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Why does everyone say they love being fat until they get their hands on skinny jabs?

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Holmints · 06/08/2025 09:46

I’m seeing this so much on social media. People screaming from the rooftops how they love their bodies. Hate comments come and they combat them with body positivity, I admired them so much.

Lately though, the very people who were oh-so-body-positive are popping back up five stone lighter. Some comment on it and some don’t, as if they’re waiting for people to ask. Hang on a minute, I thought you loved your big body? Did you love being fat or not?

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SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:49

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:46

Im not saying it doesnt work for anyone.

Im saying that the fawning over the top language like "its a wonder drug oh my god i cant ever live without it again"

has definitely been influenced by the huge marketing push by the pharma company in the UK

Or maybe it's actually changed people's lives???
Because it can be both. It can be marketed heavily AND people aren't just naive brain washed trend followers when they tell you how they feel in their own bodies?

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:47

Gettingonwithgettingon · 08/08/2025 13:44

So just to check:
If people say it works for them, that must be proof that it's just pharmaceutical company propaganda getting to them
If people say it didn't work for them, that is proof they do nothing for anyone

Do you maybe see the gap in your logic here?

Fat people dont get to have valid opinions

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:46

Gettingonwithgettingon · 08/08/2025 13:44

So just to check:
If people say it works for them, that must be proof that it's just pharmaceutical company propaganda getting to them
If people say it didn't work for them, that is proof they do nothing for anyone

Do you maybe see the gap in your logic here?

Im not saying it doesnt work for anyone.

Im saying that the fawning over the top language like "its a wonder drug oh my god i cant ever live without it again"

has definitely been influenced by the huge marketing push by the pharma company in the UK

chipsticksmammy · 08/08/2025 13:46

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:37

Because it has the same level of positive impact on my health and life that HRT has.

You sound like people who shamed HRT in the 90s.

I started HRT at 39.

It saved my life. I wouldn’t be here without it.

The reaction I get to being on HRT, is just as bad as saying I’m on Mounjaro. I am very much judged by my peers who are ‘getting through the menopause without it’ and ‘managing fine on supplements’. Supplements have no supporting evidence of positive effects on menopause.

I do like to ask how their bone density, heart disease and dementia risks are when they are snotty about it.

InfoSecInTheCity · 08/08/2025 13:46

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:34

The 22 million pounds that the pharma company spent on promoting the drug in the UK, definitely worked anyway.

People go on about it here like its a wonder drug.

In my opinion it is a wonder drug. Mounjaro regulated my insulin levels to the point that within 6 weeks I was able to stop insulin and metformin. Unlike Insulin and metformin it got my blood sugar levels to be consistently in the normal range.

It has enabled me to stick to a low carb, high protein high fibre, moderate fat diet of 1400-1600 calories a day consistently for nearly a year without any binges and without feeling so hungry I just want to cry which is how I have felt on every diet I have been on in the past.

i have lost 5 stone, I am a healthy BMI for the first time since I was an infant in primary school. I weigh less now than I did when I was 11 years old,

I can jog 5k, I do exercise every day. A year ago I was in constant pain because of inflamed tendons and ligaments in my knees.

If that isn’t wondrous then how would you describe it? I have been to every weight loss support group, tried every diet. I have lost weight in the past but eventually the daily battle through 24/7 constant gnawing hunger would cause me to overeat.

I eat well now, I am healthy and have the blood tests to prove it.

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:45

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:39

I just want to reply to a post that another poster wrote.

She wrote that the food companies are making food addictive

I also think this. That they are putting stuff into food to make people overly addicted to food. People eat something, and then becone absolutely ravenous with hunger for more food

Yes

That's HUGE IMO

Being able to wait, on WLIs, means I'm able to avoid those ingredients more

E.g. on a drive, I would be ravenous and unable to focus, and need to stop. 1st service stop only has a burger king. I don't even like burger king but I would HAVE to eat it anyway, just to need feel too consumed by hunger to go on

On WLI, I feel hunger, yes. Will pull in, look around, say nah, go on to the next stop, see an M&S food, get a fruit bowl, eat it and feel like that's enough of a snack to keep me going, and get on with my life

It's a terrible loop where the urgency prevents you from making the more filling choices..

What's horrific is that the food industry is trying to get on front of this and targeting the healthier food choices that people are making on WLIs

It's rigged

Gettingonwithgettingon · 08/08/2025 13:44

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:34

The 22 million pounds that the pharma company spent on promoting the drug in the UK, definitely worked anyway.

People go on about it here like its a wonder drug.

So just to check:
If people say it works for them, that must be proof that it's just pharmaceutical company propaganda getting to them
If people say it didn't work for them, that is proof they do nothing for anyone

Do you maybe see the gap in your logic here?

MyLimeGuide · 08/08/2025 13:43

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:39

I just want to reply to a post that another poster wrote.

She wrote that the food companies are making food addictive

I also think this. That they are putting stuff into food to make people overly addicted to food. People eat something, and then becone absolutely ravenous with hunger for more food

True. I also wouldn't be surprised if these food companies make deals with these pharmaceutical companies.

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:40

PinkArt · 08/08/2025 13:37

Those poor diabetics - no-one gave a fuck (sorry, 'had concerns') about any side effects they might be having for the past two decades!
There's something of the Brass Eye good AIDS/ bad AIDS ep about it all.

Right?

And the same people will then flip on a dime and say "you're taking supply that diabetics need"

Oh so, it works and it's safe for THEM?

We have to wait until we are actually diabetic to try to reverse it, and can't use WLIs to prevent it?

Demand doesn't have a positive effect on supply and funding and cost and availability?

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:39

I just want to reply to a post that another poster wrote.

She wrote that the food companies are making food addictive

I also think this. That they are putting stuff into food to make people overly addicted to food. People eat something, and then becone absolutely ravenous with hunger for more food

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:37

SomeOfTheTrouble · 08/08/2025 13:35

It is, for many.

Because it has the same level of positive impact on my health and life that HRT has.

You sound like people who shamed HRT in the 90s.

PinkArt · 08/08/2025 13:37

KT1113 · 08/08/2025 13:31

I come back to this all the time. People only show 'concern' for the side effects of medication they aren't taking when it relates to obesity.

Those poor diabetics - no-one gave a fuck (sorry, 'had concerns') about any side effects they might be having for the past two decades!
There's something of the Brass Eye good AIDS/ bad AIDS ep about it all.

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:35

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:26

My friend took WLIs and she said that she didnt feel any appetite suppressant effect whatsoever.

She stayed on it for a year as she was advised to let the drug build up in her system.

She said that she didn't feel any effect, and she didn't lose any weight.

Then she didn't need it. GLP-1 wasn't her problem

Don't take iron if your not anaemic

We KNOW WLIs are NOT for everyone

All the people who feel naturally, how we feel ON WLIs, who tell us we don't need em, remind us all the time that not everybody needs WLIs

SomeOfTheTrouble · 08/08/2025 13:35

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:34

The 22 million pounds that the pharma company spent on promoting the drug in the UK, definitely worked anyway.

People go on about it here like its a wonder drug.

It is, for many.

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:34

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:31

Of course they don't

They treat abnormal food (and other addictive consumables) feedback loops

If that isn't your problem, they won't fix you, and will just give you problems

Like if you treat any deficiency that you don't in fact have

They're not for everyone, but they work for a lot of people

The 22 million pounds that the pharma company spent on promoting the drug in the UK, definitely worked anyway.

People go on about it here like its a wonder drug.

VeryStressedMum · 08/08/2025 13:32

They may have during that time wanted to lose weight but as it wasn't happening for whatever reason they just loved the body they had. No point living life hating yourself. But then the 'magic' injection came along and there was a way to lose weight so they did.

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:31

Gettingonwithgettingon · 08/08/2025 13:27

Like every other drug ever! The percentage of people who find them effective is much higher for WLI than for many other drugs that no one would ever question the wisdom of taking.

Of course they don't

They treat abnormal food (and other addictive consumables) feedback loops

If that isn't your problem, they won't fix you, and will just give you problems

Like if you treat any deficiency that you don't in fact have

They're not for everyone, but they work for a lot of people

KT1113 · 08/08/2025 13:31

PinkArt · 08/08/2025 13:29

There haven't been any reports of disastrous long term side effects in the people who've been using them for 20 years and counting. Which is great news, isn't it?
Obviously, like any medication, there are potential side effects, some of which are more serious than others. That rightly didn't stop the roll out of the pill (risk of pulmonary embolism or DVT) or ibuprofen ( risk of kidney failure, black tarry stools) or the gazillion other life enhancing medications with long lists of side effects.

I come back to this all the time. People only show 'concern' for the side effects of medication they aren't taking when it relates to obesity.

Avoidhumans · 08/08/2025 13:31

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:29

I think it'll be the exact opposite and go the way of HRT

Think of the generation that was scared into taking it and told to suffer and suck it up instead?

It was horrific, women lost jobs, relationships, their mobility, even their lives, when there was a safe drug available all along!

They were told it was lazy and dangerous to use HRT.

If we are quoting history repeating itself, I raise you HRT!

Im not talking about HRT.

PinkArt · 08/08/2025 13:29

MyLimeGuide · 08/08/2025 13:17

Correct about it not having disastrous long term side effects.

There haven't been any reports of disastrous long term side effects in the people who've been using them for 20 years and counting. Which is great news, isn't it?
Obviously, like any medication, there are potential side effects, some of which are more serious than others. That rightly didn't stop the roll out of the pill (risk of pulmonary embolism or DVT) or ibuprofen ( risk of kidney failure, black tarry stools) or the gazillion other life enhancing medications with long lists of side effects.

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:29

Avoidhumans · 08/08/2025 13:15

Skinny jabs botox and fillers will all come crashing down in the end.
When a lot of people wake up about it and realise its not all what it seems.

I think it'll be the exact opposite and go the way of HRT

Think of the generation that was scared into taking it and told to suffer and suck it up instead?

It was horrific, women lost jobs, relationships, their mobility, even their lives, when there was a safe drug available all along!

They were told it was lazy and dangerous to use HRT.

If we are quoting history repeating itself, I raise you HRT!

SomeOfTheTrouble · 08/08/2025 13:28

CowPooSummer · 08/08/2025 13:23

I’m about 10st ish overweight.

I’ve got there with a binge eating disorder due to trauma, very high levels of stress, ingrained emotional eating, interoception issues (I never feel full), and possibly a large dose of my life is so shit that nothing I can do to myself can make it worse.

I don’t know anyone with that much weight to lose who doesn’t have deep seated psychological problems which manifest as binge eating. And there lies the problem of losing it. When you have a stressful life and the only thing that brings you comfort is food, it’s nigh on impossible to lose weight and stick to it - as studies have shown.

Mounjaro is like a miracle drug to people like me. I’ve noticed there’s a real taboo about being open about it, because some can react nastily, like you’re taking an easy option, and we all know that there are people out there who’d rather see really fat people suffer as their punishment for daring to be fat. For some though it’s the only option.

we all know that there are people out there who’d rather see really fat people suffer as their punishment for daring to be fat

This is the truth of it. And if they haven’t had to suffer to get thin, then people are just desperately waiting for some moment in the future when they suffer as a result of the medication used to get thin.

Gettingonwithgettingon · 08/08/2025 13:27

SomeOfTheTrouble · 08/08/2025 13:26

It’s well documented that they don’t work for everyone.

Like every other drug ever! The percentage of people who find them effective is much higher for WLI than for many other drugs that no one would ever question the wisdom of taking.

SomeOfTheTrouble · 08/08/2025 13:26

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:26

My friend took WLIs and she said that she didnt feel any appetite suppressant effect whatsoever.

She stayed on it for a year as she was advised to let the drug build up in her system.

She said that she didn't feel any effect, and she didn't lose any weight.

It’s well documented that they don’t work for everyone.

pamelanoon · 08/08/2025 13:26

SkylarFalls · 08/08/2025 13:23

I could always lose without WLIs, maintenance was my issue

But the losing had to become obsessive. I fought hunger the whole way. I would have convince my brain that feeling hunger was pleasurable / desirable / winning. It had to be ED mentality even if I wasn't under eating too drastically calorie wise. It was never sustainable

Because I was NEVER NOT HUNGRY. If I ate a sandwich for lunch, it felt like I had eaten nothing all day. So I would add crisps, a banana, a coffee, a juice, just to feel like I had eaten SOMETHING. Anything at all. 3 coffees after that just to keep me going through the afternoon.

I felt the same at 9 stone as at 13 stone. It did not go away just because I pushed through it and lost weight.

All I'm doing by taking WLIs is making myself feel how YOU feel, if you eat a normal breakfast, a normal lunch, a normal snack and a normal dinner. I couldn't even achieve that level of satisfaction by OVER eating without WLIs.

I expect to be on WLIs long term
If you don't get it, well, see how YOU feel? That's all we are aiming for on WLIs

My friend took WLIs and she said that she didnt feel any appetite suppressant effect whatsoever.

She stayed on it for a year as she was advised to let the drug build up in her system.

She said that she didn't feel any effect, and she didn't lose any weight.

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