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AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 08:58

Dd has one of her artworks on exhibit at the Royal Scottish Academy’s Annual Open Exhibition. I don’t think I’m BU to be so proud of her, although IRL she doesn’t think it’s worth mentioning to friends! She’s the youngest in the show.
https://rubymitcham.com

AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?
AIBU for being so proud of dd achieving this at 17?
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TheFluffyTwo · 03/05/2025 12:09

Beautiful! What a talent.

tunainatin · 03/05/2025 12:08

That is a beautiful painting - you are absolutely right to be proud!

BangersAndGnash · 03/05/2025 12:04

It’s a HUGE achievement.

Well done her.

Apart from the talent and achievement itself, it’s a brilliant CV win.

Enjoy your pride, and may she do the same.

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 12:02

You are amazing 🙏🏽 She’s thanked you!

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tortieCatLover · 03/05/2025 12:01

I'm usually underwelmed by a lot of modern portraiture - but wow she really has a lot of talent.

I hope you manage to get obtain the funding you need to let her further it.

Moier · 03/05/2025 12:01

Absolutely amazing.
Well done her.

IDontHaveTimeForFoolishness · 03/05/2025 12:00

Congratulations! I would be praising my daughter, shouting it from the rooftops as a proud mum - what an achievement! xFlowers

EachandEveryone · 03/05/2025 12:00

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 11:22

https://gofund.me/cd80781a

Ok, here it is I think. Thanks all for the advice. Taking her back to school now as she was only home for the RSA opening reception.

Donated hopefully she will get there x

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 11:58

You ladies have made me get my act together! There’s now a link to her GoFundMe on her website here:

rubymitcham.com/contact/

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Ali1262 · 03/05/2025 11:57

She is amazingly talented. As parents i dont think it is ever a bad thing to be proud of their acheivements no matter their age.

FlamingFlamingoFluff · 03/05/2025 11:52

Wow. She has a breathtaking gift. YANBU!

Glowlamp · 03/05/2025 11:50

Her work is outstanding. An amazing talent. I've seen her work on her school's page, it makes headlines locally (near me). It certainly captures your attention. I look forward to seeing what she does next!

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 11:48

You ladies are very impressive. I’ll research all the links this evening.

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 11:47

Lilactimes · 03/05/2025 11:44

It’s great she’s ambitious. In addition to the GoFundMe - it may be worth asking at the Scottish exhibition (where she’s currently exhibiting) if there are sponsors looking to support individuals.

The art school itself in Florence may also be interested in giving a bursary? Her talent in capturing expression not just the look of the character is exceptional and they may have a fund or put some money towards her fees to nurture her further.

There may also be charities or websites to help guide parents in looking after or nurturing a prodigy, which your daughter undoubtedly is!

Will share her Instagram and website with an arts type journalist I know who may be able to raise further awareness or put in touch with people who can help.

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This is all great advice; thank you so much.

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beetr00 · 03/05/2025 11:44

more funding opportunities @FriendlyLaundryMonster

Here and here (for 18+ though)

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 11:35

Thank you. She would love to go to the Florence Academy of Art. All the schools you mention are private and you can’t get student loans for them, so we’re figuring it out. I have put together a go fund me. It’s just waiting to be approved by Moment but I’ll also try and put the link on her website on the contact page.

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It’s great she’s ambitious. In addition to the GoFundMe - it may be worth asking at the Scottish exhibition (where she’s currently exhibiting) if there are sponsors looking to support individuals.

The art school itself in Florence may also be interested in giving a bursary? Her talent in capturing expression not just the look of the character is exceptional and they may have a fund or put some money towards her fees to nurture her further.

There may also be charities or websites to help guide parents in looking after or nurturing a prodigy, which your daughter undoubtedly is!

Will share her Instagram and website with an arts type journalist I know who may be able to raise further awareness or put in touch with people who can help.

Blueskies25 · 03/05/2025 11:41

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 08:58

Dd has one of her artworks on exhibit at the Royal Scottish Academy’s Annual Open Exhibition. I don’t think I’m BU to be so proud of her, although IRL she doesn’t think it’s worth mentioning to friends! She’s the youngest in the show.
https://rubymitcham.com

Wow, she is exceptionally talented
I thought they were photographs at first

itsgettingweird · 03/05/2025 11:38

You wouldn’t be unreasonable to shout it from your rooftop.

What an incredibly talented daughter you have

Undergroundovergroundwomblingfree · 03/05/2025 11:38

Wow, her work is incredible.

ShrunkInTheWashAgain · 03/05/2025 11:37

FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 11:36

Yes, self taught with a total of 5 days at an atelier recently.

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Amazing congratulations to her and you

MaxandMoritz · 03/05/2025 11:36

She is truly exceptional and with a lovely attitude too.

I wish her a wonderful future.

Waterweight · 03/05/2025 11:36

SouthLondonMum22 · 03/05/2025 09:17

Is that her name below the painting? If so then she might not want it on mumsnet if she isn't even mentioning it to her friends.

Congratulations to your daughter.

Lol. Its on public display

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 11:36

ShrunkInTheWashAgain · 03/05/2025 11:32

Wow! And she's self taught ?!

Yes, self taught with a total of 5 days at an atelier recently.

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Goatblu · 03/05/2025 11:35

She is very talented. I hope she continues.

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FriendlyLaundryMonster · 03/05/2025 11:35

Lilactimes · 03/05/2025 11:32

Theyre truly fabulous - I just looked at her website. She’s amazing. … you probably know all this but I just asked ChatGPT based on a portraiture old masters type courses for 18 year olds…. !! Def start a GoFundMe !! X

  1. Full-Time Atelier Programs (Professional Track)**
If you're ready to commit full-time, many ateliers accept students straight out of high school. These are immersive, 3-4 year programs similar to how the Old Masters trained their apprentices.

Best Options for 18-year-olds:

  • *Florence Academy of Art*
  • *Angel Academy of Art*
  • *Grand Central Atelier*
  • *Swedish Academy of Realist Art*
  • *London Fine Art Studios*

These schools do not require a university degree. They focus on building skill, not academic prerequisites.

Thank you. She would love to go to the Florence Academy of Art. All the schools you mention are private and you can’t get student loans for them, so we’re figuring it out. I have put together a go fund me. It’s just waiting to be approved by Moment but I’ll also try and put the link on her website on the contact page.

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