To think most men are filthy losers

Yeah. Funny but sadly true...

@TrishM80 · 07/09/2025 22:01
Why don't you just form a women's only island, OP?

We had a massive fight to try to keep men out of women’s sport. Men feel entitled to our spaces - if we had a women’s only island the men would be donning offensive wigs and makeup and demanding they be allowed entry.

Well they are on here aren't they. On a male forum if there were threads saying women should be sterilised ( comparing parallels with the men should be castrated comment from one poster) and most are vile, it would be called out for misogyny yet men are fair game on here. The excuses are just a tirade of nonsense about incels etc but what it amounts to are bitter enraged feminists who think all men are bastards bar the DH, DS and all the other dears who happen to be male.

The OP is quite amusing though who masquerades as a well educated intellectual yet seems to have chosen perverted degenerates as partners. Talk about delusions of grandeur - probably angry at her own shit life choices. It's not surprising male suicides particularly young males are through the roof with the toxic threads like this. This forum may cater predominantly for women but it's supposedly a parents forum yet gets away with abuse off the scale for a human being based purely on what chromosomes they have. As others have said, replace male with anything else and it would be deemed bigotry but these vile threads thrive on here.

I am in a fudge of cognitive dissonance. I’m in my early 50s and I haven’t had a boyfriend or sex since 2017. I absolutely loathe being around men. Even without all the perverts and rapists and nonces, I just cannot bear the constant thrumming of their loudness, the laughing at their own basic level jokes, the posturing. BUT I have a 16 year old son who I love fiercely with all that is in me.

How do I hold all this at once? Why do I hold all this at once? I don’t really know how to answer it.

That is blaming women for a man’s choice to be a terrible person. Children have two parents that model behaviour - mothers AND fathers. But as adults who they are is a choice to make. Blaming mothers for how they rear them is tired misogyny.

And I’m not a man.

@JHound life is too short for this back and forth. I don't think I blamed women for a man's choice to be a terrible person. I have pointed out that women do most child rearing . These are not the same.

I won't reply to your next post. I get little satisfaction from arguing with random internet dudes. Feel free to say what you will. Once again, I do not hold with the OP's claim.

Yes an attempt to “shift the blame” by the person who tried to blame women (in this case mothers) for a man’s choice to be a terrible person.

@JHound you may call it drudge work. Others call it the rearing of children, including boys. But if women are carrying out shitty parenting and the men should be intervening, then naturally women should be intervening with men's shitty parenting. This is really just trying to shift responsibility but as I have said, I don't hold with the OP's claim in any case..

The modelling of behaviours is coming from the internet. Truly the devil’s work…

Women do most of the drudge work. It’s not correct to say women do most of the modelling of behaviours. And if they are then fathers are even more to blame for how their sons turn out by not intervening with their wife’s shitty parenting.

@JHound I wasn't saying I thought most men were raised in single parent families, but that women still do most of the child rearing. I believe that's true. Mothers do more in terms of raising children in general than men do.

If anyone is involved in shaping future men we need to consider the role that we mothers play. I'm not attributing blame to women because I don't hold with the OP's claim.

I was just thinking this today, if women were in charge, everything would just get done. No drama. World peace, the lot… Men could just sit in a room, happy. And wanking, it seems.

I don’t think most men are from single parent families. They are equally raised by their fathers too.

Absolutely right.
I fear young women are becoming trapped again as I was in the 70's.

If I was a young woman today, I would look at the numbers of men demanding to engage in all kinds of sexual practices that were once unthinkable or considered borderline abusive, I would look at the stats for hardcore porn use, at the numbers of seemingly nice respectable men caught with child rape images, and I'd probably think 'swerve', too. Unfortunately it's nearly impossible for individuals to live alone and independently now due to housing costs, or I'd imagine there would be a lot more single and separated women.

This. Absolutely this.

I am sure my mil thought she was raising a decent man. She didn’t. I don’t blame her. He is just an utter cunt of a person.

I swerve men too. But I am now in my fifties and they are all interested in women 20 years my junior so it’s easy to avoid them. All the best to them all.

But I bet more and more women just wise up to men and younger and younger women too.

I don't hate men, but I want little to do with them. I don't trust them, I fear them sometimes. Generally speaking, I don't like them very much. I am happier when they aren't around. There are scads of women like me. And how do we demonstrate this distaste? We swerve them. We remove ourselves from their presence when we can. We get on with our lives. But plenty of men hate women, actually loathe us. And how do they demonstrate this? They rape us, assault us, stalk us, murder us, skinwalk us. Let's suppose there are women who actually have the energy to hate men. I really don't think anyone would notice!

Before reliable birth control -the pill - women had to be so careful as you can’t hide a pregnancy for king. Men in the other hand could remain anonymous and unfettered by the burden of out of marriage baby. Women had a stronger need to suppress their desires. It has always been loaded against us imo

I think lots of men are not like you claim they are . Do you truly believe ALL men are that way ? Because I’m married to a wonderful man ,, by no means perfect but by no means anywhere near what people describe here .

Decades ago, I was aware of a section in porn magazines called Readers' Wives. It never so much as crossed my mind that these women might not have given permission for their pictures - which included their smiling faces - to be shared.

@MaryMungoMidgley who does menial drudge work to raise their children? That's pretty condescending to mothers everywhere. I know that's not how I raised my son..

And you have no evidence about the cause of bad men being predominantly anything. I'm sure the presence of other bad men won't help but even this is too simplistic. It can't be summed up as predominantly anything.

Raised by women in the sense that the women did the menial unpaid drudge work to look after them, but they don't model themselves on the women they look up to and take notice of the men in their lives.
The cause of bad men is predominantly bad fathers, i.e other bad men.

If most men are filthy losers they've all been born to women and mostly have been raised by women. I don't know how women can believe their fellow women are all producing filthy losers. I know the men in my life aren't filthy losers.

It's the same as men on another forum saying women are all bone-idle, lazy schmucks. Silly generalisation.

Well, the men would want in, wouldn't they? And they'd be shits about it.