I’ve been raising my child on my own since he was born. There’s never been any help from his father. He left when my son was 2.5years old and showed up 4 years later. He came back with lots of promises. He said he wants to build a bond with his son and be in his life. I agreed to let him see him.
He was flaky from the first day. My son waited for him all day to come spend the day together. He showed up late in the evening when I was putting my son to sleep and after he tried to have sex with me. Actually every time he comes he tries it on with me. I don’t love him anymore I don’t want to see him I’m only putting up with him for my son.
I’m on the verge of blocking him and going no contact. He promises my son he will come see him on the weekends and then doesnt show up. My son cries and it affects his well being at school a lot. This half term I asked him to help with childcare and look after him so I don’t have to spend money on holiday clubs his excuse was he was going on a holiday. He said he will come and see his son. It’s Thursday and he hasn’t made any plans to see him yet. Half term finishes in 3 days I really feel like blocking and never let him back again. Please share any experiences or advice it’s much needed.