That's me!
I hate being skinny, genuinely, but also need to be to, you know, live a long life.
Lots of reasons:
I am build for curves, I'm short and busty, and from genetics that went through famine, Im not from a elegant skinny line, I'm from a cuddly hobbit line, and is so every I love. I fit clothes better skinny, but I don't prefer myself naked skinny.
I'm sexually attractive to chunkier people: NOT unhealthily obese people, but like wildlings from GOT chunky, look like they could survive a quest through the wilderness chunky. So I don't feel sexy myself when I'm skinny.
Boney sex is yuck.
The fat phobes really show you their ugly when YOU are also thin. They do a poor job at holding it in when you're fat, but when you're thin they show you their whole ugly faces. The praise and acceptance is so disgusting to me. Its harder for me to be around them thin than fat. Instead of side comments and looks It becomes overt AND THE WORST PART is they expect you to be delighted by their "compliments" It makes me act obnoxious. I tolerate them better when they're holding it in (badly). Things like interviewing well with people you interviews with badly a few stone heavier, even if you went in better prepared the first time and jaded the second, just thinner: YUCK YUCK YUCK.
I've lost a heap of weight on the jabs: for my mobility & for my cardiac health
Did I hate the "fat" itself no! I hate the fat phobia dresses up as healthy concerns (BOLLOCKS, I am no better at my job thin than fat, my future health concerns are mine and the people who fully love me, no interview panel cares how I age!).
I hate having to have 3 sizes in my wardrobe at once because there's more fluctuation when you're fat, and all the associated environmental/fast fashion guilt. And another two sizes either size packed away for weight changes. And getting judged by people with eco brand capsule wardrobes for choosing the only brands that cater to my fat shape and size
I hate that professionalism is a look not behaviours, actions and skills. I've only ever been promoted when skinny, and often at that under qualified. I've been the best qualified on shortlists fat and failed. Not isolated events. Undeniable patterns.
I hate hate hate that people who have never been very fat / obese, do not believe fat people, about anything to do with being fat. Including that it might have been when they felt happiest despite subsequently losing weight. I'm healthier thinner, I'm not necessarily happier than way. I miss the softness and curves.
And there's a WHOLE EXTRA layer of rage once you use the jabs: when you realise that the way you feel on the jabs: satisfied, able to be hungy-ish but still wait or concentrate on other things, etc, is just the way the fat phobes feels ALL THE TIME and they genuinely believe that fat people are walking around having eaten "enough" to get on with their day and tasks, and and just CHOSING to stuff their faces beyond station!
I hate that if I go to a doctor fat, they don't look past the fat as the cause for all your symptoms. Even when it was your symptoms that caused you to gain weight. And I hate that if you go to them thin and on the jabs, they try to match you symptoms up with side effects of the jab, even if they don't even slightly correlate.
Not only that, they don't like the playing field being levelled! When all people are doing is making their body feel like your body feels if you are someone for whom eat-less-move-more works!
Can you tell from my tone how much angrier I am skinny than fat?