitchat · 06/10/2025 15:22

Thankyou.
I actually agree with one of your responses 😊

I believe it was a simple straightforward case of school being afraid to step on certain toes, which is partly what the rally was about.

Personally, I find it extremely unlikely that this was purely about the school "being afraid to step on certain toes".

I strongly suspect that there was a back story relating to this student and/or her family which led the school to feel that her choices were inappropriate. This is supported, imo, by the family's decision to plaster it all over the tabloid media and put the child on a platform next to Tommy Robinson.

The school should have foreseen the potential for their decision to be put into the public domain, and they should have realised that they would not be in a position to release any personal information about the student or her family to justify their actions. If they had thought this through properly before reacting, they could have handled it differently.

Enoughberries · 06/10/2025 15:26

If the neighbour has been harbouring racist views and support for TR, it is surprising he hasn’t erected the flag way before now

the5thgoldengirl · 06/10/2025 15:25

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Petitchat · 06/10/2025 15:22

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/10/2025 15:11

I think the school mishandled the situation, and they shouldn't have stopped her from wearing the dress or speaking about "British culture".

Of course, we don't know exactly why the school intervened in the way that they did with this child, and in light of subsequent events, I wouldn't mind betting that there is a lot more context to this story that the school inevitably cannot share. Notwithstanding that, the school's response was misguided.

Thankyou.
I actually agree with one of your responses 😊

I believe it was a simple straightforward case of school being afraid to step on certain toes, which is partly what the rally was about.

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/10/2025 15:19

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 15:07

Can't say I have come across anyone who has admitted to this. Someone on MN has actually said 'I back flying flags, but I won't do it myself.'
Care to provide an example?

To be honest anyone who uses the term 'flag shagger' just immediately looses my ability to take them seriously. Are the people who parade rainbow flags, EU flags and Palestine flags all 'flag shaggers' too?

Personally, I think the entire 'raise the colours' achieves nothing politically. Nor do the Palestine protests. It's all a bit pointless.

I've asked numerous posters on numerous threads. None were flying the flag, but one did say I'd inspired them to do so.😊

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 06/10/2025 15:13

Pedallleur · 05/10/2025 21:43

Whilst admiring Hitler

Actually can you provide me with any links that support that statement please? Id' be interested to read them.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 06/10/2025 15:11

Petitchat · 06/10/2025 15:00

What's your view on being banned from school for wearing a British flag dress?

I think the school mishandled the situation, and they shouldn't have stopped her from wearing the dress or speaking about "British culture".

Of course, we don't know exactly why the school intervened in the way that they did with this child, and in light of subsequent events, I wouldn't mind betting that there is a lot more context to this story that the school inevitably cannot share. Notwithstanding that, the school's response was misguided.

PandoraSocks · 06/10/2025 15:11

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 15:09

We've already established you don't like to look at evidence. It's all available online at the click of a button if you are genuinely interested in truth.

The man who first exposed the gangs in 2011. Clue: not SYL/TR

www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4ge33q71q7o.amp

Dovetail22uk2 · 06/10/2025 15:10

JamieCannister · 06/10/2025 15:07

Do you think that it'd be good if the UK was united and not divided?

In an ideal world (perhaps not possible for practical reasons such as safety) you should knock on his door and have a conversation and see if you can find common ground.

IMHO we need to Unite the UK, and we have infinitely more chance of uniting the country around controlled and wanted immigration, and "traditional british values and christianity" than we are uniting it around woke ideology, communism, unlimited immigration and islamism.

We all need to speak to each other, reach out, talk, listen, try to fidn common ground.

I do not support Reform by the way (and I don't believe Robinson does either). I do not support Robinson either, but I do support a fair bit of what he says and does.

I'm not sure if you are deliberately misinterpreting what "unite the kingdom" means. But yeah, you might not be a Reform supporter on the outside but they've got your heart by the sound of it. FFS people on MN are so depressing.

HeadDeskHeadDesk · 06/10/2025 15:09

Pedallleur · 05/10/2025 21:43

Whilst admiring Hitler

Well then he's got that in common with Hamas and many of their supporters at least. Mein Kampf is high on their required reading list I hear.

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 15:09

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/10/2025 15:04

No he wasn't.

But he did his utmost to collapse the trials and prejudice the convictions of grooming gangs. Why would he do that if he was so concerned about victims?🤔

We've already established you don't like to look at evidence. It's all available online at the click of a button if you are genuinely interested in truth.

PandoraSocks · 06/10/2025 15:08

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 14:54

He was exposing the grooming gangs a decade before the contempt of court case, but don't let that nugget of truth distract you.

Oh go away with your lies about SYL.

SYL in 2018

https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2018/oct/19/how-tommy-robinson-put-huddersfield-grooming-trials-at-risk

The man who first exposed the gangs in 2011

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4ge33q71q7o.amp

A portrait of Andrew Norfolk wearing a suit and tie with glasses on looking directly at the camera against a grey background.

Andrew Norfolk: Times reporter who exposed grooming gang dies - BBC News

Andrew Norfolk's work revealed a pattern of abuse which led to changes in the law around convictions.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c4ge33q71q7o.amp

CurlewKate · 06/10/2025 15:07

JHound · 06/10/2025 14:56

Is any of this true?

Well, I am delighted to see that the comment I made recently about a poster’s complaint that the BBC gratuitously brought slavery into a programme about Jane Austen has been taken on board…..

Dovetail22uk2 · 06/10/2025 15:07

UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:05

I am gutted. I haven't seen a single flag in my town, and suddenly this union jack goes up two doors over with the words 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it in capital letters. The flag is huge and flying from a pole on top of their shed, but it's in their own garden so nothing can be done.

I am the daughter of an immigrant mother and therefore mixed race. Now I have to see this fucking flag waving at me every time I look out of my kitchen or living room windows.

Yes, I'd be gutted too. Regardless of what anyone else says, it's racist ideology and the marches were organised by racists who are funded by Israel. Anyone who can't see this is either stupid, racist or just doesn't want to see it for what it is. I'm really sorry you're having to put up with this xx

JamieCannister · 06/10/2025 15:07

UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:05

I am gutted. I haven't seen a single flag in my town, and suddenly this union jack goes up two doors over with the words 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it in capital letters. The flag is huge and flying from a pole on top of their shed, but it's in their own garden so nothing can be done.

I am the daughter of an immigrant mother and therefore mixed race. Now I have to see this fucking flag waving at me every time I look out of my kitchen or living room windows.

Do you think that it'd be good if the UK was united and not divided?

In an ideal world (perhaps not possible for practical reasons such as safety) you should knock on his door and have a conversation and see if you can find common ground.

IMHO we need to Unite the UK, and we have infinitely more chance of uniting the country around controlled and wanted immigration, and "traditional british values and christianity" than we are uniting it around woke ideology, communism, unlimited immigration and islamism.

We all need to speak to each other, reach out, talk, listen, try to fidn common ground.

I do not support Reform by the way (and I don't believe Robinson does either). I do not support Robinson either, but I do support a fair bit of what he says and does.

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 15:07

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/10/2025 14:47

I base it on the posters who back the racist flags shaggers, but won't fly one themselves. Do you have one up yourself?

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Can't say I have come across anyone who has admitted to this. Someone on MN has actually said 'I back flying flags, but I won't do it myself.'
Care to provide an example?

To be honest anyone who uses the term 'flag shagger' just immediately looses my ability to take them seriously. Are the people who parade rainbow flags, EU flags and Palestine flags all 'flag shaggers' too?

Personally, I think the entire 'raise the colours' achieves nothing politically. Nor do the Palestine protests. It's all a bit pointless.

TooBigForMyBoots · 06/10/2025 15:04

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 06/10/2025 14:54

He was exposing the grooming gangs a decade before the contempt of court case, but don't let that nugget of truth distract you.

No he wasn't.

But he did his utmost to collapse the trials and prejudice the convictions of grooming gangs. Why would he do that if he was so concerned about victims?🤔

CurlewKate · 06/10/2025 15:02

Petitchat · 06/10/2025 15:00

What's your view on being banned from school for wearing a British flag dress?

She wasn’t.