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Neighbour has put up huge Unite the Kingdom flag

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UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:05

I am gutted. I haven't seen a single flag in my town, and suddenly this union jack goes up two doors over with the words 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it in capital letters. The flag is huge and flying from a pole on top of their shed, but it's in their own garden so nothing can be done.

I am the daughter of an immigrant mother and therefore mixed race. Now I have to see this fucking flag waving at me every time I look out of my kitchen or living room windows.

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BuildbyNumbere · 08/10/2025 16:58

PandoraSocks · 08/10/2025 16:55

But it is not the UK's flag. It's a Tommy Robinson flag, produced in China, which he makes money from selling. So calling the horrible thing "the fucking flag" is fair comment.

So then a flag with this “fucking” slogan on. Why swear and rant about our flag if the slogan is the issue?!?!

the5thgoldengirl · 08/10/2025 16:56

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BuildbyNumbere · 08/10/2025 16:56

EchoedSilence · 05/10/2025 15:39

I doubt my neighbours are racist considering both sides are muslim.I live in one of those very diverse areas that some MNers think are no go areas.

Doesn’t mean they are not racist … just not towards Muslims!

PandoraSocks · 08/10/2025 16:55

BuildbyNumbere · 08/10/2025 16:51

The fucking flag?!?! What from the country you decided to live in??? How disgusting rude!! This is the UK and we are entitled to fly our own flag!!!

But it is not the UK's flag. It's a Tommy Robinson flag, produced in China, which he makes money from selling. So calling the horrible thing "the fucking flag" is fair comment.

BuildbyNumbere · 08/10/2025 16:51

The fucking flag?!?! What from the country you decided to live in??? How disgusting rude!! This is the UK and we are entitled to fly our own flag!!!

SezFrankly · 08/10/2025 16:29

Redacted after reading the posts.

no, YANBU

Moellen54 · 08/10/2025 16:22

You dont need to be of colour to be an immigrant though. My father lived most of his childhood in New Zealand as his parents were missionaries. He was still an immigrant though. Honestly these flags and slogans are getting beyond a joke. We're on holiday in Malta and keep coming across the "shame on you" campaigners.

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 08/10/2025 15:15

Petitchat · 08/10/2025 12:35

On YouTube there is a video from 2015

"Tommy Robinson Full Address Oxford Union"

where he explains how/ where he started

I think they'd rather stick fingers in ears. 'Nah nah I'm not listening!'

IAmThePrettiestManOnMyIsland · 08/10/2025 15:12

'Who made the BBC scandal aware of the grooming gangs scandal back in 2001?' Who knows? I've covered this multiple times now. No one person can take credit for exposing this because hundreds if not thousands of people were talking about it at the time.

'There were no mass cover ups going on so as not to inflame racial tensions.' You know more than Baroness Casey it would seem...
Ethnicity of grooming gangs 'shied away from', Casey report says - BBC News

'In 2025, former Home Office minister Robert Jenrick said group-based child sexual exploitation was "perhaps the greatest racially motivated crime in modern Britain" and said it was covered up by the British state to protect community relations.'

'Simon Danczuk MP also claimed a Labour Party chairman had told him not to draw attention to the ethnicity of the gangs in his Rochdale constituency in case it affected the party's electoral chances.'
Grooming gangs: Labour were worried about 'upsetting the Pakistani vote', Danczuk says | Watch

'I will not click links that monetise Tommy Robinson inserting himself into the fight against VAWG or lying about being racist.' Not one of the links I have attached would monetise TR. That is a poor excuse for choosing to be wilfully ignorant.

'But you've watched them so I'm asking you: What exactly do you think Tommy Robinson did?' And I have answered this numerous times.

To deny TR has had a hand in exposing grooming gangs is an outright lie. But you refuse to look at the piles of evidence put before you, so there is the point of carrying on this discussion.

Baroness Louise Casey gestures with her hands during an interview

Ethnicity of grooming gangs 'shied away from', Casey report says

"We as a society owe these women a debt," the report also says.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clynyyqdnrdo

ccridersuz · 08/10/2025 14:56

There is nothing racist about it, those that say different really need to get some education about what is actually said by TR and Farage firsthand and in context, not in snippets put forward by the bias mainstream media.
Supporters of both are being classed as racist, by the ignorance and lies of the far left, to diversify the UK.
Hence the slogan Unite the Kingdom.
If you are here legally, paying your taxes and not planning murder, rape or terrorist actions, then you need to understand that there is nothing in the flag flying actions of other’s that should cause you offence.
However, as you live in the United Kingdom, you live under The Jack, whether you like it or not, you also live under the Flags of England, Ireland, Scotland and Wales, depending on your location.
There is no need to insult our flag, no matter the slogan.
There is no need to think you are some sort of target.
There is certainly no need to brand someone displaying or marching with a flag of the nation racist.
Before you critique people, perhaps educate yourself by learning about their objectives, aims and goals.

Ineedtoseetobelieve32 · 08/10/2025 14:49

TheCaribbeanIsCallingMe · 05/10/2025 16:49

The flag waving everywhere, is in protest to the large number of illegal immigrants, that are turning up every day on our shores - 1000 a day just now. These are men with no ID, from countries where rape is not a crime.

It is not racist to be opposed to this. If you tried to walk through Heathrow without your passport, you, a British citizen, would be denied entry. And yet here we are, welcoming 1000's of men and placing them in hotels, in the middle of communities and it has had negative repercussions - for example, school girls being followed by foreign men, and in some cases there have been sexual assaults. People are angry. They didn't sign up to this. It's not racist to not want this. I wish people would stop spouting such bollocks.

But where have you got this number from?! As fast as I can see “Almost 37,000 people crossed the Channel in small boats in 2024 but the highest figures were for 2022, when 45,755 people arrived.” That is nowhere near a thousand a day. Are you referring to a headline where over 1,100 arrived on one day? That obviously doesn’t mean every day that number are arriving so you have either misunderstood or are deliberately wanting to mislead for dramatic effect.

OhYeahOhYeah · 08/10/2025 14:45

ScribblingPixie · 05/10/2025 15:42

Are you seriously suggesting that no Muslim people hold racist views?

I agree. I worked with quite a number of Muslim colleagues some years ago, and their racism towards other communities in our town was truly shocking! Like really awful towards them, very rude and derogatory and full of hate. It was really saddening.

Familyweirdness · 08/10/2025 14:41

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 05/10/2025 15:20

It's a Tommy Robinson slogan. Hence it is racist.

Is it though? Is the union jack simply just the union jack?

Fireflybaby · 08/10/2025 14:35

MidnightPatrol · 05/10/2025 15:13

What’s the offence with ‘unite the kingdom’ written on a Union Jack?

Nothing apart from the fact that the kingdom is not broken... therefore unnecessary...

Pherian · 08/10/2025 14:28

UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:05

I am gutted. I haven't seen a single flag in my town, and suddenly this union jack goes up two doors over with the words 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it in capital letters. The flag is huge and flying from a pole on top of their shed, but it's in their own garden so nothing can be done.

I am the daughter of an immigrant mother and therefore mixed race. Now I have to see this fucking flag waving at me every time I look out of my kitchen or living room windows.

I’m an immigrant as well in the U.K. and none of this offends me.

The reason people are doing this isn’t about colour or race. It’s about culture.

When I immigrated to the U.K. I learned about its culture. I integrated with it and became part of my community,

How much are the men doing that who are illegally entering the UK ?

Other world leaders have called on the U.K. to take a tougher stance on this issue because of the issues it’s causing along every step of their journey. Maybe you need to educate yourself on that.

You were born to immigrant parents but you aren’t one. Maybe look around and see how well you and your family have integrated into British culture - do you speak English, do you obey the law, do not you respect British customs and traditions? / including free speech which you may not agree with - Yes to all those - then it’s nothing for you to get in a huff over.

BeeKee · 08/10/2025 14:23

I love seeing all of the British and English flags!

Jumpers4goalposts · 08/10/2025 14:18

Anyone supporting the whole Tommy Robinson flag bollocks is a racist whether they care to admit it or not, it doesn’t change the fact that they are. I feel sorry for all those who proudly had a flag up a flag pole before old TR of Irish immigrant descent made all his racist supporters hide behind a slogan of fake patriotism who are now getting tarred with the same brush. I know people around here who have removed their flags because of it. As someone who’s had their DNA tested and is 97% British descent I cannot think of anything less British or patriot than sticking a £1 Poundland flag halfway up a lamp post in an attempt to intimidate people who they deem not British enough.

Asignofthetimes · 08/10/2025 14:13

UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 15:05

I am gutted. I haven't seen a single flag in my town, and suddenly this union jack goes up two doors over with the words 'Unite the Kingdom' printed on it in capital letters. The flag is huge and flying from a pole on top of their shed, but it's in their own garden so nothing can be done.

I am the daughter of an immigrant mother and therefore mixed race. Now I have to see this fucking flag waving at me every time I look out of my kitchen or living room windows.

You are obviously anti white and anti British. If this is your view of this country's flag then you do not deserve to live and walk on it's soil.

Moanyoldmoan · 08/10/2025 14:10

Yes you are being unreasonable. It’s their house and it’s a flag of the country they live in. Nothing to do with you. Deal with it. Many of us are sick of pandering to the forever offended

Petitchat · 08/10/2025 12:35

On YouTube there is a video from 2015

"Tommy Robinson Full Address Oxford Union"

where he explains how/ where he started

NorfolkandBad · 08/10/2025 11:32

RafaistheKingofClay · 08/10/2025 10:56

Are they even flooding the country. They are a tiny proportion of immigration and an even smaller proportion of the population as a whole. And lots of them will get deported anyway now that Labour have ungunmed the home office and started deporting failed claimants.

Did you keep a straight facing while posting that ?

one in, one out is not "ungumming the home office"

RafaistheKingofClay · 08/10/2025 10:56

Are they even flooding the country. They are a tiny proportion of immigration and an even smaller proportion of the population as a whole. And lots of them will get deported anyway now that Labour have ungunmed the home office and started deporting failed claimants.

CurlewKate · 08/10/2025 06:43

Iwanttoeatchocolateallday · 08/10/2025 05:53

Which he is entitled to do on his own property. There are no flags in my road but I would put one up if I was not a woman living on her own. My concerns are around the illegal immigrants flooding the country. We have no control on who they are, if they have criminal records etc. And before you pull the racist card, I work for and with Muslims and I have 2 mixed race grandchildren.

Why do you think posting a union flag defaced by a slogan will have any impact on the situation?

Iwanttoeatchocolateallday · 08/10/2025 05:53

UrticaDioca · 05/10/2025 16:20

I would take several neon flashing snowmen over this flag any day. I do hope it's something that he will take down at some point. Everything has it's life cycle including campaigns and slogans like that. I can just see that he has invested in getting a nice big flag with this wording printed on it, and a flag pole to fly it from. And ladders to put it up. He's gone to a bit of effort.

Which he is entitled to do on his own property. There are no flags in my road but I would put one up if I was not a woman living on her own. My concerns are around the illegal immigrants flooding the country. We have no control on who they are, if they have criminal records etc. And before you pull the racist card, I work for and with Muslims and I have 2 mixed race grandchildren.

AnnaFrith · 07/10/2025 22:03

Doggybroc · 07/10/2025 15:41

Scary to think of you spouting your views to them I suppose

What scary views do you think I have expressed here, other than that I like to listen to what people have to say and form my own opinions?