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The council should be taking down England flags in public places?

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fourfoxsakes · 26/09/2025 12:45

I have driven through a couple of areas in the last few days where England flags are being displayed on public lamp posts, it makes me feel very uncomfortable and unwelcome in the area and I think gosh I’m glad I don’t live here, but why are the council not taking them down?

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ExtraOnions · 27/09/2025 07:30

I would sooner the council put them up, at least there’s a chance they might be done properly

Here it’s an mis-mash of sizes, patterns, styles, hung at all different levels. The ones that have been up weeks are now grey in colour, and looking very worse for wear.

We are not taking “the Mall” where the flags (hung for tourists) are well maintained …or displays in other Capital cities, that look great. They look a mess.

Hope a few “patriots” from round here, come and tidy things up .. but I doubt it.

We also had some scale a Grade 1 listed structure, to put flags on top of… which is bell-end behaviour.

RedSuedePump · 27/09/2025 07:29

MidnightPatrol · 26/09/2025 12:54

Palestinian flags and Ukrainian flags all fine. Scottish flags fine.

Just the England flag unacceptable. Can’t be demonstrating you support for England in England.

thats not what England flags being put up at this particular moment is demonstrating support for though is it? But then everyone who gives a faux-naive "what's wrong with flying the flag of your country" wide eyed response knows that.

flags at this particular moment in time are being put up to signify anti-immigration sentiment

Onlyontuesday · 27/09/2025 07:26

Lots of wilful ignorance.

If you were on holiday in Barcelona and Spanish or Catalan flags went up immediately everywhere after a wave of protests about tourism you would be being dense to not feel uncomfortable. The people putting them up would want you to see the flag and feel unwelcome.

Yes it's an English flag in England, but intention matters, and the intention here is not patriotism. White nationalism is not British and it does not make me feel proud.

Catchee · 27/09/2025 07:25

FanFckingTastic · 26/09/2025 12:57

I don't think that it's clear at all. Why can't people display the flag of the country they are in? As a pp said, you would expect to see a Welsh flag in Wales, or the Saltire in Scotland.

The flag has been coopted to represent intimidation. It's unbelievably naive to suggest otherwise. Just look at who is funding it, the rhetoric behind it and the people putting them up. Just take a look at the daily mail yesterday and the single mum who didn't want a flag on her estate. The article and, in particular, the comments made me feel sick. Through inaction, the flag has been lost. You've let it represent something very dark and hateful and I guess, it now shows who is prepared for it to do so.

bakebeans · 27/09/2025 07:11

In England I would expect to see an England flag. If I went to France I would expect to see a French flag. If I went to Australia I would expect to see an Australian flag.
why can’t they be displayed?

Namelessnelly · 27/09/2025 07:05

MsJinks · 27/09/2025 06:26

Quite - nothing wrong with a flag in your country’s honour.
But everything wrong with a flag in a far right racist’s honour - and yes they are, not even bought personally a lot of the time but crowdfunded and discussed on nasty little fb/sm groups.
As I asked someone earlier about pulling ladders away from a council worker - is that ok too? How ‘patriotic’ do we have to be over ‘our flag’?

So how do you tell the difference? Surely if everyone puts flags up, then it won’t be seen as racist, it’ll be seen as celebrating the country and the racists will just look stupid. That would be like if someone raised Palestinian flags. Are they doing it because they are anti semetic or are they Palestinian? So we’d better stop those too hadn’t we? Are people raising pride flags to support gay rights or to intimidate women at the moment? We can’t be sure so we’d better not raise those either had we? So it’s either we ban all flags or people can raise any flags.

MsJinks · 27/09/2025 06:32

RubySquid · 27/09/2025 02:00

Why does it make you feel unwelcome? I don't feel unwelcome in Thailand for example because I see Thai flags flying

You know why it makes people feel unwelcome.
Why would you continue doing something that makes quite a lot of folk feel unwelcome whether they live, work or visit here?
It seems to me though that people really enjoy this part of the Robinson Raise the Colours op - more than they like celebrating being English/British - not a great look really.
No one has objected to flags already flown - nice flags at full mast on buildings.
I’ve just been abroad and seen flags around, but not on lampposts half mast, and no one told me it meant they didn’t really want foreigners there. It’s completely different.

MsJinks · 27/09/2025 06:26

CalicoPusscat · 27/09/2025 02:13

For heaven's sake who cares about flags? There is nothing wrong if you choose to use a flag in your country's honour.

This might surprise you @fourfoxsakes but people like to honour their country despite its flaws, there is nothing threatening about it and I'm proud of the scientific advances we made, the architecture and (mainly) good and kind people

Quite - nothing wrong with a flag in your country’s honour.
But everything wrong with a flag in a far right racist’s honour - and yes they are, not even bought personally a lot of the time but crowdfunded and discussed on nasty little fb/sm groups.
As I asked someone earlier about pulling ladders away from a council worker - is that ok too? How ‘patriotic’ do we have to be over ‘our flag’?

CalicoPusscat · 27/09/2025 02:13

For heaven's sake who cares about flags? There is nothing wrong if you choose to use a flag in your country's honour.

This might surprise you @fourfoxsakes but people like to honour their country despite its flaws, there is nothing threatening about it and I'm proud of the scientific advances we made, the architecture and (mainly) good and kind people

RubySquid · 27/09/2025 02:00

fourfoxsakes · 26/09/2025 12:45

I have driven through a couple of areas in the last few days where England flags are being displayed on public lamp posts, it makes me feel very uncomfortable and unwelcome in the area and I think gosh I’m glad I don’t live here, but why are the council not taking them down?

Why does it make you feel unwelcome? I don't feel unwelcome in Thailand for example because I see Thai flags flying

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 01:59

Dogsandhens · 26/09/2025 22:50

You can't read minds though. And the people in this country aren't all the same. And don't all feel the same about our nation's flag.

Which is fine, but knowing that the raising the colours thing started because of a racist intent, why would you fly a flag and make people think your motives are murky? Now is not the time.

OwlBeThere · 27/09/2025 01:55

Dogsandhens · 26/09/2025 21:55

That would mean you would apply the same warped logic to the Palestinain marches and those who fly the Palestinian flags.

The first one in London was organised a couple of hours after the Oct 7th attacks started. Jews have been made to feel intimidated and scared due to anti semetism shown the marches.

Therefore all the marchers must be anti semitic racists.

I have no opinion on the Israel/palestine thing either way, to me it seems abundantly clear that there is fault and hate and anger on both sides, with good and bad people on both sides, the only side I’m on in that whole god forsaken mess is the side of the innocent people caught in an un-ending misery. And none of that has anything to do with the issue being discussed here, which is that this flag raising thing is the work of hateful racists.

Dogsandhens · 26/09/2025 22:50

ForPearlViper · 26/09/2025 22:30

Apologies if I singled you out unfairly.

It's not about the flag. It is not about the people and the area in which they live. It is the intention behind the act.

You can't read minds though. And the people in this country aren't all the same. And don't all feel the same about our nation's flag.

ForPearlViper · 26/09/2025 22:30

Dogsandhens · 26/09/2025 17:39

I asked about that because the PP to whom I was replying to said they "hated them".I just wanted to clarify whether she meant the flags or the people that put them up.

Apologies if I singled you out unfairly.

It's not about the flag. It is not about the people and the area in which they live. It is the intention behind the act.

narcASD · 26/09/2025 22:10

I love seeing them, especially in an areas when if you are white British, you are the minority. Makes me feel like I actually do live in England.

GoodTimesNoodleSalad · 26/09/2025 22:06

Another goady thread. No, leave them be.

Dogsandhens · 26/09/2025 21:55

OwlBeThere · 26/09/2025 20:43

Well it’s because the people who started this whole flag thing are nasty little racists like Andy Saxon and Tommy Robinson. If everyone had suddenly had a burst of patriotism spontaneously then it would be fine, but that isn’t it. And it’s really disingenuous to act like there isn’t a subtext to this that is based on making immigrants feel uncomfortable.

That would mean you would apply the same warped logic to the Palestinain marches and those who fly the Palestinian flags.

The first one in London was organised a couple of hours after the Oct 7th attacks started. Jews have been made to feel intimidated and scared due to anti semetism shown the marches.

Therefore all the marchers must be anti semitic racists.

fourfoxsakes · 26/09/2025 21:55

These are places that I drive through on a regular basis and they definitely weren’t there before

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Namelessnelly · 26/09/2025 21:39

fourfoxsakes · 26/09/2025 12:45

I have driven through a couple of areas in the last few days where England flags are being displayed on public lamp posts, it makes me feel very uncomfortable and unwelcome in the area and I think gosh I’m glad I don’t live here, but why are the council not taking them down?

Is it just the George cross that makes you uncomfortable or do you have a general fear of flags?

newusernamex1000 · 26/09/2025 21:24

I quite like seeing the flags

Tagyoureit · 26/09/2025 21:14

anyolddinosaur · 26/09/2025 21:06

@fourfoxsakes You realise that some flags were up for the womens rugby team? The final is tomorrow and England are in it. No flags are not all there for the same reason and it's insulting to pretend they are. In some places there are very few to take down, the ones up have been there all year or for other sporting events and they are flying legally from flagpoles.

Some councils are taking flags down when installed illegally or in places where it is obviously with ill intent.

It would be great to post on sm how lovely it it is to see the flags flying for our England Ladies tomorrow!!

Maybe we all should

anyolddinosaur · 26/09/2025 21:06

@fourfoxsakes You realise that some flags were up for the womens rugby team? The final is tomorrow and England are in it. No flags are not all there for the same reason and it's insulting to pretend they are. In some places there are very few to take down, the ones up have been there all year or for other sporting events and they are flying legally from flagpoles.

Some councils are taking flags down when installed illegally or in places where it is obviously with ill intent.

Thissickbeat · 26/09/2025 20:58

Our local flag lovers have a collection pot fund to buy flags 🙄.

TiredofLDN · 26/09/2025 20:51

Yuasa · 26/09/2025 20:32

It’s a good analogy and for that reason doomed to be ignored. The whole question of context is ignored because they have no answer to it.

Much easier to ask for the millionth time why it’s only English people who aren’t allowed to be patriotic. As if this was in any way an incisive point.

It’s the lack of critical thinking for me….

I despair

fourfoxsakes · 26/09/2025 20:49

But why the English flag and not the Union Jack ? It’s sending out a very specific message

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