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To think most of what people call “British” is actually borrowed from other cultures?

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BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:07

From food to fashion to language, it seems like a lot of what’s considered traditionally British has roots elsewhere. Yet people still cling to the idea of a “pure” British culture. AIBU to think the whole concept is more mixed than most are willing to admit?

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AlasPoor · 18/09/2025 21:50

GrapesOnTheVine · 18/09/2025 21:47

And while not everyone is clinging to the idea of a ‘pure’ British culture, plenty of rhetoric (especially around immigration or ‘British values’ seems to lean that way.

Ah, what a suprise. Who would have thought your agenda would be “British people can’t object to unlimited immigration “. I’m shocked I tell you, shocked to my core. And there I was thinking you were genuinely interested in discussing how British culture has evolved into the fascinating entity it is.

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☝ Yes what an absolute shocker!

R0ckandHardPlace · 18/09/2025 21:49

FuzzyPuffling · 18/09/2025 21:29

Isn't it more about values than food?

Who else queues like us? Any other country always say "thank you" to the bus driver when they get off?

I agree. People think it’s about food and arts and architecture but to me, British culture is more about our values and behaviour as people.

I didn’t really put much thought into it until we had a Ukrainian family living with us, and it really highlighted our cultural differences and made me consider just what ‘culture’ is.

British culture to me is made up of complaining about the weather, being sticklers for rules, orderly queues and always being on time; piss-taking humour, our love of really championing an underdog (and then subsequently tearing them down), cheering when someone drops and smashes a glass or a plate in public, putting our children to bed very early, apologising for things when we’ve done nothing wrong, being obsessed with food hygiene, and a thousand other things that make us different from other nationalities.

What I love about being British is our sense of fairness and doing the right thing. We have an amazing sense of humour. And despite everything we’re seeing in the news, we are still one of the most charitable and tolerant countries in the world. I’m very proud of that.

decenteringmen · 18/09/2025 21:49

White British culture is mostly microbial.

CoffeeCantata · 18/09/2025 21:49

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:43

I’m not against national pride or people loving where they’re from. I’m just pointing out how cultures evolve through influence and exchange and how recognising that shouldn’t be seen as a threat to identity. British culture is real and it’s also layered, dynamic and rooted in a mix of histories. That’s something to be proud of too.

Yes, we know. You are preaching to the choir, pushing at an open door, bringing coals to Newcastle - just to demonstrate a few English idioms which imply you are telling us all what we already know and pretending you’re making an original intellectual observation.

Give it a rest now.

mrswhiplington · 18/09/2025 21:48

RosesAndHellebores · 18/09/2025 21:18

I raise you rissoles!

I raise you sausage rolls.😅

Fearfulsaints · 18/09/2025 21:47

I dont think something has to be unique to somewhere or have originated somewhere to be part of its culture. Culture changes all the time.

But i do think trading with the world and 'borrowing' is part of British culture.

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:47

FuzzyPuffling · 18/09/2025 21:29

Isn't it more about values than food?

Who else queues like us? Any other country always say "thank you" to the bus driver when they get off?

Yes, values like politeness, queueing or thanking the bus driver feel uniquely British and I get the pride in that but those values aren’t exclusive to Britain. Plenty of cultures show respect and courtesy, just in different ways. I’m not denying there’s something distinctively British in how we express those things, just questioning the idea that it all developed in a vacuum.

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GrapesOnTheVine · 18/09/2025 21:47

And while not everyone is clinging to the idea of a ‘pure’ British culture, plenty of rhetoric (especially around immigration or ‘British values’ seems to lean that way.

Ah, what a suprise. Who would have thought your agenda would be “British people can’t object to unlimited immigration “. I’m shocked I tell you, shocked to my core. And there I was thinking you were genuinely interested in discussing how British culture has evolved into the fascinating entity it is.

ListOfJobsKeepsGrowing · 18/09/2025 21:47

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:40

Exactly, human culture is constantly evolving through exchange. That’s kind of my point - when people talk about ‘British culture’ as if it’s fixed or pure, it ignores how much of it is hybrid by nature. And while not everyone is clinging to the idea of a ‘pure’ British culture, plenty of rhetoric (especially around immigration or ‘British values’ seems to lean that way.

'British Values' is forced by government agendas as far as I can see.

Why else am I forced to discuss 'British Values' and find examples of how I live by them every time I meet with my apprenticeship skills coach?!

I am British, but I'm not pushing 'British Values', I simply want kindness and respect from all.
Surely 'human values' should be all that's needed.
But...some cultures don't share the same values. So I guess the government now think we all need a reminder.

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:46

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:45

Every country has a culture, including Britain. I never said Britain doesn’t have one. I said much of what we think of as ‘British’ has been shaped by outside influences over time, just like every other culture. That doesn’t make it less real or valuable. Culture isn’t a fixed thing - it grows, absorbs and evolves.

It isn’t a fixed thing - and that’s news to anyone? Of course not. But then, you’re not arguing in good faith.

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:45

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:40

Exactly, human culture is constantly evolving through exchange. That’s kind of my point - when people talk about ‘British culture’ as if it’s fixed or pure, it ignores how much of it is hybrid by nature. And while not everyone is clinging to the idea of a ‘pure’ British culture, plenty of rhetoric (especially around immigration or ‘British values’ seems to lean that way.

So is every other nation’s culture, by your logic. And therefore no one has a culture, nothing individual, nothing unique.

Could just as easily say Spanish have no culture of their own, no real individual history which shaped the people, nothing organic. They borrowed it all anyway, it all came from others. So what’s so special about Spanish culture anyway?

SeaAndStars · 18/09/2025 21:45

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 18/09/2025 21:35

Britain has an extensive history of wool manufacture, tweed and tweed garments. British tailoring and tweed were not borrowed from anywhere else. Nor was knitwear, as Britain is cold. A lot of it came from Scotland, but we haven’t borrowed our fashion from elsewhere.

Vivienne Westwood was probably one of the most iconic and original designers ever.She was British. She worked with tartan and tweed a lot. As was Alexander McQueen. Britain is a leader not a follower in the fashion industry.

I totally agree with everything you say. British fashion, fabric and tailoring are extraordinary.

Interestingly though sheep aren't native to the UK. They came from Asia (where they were used in wool production) and were brought to Britain in Neolithic times.

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:45

PollyBell · 18/09/2025 21:29

So other cultures have a culture so where do they get their culture from then if Britain doesn't have one itself?

Every country has a culture, including Britain. I never said Britain doesn’t have one. I said much of what we think of as ‘British’ has been shaped by outside influences over time, just like every other culture. That doesn’t make it less real or valuable. Culture isn’t a fixed thing - it grows, absorbs and evolves.

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AlasPoor · 18/09/2025 21:43

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:40

Exactly, human culture is constantly evolving through exchange. That’s kind of my point - when people talk about ‘British culture’ as if it’s fixed or pure, it ignores how much of it is hybrid by nature. And while not everyone is clinging to the idea of a ‘pure’ British culture, plenty of rhetoric (especially around immigration or ‘British values’ seems to lean that way.

This a weird goady thread you’ve started here. I’m assuming you support Labour?

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:43

ainsleysanob · 18/09/2025 21:28

Do you, for example, take umbrage with Brazilians wafting their flag around and taking pride in their national identity and patriotism? Being that their culture originates in, part to African Slavery?

Do you have issue with Australians loving their national identity despite their culture coming, in a large part, due to the British?

The Americans have been patriotic long before Donald Trump and their culture and way of life from Alaska down to Florida are an amalgamation of the world - they’re still proud to be American.

The list could go on. All countries love and appreciate their culture which, by sheer history, comes from all over the shop. So does ours. It’s still British. It’s still something to be proud of. It’s not a bad thing to be proud of the hard work that the working class people of this country put into building us a Nation.

I’m not against national pride or people loving where they’re from. I’m just pointing out how cultures evolve through influence and exchange and how recognising that shouldn’t be seen as a threat to identity. British culture is real and it’s also layered, dynamic and rooted in a mix of histories. That’s something to be proud of too.

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blacksax · 18/09/2025 21:40

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:07

From food to fashion to language, it seems like a lot of what’s considered traditionally British has roots elsewhere. Yet people still cling to the idea of a “pure” British culture. AIBU to think the whole concept is more mixed than most are willing to admit?

'Yet people still cling to the idea of a "pure" British culture'

Where in the wide world did you get that daft idea from? One can pretty much guarantee that every British person has a different idea of what traditional British culture is anyway.

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:40

JumpingPumpkin · 18/09/2025 21:26

Who’s clinging to pure British culture?
And when you say British culture has roots elsewhere, isn’t that just how all human culture works? Constantly checking other cultures for ideas, fashions, foods, music and dance and adapting it?

Exactly, human culture is constantly evolving through exchange. That’s kind of my point - when people talk about ‘British culture’ as if it’s fixed or pure, it ignores how much of it is hybrid by nature. And while not everyone is clinging to the idea of a ‘pure’ British culture, plenty of rhetoric (especially around immigration or ‘British values’ seems to lean that way.

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smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:38

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:30

Acknowledging that British culture includes global influence isn’t demonising it, it’s telling the truth. Every nation is shaped by exchange and yes, Britain has contributed plenty too. That doesn’t mean we can’t talk honestly about how layered that legacy is. It’s possible to be proud and reflective at the same time.

By talk honestly, you mean focus on our shortcomings and failures. It’s a boring script now and people are tired of it.

For all your word salad, what do you actually hope to achieve? You do realise the social problems we’re now witnessing are causing large part by people like you - insinuating, not so subtly, that British people have no culture they can call their own and take a unique pride in? Well, they do, and they know it, and they’re not ashamed to say so.

SleeplessInWherever · 18/09/2025 21:38

ForgetMeNotRose · 18/09/2025 21:30

What's wrong with drinking from cupped hands!!!?

Remember when there was nothing? Nothing at all?

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GET IN THE SEA.

I genuinely do think more people should see it. I’ve seen so many comments these last few weeks about how people should stay in their own countries and help resolve their issues etc, and I’m itching to quote the “prosperous place to be” parts.

CoffeeCantata · 18/09/2025 21:37

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:30

Acknowledging that British culture includes global influence isn’t demonising it, it’s telling the truth. Every nation is shaped by exchange and yes, Britain has contributed plenty too. That doesn’t mean we can’t talk honestly about how layered that legacy is. It’s possible to be proud and reflective at the same time.

Hello? Earth to OP…

Everywhere you look, every book you read on culture from the last 200 plus years, will tell you all about the diverse influences which have contributed to British art, language, fashion, architecture, music, literature etc. Have you been living under a rock? Do you not read?

What you’re saying is totally unoriginal and news to no one but a child.

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:37

GrapesOnTheVine · 18/09/2025 21:24

British architecture, our Christian traditions, classical music, village and small town social culture, pop music, fashion, arts, yeah yeah, none of it stemming from Britain, all imported 🙄

And why are you posting a common anti-British talking point as if it’s some revelation you’ve come up with yourself?

No one’s saying Britain hasn’t contributed to the world, it clearly has. But acknowledging that British culture is a mix of influences isn’t anti-British, it’s just honest. Cultural exchange has shaped every country. I’m not here to “reveal” anything shocking, just reflecting on how we define what’s considered ‘British’ in the first place.

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ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 18/09/2025 21:35

Britain has an extensive history of wool manufacture, tweed and tweed garments. British tailoring and tweed were not borrowed from anywhere else. Nor was knitwear, as Britain is cold. A lot of it came from Scotland, but we haven’t borrowed our fashion from elsewhere.

Vivienne Westwood was probably one of the most iconic and original designers ever.She was British. She worked with tartan and tweed a lot. As was Alexander McQueen. Britain is a leader not a follower in the fashion industry.

SeaAndStars · 18/09/2025 21:34

All countries are a melting pot of cultures and influences.
Every country has its own way of blending.
That's what makes each country individual.

BlendedByEmpire · 18/09/2025 21:33

Shookethh · 18/09/2025 21:24

Is it that tea is from another country?

Tea’s a great example actually, it’s so associated with Britishness but the leaves come from Asia and the British taste for it was shaped by colonial trade routes. It’s not about shaming, it’s just history. That blend of influences is part of what makes British culture what it is.

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ForgetMeNotRose · 18/09/2025 21:33

smallpinecone · 18/09/2025 21:28

Your faux-naivety isn’t convincing, just disingenuous and dishonest, and therefore irritating.

A portion of every nation is a result of a global exchange. But that’s not a reason to denigrate or dismiss the large portion which is not, and never has been.

I liked it when there was nothing! Nothing at all!

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