New boyfriend won't dine out. Ever.

Bin him. It’ll kill all the joy in your life if you stick around with Mr Cold Tofu Sandwich.

Thow him back into the sea, quick.... let someone more suited, nab him.

Next time, check out similar interests and watch for the icks, before getting too involved...

Veganism is not a religious vow like lifelong celibacy! Every vegan is going to eat a bit of dairy inadvertently once in a while. Or out of politeness (if an elderly person makes them a cup of tea, etc). He sounds obsessive and inflexible and completely divorced from reality.

Did you tell him about the Fosters yet?

Tell him that his CCTV is a violation of other peoples privacy and a contribution to the police state!

I could probably get past everything else if he looked like Eric from True Blood...

Antifa were classified as a domestic terrorist organisation by US homeland security years ago. They’ve been responsible for violence, looting and, ironically, behave as fascistically as the right wing groups they oppose. I would be very wary of getting involved with an antifa member.

God, he sounds exhausting..

I think if you are thinking you should tell him that you can't see the relationship going anywhere you are answering your own question. Relationships should have a certain amount of compromise and give and take but if he is completely unwilling to do something as normal and social as going out for a meal from day one and it's something you really enjoy, I can see alot more of this non comprising behaviour in the future. If you want someone to go out with you for a meal, find someone more in line with what you enjoy doing.

Yes, not you can't have non eating holidays, family meals etc

I totally agree.

I dated someone like this for 2 yrs (I was v young and didn't know better). It was VERY boring. Looking back, he was definitely not well in the head. He barely left the house, and believed in all the conspiracy theories including lizard people. He did have a great sense of humour but that in no way balanced out the crazy.

Gawd how blomin boring. I could understand if he had a severe allergy? But that's not the case here.
Everyone has preferences but his inability to compromise for anything/anyone is a bit of a red flag.
I think you can do better. Life with this person seems absolutley dreary. Yes, he can have food boundaries but you can choose whether or not you want to live with them.

Oh no. I'm exhausted just thinking about it. No meals out, no bbq, no takeaways....

Right.
He wont eat out, ever.
Wont go on holidays.
Doesn't have a car.
What an absolute catch.....chuck him back.

You need to decide whether this is a deal breaker for you. If you want to be able to eat out with your bf/potential life partner then end it now.

I personally would end it as not being able to spontaneously go out for lunch/dinner would be a deal breaker for me.

If you don't see the relationship going anywhere, why have you posted?

this sounds like a miserable life, bet he's shit in bed too 🤦🏻‍♀️ sorry shouldn't of said it, I'd sit down and talk it through with him, if he won't budge, I'd say goodbye to him, life is for living and being vegan shouldn't stop him 🤷🏻‍♀️

Fosters isn't Vegan it's made with isinglass (made from fish products)
The same goes fo Cruzcampo the other two are.

Sounds like he doesn't like to do alot of things how boring 😴

Personally, I would suggest to you to think about whether this is something you can live with. If not, then it's not the right time for this relationship. It's not about whether you're being irrational, but suiting your needs. Put yourself first and the right things will come. There's nothing worse than living unhappily with someone you're not gelling well with.

Throw this man child back into the vegetable patch he crawled out of. 😆😆😆

OMG he screams control freak, it makes me wonder what other parts of his life is controlled. And whether if you ever lived together what controlling behaviours would emerge.

Yeah but this isn't an allergy situation, it's a preference, very different. He's not going to die if he eats out occasionally.

Actually, this is pretty much the experience of my Sister-in-law and her family as she has a life-threateningly severe nut allergy. They travel and visit but she always brings her own food.

Husband and sons all eat out on occasion but for obvious reasons (it could prove fatal), she doesn't.

It's restricting for her but she and her family are used to it. Her children have never known any different and they all cope just fine.

I am sure you would adjust providing you feel the guy is worth it.

There’s two reasons really, in production planning you schedule the lighter tasting beers and vegan products first. So every week you’d have a planned clean of 12hours where everything is cleaned out using caustic, then when the production line comes back up into action you plan for the least strong flavoured, vegan beer first then the other vegan ones in order of flavour strength and then you move onto the non vegan ones. Typically ending the week on the strongest flavoured one.
Things might happen where you need to switch to another beer that isn’t as strong in flavour in which case you’d have to schedule a short clean in which would only take a couple of hours but if you need to switch back to a vegan product it’s another 8hour clean.
so to ensure you keep the production line producing as much as possible without stopping for cleans you try to stick to the above sequence.