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Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:25

Everything finance wise on Mumsnet seems to be very polarised, either those on £100k+ income with tens of thousands in savings and a holiday home, or not having 2 pennies to rub together

I'm quite curious to see how people would rate my financial situation on average for my age

So I'm 33, live alone
I own a house worth roughly £220k with around £45k mortgage left to pay
Around £14k in debt on 0% credit cards and a low interest loan all due to be paid off in around 2 years
Income around £42k a year
Almost no money in savings, currently trying to build up an emergency fund of a couple of months pay
£0 retirement

I'm guessing there will be the odd comment about this being a stealth post. It is not, I am in debt, I think my finances are not great in some areas, in others I think they're not too bad

Score me 0-10 on how you think my financial situation is for my age 0=awful 5= average 10=Jeff bazos level 😂

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ItsNotMeEither · 07/07/2025 16:10

I’m another jumping in to say start the pension now. As someone just reaching pension age, and in a number of pension focussed groups, it’s awful reading about people who worked hard all their lives, but neglected starting a pension.

It really is a case of the sooner, the better, even if you do start with a small amount.

Other than that, do you have any scope to rent out one room for a year or two? It could really help with your plans to knock down that debt.

CaptainSevenofNine · 07/07/2025 16:05

TeflonMom · 07/07/2025 15:34

You’d be mad to delay starting a pension any longer. Even a small amount starting from now each month would make a difference

Absolutely this. You mention company pension scheme. Does that mean you are effectively missing out on “free money” by not joining now?

find a way to join now please.

Parmaviollets · 07/07/2025 16:04

So how much savings do you have if you are able to save a few hundred each month?

Get a sipp open now with 100 and leave it .
When you can start to add bits here and there
25 a month now can make a big difference with the time lapse.

GasPanic · 07/07/2025 16:03

You need to be aggressive about seeking out money. Remember every pay rise you don't get now is not just you losing that money for that year. If you fail to get say 1K this year that will lower your salary by that for the rest of your working life so 65-33=32x whatever you fail to get.

Your debt position does not really look job re your job security tradeoff. It's people who are confident of their debt position that can negotiate most aggressively as losing their job has less fear/impact.

Always remember that storing money in say a savings account gives you more flexibility than paying off a mortgage or putting in a pension, even if it costs you more in terms of interest.

Because your ltv is small in terms of mortgage can you consolidate your debt onto the mortgage and reduce interest payments that way ?

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:58

PeapodMcgee · 07/07/2025 15:56

It's not advice, but I have seen others paying sooo much into their pensions, only to drop down dead in their 50s and 60s. There is no guarantee of retirement and there has to be a balance. I think paying off debt should come first, in my opinion.

Yes I wouldn't be surprised if I do pop my clogs before retirement tbh. I won't be depending on any inheritance as part of my plan and do want to get pension started but it comes below my priority for debt free and emergency fund

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Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:57

MidnightPatrol · 07/07/2025 15:55

Is your strong housing position as a result of inheritance?

I’d be careful not to let that make you think you’re in ana amazing position - £12k on credit cards suggest you are living beyond your means.

Nope, no inheritance just got on housing ladder in early 20s

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PeapodMcgee · 07/07/2025 15:56

LangmaLady · 07/07/2025 15:52

This is bad advice unless your parents are very wealthy and you know you will inherit. The median inheritance is very low and care fees if needed can eat into them.

There is likely to be a retirement crisis in the future as most people don’t prioritise this enough until it’s too late.

Employer contributions and the tax relief are ‘free money’ which you need to take advantage.

It's not advice, but I have seen others paying sooo much into their pensions, only to drop down dead in their 50s and 60s. There is no guarantee of retirement and there has to be a balance. I think paying off debt should come first, in my opinion.

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:56

Loveduppenguin · 07/07/2025 15:52

To me it’s a 5/10, ok you’re doing good mortgage wise, but the debt and lack of savings outweighs it a bit for me. Somewhat along the lines of asset rich…cash poor situation. I would feel uneasy about that. Will your pay increase, do you have room for promotion etc?

No room for promotion. May get a 3% pay rise this year, which I will be chucking at savings/debt and pretending I haven't had it

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MidnightPatrol · 07/07/2025 15:55

Is your strong housing position as a result of inheritance?

I’d be careful not to let that make you think you’re in ana amazing position - £12k on credit cards suggest you are living beyond your means.

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:54

milkhoarder · 07/07/2025 15:50

Maybe 3 on your scale? Having no pension, no savings/emergency fund and £14K debt sounds really scary, but you do have decent equity in your home so it isn't all bad.

I would feel stressed in your financial situation, but it does sound like you have plans to improve it. What is the interest on your loan? Is it above or below what your money could earn in savings?

If you're earning £42K a year that's approx £2.8K a month? If your mortgage is only £500pcm, where is the rest of your money going? Unless you've missed something major you could likely be saving £1000 a month towards your goals.

I do have student loan deductions of around £100, pay roughly £600 a month on the debt, obviously normal bills, council tax, gas electricity, petrol, groceries, then also saving a few hundred pounds into a savings account at the moment to build a bit of an emergency fund
Loan is low interest around 3%

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LangmaLady · 07/07/2025 15:52

PeapodMcgee · 07/07/2025 15:39

See, I disagree with prioritising a workplace pension to the detriment of today. Most people do end up inheriting something (not guaranteed, but most do), and OP will have few outgoings in her 70s, unless she wants to let rip.

This is bad advice unless your parents are very wealthy and you know you will inherit. The median inheritance is very low and care fees if needed can eat into them.

There is likely to be a retirement crisis in the future as most people don’t prioritise this enough until it’s too late.

Employer contributions and the tax relief are ‘free money’ which you need to take advantage.

MiddleAgedDread · 07/07/2025 15:52

As a single income mortgager payer I'd be concerned about that amount of debt and no savings. Really concerned.
If you earn £42k and have a £500 a month mortgage there's no reason not to be saving or contributing to a pension.

Loveduppenguin · 07/07/2025 15:52

To me it’s a 5/10, ok you’re doing good mortgage wise, but the debt and lack of savings outweighs it a bit for me. Somewhat along the lines of asset rich…cash poor situation. I would feel uneasy about that. Will your pay increase, do you have room for promotion etc?

GasPanic · 07/07/2025 15:50

You're probably better off waiting until you earn 50k+ or whatever the higher rate tax is at the moment for pension contributions and contributing more then as you will get 40% relief. If you are on 42K now you are only a promotion/couple of pay rises away from that.

A lot of people stuff £stupid into pensions only to never be able to take advantage of it.

milkhoarder · 07/07/2025 15:50

Maybe 3 on your scale? Having no pension, no savings/emergency fund and £14K debt sounds really scary, but you do have decent equity in your home so it isn't all bad.

I would feel stressed in your financial situation, but it does sound like you have plans to improve it. What is the interest on your loan? Is it above or below what your money could earn in savings?

If you're earning £42K a year that's approx £2.8K a month? If your mortgage is only £500pcm, where is the rest of your money going? Unless you've missed something major you could likely be saving £1000 a month towards your goals.

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:46

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 07/07/2025 15:40

i wouldn’t be panicked but I wouldn’t say you’re living the high life- the debt worries me as it indicates that day to day life and things that crop up aren’t manageable. Any hope of increasing your salary?

Yes I'm not super panicked but it feels a little risky in my current position. It's basically been big repairs to the house when I haven't had any savings that landed me with the debts, so I'll hopefully not need to add anything to my debts if I get an emergency fund sorted

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LangmaLady · 07/07/2025 15:46

I’m not sure what the average is but I think you are doing OK. I would focus on the following in this order.

1/check what employer pension contributions you can get if you join works pension now and put in as much as you can to start benefiting from that and tax relief .
2/build up emergency fund to 3 months of spending whilst cc is 0%
3/ pay off cc and loan
4/ split monthly savings between building emergency fund to 6months and pension/long term savings. Look for the most tax efficient options.

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:45

PeapodMcgee · 07/07/2025 15:39

See, I disagree with prioritising a workplace pension to the detriment of today. Most people do end up inheriting something (not guaranteed, but most do), and OP will have few outgoings in her 70s, unless she wants to let rip.

That's basically how I look at it. I know without the emergency fund I could leave myself in a very precarious position if I lost my job so I'm prioritising the emergency fund and being debt free except the mortgage before joining. It'll only be 2 years of missed contributions

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Overthebow · 07/07/2025 15:43

You’re doing very well with your mortgage and equity, but not at all good with debt, savings and pension. Start your pension now, it’s much better to start earlier even if it’s just small contributions at first.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 07/07/2025 15:40

i wouldn’t be panicked but I wouldn’t say you’re living the high life- the debt worries me as it indicates that day to day life and things that crop up aren’t manageable. Any hope of increasing your salary?

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:40

notatinydancer · 07/07/2025 15:35

Not too bad. It’s good (imo) you’re on the property ladder.
You need to sort a pension asap ( from experience and 20 years older). I know you say you’ve got plans.
As you say , you need some savings.
Any scope to earn more ?

I'm hoping if I can clear debt and build emergency fund by the time I'm 35, then I've got 32/33 years to put as much as I can into my pension. I know it's not going to be as good as someone paying in since their 20s but hoping it won't be too bad
Not any scope to earn more to be honest, knackered from my full time job and an autoimmune disease. I think if I tried to work more than that I'd burn out pretty quick

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PeapodMcgee · 07/07/2025 15:39

See, I disagree with prioritising a workplace pension to the detriment of today. Most people do end up inheriting something (not guaranteed, but most do), and OP will have few outgoings in her 70s, unless she wants to let rip.

Gonk123 · 07/07/2025 15:38

I think if you’re 35 you’re doing great with regards to mortgage. Get that debt paid off - you don’t and shouldn’t be in debt with a good income and a low mortgage. Then build up your saving and you’ll be so pleased with yourself. You could also think about over paying your mortgage. How many years do you have left on it…

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:36

TeflonMom · 07/07/2025 15:34

You’d be mad to delay starting a pension any longer. Even a small amount starting from now each month would make a difference

Agreed my lack of pension is rubbish, but I would like to be in a position that if I lost my job, I have no debt and an emergency fund to get me through before I start paying into a pension
Not ideal but money in my pension won't help if I lose my job, that's my theory anyway

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OneNewLeader · 07/07/2025 15:36

Join the pension fund, clear debt alongside that. Otherwise crack on.