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To be utterly despondent about AI

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AnotherGreyMorning · 06/07/2025 13:41

and our future?

Jobs becoming obsolete. People unable to earn a living.

Villains harnessing for their own ends.

It will all move far too fast and at sophisticated levels for even the most dedicated to manage.

Governments will be stunned by it. People will really suffer.

I just feel quiet dread because whilst life will be great for the wealthy and those who are protected, for the vast majority, I think it will be hellish.

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happinessischocolate · 08/07/2025 16:57

Sskka · 08/07/2025 16:52

In fairness this thread probably goes wider than looking at the consequences for one specific company at one specific boat show.

It does but I have specifically spoken about the company I work for and been told repeatedly that AI will do ALL the jobs 😂

happinessischocolate · 08/07/2025 16:55

Londongent · 08/07/2025 14:28

I do agree that people still like the personal touch. But what they also like is things that are cheaper.
Without the need for expensive employees, how are firms with employees going to compete on price with firms that are staffed by AI?
There will obviously be a transition period, but the future is going to look very different.
All maintenance jobs like plumbing and electricians will be able to be replaced by robotics

i had my annual boiler service/check done the other day, you think it would have been cheaper for a “robotic” to drive to my house, knock on the door and check the boiler, shower and radiators?

Sskka · 08/07/2025 16:52

In fairness this thread probably goes wider than looking at the consequences for one specific company at one specific boat show.

happinessischocolate · 08/07/2025 16:50

curiositykilledthiscat · 08/07/2025 14:37

@happinessischocolate Our clients are wealthy and get a personal service, they expect to be wined and dined for their custom not told to use click and collect, so no, our sales people won’t be losing their jobs anytime soon and certainly not due to AI

Yes, they will. Some of them anyway. Sure, some people will always prefer the face to face schmoozing, but eventually they will be offered a sophisticated AI interface, similarly to what’s going on in teaching, that knows everything about their wants, preferences and history (as much as it can legally know). Some clients will prefer this. No more travelling, no more uncomfortable small talk, no more nights away from their families. Your firm will too, and know that this is a cost effective way to run their sales department (again, for those clients who want it).

So you think the 100,000+ people who go to Southampton Boat Show (where we get the majority of our leads) each year would rather be at home looking at pictures of boats on their laptop/phone whilst talking to a AI bot ?

or that AI would do a better job of getting leads from the boat show (not sure how AI would sail/drive the boats to the show) than a salesman talking face to face with the prospective client?

🤦‍♀️

EasternStandard · 08/07/2025 15:51

Londongent · 08/07/2025 14:28

I do agree that people still like the personal touch. But what they also like is things that are cheaper.
Without the need for expensive employees, how are firms with employees going to compete on price with firms that are staffed by AI?
There will obviously be a transition period, but the future is going to look very different.
All maintenance jobs like plumbing and electricians will be able to be replaced by robotics

I think we should consider jobs when talking about the birthrate now. To link two topics that often aren’t but should be.

GarlicMetre · 08/07/2025 15:20

Archived copy of the NYT article about AI interviews: https://archive.ph/Kzr0e

sneeziseason · 08/07/2025 14:45

This is getting worse. https://www.nytimes.com/2025/07/07/technology/ai-job-interviews.html?utmcampaign=likeshopme&utmcontent=ig-nytimes&utmmedium=instagram&utmsource=dash+hudson&fbclid=PAQ0xDSwLZ9NleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp5cIEyGS6EvQGRPs1y6cbDTWrBihTvybbgH6XyZzqwh1MmHapDDoU-eQa1diaema8asA7FbAaI0grv3O-f1Hw

There’s a paywall so I haven’t read the entire article but there are extracts from the article on the NYT instagram page.

Quote from an interviewee ”were you just using me to train the AI agent? Or is there even a job?”

Sums it up really.

curiositykilledthiscat · 08/07/2025 14:37

@happinessischocolate Our clients are wealthy and get a personal service, they expect to be wined and dined for their custom not told to use click and collect, so no, our sales people won’t be losing their jobs anytime soon and certainly not due to AI

Yes, they will. Some of them anyway. Sure, some people will always prefer the face to face schmoozing, but eventually they will be offered a sophisticated AI interface, similarly to what’s going on in teaching, that knows everything about their wants, preferences and history (as much as it can legally know). Some clients will prefer this. No more travelling, no more uncomfortable small talk, no more nights away from their families. Your firm will too, and know that this is a cost effective way to run their sales department (again, for those clients who want it).

Londongent · 08/07/2025 14:28

I do agree that people still like the personal touch. But what they also like is things that are cheaper.
Without the need for expensive employees, how are firms with employees going to compete on price with firms that are staffed by AI?
There will obviously be a transition period, but the future is going to look very different.
All maintenance jobs like plumbing and electricians will be able to be replaced by robotics

happinessischocolate · 08/07/2025 14:24

@Chiseltip
With A.I, you will have every employee you need to run your company, stored in your device. You won't need physical people, staff, you have an expert on every subject, available 247, for free. Why would you need employees . . .

wait what…..you think AI will be available for businesses for free

happinessischocolate · 08/07/2025 14:15

curiositykilledthiscat · 08/07/2025 13:41

Perhaps not now, but that person will when they see how accurate the particular AI system for checking payments is. Then they quickly work out that paying a £50k salary for that person in payroll (which doesn’t include N.I, pension and benefits) isn’t worthwhile compared to the £5k it will cost to maintain that A.I system.

I agree some companies will adopt that straight away but many won’t.

40 years ago whilst in my first job the company got its first computers and switch over from doing things manually to computerised overnight.

many of the companies I have worked for since (including current) still do an awful lot of manual paperwork, especially stuff that gets handwritten and then input into the system at a later date.

So no I don’t think AI going to be an overnight thing, or even adopted by all in the next 5/10 years

tripleginandtonic · 08/07/2025 14:13

Phobiaphobic · 08/07/2025 08:58

People are in for such a shock. It's clear that the general populace is totally unprepared mentally for what's coming.

OK then, so what are you doing about it?

tripleginandtonic · 08/07/2025 14:10

rumblegrumble · 08/07/2025 09:31

You don't understand how AI works, do you?! It won't be just an interactive screen, it will be fully immersive. It will be like the best computer games mixed with the best cartoons mixed with the best movies, all tailored exactly to the child's likes, dislikes and personality to keep them fully engaged.

Do you have any experience of children? Have you seen how hard it can be to remove them from their favourite device? It will be like this, but much, much more so. As if the child starts to get tired of one thing, it will notice and switch seamlessly to something else. This will look nothing like a teacher standing in front of a class relating boring facts to bored kids!

There's saturation points though. And most people like an active mind/body. What you're talking about may well appeal to some ND kids but definitely not most.i remember the big deal with these VR headsets, not seen them take off in schools in the way you think they would.
People learn by doing, as I've said before, being sat on a screen all day just isn't going to happen

EasternStandard · 08/07/2025 13:58

3oldladiesstuckinalavatory · 08/07/2025 11:18

But why teach the children anything? Their AI overlords won't need them for anything except the grunt work. Their future will be effectively servicing machines.

Until the machines realise that we, humanity, are the problem and we always were. Then we will be erradicataed.

This shit literally keeps me up at night.

This is an awful thought. I hope not.

I already have an issue with any dumbing down of a curriculum let alone this.

curiositykilledthiscat · 08/07/2025 13:41

happinessischocolate · 08/07/2025 12:39

I didn’t say invoices - I said the payments

my bosses won’t trust payments worth millions of pounds each year to AI

Perhaps not now, but that person will when they see how accurate the particular AI system for checking payments is. Then they quickly work out that paying a £50k salary for that person in payroll (which doesn’t include N.I, pension and benefits) isn’t worthwhile compared to the £5k it will cost to maintain that A.I system.

happinessischocolate · 08/07/2025 12:39

ShesTheAlbatross · 08/07/2025 08:33

Why would you need to double check the invoices etc? Do you double check excel’s calculations yourself with a calculator? Do you double check the calculator with a pen and paper? That’s what the equivalent will be - not now, but soon.

I didn’t say invoices - I said the payments

my bosses won’t trust payments worth millions of pounds each year to AI

happinessischocolate · 08/07/2025 12:36

Chiseltip · 08/07/2025 08:13

sales people

Ever bought anything online?

Went to a fast food restaurant and used the kiosk?

Your sales people aren't needed.

accounts

Within five years, A.I, won't be making any mistakes. That one person needs to start looking for another job.

manual work

Some sectors will be resilient, some won't, probably 50% of manual labour will be lost to A.I. that's a lot of jobs.

HR

Very few companies will need anything like a HR department as we know it today. Most companies won't have very many employees. Take your local supermarket, that will be a place you go to for collection of your online order. You won't be able to walk inside, just wait for an A.I powered bot to bring your shopping to your car. Inside will just be a hive of robots, moving goods, managing inventory. No people required.

Cleaners won't be needed because there won't be any employees to use the offices, which won't be needed because there aren't any employees, which means no need for reception, maintenance or the office building itself. The entire operation can be run from a computer.

Three years ago, nobody had heard of GPT or Gemini, not they are replacing jobs. That's how quickly A.I will change things.

Think of it like this. If you have Apple Music, you never have to buy another album again, or store any music physically, your entire "record/CD collection" is stored in your device. So you have every album you want, always with you.

With A.I, you will have every employee you need to run your company, stored in your device. You won't need physical people, staff, you have an expert on every subject, available 247, for free. Why would you need employees . . .

Edited

of course I’ve bought stuff online, haven’t we all? But don’t you think that everything that can be sold online already is? AI is not going to increase that? Meanwhile purple bricks the online estate agent once valued at 1.4 billion sold in 2023 for £1 because guess what, people like using real estate agents.cazoo the online car dealer once valued at 6 billion now worth 5 million and making a loss year on year.

Our clients are wealthy and get a personal service, they expect to be wined and dined for their custom not told to use click and collect, so no, our sales people won’t be losing their jobs anytime soon and certainly not due to AI

75% of our workforce is manual labour. You’re telling me experienced carpenters, electricians, engineers, painters are going to be replaced by AI? The closest we have to a robot is a forklift and an electric saw.

im not denying there will be job losses in some sectors due to AI, but I object to repeatedly being told that AI will do all jobs.

and again back to accounts which has already been pretty streamlined over the past 40 years but you still need human oversight to ensure payments are correct - I know my bosses aren’t going to just trust AI with millions of pounds of payments every year.

Bluebellwood129 · 08/07/2025 12:09

LaurieFairyCake · 08/07/2025 11:34

The teaching one is interesting and frankly terrifying. At the moment anyone who knows anything about state secondaries knows that teaching is really about crowd control. The teachers main job is to get everyone able to focus on learning in whatever way that means to them.

I say that because of differentiation. In any 32 person classroom you will have at least 5% not able to learn that day. They won’t have eaten breakfast, they will have additional needs, they will have had a family emergency, they will have been bullied on the way to school, and endless other combinations.

Whatever that is it means not able to learn.

What will happen with AI is that it will force them to learn. Sure by encouragement initially but when that doesn’t happen it will force them with an increasingly nightmarish list of detention/social exclusion/probably ending up with them strapped into a chair.

don’t think that won’t happen, there are people NOW on Mumsnet that think that’s an ok thing to do.

resistance is futile

And if you think that’s won’t happen then actually you need humans there, to intervene pastorally. To take account of how a kid actually IS that day.

But it’s far cheaper to force them and we always go for the cheapest option. 🤦‍♀️ Because we’re fucking stupid.

Of course it will happen - in state schools at least - because it will save costs.

Sskka · 08/07/2025 12:00

The idea of teenage kids being super-pumped and self-motivated enough to engage with official school IT seems fanciful to say the least, no matter how exciting the AI makes it. Surely they’ll be back on their phones within five minutes.

Nagginthenag · 08/07/2025 11:40

Sskka · 08/07/2025 08:27

The counterpoint to that is that, despite the convenience, people are going out and buying records again and new music shops have opened, or cinema never stopped being a thing and fancy cinema chains have even appeared.

So there will surely be new jobs and new things and new things for people to do. The trouble is, AI’s potential is vast enough that it’s really difficult to imagine what those will be.

There's hardly any staff working in cinemas. It's like the hotels where you get a key code given to you and never have to interact with a human.

I suppose people's instinctive (but lessening, it seems) desire to communicate and interact with other humans may see an increase in niche businesses, but it's being reported that some people seem to have found a new BFF in their AI companions (using AI as therapist, telling AI all their problems and looking to AI for answers), and the number of people on MN who don't answer the phone/their doors/wfh and hate actually spending time with real people would suggest the desire for human contact is diminishing, even if we're causing ourselves untold damage in the process.

LaurieFairyCake · 08/07/2025 11:34

The teaching one is interesting and frankly terrifying. At the moment anyone who knows anything about state secondaries knows that teaching is really about crowd control. The teachers main job is to get everyone able to focus on learning in whatever way that means to them.

I say that because of differentiation. In any 32 person classroom you will have at least 5% not able to learn that day. They won’t have eaten breakfast, they will have additional needs, they will have had a family emergency, they will have been bullied on the way to school, and endless other combinations.

Whatever that is it means not able to learn.

What will happen with AI is that it will force them to learn. Sure by encouragement initially but when that doesn’t happen it will force them with an increasingly nightmarish list of detention/social exclusion/probably ending up with them strapped into a chair.

don’t think that won’t happen, there are people NOW on Mumsnet that think that’s an ok thing to do.

resistance is futile

And if you think that’s won’t happen then actually you need humans there, to intervene pastorally. To take account of how a kid actually IS that day.

But it’s far cheaper to force them and we always go for the cheapest option. 🤦‍♀️ Because we’re fucking stupid.

3oldladiesstuckinalavatory · 08/07/2025 11:18

But why teach the children anything? Their AI overlords won't need them for anything except the grunt work. Their future will be effectively servicing machines.

Until the machines realise that we, humanity, are the problem and we always were. Then we will be erradicataed.

This shit literally keeps me up at night.

rumblegrumble · 08/07/2025 09:31

tripleginandtonic · 08/07/2025 09:15

You don't understand how teaching works do you? You can't just sit a kid in front of an interactive screen which is basically what you're suggesting.

You don't understand how AI works, do you?! It won't be just an interactive screen, it will be fully immersive. It will be like the best computer games mixed with the best cartoons mixed with the best movies, all tailored exactly to the child's likes, dislikes and personality to keep them fully engaged.

Do you have any experience of children? Have you seen how hard it can be to remove them from their favourite device? It will be like this, but much, much more so. As if the child starts to get tired of one thing, it will notice and switch seamlessly to something else. This will look nothing like a teacher standing in front of a class relating boring facts to bored kids!

Fearfulsaints · 08/07/2025 09:28

I took part in a study where some students went to lectures, and some did interactive online learning. It was a long time ago so not interactive in that is responded to you, but that you could replay sections and do quizzes. The lectures were perceived to be better by everyone, but people did better in tests with the online stuff. They weren't cheaper in the 'olden days' as they cost a lot to produce and develop but I think AI would change that.

Bit in the flip side early years where learning is through play and things like gross motor skills are being developed, and children move around a lot, and the skill is in the questioning the teachers do during activities, humans are needed. It's very different..

tripleginandtonic · 08/07/2025 09:15

rumblegrumble · 08/07/2025 09:02

You'll have them. They'll just be artificial. This is actually an area where AI could be really useful and important; education will be targeted towards each child so they will be taught one-on-one in the style that suits them the best, and they will have as long as they need to grasp each concept. So there won't be any bored kids who've already learned something being held back because little Timmy just can't get it, and little Timmy won't be at a complete loss after Year 9 because he didn't ever manage to understand some key concepts but didn't want to admit it as the other kids would think he was an idiot.

Already, if you want to learn a new subject, you'll probably be better off with AI. Though currently you may want to be double-checking. The need for double-checking will decrease to nothing.

It's also an amazing opportunity for all those children (and adults) who can't attend regular school, from those who require home-schooling due to ill health, to those in remote areas across the globe where there aren't any schools. I don't think schools will disappear as I think it will still be encouraged that children attend to get all the other benefits, like socialisation and exercise. And I think teachers will still be required to step in if the tech plays up, but mostly to make sure the kids stay attached to their screens and don't start mucking about. Teachers won't need much specialist academic knowledge for this though, other traits like kindness, compassion and communication will be much more important.

You don't understand how teaching works do you? You can't just sit a kid in front of an interactive screen which is basically what you're suggesting.