Is escorting worth it?

Having worked with sex workers for many years in many differnt capacities:

*you won't gain any self worth
*it's work, you won't be having fun
*will traumatise you and won't help you get over anything

Obviously this is a rule of thumb, and you'll probably find someone willing to tell you that it's great and glamorous and to go for it. But more often than not it wrecks your head, blurs the lines of boundaries and self worth. The majority of the people i worked with got trapped in a vicous cycle of needing money for drink/drugs and then needing the drink/drugs to go through with it.

What made you give a shit? I was just browsing I’m so sorry

Nowt

What made you bump a year old thread?

no it doesn’t. It means cuddling etc.

Agreed.

Giving it a little twee name doesn't change anything.

In fact it just makes both the prostitute and the punter sound as though they're in denial.

And also the pimp if they have one.

I really dislike calling them escorts. That's not what they are. They are prostitutes and calling them escorts gives people like the OP a false idea of what the job is.

Sexual assaults or might be murdered.
How would that help your family exactly?
You are whoring yourself if you are having sex for money, people will find out as will your kids eventually.
Doesn't matter how bad things are PLEASE don't go down that road.

I was not talking about Japan - I was talking about the UK and Western Europe. I recently read a few articles about escorts working in Davos - The World Economic Forum in Davos saw a spike in escort bookings, with reports of wealthy attendees hosting sex parties.

Not only do they look stunning, the highest level of education and near-native German, French and English (sometimes Russian) is a must.

In addition, Mary Wesley wrote, from experience of meeting them, about high class escorts in London - they were not fluent in languages, but the requirement was beauty, history of art or a music degree or similar and impeccable etiquette.

This is basically a geisha role and you need to ask yourself - do I speak languages? Do I play an instrument? Am I able to hold a conversation about current affairs, opera, literature? Do I know all sorts of etiquette, I mean, for all scenarios? Escort is for escorting HNWI to their places of interest, sometimes without sex, like a 'walker'.

This literally doesn't culturally exist in the UK.

OP isn't in Japan

The thing about the word escort, as opposed to prostitute, is it can conjure up images of expensive dresses, casinos full of rich James Bond types who treat you to an expensive fine dining experience, behave like a perfect gentlemen, drive you home in their Aston Martin and thank you for your delightful company, parting with a kiss on the hand.

Reality is a bag of chips and a quick shag if you're fortunate enough to have a someone who just wants to get his rocks off quickly for a tenner.

@MermaidEyes sadly I think OP IS that deluded.

@shuggles not these specific parties in Dubai, it's not.

You’ll begin to recognise other threads, different names, same vibe (although not about escorts). If OP is sincere in her threads she really is very vulnerable with poor mh unfortunately.

OP, as many others have said in reality there is no such thing as paying for company with no expectation of sex. We would all be doing it if that were the case. Please be careful

Sausages probably.

Let's face it, no matter who OP is, it's 2025. There isn't a single woman alive who genuinely believes escorting is a 'girlfriend' experience. Even teenagers aren't that naive these days.

Or @Weepixie those posters know the op as a repeat poster starting threads about nonsense for attention because she thinks the world owes her fame and fortune.

Not every thread is full of men, just frothing at the chance to be mean to a poor little woman.

I wouldn’t be surprised if some of the posters revelling in the thread and being vile as well as deliberately beyond the pale with their description of what the Op would have to do as an escort are hateful men using the thread to get off on. It’s like those creeps who post pretending to be a parent asking about nappies and toilet training whilst being anything but.

Well MNHQ must think it’s a dirty word also given they’ve removed the most vile and explicit of posts I reported.

That’s not a thing. Nobody pays for ‘just dates’.

My post was meant to be dry and full of sarcasm 🙃 I’ve failed miserably!

I Was being completely dry and sarcastic 🫠 I obviously did do a good job of making that clear 🤣

@Nameychangington annoyed I fell for it!