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Name something unhygienic/disgusting but people do it

334 replies

stoow · 02/07/2025 06:43

I start off:
. Holding money their mouths. It’s mainly an elderly person thing. Friends working in retail see this often. Even in mask wearing days, customers lowered masks to do this, yet denied it.
. Going to the toilet and not flushing
. Washing chicken out. People don’t realise that this can spray bacteria around. Cooking it properly will kill bacteria.
. Coughing without covering mouth. Even with Covid, people are still doing this.
. Not washing hands after using loo. In public toilets, I use hand sanitiser as seen people from certain cultures spit and mums letting their toddler DS to wee in the basins.
. On planes, people walking barefooted especially in toilets. With the quick turnaround of planes, the staff can’t clean everywhere

OP posts:
DrowningInSyrup · 02/07/2025 12:18

Abhorrentpeople · 02/07/2025 07:29

Ah, I see the "sex is disgusting" MN brigade is out early today.

It made me laugh. Obviously I do it, and enjoy it, but on reflection is it any less gross than picking your nose and eating it. There must be all sorts of bacteria on the penises that we gobble down, and semen is vile. Does anyone actually enjoy swallowing?

Booksandcheese · 02/07/2025 12:17

The dog sleeps on my bed as did her predecessor the cat. I share food with her and kiss and hug her too (but not when she's freshly rolled in fox poo 😂)

We wear shoes through the house and I also wander in bare feet most of the time even in the garden too.
I just don't get the no outdoor shoes inside thing.If they're really muddy they get left at the door but otherwise I couldn't really care less. Also what would I do about the dog? Put shoes on her to go for a walk or special indoor dog slippers for when she comes in????

Me and my husband share towels and don't change the sheets every day either.

I can't stand people leaving the seat up when flushing though. Gross.

Kittylickingplate · 02/07/2025 12:16

Togetheragain45 · 02/07/2025 11:09

Where do you suggest people leave their phones? On the washbasins perhaps? Then they leave the toilet and strangely, their phone is missing.

I should have been clearer, there are people who scroll on their phone while having a pooh.
I kid you not.

SummerFrog25 · 02/07/2025 12:15

caringcarer · 02/07/2025 10:29

Use cutlery the family eats from to take cat or dog food from a tin.

🤢🤮

right with you there! I don't care if it's 'human grade' it's disgusting (especially so as a vegetarian)

SummerFrog25 · 02/07/2025 12:11

SayLaveee · 02/07/2025 10:15

Using washing up bowls 🤢

What??

I use a washing up bowl. It protect the dishes from the stone sink, I can run the water down or empty any cups/glasses that still have a bit if liquid in the bottom.

it gets washed dried & put away after each lot of dishes are done. What on earth do you think the issue is?

SummerFrog25 · 02/07/2025 12:06

sonoonetoldyoulifewasgonnabethisway · 02/07/2025 10:08

putting your finger over 1 nostril and blowing it out the other one, like with out a hanky

anything to do with flem, someone clears their throat and spits it out and i'm over in the corner borking

people eating snot - i'm borking typing this

men that sit with their hands down their pants

keeping every single plastic takeaway tub we receive

peeing in the garden because its easier than going upstairs

spitting in general

One of these is not like the others... (you may not be old enough?!)

what is disgusting about keeping takeaway containers? (Presuming they're wsshed??). I don't really buy takeaway (health/ food related restrictions) but I do buy things like Fage yogurt, Bol meals & wash & resume the containers over & over.

Whats the problem??

ComtesseDeSpair · 02/07/2025 12:06

AngryBird6122 · 02/07/2025 12:01

I just thought of something I do that is gross/disgusting/unhygienic and I am willing to share

I have a heavy period and if it leaks in the night (it always does, regardless of layers!), I don't change the sheets or mattress protector until my period has gone. I am not talking bloodbath levels but there is always a small patch and I just leave it to dry and sleep on that sheet again.

Donning my hard hat!

I assumed this was just normal tbh. Though I’m not squeamish about my own body fluids.
But then, nor do we wash the sheets every day because we had sex in them.

AngryBird6122 · 02/07/2025 12:01

I just thought of something I do that is gross/disgusting/unhygienic and I am willing to share

I have a heavy period and if it leaks in the night (it always does, regardless of layers!), I don't change the sheets or mattress protector until my period has gone. I am not talking bloodbath levels but there is always a small patch and I just leave it to dry and sleep on that sheet again.

Donning my hard hat!

AngryBird6122 · 02/07/2025 11:58

Fizbosshoes · 02/07/2025 11:02

Yes I do most of that, don't have a dog, but cats occassionally eat leftovers from our plates, they sleep on our beds, and we use the same cutlery for their food - I do have a separate washing up sponge for their bowls....but I do use a washing up bowl....
We dry the cats with our towels if they've been out in the rain too! 😄
I don't put any of that in the same category as spittting/gobbing or sneezing without covering your mouth or nose!

Edited

see I would put everything you have described as higher up on the gross/disgusting list than the things you said were! We are all different I guess

SummerFrog25 · 02/07/2025 11:57

Gall10 · 02/07/2025 09:28

Allowing children to sit/ stand in shopping trollies WITH SHOES ON!
I’d bar anyone doing this from the supermarket for life!
Filthy, dirty, disgusting behaviour….far worse than not closing a loo seat or leaving suds on the dishes!

That's the least of your worries with shopping trollies 🤣🤣🤣.

foxes, rats, birds, various other wildlife depending on where they're stored at night. Not to mention if in some areas human using them for toilets/skeepibf/stir in their bank Shite.

SpiralSister · 02/07/2025 11:50

AndImBrit · 02/07/2025 09:25

How weird. I’m mid 30s and held a twenty pound note between my lips earlier this week, I wouldn’t think twice about it. But MN would probably burn me at the stake for my hygiene levels. I am very rarely ill though, so it’s not impacting my wellbeing.

Honestly, I’m a right slattern by MN standards, but money really is dirty. Probably the dirtiest thing you’ll touch today. Young and with a fabulous immune system? Likely no problem whatsoever! Dealing with the elderly and vulnerable? I’m washing my hands frequently after handling, and it’s going no where near my mouth!

SummerFrog25 · 02/07/2025 11:44

Arthurnewyorkcity · 02/07/2025 07:38

I know I'm in the minority but I've always found bathroom bins very unhygienic. Anything that goes in a toilet bin, goes in a nappy sack and straight outside into our main black bin. It just seems idle to me. I could maybe understand with limited mobility but otherwise no

I no longer have periods, but when I did there was no way I was trekking out to the bin everytime I changed a tampon or a pad. Absolutely nothing unhygienic about having a lined bathroom bin that's regularly emptied.

RaraRachael · 02/07/2025 11:38

Bringing dogs into eating places

SummerFrog25 · 02/07/2025 11:37

🤣🤣🤣EDIT: it list the quote it was attached to! The one re putting other oroll ppl es genitals in your mouth!

Togetheragain45 · 02/07/2025 11:32

ObtuseMoose · 02/07/2025 11:11

I'm assuming they mean at home!

But surely no-one takes their phone in the toilet at home? I mean, it would never even occur to me.

suburburban · 02/07/2025 11:31

Togetheragain45 · 02/07/2025 11:09

Where do you suggest people leave their phones? On the washbasins perhaps? Then they leave the toilet and strangely, their phone is missing.

I’ve heard people having conversations in the loo cubicles at work while relieving themselves

I’d rather not but they are communal toilets

Skittles123456 · 02/07/2025 11:29

Having worked in a shop for a few years my advice is don’t ever buy food that’s been left uncovered. I’ve witnessed people squeezing bread with their bare hands, kids handling jellies and putting back into the pick and mix, people eating salads directly from salad bars using the big spoons. I never buy uncovered things for this reason

MidnightMeltdown · 02/07/2025 11:26

The number of women on here who see nothing wrong with keeping money in their bra 🤢

Denimrules · 02/07/2025 11:17

SayLaveee · 02/07/2025 10:15

Using washing up bowls 🤢

Interesting, I can't imagine not using one regularly. We had a holiday let that didn't have a draining rack or mat and no washing up bowl. So inefficient as a process. There was a dishwasher but not enough spare crockery to make use of it on days we ate out.

Lincslady53 · 02/07/2025 11:13

Kissing dogs and cats. Dogs eat faeces, sniff other dogs bums, eat any old stuff they see, cats clean their bums and genitalia with their tongues, eat vermin, then along comes soppy person giving the animal a kiss!

ObtuseMoose · 02/07/2025 11:11

Togetheragain45 · 02/07/2025 11:09

Where do you suggest people leave their phones? On the washbasins perhaps? Then they leave the toilet and strangely, their phone is missing.

I'm assuming they mean at home!

limescale · 02/07/2025 11:10

Fizbosshoes · 02/07/2025 08:55

I would recycle what you've listed, although our bathroom bin is mainly dental floss, but I wouldn't bother taking that outside at 11pm when I've just brushed my teeth!

Just cos it's gone in the bathroom bin doesn't mean it won't get recycled.

I collect all the small room bins weekly and sort them out into recycling etc.

Togetheragain45 · 02/07/2025 11:09

Kittylickingplate · 02/07/2025 08:40

Taking their phones into the lavatory.
Absolutely disgusting.

Where do you suggest people leave their phones? On the washbasins perhaps? Then they leave the toilet and strangely, their phone is missing.

LightBuIb · 02/07/2025 11:08

The whole concept of dog-ownership is disgusting, but from a hygiene perspective, it's vile.
They poo, and then their anus is on your floors, sofas, bedding. The eat poo, they eat vomit, they sniff other dogs' asses, then their face is all in your stuff. Rank.

I feel the same about cats, but they aren't as filthy as dogs.

limescale · 02/07/2025 11:06

Arthurnewyorkcity · 02/07/2025 07:38

I know I'm in the minority but I've always found bathroom bins very unhygienic. Anything that goes in a toilet bin, goes in a nappy sack and straight outside into our main black bin. It just seems idle to me. I could maybe understand with limited mobility but otherwise no

What's wrong with the cardboard inner of a loo roll, or a bit of dental floss, or an empty toothpaste tube, or an empty shampoo bottle, or brace elastics....?