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Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 15:25

Everything finance wise on Mumsnet seems to be very polarised, either those on £100k+ income with tens of thousands in savings and a holiday home, or not having 2 pennies to rub together

I'm quite curious to see how people would rate my financial situation on average for my age

So I'm 33, live alone
I own a house worth roughly £220k with around £45k mortgage left to pay
Around £14k in debt on 0% credit cards and a low interest loan all due to be paid off in around 2 years
Income around £42k a year
Almost no money in savings, currently trying to build up an emergency fund of a couple of months pay
£0 retirement

I'm guessing there will be the odd comment about this being a stealth post. It is not, I am in debt, I think my finances are not great in some areas, in others I think they're not too bad

Score me 0-10 on how you think my financial situation is for my age 0=awful 5= average 10=Jeff bazos level 😂

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Lafufufu · 08/07/2025 19:45

I own a house worth roughly £220k with around £45k mortgage left to pay
Excellent
Around £14k in debt on 0% credit cards and a low interest loan all due to be paid off in around 2 years
not great but okay
Income around £42k a year
not great but okay
Almost no money in savings, currently trying to build up an emergency fund of a couple of months pay
Bad
£0 retirement
Bad

if your place is more than 1 bed I’d consider a lodger. As long as you screen correctly it’s easy money….
the money is excellent and tax free in the main.
i was sniffy about it but bought a place (my name) then broke up with my boyfriend so was mortgaged up to the tits and needed the cash… I did it for 8 years way longer than I “needed” to. Company was cool and the money was about £8k pa

Sparkiest · 08/07/2025 19:40

3-4 maybe. Not having a pension and having so much short term debt, no emergency fund or other savings- it’s very precarious. You have a decent amount of equity in your home but that’s obviously illiquid so can’t actually help much if anything goes wrong and won’t grow in value as much as shares in a pension or ISA would.

You know the lack of emergency fund is an issue because it has caused you problems before.

https://ukpersonal.finance/flowchart/

You might find this flowchart helpful.You are at step 2- getting a basic emergency fund in place should
be your priority now, then joining the pension.

The Flowchart - UKPersonalFinance Wiki

A starting point for your financial planning journey in 8 steps, from the wiki for Reddit's /r/ukpersonalfinance!

https://ukpersonal.finance/flowchart/

Juniperberry55 · 08/07/2025 19:34

fetchacloth · 08/07/2025 18:31

I'd say you're doing well really you have a lot of equity which is a good start.
The sooner you can get rid of 14k debt the better. A few years ago I was in a similar situation and for 2 years I prioritised paying off 11k over 2 years to be debt free apart from mortgage. During that 2 years I had no holidays, outings or treats, also I didn't buy any clothes or shoes. I was shocked at how much I could get away without buying but achieved my objective. After that I overpaid my mortgage and knocked 3 years off that. Then I concentrated on topping up pension funds.
It's achievable but all in the planning.

That's basically how I plan to do it too.
How does it feel now you're debt free, I imagine that's a weight of your shoulders, well done 😊
Do you regret prioritising paying off the debt before working on pension funds?

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Juniperberry55 · 08/07/2025 19:13

Blablibladirladada · 08/07/2025 18:54

Hi op,

anything happen to your income and you are on the street 😳 so I will say 0.

You are 33 and don’t talk about your retirement which is really something you need to do something about.

‘Unfortunately, the way you are going, you will have paid the bank all your life so that they can take your house in your old age to cover your care needs. You can do better! Speak to a financial advisor.

To be fair I won't be paying the bank for all my life, debt should be cleared in 2 years, I should have a decent emergency fund built up in that time. I have spoken about my plan for retirement in previous comments. Will start paying pension at 35 and will finish paying mortgage in 9 years ( if I don't overpay) . So in theory I'll have a state pension, work pension 32-33 years of contributions, paid off house and 20+ years of savings from not having to pay rent/mortgage once it's paid off and I can invest and save that money instead. I feel like it could be a lot worse

I know probably better than the average person how care charging works. If we're going by current legislation they can't take your house into account for home care, they do take into account savings over £23250(automatically self funding) and if you have less than that in savings then it depends on your income to how much you pay towards it, so having an occupational pension actually increases how much you'd have to pay towards care in your home.
If I had to going into residential care, I'd be happy to use the equity in my house to pay for it and I can choose which care home I want to live in, not just the cheapest the council can find to cover my needs.

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GiveDogBone · 08/07/2025 19:09

Juniperberry55 · 08/07/2025 19:04

Yep aware my retirement position is bad for my age but planning on starting to pay into my pension by the time I'm 35 once I have emergency fund and debt paid off so should have 32/33 years of pension contributions by time I'm retirement age and house will be paid off in 9 years even if I don't overpay so got at least 20 years of no mortgage payments where I can funnel the extra money into savings for retirement so I shouldn't be in dire strates

Please do make sure you’re not distracted from that goal. Remember the power of compounding in investment, so the earlier you start the better.

it’s just like steering a super tanker, the further away from the obstacle you are, the less effort it takes to steer round it. The closer you are, the harder it is.

Juniperberry55 · 08/07/2025 19:04

Moii · 08/07/2025 18:15

I'd say very good for your age, that's a lot of equity for 33yrs wondering if you had help with the deposit.

Nope, no help with the deposit

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Juniperberry55 · 08/07/2025 19:04

GiveDogBone · 08/07/2025 18:04

Your retirement savings are a complete and utter disaster. You need to start contributing to a pension as soon as possible. If you are 33 and want to retire in 30 years time for 20 years where do you think you'll be the money from?

I’d rate you 5/10 just for that.

Yep aware my retirement position is bad for my age but planning on starting to pay into my pension by the time I'm 35 once I have emergency fund and debt paid off so should have 32/33 years of pension contributions by time I'm retirement age and house will be paid off in 9 years even if I don't overpay so got at least 20 years of no mortgage payments where I can funnel the extra money into savings for retirement so I shouldn't be in dire strates

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Blablibladirladada · 08/07/2025 18:54

Hi op,

anything happen to your income and you are on the street 😳 so I will say 0.

You are 33 and don’t talk about your retirement which is really something you need to do something about.

‘Unfortunately, the way you are going, you will have paid the bank all your life so that they can take your house in your old age to cover your care needs. You can do better! Speak to a financial advisor.

Jennps · 08/07/2025 18:48

Start paying into a pension OP, and delay the debt repayment if you can flip it to another 0% card

fetchacloth · 08/07/2025 18:31

I'd say you're doing well really you have a lot of equity which is a good start.
The sooner you can get rid of 14k debt the better. A few years ago I was in a similar situation and for 2 years I prioritised paying off 11k over 2 years to be debt free apart from mortgage. During that 2 years I had no holidays, outings or treats, also I didn't buy any clothes or shoes. I was shocked at how much I could get away without buying but achieved my objective. After that I overpaid my mortgage and knocked 3 years off that. Then I concentrated on topping up pension funds.
It's achievable but all in the planning.

Moii · 08/07/2025 18:15

I'd say very good for your age, that's a lot of equity for 33yrs wondering if you had help with the deposit.

GiveDogBone · 08/07/2025 18:04

Your retirement savings are a complete and utter disaster. You need to start contributing to a pension as soon as possible. If you are 33 and want to retire in 30 years time for 20 years where do you think you'll be the money from?

I’d rate you 5/10 just for that.

CaptainSevenofNine · 08/07/2025 14:30

I live in a semi detached house with 2 other people full time and a third person part time (uni student) our dual fuel amount is £130 pcm.

In your shoes I’d be looking at cutting that bill down. Economising slightly on your food bill and slicing £20-£50 quid off savings to find a way to pay for pension.

Please also check the details of your actual contribution. It might not be as much as you think. Plus if you pay 7% how much does that “release” from your employer?

depending on the way your company pension is set up it might actually reduce taxable and NI-able pay. I did some thinking (thanks chat!) and you could pay 7% into your salary with only a monthly drop of £169 in take home.

if that released an equivalent 7% or more from your employer it’s really worth it. Plus your pension scheme might have other benefits associated with it.

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 21:21

GOODCAT · 07/07/2025 19:40

How much would you need to pay into your pension for your employer to contribute? It is just that if it were say £100 it would be easier to find the savings in your budget, but £500 less so.

I think it's 7% pretax so about £250, even if 20% tax taken off it's still being about £200 off my pay which would cripple me being able to build my emergency fund as I'd only be able to save about £100 a month, so it'd take me about 2 years to save 1 months pay for emergencies which is why I'm delaying joining the pension until the emergency fund is sorted

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GOODCAT · 07/07/2025 19:40

How much would you need to pay into your pension for your employer to contribute? It is just that if it were say £100 it would be easier to find the savings in your budget, but £500 less so.

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 18:31

Jellycatspyjamas · 07/07/2025 18:18

I’d also put any left over money into paying down debt, you’ll be paying directly off the capital amount, and it’ll be gone much quicker.

My credit cards are 0% and the loan is 3% my savings is a bit higher than that, so I'd be better off saving and possibly paying off a bigger lump sum later

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Yuja · 07/07/2025 18:21

Seen a lot worse! I’d try to start putting something into your pension even if it’s just a little bit, as your missing out on the growth and compound interest.

northernballer · 07/07/2025 18:19

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 17:11

I've listed my expenses and income above. What would you drop to pay into the pension in reality

I would probably save £200 and put the other £100 into a work pension. Personally I feel more comfortable.knowing i am saving something so I can retire at 62, I don't want to work till I drop.

It is personal.choice though, its all saving just a different way of doing it.

Jellycatspyjamas · 07/07/2025 18:18

I’d also put any left over money into paying down debt, you’ll be paying directly off the capital amount, and it’ll be gone much quicker.

GasPanic · 07/07/2025 18:17

ItsFineReally · 07/07/2025 16:34

Because your ltv is small in terms of mortgage can you consolidate your debt onto the mortgage and reduce interest payments that way ?

@GasPanic Why on earth would you transfer unsecured credit card debt and loans on low rates to secured mortgage debt?

[Edited to say: I hadn't seen that Jellycat said the same!]

Edited

Because generally secured debt is cheaper to service, so if you are intending to pay it back it makes more sense. I missed the bit where it was 0% interest.

LangmaLady · 07/07/2025 18:12

I would say £350 for groceries for 1 person could be reduced if you really wanted to especially as it doesn’t include cat food or eating out.

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 17:11

northernballer · 07/07/2025 17:09

Noone can afford to pay into a pension if they think too hard about it, you just have to bite the bullet and do it. You need £300k in a pension just to get £12k a year roughly, I would start now.

I've listed my expenses and income above. What would you drop to pay into the pension in reality

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northernballer · 07/07/2025 17:09

Noone can afford to pay into a pension if they think too hard about it, you just have to bite the bullet and do it. You need £300k in a pension just to get £12k a year roughly, I would start now.

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 17:01

Ohmygodthepain · 07/07/2025 16:46

Your mortgage is £500 a month with a take-home of £2800 - you need to find out where the rest is going. £2300 minus bills excluding mortgage is over £500 a week with nothing to show for it.

You have a great amount of equity.

Cc debt, no pension and no savings need to be addressed as a priority

My income is £2712 to be exact after tax, no and student loan deductions
£500 mortgage
£600 debt repayments
£130 council tax
£350 budgeted for groceries, cleaning supplies etc
£150 Petrol/trains/parking for work
£20 house insurance (monthly equivalent paid yearly)
£35 - car insurance and tax (paid yearly- monthly equivalent)
£30 Water
£120 Gas and electric
£120 cat food and insurance
TV/broadband/music streaming - £100
£150 fun money (yes I could technically never leave the house except for work but I live alone and I like to socialise occasionally)
£300 savings
Around £200-250 buffer in case of any unexpected costs that month, usually a trip to the vet (no point in claiming unless over the excess cost) or some small repair on house, if I do have any left over it can go in my savings

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CrystalSingerFan · 07/07/2025 17:00

Juniperberry55 · 07/07/2025 16:35

State pension will be fine I pay national insurance and have done at all jobs since I was 17 so by the time I hit retirement age I'll be entitled to the state pension.
When I say I have no pension I mean I'm not paying into a pension fund where my employer would also contribute. This is in addition to state pension. I plan on starting contributing when I am 35 debt free and have an emergency fund

Good news about the State Pension!

I had to top up my NI contributions a tiny bit before my pension kicked in this year. But I was thrilled and proud to get it, and over £900 a month with a paid off mortgage certainly helps.

But like peeps say, get yourself onto a workplace pension ASAP.

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