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Name something unhygienic/disgusting but people do it

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stoow · 02/07/2025 06:43

I start off:
. Holding money their mouths. It’s mainly an elderly person thing. Friends working in retail see this often. Even in mask wearing days, customers lowered masks to do this, yet denied it.
. Going to the toilet and not flushing
. Washing chicken out. People don’t realise that this can spray bacteria around. Cooking it properly will kill bacteria.
. Coughing without covering mouth. Even with Covid, people are still doing this.
. Not washing hands after using loo. In public toilets, I use hand sanitiser as seen people from certain cultures spit and mums letting their toddler DS to wee in the basins.
. On planes, people walking barefooted especially in toilets. With the quick turnaround of planes, the staff can’t clean everywhere

OP posts:
deeahgwitch · 03/07/2025 09:28

I agree @suburburban

Gall10 · 03/07/2025 09:14

tumblingdowntherabbithole · 02/07/2025 09:36

You do realise rats and birds piss and shit all over shopping trolleys, right?

I think some kids shoes are the least of your problems there 🤣

Maybe if rats are pissing and shitting in the trolley then it’s the last place you should put your little darling cherub!

suburburban · 03/07/2025 09:12

mathanxiety · 03/07/2025 02:03

@deeahgwitch
All bakery items are individually bagged or in containers where I live (in the US). I've heard British people in my local supermarket exclaiming about typically wasteful Americans and their addiction to plastic. I'd prefer the bagged loaf or individually wrapped muffin (especially the muffin!) every time over one that's been squeezed by dirty hands, or coughed on.

the USA’s use of disposable stuff leaves a lot to be desired

a washable plastic cover over the muffins , tongs and a paper bag should be enough

Radra · 03/07/2025 08:51

deeahgwitch · 03/07/2025 08:35

But wouldn’t a paper bag hide the products unless they had a plastic “window” @Radra
I can understand shops wanting to display the goods to entice you to buy them.
Lidl which is fairly local keep their baked goods in glass cabinets. My local Tesco and the garage forecourt shops nearby don’t.

I have seen some bakeries have one on display under glass and then the others wrapped in paper behind which works - I guess you could also do pictures

Deepf60 · 03/07/2025 08:42

Ha...oral sex is awesome...try it it's not disgusting if you both enjoy it.

deeahgwitch · 03/07/2025 08:35

But wouldn’t a paper bag hide the products unless they had a plastic “window” @Radra
I can understand shops wanting to display the goods to entice you to buy them.
Lidl which is fairly local keep their baked goods in glass cabinets. My local Tesco and the garage forecourt shops nearby don’t.

Radra · 03/07/2025 08:26

deeahgwitch · 03/07/2025 08:10

I didn’t know that about the US @mathanxiety
I’m in Ireland (Irish like you) and it drives me bonkers to see uncovered baked goods on display.
Add wasps drawn to the sugar now it’s summer to the coughs, the splutters, the dirty hand and the flies !!!
I just don’t understand why it’s allowed.

The answer surely is paper bags which used to be traditional for bakeries - more hygienic but also not endless single use plastic which I also find horrifying when in the US (see also hotel buffers there that use plastic plates that go in landfill)

deeahgwitch · 03/07/2025 08:10

mathanxiety · 03/07/2025 02:03

@deeahgwitch
All bakery items are individually bagged or in containers where I live (in the US). I've heard British people in my local supermarket exclaiming about typically wasteful Americans and their addiction to plastic. I'd prefer the bagged loaf or individually wrapped muffin (especially the muffin!) every time over one that's been squeezed by dirty hands, or coughed on.

I didn’t know that about the US @mathanxiety
I’m in Ireland (Irish like you) and it drives me bonkers to see uncovered baked goods on display.
Add wasps drawn to the sugar now it’s summer to the coughs, the splutters, the dirty hand and the flies !!!
I just don’t understand why it’s allowed.

Myblueclematis · 03/07/2025 08:04

BadLad · 03/07/2025 02:21

The thinking is that the TV remote control is one of the dirtiest things in an average hotel room, because it never gets wiped or cleaned in any way. There was an experiment that I read about (perhaps a clickbait urban myth) which found that the remote control was as unhygienic as the loo, with the hand germs of all the previous guests, some of whom will have disgusting personal hygiene. I assume this poster has applied the same logic to the light switch, although I don't see why that can't be given a wipe down during the room cleaning.

I stayed in a hotel for the first time in about 20 years couple of weeks ago and I took handwipes with me to wipe over the remote control especially after reading threads on here about hotel cleanliness in the rooms and what people allegedly get up to.

I also boiled the kettle three times before using it and took my own mug and spoon too. 😂

mathanxiety · 03/07/2025 02:24

takealettermsjones · 02/07/2025 17:19

Sorry if it's already been covered but can someone explain to me like I'm 5 what the issue is with being barefoot on a plane? My feet only ever touch the floor, the insides of my socks, or the insides of my shoes (if I'm going rogue and no socks). I don't think I ever even touch my feet unless to wash them? I don't get it 🙈🤣

The floor of a plane is never washed, only hoovered at best. It is coated with all the dirt of the footwear of other passengers and a good deal of whatever is on the floor of the plane loos too. If you wouldn't walk around barefoot on your local high street (even in lovely weather) or pub, you shouldn't walk around barefoot on a plane.

BadLad · 03/07/2025 02:21

Denimrules · 02/07/2025 18:46

I don't get the para/sentence that begins 'light switches'? Maybe you are thinking people touch them, but how can the light or tv work without them. Re headboard, I don't think I especially use one as I never read/sit up in bed but hotels/anywhere without them look wrong/cheap/missing something

The thinking is that the TV remote control is one of the dirtiest things in an average hotel room, because it never gets wiped or cleaned in any way. There was an experiment that I read about (perhaps a clickbait urban myth) which found that the remote control was as unhygienic as the loo, with the hand germs of all the previous guests, some of whom will have disgusting personal hygiene. I assume this poster has applied the same logic to the light switch, although I don't see why that can't be given a wipe down during the room cleaning.

mathanxiety · 03/07/2025 02:10

IdaGlossop · 02/07/2025 23:52

Ah well, my mum also taught me (not my brother; he was a boy 😡) to 'get the thick off', as she called it. This involved wiping the dirtiest plates and cutlery with kitchen paper before stacking them in order by the sink. It's not actually a good idea to rinse the food off as bits of food and grease eventually block the drain. Vexing though my mother was, her methods were thought through. As for washing up liquid suds, I'm not sure I've ever tasted any on clean china but I'd rather not put chemicals in my body.

Chemicals are already part of your body. Literally every single piece of matter is a chemical ot combination of chemicals.

What I object to with leaving soapy plates and cutlery to dry is that there's often food residue there too. Everything you use for cooking and eating needs to be washed and properly rinsed with extremely hot water.

mathanxiety · 03/07/2025 02:03

@deeahgwitch
All bakery items are individually bagged or in containers where I live (in the US). I've heard British people in my local supermarket exclaiming about typically wasteful Americans and their addiction to plastic. I'd prefer the bagged loaf or individually wrapped muffin (especially the muffin!) every time over one that's been squeezed by dirty hands, or coughed on.

Jumpingthruhoops · 03/07/2025 00:33

ItsCalledAConversation · 02/07/2025 07:48

I do some of these. I haven’t died.

Then your immune system is clearly robust. Some aren't that fortunate and need to take necessary precautions.

Caduz · 03/07/2025 00:16

AngelinaFibres · 02/07/2025 18:21

Had a conversation with my SiL about flannels. She doesn't ever wash hers because it gets washed everyday in the shower. Errr nope.
Customers dogs being fussed in cafes by members of staff. Then they go back to making sandwiches, picking up plates etc with their dog shit - bacteria covered hands because it never occurs to them to wash them.
People carrying small dogs with the dogs backside resting on their arm That shirt/ jumper sleeve is covered in dog shit particles from your dog's anus. Revolting.

I had this in a cafe in Poland. I felt slightly bad because the member of staff had only touched the dog because its idiot owner (wherever they were) had let it wander up to me, and it wouldn’t leave me alone and looked like it wanted to “play” and jump on me which I was not having. so I asked the staff to get the dog away from me.

She had to pull at its collar quite a bit as it was fixated on me 😂 then when it finally left me alone I realised she wasn’t going to wash her hands before serving me the counter, so I just made an excuse and left. Also was worried the dog might come back.

Denimrules · 03/07/2025 00:03

OntheBorder1 · 02/07/2025 22:57

Using a washing up bowl is a UK thing, the rest of the world seems to manage without one. I don't think it is unhygienic or disgusting, but it is weird - what is wrong with the sink?

I think they have them in the USA

Caduz · 03/07/2025 00:02

OntheBorder1 · 02/07/2025 22:55

I suspect people who have pets are more healthy, and have better immune systems, than people who don't. This really is an OTT response - what do you think is going to happen?

How is it an OTT response?! Unless I’ve missed a post (haven’t RTFT) they just said that’s what they find unhygienic in a thread where we are being asked to share what we find gross/unhyienic. And they’ve explained very well why they think that.

FTR I think it’s disgusting too - for much the same reasons - and could never date anyone who kissed their pets. Each to their own though of course but yeah I find it gross.

Caduz · 02/07/2025 23:58

JoyousGuide · 02/07/2025 07:32

Spitting
Handling money and serving food with the same hand
Licking the spoons at the salad bar and putting the spoons back (seen more than once)
Changing babies nappy on a cafe table
Allowing your dog to stand on a cafe table and lick the plates clean (local
garden centre last week)
Allowing your toddler to take a bite of a bakery item, deciding the don’t like it and putting it back in the wrapper on the shelf ( member of my local baby group in Tesco)

Pass the sick bag please.

Wtf. All of that is rank. This is why I eat out less and less.

That dog story is especially disgusting but what comes of allowing dogs in restaurants I guess.

Today I got one of those home cooking sets from an online company as a treat and cooked myself a lovely Greek dinner.

I have a filter coffee machine and milk foamer at home so I early go to coffee shops unless to meet friends.

I am glad I like baking and cooking and have a lot of time to do both.

IdaGlossop · 02/07/2025 23:52

OntheBorder1 · 02/07/2025 23:10

Sorry, but I think rinsing dishes because of soap is nonsense, and I've tasted far more residue on things out of a dishwasher.

However, I keep reading about the filthy water in the washing up bowl - I don't know anyone here (not UK) who doesn't rinse the food off plates before washing them.

Ah well, my mum also taught me (not my brother; he was a boy 😡) to 'get the thick off', as she called it. This involved wiping the dirtiest plates and cutlery with kitchen paper before stacking them in order by the sink. It's not actually a good idea to rinse the food off as bits of food and grease eventually block the drain. Vexing though my mother was, her methods were thought through. As for washing up liquid suds, I'm not sure I've ever tasted any on clean china but I'd rather not put chemicals in my body.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 02/07/2025 23:52

OntheBorder1 · 02/07/2025 22:57

Using a washing up bowl is a UK thing, the rest of the world seems to manage without one. I don't think it is unhygienic or disgusting, but it is weird - what is wrong with the sink?

If you have a single sink and you fill it with soapy water there is nowhere to tip left over drinks or run the rinsing water, hence using the bowl for the soapy water. Perhaps other countries are more likely to have a double sink?

HasTheBinManBeen · 02/07/2025 23:49

@ComtesseDeSpair
By the time that part of the dinner party happens I’m either a) at home or b) doing lines of coke off my friend Rachel’s tits in the living room.

As long as Rachel's tits are freshly cleaned!

Hotelmotelholidayinnnnnn · 02/07/2025 23:49

InMyOpenOnion · 02/07/2025 06:56

Sitting on the train sniffing for ages and not blowing their nose so we can all hear them sucking up their snot the entire journey.

I have a huge issue about blowing my nose in public so I am the dreaded train sniffer! I don’t know where this comes from because it’s absolutely ridiculous but the thought of someone hearing me blow my nose fills me with embarrassment 🤣 this has just reminded me. I grew up in a very posh family and was taught that women do things in private so maybe that’s why?

HasTheBinManBeen · 02/07/2025 23:47

OntheBorder1 · 02/07/2025 22:57

Using a washing up bowl is a UK thing, the rest of the world seems to manage without one. I don't think it is unhygienic or disgusting, but it is weird - what is wrong with the sink?

Washing up in a bowl means you can still empty things down the sink (half drunk cups of tea or whatnot), rinse the worst off plates before washing them, and so on.

The places I've been where they don't use a bowl, they wash up under running water. Uses a lot more water. I've a theory that this is because these are hot places where historically water that isn't running is likely to be stagnant, so washing up developed in this way. No idea if there's anything in my theory though!

ComtesseDeSpair · 02/07/2025 23:46

Bubblebubblepoppop · 02/07/2025 20:41

No I mean specifically using a washing up bowl to wash up. All the plates etc are scrubbed together in the soapy water that increasingly becomes filthy with all the food remnants then taken out to drain without being rinsed in fresh water, at least that's how I've seen it be done. Makes no sense.

Fair, if that’s what they actually do. I can’t say I’ve ever watched that many other people do their washing up to know if that’s what happens with the washing up bowl. By the time that part of the dinner party happens I’m either a) at home or b) doing lines of coke off my friend Rachel’s tits in the living room.

ShinyAppleDreamingOfTheSea · 02/07/2025 23:45

SayLaveee · 02/07/2025 10:59

Also with a toilet brush but I keep it with the cleaning stuff under the sink and there's no holder!

Now I’m pretty lax regarding hygiene (aside from obsessive hand washing) and wouldnt have even considered several things mentioned to be a problem, but the two things that have made my stomach crawl on this thread are you sticking your hand into the toilet to clean it, and keeping your loo brush under the sink with no holder. Ewww!