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Council housing eligibility

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user125 · 11/03/2025 19:46

I know this post is probably going to receive a lot of hate so I have changed my username. Please know I am not trying to be controversial or begging etc.
Me and DH were lucky enough to have put enough savings aside in our very early twenties to buy a small two bedroom terrace. Originally it was our plan to be here for 5 years and then move on to something bigger. Life had other plans. After struggling with infertility and lots of treatment we are now a family of 4. Currently the children share a room and me and DH have the other room. One of our DC's is awaiting an asd and ADHD assessment. He is a gorgeous sweet boy but struggled with being unregulated a lot and can get very violent towards his sister. This is a regular occurrence and is getting worse as he gets older.

We are desperate to be able to give them their own room but we have an appalling credit history and are unable to get approved on a higher mortgage. Someone mentioned applying for council housing. I assumed we would not be eligible because we own our home (with two mortgages on it). I don't know what else we can do. The downstairs is not big enough for me and DH to move a bed in to so the kids could have their own rooms. Would we be eligible or would it be a case of being on the list for years and years and never getting any further?

I know there are people in much higher need than us as we have a roof over our heads, but I need to be able to give both children a safe space of their own.

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denisdenisdenis · 25/04/2026 22:35

Go to a free debt advice agency to get help with your debts. You could go into some kind of debt repayment plan.

could you put a triple bunk (double below/single above) in your/big bedroom and have dd in the top above you and give ds the other bedroom?

Mrsm010918 · 25/04/2026 17:01

For those suggesting porting the mortgage, it's not always as easy as it sounds. You still have to apply to your lender to do this I believe and pass an affordability check before they'll agree.

Might not be ideal but we have 3 kids in a 2 bed at the moment OP and the oldest has suspected ADHD or PDA (will be hopefully diagnosed once I go back to work and have my private healthcare again) and she needs her own space too.

Our bedroom is the biggest so we're going to put a stud wall in to make a wardrobe/storage area for our clothes and then move her into the bedroom section, we are going to buy a sofa bed for downstairs and then the younger 2 will share eventually (youngest is currently a baby)

We've got our fair share of debt between us to pay off before we will be able to buy a bigger property so in the shorter term while we try and sort that out we're having to make do.

Our council wouldn't home us if we sold as we would be make ourselves voluntarily homeless and ineligible

JLou08 · 25/04/2026 15:13

In my area anyone can set up an account to bid on a house but it would only be enough rooms to meet need. If your DC are under 10 they would be expected to share so it would only be a 2 bed you could apply for. Although anyone can bid, there is a banding system. If you don't have a priority band you have next to no chance. Priority banding (A) is for vulnerable people who are roofless unintentionally, band B is for vulnerable people who are sofa surfing unintentionally. I don't know about the bands further down, I only know of these bands as I work with vulnerable people. I do know even these people struggle to get a house. I know as family who were in a hotel for a year, which is against the guidance, but the council had nowhere else to put them. They got a private let in the end so could have been there even longer if they waited for council.
So in my area, I'd say your chances were next to zero.

YourWildAmberSloth · 25/04/2026 14:43

Sorry - just realised this is an old thread

YourWildAmberSloth · 25/04/2026 14:41

user125 · 11/03/2025 20:05

@Namechangetry if we sold and used the equity to pay off the debt we would be in the same position financially that we are in now as the reduced monthly payments would cover the increase in rent payment. So essentially we are buggered which ever way we choose. At least if we did sell the kids would have their own bedroom.

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GentleJadeOP · 05/06/2025 19:38

Could you do a garden room?

Kneeboobs · 05/06/2025 19:28

Could you save for a loft conversion?

AngryBookworm · 05/06/2025 19:25

It's not council housing that's unfair, it's private housing that's unfair. We either need to build more council housing or have much tighter regulation on private rentals (and yes, that probably would push some landlords out of the market. Whether that's a bad thing is up for debate) so that people renting privately have more security.

Limprichteabiscuit · 01/05/2025 22:46

You cannot become verified to bid on social
housing even as a bottom band D if you own a home of any type either in the UK or abroad. You would not get past the application stage

Mumof2girls2121 · 01/05/2025 22:42

You own your own home, you are very very unlikely to be eligible for council housing. Sell your home then you might be

Cattery · 13/03/2025 09:51

@Namechangetry Thank you x

Namechangetry · 13/03/2025 09:39

Cattery · 13/03/2025 09:32

Where does it state the tenancies are reviewed after 5 years? Are you able to enlighten please

See here:

https://www.home-link.org.uk/choice/content.aspx?pageid=80

Not all council tenancies but some are now 5 years then review.

Presumably to get away from the 'home for life' era where people moved into 3 bed council homes with a young family then stayed for on 40 more years and single pensioners live in the house they've had for decades and families can't get housed.

https://www.home-link.org.uk/choice/content.aspx?pageid=80

Cattery · 13/03/2025 09:32

Namechangetry · 11/03/2025 20:45

That's not true. The council do not 'legally have to give you a bigger property' - there is a finite number of council houses, especially bigger family houses, they can't give what they haven't got and the demand for family houses way outstrips the supply. Also there are no longer necessarily tenancies for life, they can be for 5 years then reviewed and if your circumstances have improved you have to move out. Don't encourage OP to risk her family's security if you don't know the facts.

Where does it state the tenancies are reviewed after 5 years? Are you able to enlighten please

The4teddybears · 13/03/2025 08:49

I think you’d be mad to sell your own home. (I am a housing officer in a large council )
Firstly , Go and get debt advice .
Secondly, you are assuming you’ll get a “house” but what if you get a 3 bed maisonette or flat ?
These often have communal access and endless ASB issues. You might not have a garden , and you’d forever be worried about the noise your own children would be making whilst listening the noise of others in the block .
Thirdly , to be eligible for council housing you’d have to sell and move to rental - and you’d be at the mercy of the landlord hoping he doesn’t end the tenancy during your long wait for a council place.
You potentially could end up having numerous house moves which could really unsettle your children, before you get your council property

In my work I deal with cases like yours regularly and almost always the people found it harder than they thought it would be to get a council house and had made many house moves in the process,
The majority would give their right arm for the security you’ve got - despite the lack of space .
Think long and hard if that’s what you really want .

Goodadvice1980 · 13/03/2025 08:18

OP I would be wary of shared ownership, it’s not the silver bullet some people think!

Can you share a floorplan of your house? We could then share any ideas for potential reconfiguration.

VolcanoJapan · 13/03/2025 07:57

Bushmillsbabe · 11/03/2025 19:53

Could you look at applying for a disabled facilities grant to convert your loft into an extra bedroom? Your child's OT could help you with the paperwork.

Or could the largest bedroom be split into 2?

How old are the children? I think once teenagers you would count as overcrowded as children are different genders

Edited

This looks a good idea

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 12/03/2025 23:01

user125 · 12/03/2025 06:37

Thanks for all the advise. For those recommending porting the mortgage and moving to a cheaper area how does this work? Say for example our current mortgage is £100k and our house is now worth 150k. If we found something for £100k what happens to that extra £50k equity? Would it automatically go towards the mortgage or could we use that equity to settle other debts?

You’d have to maintain or lower the loan to value allowed by the product that you took out. Ie if your original mortgage was a 80% LTV, if you moved to a cheaper property, you couldn’t suddenly have 90% LTV. You’d have to give some of the equity to reduce the mortgage to within the 80% threshold.

As long as you stayed within those bounds, yes you could do what you liked with the equity (including paying off the debts)

This is only if you are up to date with your mortgage payments though.

Most (but certainly not all) allow porting, so you would need to check.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 12/03/2025 22:53

Jalopy77 · 12/03/2025 21:51

Talk to StepChange-if you enter a IVA you will have repaid an agreed proportion of your debts in 6 years, the rest are written off, and you can start to repair your credit history.

An Iva follows you for a really long time and isn’t the best solution for most people. They would desperately struggle to get a bigger house if they went down this route. They can also come after them for the equity in the house if it increases in value in the future.

Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 12/03/2025 22:51

It feels like the issue is the poor credit rating and debt. Selling the house doesn’t feel like a solution - I think it will remove the only safety net you do have. Have you spoken to a debt councillor? Are you still accumulating debt or are you now paying some off. Are you in arrears on the mortgage? If not have you spoken to them about reducing the payment through perhaps an extension. Could you move into something bigger but the same price and port the mortgage that you have (you’d have to be up to date with mortgage payments).

Daisyvodka · 12/03/2025 22:41

How much equity do you have in the house currently as I think that might make a big difference on the advice, I'm guessing you've been there 10 years? It might be worth posting a mortgage/debt monthly breakdown, as people might have suggestions, as on the face of it considering how many people end up in debt purely from the costs associated with going to a new private rental after a landlord kicks them out, it seems mad to sell

Doingmybestbut · 12/03/2025 22:40

I think your best bet would be to do something creative with one of the rooms so two people sleep in a room that also serves as a living room.

justletmegetmyglasses · 12/03/2025 22:15

MooseAndSquirrelLoveFlannel · 11/03/2025 21:10

Do not sell and move into rented. You are much better off owning your property!

Firstly, get the debt sorted. Speak to Stepchange and get proper debt advice. We were where you are. Loads of debt, juggling payments, struggling with the mortgage and Stepchange helped. We're 13 years down the line, now have perfect credit, no debt and managed to buy a bigger house in the end.

In the meantime, get a sofa bed in the lounge and do what you need to.

This is your best advice 👍

justletmegetmyglasses · 12/03/2025 22:12

Namechangetry · 11/03/2025 20:45

That's not true. The council do not 'legally have to give you a bigger property' - there is a finite number of council houses, especially bigger family houses, they can't give what they haven't got and the demand for family houses way outstrips the supply. Also there are no longer necessarily tenancies for life, they can be for 5 years then reviewed and if your circumstances have improved you have to move out. Don't encourage OP to risk her family's security if you don't know the facts.

This really depends on the area and certainly isn't true for Scotland.

Saharafordessert · 12/03/2025 22:07

I think a sofa bed in the lounge for you and DH is probably the best option here.
You could also put in a sliding door rather than a traditional opening one which would allow you to split the DC’s room.
Or split the larger bedroom? There has to be a way around this without selling which sounds like a terrible idea having read the suggestions on this thread.

Jalopy77 · 12/03/2025 21:51

Talk to StepChange-if you enter a IVA you will have repaid an agreed proportion of your debts in 6 years, the rest are written off, and you can start to repair your credit history.

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